KingRSHD2:



My brother learn or not ..... Marriage wahala is everywhere make God help person

bepositive11:
That's not entirely true. There are certain traits that only sociopaths, narcissists, etc have -- traits that normal people don't have. If you see those signs, even a little bit, pack your bags and leave.

Lack of empathy is a very good example of a sign to look out for. No normal human being lacks empathy. That lack of empathy is what drives people to kill or abuse or manipulate their partners.

tiswell:
He probably wasn't their biological father after all.
Their single mother must have brainwashed them terribly

SteveDGreat:


Guy shun, some men are heartless.
And they are majority of such men on Nairaland. By their comments you will know them.

Bloody Narcissists

Felimax:


And what will be my gain to lie?
Funny I don't even have you to impress. I told you a senior management colleague in one of the DPR SBUs of NNPC.

Sorry sir, I will not give you full details of my story.

SteveDGreat:
I am emotionally down honestly. If not that I am hearing this from her, I won't believe that a Man could be this cold towards his wife.

This lady is my one and only best friend. As a matter of fact, I was nursing plans to marry her but man never make it. We never had sex.

Well, she got married and our conversation slow down. I deliberately slow it down so as to respect her marriage.

One day I decided to call, the husband picked and warned me never to call her again. Omoh I was shocked.

Days after she called and apologized and explained how the man has completely changed and is maltreating her to the extend of beating her and emotional abuse. We spoke consistently and unfortunately, she left the marriage.

She came to my city was staying with her elder brother. We spoke for some time and I went off cos I didn't want to get too close so as not to attract emotional feelings.

Well, after some months, she blocked me from reaching her. For 9 months we haven't been in touch.

Yesterday she sent me a chat with a strange phone Facebook that I should give her my number. Since Yesterday, she has been pouring her emotional trauma on me.
Her marriage is hell. Emotional abuse, insults, beating.

As I am typing, she is still talking on phone. She is done with the marriage and wants to leave but she is scared of her son that's 1 year and 2 months old.

I really feel bad for her and don't even know how to help her.
It is painful. She is my best friend.

SteveDGreat:
I am emotionally down honestly. If not that I am hearing this from her, I won't believe that a Man could be this cold towards his wife.

This lady is my one and only best friend. As a matter of fact, I was nursing plans to marry her but man never make it. We never had sex.

Well, she got married and our conversation slow down. I deliberately slow it down so as to respect her marriage.

One day I decided to call, the husband picked and warned me never to call her again. Omoh I was shocked.

Days after she called and apologized and explained how the man has completely changed and is maltreating her to the extend of beating her and emotional abuse. We spoke consistently and unfortunately, she left the marriage.

She came to my city was staying with her elder brother. We spoke for some time and I went off cos I didn't want to get too close so as not to attract emotional feelings.

Well, after some months, she blocked me from reaching her. For 9 months we haven't been in touch.

Yesterday she sent me a chat with a strange phone Facebook that I should give her my number. Since Yesterday, she has been pouring her emotional trauma on me.
Her marriage is hell. Emotional abuse, insults, beating.

As I am typing, she is still talking on phone. She is done with the marriage and wants to leave but she is scared of her son that's 1 year and 2 months old.

I really feel bad for her and don't even know how to help her.
It is painful. She is my best friend.

SteveDGreat:
I am emotionally down honestly. If not that I am hearing this from her, I won't believe that a Man could be this cold towards his wife.

This lady is my one and only best friend. As a matter of fact, I was nursing plans to marry her but man never make it. We never had sex.

Well, she got married and our conversation slow down. I deliberately slow it down so as to respect her marriage.

One day I decided to call, the husband picked and warned me never to call her again. Omoh I was shocked.

Days after she called and apologized and explained how the man has completely changed and is maltreating her to the extend of beating her and emotional abuse. We spoke consistently and unfortunately, she left the marriage.

She came to my city was staying with her elder brother. We spoke for some time and I went off cos I didn't want to get too close so as not to attract emotional feelings.

Well, after some months, she blocked me from reaching her. For 9 months we haven't been in touch.

Yesterday she sent me a chat with a strange phone Facebook that I should give her my number. Since Yesterday, she has been pouring her emotional trauma on me.
Her marriage is hell. Emotional abuse, insults, beating.

As I am typing, she is still talking on phone. She is done with the marriage and wants to leave but she is scared of her son that's 1 year and 2 months old.

I really feel bad for her and don't even know how to help her.
It is painful. She is my best friend.

abobote:

Every man pays for sex, sometimes indirectly

SteveDGreat:
I am emotionally down honestly. If not that I am hearing this from her, I won't believe that a Man could be this cold towards his wife.

This lady is my one and only best friend. As a matter of fact, I was nursing plans to marry her but man never make it. We never had sex.

Well, she got married and our conversation slow down. I deliberately slow it down so as to respect her marriage.

One day I decided to call, the husband picked and warned me never to call her again. Omoh I was shocked.

Days after she called and apologized and explained how the man has completely changed and is maltreating her to the extend of beating her and emotional abuse. We spoke consistently and unfortunately, she left the marriage.

She came to my city was staying with her elder brother. We spoke for some time and I went off cos I didn't want to get too close so as not to attract emotional feelings.

Well, after some months, she blocked me from reaching her. For 9 months we haven't been in touch.

Yesterday she sent me a chat with a strange phone Facebook that I should give her my number. Since Yesterday, she has been pouring her emotional trauma on me.
Her marriage is hell. Emotional abuse, insults, beating.

As I am typing, she is still talking on phone. She is done with the marriage and wants to leave but she is scared of her son that's 1 year and 2 months old.

I really feel bad for her and don't even know how to help her.
It is painful. She is my best friend.

chatinent:

The devil will be surprised at who sent you! Wtf! Why can't you leave people's wives alone!!!!!

InfinityFabric:
Girl made SIMP her friend, and actually puts him friend-zone.
Simp actually thought girl would marry her him.
Girl used SIMP as emotional tampon every time there's heartbreak.
Girl got knocked up by the Tyrone.
Girl has a kid for the Chad.
Girl got battered by Tyrone.
Now girl remembers the Simp she left.
SIMP gonna become a cuck and step-daddy .

Don't be Mr SIMP.

SteveDGreat:
I am emotionally down honestly. If not that I am hearing this from her, I won't believe that a Man could be this cold towards his wife.

This lady is my one and only best friend. As a matter of fact, I was nursing plans to marry her but man never make it. We never had sex.

Well, she got married and our conversation slow down. I deliberately slow it down so as to respect her marriage. YOU BE CONFIRMED AUTHENTIC MUMU BOY

One day I decided to call, the husband picked and warned me never to call her again. Omoh I was shocked.

Days after she called and apologized and explained how the man has completely changed and is maltreating her to the extend of beating her and emotional abuse. We spoke consistently and unfortunately, she left the marriage.

She came to my city was staying with her elder brother. We spoke for some time and I went off cos I didn't want to get too close so as not to attract emotional feelings.

Well, after some months, she blocked me from reaching her. For 9 months we haven't been in touch.

Yesterday she sent me a chat with a strange phone Facebook that I should give her my number. Since Yesterday, she has been pouring her emotional trauma on me.
Her marriage is hell. Emotional abuse, insults, beating.

As I am typing, she is still talking on phone. She is done with the marriage and wants to leave but she is scared of her son that's 1 year and 2 months old.

I really feel bad for her and don't even know how to help her.
It is painful. She is my best friend.

Kingcalls:


Marry who?? She will still marry another Tyrone while the simp will keep on salivating

Kobojunkiee:
What she likely needs is a mental health therapist to help her deal with and eventually offload the garbage she is packing from what you say was a toxic marriage - emotional and physical abuse - so, advise her to engage one of those as soon as possible.

As for leaving her marriage, she and her ex-to-be should probably consider engaging the aide of a marriage counsellor on that, this is to help her confront the reality of her situation head-on and decide once and for all what is best for her and her kids. According to your story, you had stated she left the marriage 9 months earlier, yet you claim while she spoke recently to you, she spoke as one who was back in the marriage. So, it is possible she is not sure whether she is ready to leave or not. Professional marriage counselling is a good way to help her face the truth of her marriage, and do the right thing for herself. Let your friend decide her own future by herself.

histemple:


You are the reason the marriage crashed. You kept calling and talking trash with a married woman in the name of "a caring EX) so much so that the husband had to warn you over the phone.

Yet you continued until the marriage crashed. By your own admission, you confessed to have been talking CONSISTENTLY with a woman the husband already warned you to stay off from.

And you come here to say "UNFORTUNATELY she left the marriage" when you caused the separation with your consistency in destroying the marriage.

When she left her marriage and moved to the city where you are, hoping that you will now be available and caring, you started showing your true colours and she blocked you.

InfinityFabric:

Guy go face your wife or go work harder to have more & better choices instead waiting to tap from a used good.
She chose him, now want to run from the consequences. It's called responsibility.

Just tell us when she finally marries you.

InfinityFabric:
Girl made SIMP her friend, and actually puts him friend-zone.
Simp actually thought girl would marry her him.
Girl used SIMP as emotional tampon every time there's heartbreak.
Girl got knocked up by the Tyrone.
Girl has a kid for the Chad.
Girl got battered by Tyrone.
Now girl remembers the Simp she left.
SIMP gonna become a cuck and step-daddy .

Don't be Mr SIMP.

Kobojunkiee:
I have friends who, after a terrible breakup decided on that route and they held it for a while too. Anyone who met them in any of those phases would have assumed them sociopaths when in fact they were just angry.

I am far from a sociopath myself but even I confess that I have appeared so to others at points in my life, and this because my mental was off somewhere else at those moments or periods.

ObidientFC:
Told her about seeing a counselor. She said the man doenst listen to anyone at all. His take is final.

doctore212:
The cost of Olosho have risen recently.

Can you imagine to chop without touching breast now cost as much as 1k