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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kobojunkie: 4:55pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:
it’s school live and she doesn’t understand how real life works.
You are the one who seems disconnected from the reality that is teenage life, I am afraid. undecided

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kobojunkie: 4:56pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:
no she is not. She endangering herself and her future and I know a lot of people suffering from this.
She is being responsible... more responsible than many of our parents before us even. undecided

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Igboslayer: 4:56pm On Sep 15, 2022
temitope27:
16 years old is not too small to av sex, but the family planning is no good, I would prefer pills instead
You know what they call Paedophile?

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Ikea81: 4:56pm On Sep 15, 2022
All these arguement. There are side effects, she is too young for that.
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kobojunkie: 4:58pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:
I just wish me can talk more about sex to our kids.
Talking to your kids about sex is not meant for to stop them from having sex. They will eventually have sex... that is guaranteed. What talking to them is meant to help them achieve is freedom from all the mistakes that could result. Using condoms, birth control, waiting for the right person, etc... all are meant to help them avoid potential pitfalls, disasters etc. undecided

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Aldol: 4:59pm On Sep 15, 2022
After reading just the comments on first page, I realized that most of our youths have lost it. May God help this generation ooo,they have lost it completely
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kobojunkie: 4:59pm On Sep 15, 2022
neonly:
Hope u are OK 16yrs old make yur daughter join d trend nah since it ok
Pple lije u go like fire Smally kirikiri no far from u
It is better for your 16-year-old son or daughter to have sex responsibly than have sex and end up shackled for life by that one act. undecided

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kobojunkie: 5:00pm On Sep 15, 2022
Ikea81:
All these arguement. There are side effects, she is too young for that.
What side effects? undecided
Are these side effects significantly greater than the side effect of an unplanned pregnancy or STD? undecided
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by allgoodlight(m): 5:05pm On Sep 15, 2022
laluski:
Isn't it better she does that than to have an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy?

Hmmmmmmmm deep.



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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by awesilly: 5:05pm On Sep 15, 2022
ShitHappens, parenting no be easy job especially when you have a daughter as a child.
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Herbworks: 5:05pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:
Parents it’s time you start monitoring your wards, I know it’s not easy but you have to try. Make your kids your best friend, visit them on campus.

Be friends with their friends.
A 16years old girl went to do family planning just to please her boyfriend, so they can have sex the way they want. She doesn’t understand the danger she is putting herself in.

Stop trying to do the wrong things all in the name of love, stop trying to please people.

Which danger is associated with family planning if I may ask? Or you would prefer a 16 years old gets pregnant and dropout of school to become a mother?

You need to have an open mind

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Princedapace(m): 5:06pm On Sep 15, 2022
Mhykel217:


Do u know how foolish u sound rn
Bro, there is nothing wrong with what she did.

This is what we need to avoid over population becus u can't easily stop humans from having sex. So, it is best they prevent diseases and unwanted pregnancies.

In developed countries this is what they do that is why their population has not over skyrocketed like we have here.
Most family planning are simply pills that can be stopped at anytime. Any sexually active person who is a lady and doesn't want to get pregnant and wishes to have raw sex with their partner after testing for STI and STD should embrace safe pregnancy preventive pills by going to any reputable hospital or pharmacy to get anyone offered.
We need to preach these things, pls. Our population is over 200 million already.
We also need to change the name from family planning to preventive pregnancy pill.

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by allgoodlight(m): 5:06pm On Sep 15, 2022
gshsj:

Can u tell us the danger?
Some family planning is reversible so what are u talking abt.
In developed country, most pornn stars do temporary family planning...pls the gal did the right thing to not fall pregnant if its a temporary one she did.... that's smart of her in my opinion

Seeing issues at both end of the coin.


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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Lovelypet28: 5:08pm On Sep 15, 2022
As a mother do seek advice before going ahead with the use of contraception, in this case this is the right word and not family planning.
I would counsel my daughter on the dangers of unprotected sex and seek her consent if she wants contraception which I would allow her do, so she makes an informed decision.
Nigerians feign morals when they have started having sex from 11 with unwanted pregnancies here and there, you think your children are not having sex, LMAO, I pity you.
Trust me I had this discussion with my husband once she is 16 she is getting IUCD and barrier contraception knowledge, call me whatever I don’t care.
“Family planning” does not cause infertility, other factors come into play, take it from a health practitioner.
Let’s have sense abeg

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Areaboyfriend(m): 5:08pm On Sep 15, 2022
A 16 year old girl who comes for family planning should be offered same and adviced to also use mechanical barrier methods like condoms.

You have no right to refuse her request, no right to discus her concerns with anyone who isn't part of her care, no rights to call her names and no right to report to her parents.

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Starcy(m): 5:09pm On Sep 15, 2022
Kingsmm55:
Sixteen years is an over ripe woman....what was the age of your mother when your father started hammering her kpekus inform of marriage,,,? Abeg the girl did the right thing... She even deserve Oscar or any award if it were in a sane clime...
Promoter of sexual abuse
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by jaxxy(m): 5:10pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:
Parents it’s time you start monitoring your wards, I know it’s not easy but you have to try. Make your kids your best friend, visit them on campus.

Be friends with their friends.
A 16years old girl went to do family planning just to please her boyfriend, so they can have sex the way they want. She doesn’t understand the danger she is putting herself in.

Stop trying to do the wrong things all in the name of love, stop trying to please people.

Is this a real story or fiction to get attention and response?

How does a 16 year old know about family planning??
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by benitwater(m): 5:10pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:
Parents it’s time you start monitoring your wards, I know it’s not easy but you have to try. Make your kids your best friend, visit them on campus.

Be friends with their friends.
A 16years old girl went to do family planning just to please her boyfriend, so they can have sex the way they want. She doesn’t understand the danger she is putting herself in. This is not good enough for her.


Stop trying to do the wrong things all in the name of love, stop trying to please people.
this is not good for her even at her age.

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Unrated900(m): 5:10pm On Sep 15, 2022
laluski:
Isn't it better she does that than to have an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy?



If she was your daughter,
Would that be your takes
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by naikeboy(m): 5:11pm On Sep 15, 2022
Why should a man be fucking 16yr old self and why should a 16yr old girl have a boyfriend at the first place...
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by DJInfluence: 5:13pm On Sep 15, 2022
OP, you do know family planning is a very broad term right? What exactly did she went for? Wearing condom, taking pregnancies prevention pills are all part of it. So enlighten us exactly what she went for?
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by teejet: 5:16pm On Sep 15, 2022
laluski:
Isn't it better she does that than to have an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy?


At her age?
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by drpompay(m): 5:18pm On Sep 15, 2022
Post like this should be banned.
We can't continue living as if we are in 1930.
This forum should be for providing right info, good education and not for spreading lies, mischief, unfounded beliefs or absolute rubbish.
This post is an example of such negative write-up.


N/B: Contraception is for all that is sexually active irrespective of age.
Investigate the author of this post, and we won't be surprised at the number of induced abortion she had procured but will openly criticise one who don't want to be a victim of unsafe abortion.

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by MufasaLion: 5:22pm On Sep 15, 2022
temitope27:
what's shame here? 90% of NIGERIA girls age 14 above are no more a virgin, dey even look more mature this days,so y we come dey deceive ourselves

And does that make it right or legal to join in having sexual relationship with minors?

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kobojunkie: 5:23pm On Sep 15, 2022
awesilly:
ShitHappens, parenting no be easy job especially when you have a daughter as a child.
Or even a male child. And so it is essential you also let them know that if they are unable to control themselves, they make sure they have protection first. undecided

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Wisfem: 5:23pm On Sep 15, 2022
headbasher96:
its funny when u are not afraid of STDs and STIs but pregnancy




very funny so dump how can one open his her body to radical and randy set of individual in our society, thinking pregnancy is the most important challenged she needs to tackle, Hcv, Hbsag RVs and even syphilis are life condemning diseases one should be worried
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kobojunkie: 5:25pm On Sep 15, 2022
jaxxy:
Is this a real story or fiction to get attention and response?
How does a 16 year old know about family planning??
16-year-olds are not as uninformed as their parents were. undecided

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by omoadeleye(m): 5:25pm On Sep 15, 2022
gshsj:

Can u tell us the danger?
Some family planning is reversible so what are u talking abt.
In developed country, most pornn stars do temporary family planning...pls the gal did the right thing to not fall pregnant if its a temporary one she did.... that's smart of her in my opinion


E dey some time cause barrenness for women
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kobojunkie: 5:25pm On Sep 15, 2022
benitwater:
this is not good for her even at her age.
So a pregnancy or even STD would look better on her at her age? undecided

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kobojunkie: 5:26pm On Sep 15, 2022
Unrated900:
If she was your daughter,
Would that be your takes
Would you prefer your 16-year-old daughter to come home one day pregnant or maybe infected with an STD instead? undecided

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kobojunkie: 5:27pm On Sep 15, 2022
naikeboy:
Why should a man be fucking 16yr old self and why should a 16yr old girl have a boyfriend at the first place...
Teenagers are allowed to date other teenagers. undecided

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kobojunkie: 5:27pm On Sep 15, 2022
teejet:
At her age?
Open your eyes and tell me there are no pregnant teenagers even younger than her in your community right where you live. undecided

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