cococandy:
Mmm. So you quipped in with your snippy comeback to a post that efficience directed at me and you don’t know what it has to do with me. Sneaky lil thing.

Since you’re such a better Christian, why not let God have the final say? I mean your Bible does say that. And Jesus himself describes your type perfectly too. I know you see those verses when you read it. If you do read it

bukatyne:


So every time a person rides on a post engaging you, they are referring to you or looping you in their post? I like the level of self-importance in display. Are you the person referenced in the OP because I directed my post to the question asked. If you are, confess, let us help you.

Better Christian compared to who? You? You are not a Christian. It is not an insult; it is a statement of fact. If someone reads my posts and comes to the natural conclusion that I am not a Muslem or traditionalist or feminist or Igbo, it is a statement of fact.

Except if you do one thing in your closet and say something else on NL which means you are ashamed of Christ and deliberately leading people astray which is another problem.

The Bible is clear: by their fruits you shall know them. Your fruit (which is your posts on NL) tells me you are not. As I have said earlier, there is nothing to be ashamed of.

And if you claim to be a Christian, then review your posts/ opinions on topics on NL and repent.

You will give account of every post on NL.

I am still waiting for those receipts or you admit that you misrepresented what I stand for in your previous post.

bukatyne:


you admit that you misrepresented what I stand for in your previous post.

cococandy:
Mmm. So you quipped in with your snippy comeback to a post that efficience directed at me and you don’t know what it has to do with me. Sneaky lil thing.

Since you’re such a better Christian, why not let God have the final say? I mean your Bible does say that. And Jesus himself describes your type perfectly too. I know you see those verses when you read it. If you do read it.

If you’re such a champion for marital sanctity, you should be very vocal about the disgusting things the Christian men on here post about marriage and how they treat their wives. But they won’t see you a good woman if you do and that’s more important to you.

bukatyne:


Just saw your last paragraph.

I am not vocal about the things 'Nigerian' Christian men do? I am not vocal about marital sanctity? I am sure you are clowning now.

https://www.nairaland.com/7138441/women-what-bring-table-men

https://www.nairaland.com/6391644/christianity-anti-modern-feminism-red-pill

https://www.nairaland.com/5405788/fatherhood

https://www.nairaland.com/5763457/christian-husband-like-christ

https://www.nairaland.com/5741247/does-he-want-does-he

https://www.nairaland.com/5014439/breeding-unsaved-christian-husband

https://www.nairaland.com/1869112/husbands-honor-wives-pav

https://www.nairaland.com/1178578/why-dont-christians-apply-bible

I have pasted about 8 of my topics out of which 6 is directly about roles of men (fathers & husbands) in a marriage especially Christian. Topics as far back as 2013 and as recent as 2020.

I am not looking for posts because they are too numerous.

You should have told me you were bored and wanted to whine me. I would have posted online ayo or ludo for us to play.

Stop projecting whatever fantasies you have in your head about me. I have a husband & family who loves me so much so I do not online validation and say what I need to say. I do not need anyone to see me as good or bad online; it doesn't add one kobo to my pocket. If people's perception about you on NL matters to you, goodluck to you.

I am the same person online & offline; my family members know my moniker. They know bukatyne is a very good girl that tolerates absolutely no nonsense FROM anyone even as God is helping me to be more tolerant.

cococandy:
Obviously it’s been too long ago and I’m not about to go start digging up specific posts to prove to you that you support strict social norms when you’re actually saying it yourself in the moment.

Okay I’m not a Christian by your assessment. And you are. So you’ll leave it to the almighty judge? Inukwa repent. Okay assistant Jesus

@bold the fact that you would somehow even insinuate that there’s anything remotely to be ashamed of if one doesn’t identify as Christian is the self righteousness that makes my skin crawl. Like ick

cococandy:


So you don’t support strict social norms (aka strict traditional gender roles etc) that’s the misrepresentation I’m making?

Just to be clear.

bukatyne:


If you are not sure, did my post before inferring.

Self righteousness? if your skin is crawling use Dettol or whatever antiseptic you have around you.

There is nothing to be ashamed of if you don't identify as a Christian. You try so hard to be identified as a Christian yet your posts doesn't sound remotely close. I am not assistant Jesus; there is no assistant Jesus Abeg, don’t put me inside trouble.



So you have not been clear since and you are assuming?

No ma, I do not 'support' strict gender roles (aka man provides, woman does the home management and chores). I don’t even think it is fair especially if the wife works. However, I would understand a couple who decides to do that if it works for them.

I believe a wife is in charge of home management which is different from doing chores.

If However there must be a hard line (only one person can play a role), then the husband provide and the wife stays at home.

cococandy:


Fantasies about you?

Hmm. Says the person who doesn’t know how to not center themselves in topics that are not about them personally.

bukatyne:


I am not the person who has started two pages because she jumped on a quote that doesn't concern her.

My pronoun is she/her.

You are addressing me in first person pronoun. I am not a legion of demons that is themselves/them.

cococandy:
Saying so many things and saying nothing.

And yes I’m a Christian. If you’re not happy about it, take it up with the heavenly council next time you attend the holy people’s monthly meeting.

bukatyne:


Not my fault you can't understand a response to your own question.

You are a Christian? Fantastic. 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏

Get ready for me! I would call you out on clearly anti-Christian posts with Biblical references (when I have the time or I am in the mood).

This Heavenly race, we must run it together.

When we get to the new Jerusalem, I would use autotune to sing praises to Baba God so you can bake meatpies for me.

cococandy:


Don’t overestimate yourself. I’ve given you time today because you came to do that your “throwing stones and hiding hands” things that you’re so good at. It doesn’t mean I have the time to devote to you or to prove my level of holiness to you or anyone.

You don’t need to go fishing for my posts to show anti Christianity. I will summarize it here for you to save you the time and effort

[b] Many Christians are horrendous hypocrites who can’t see how they oppress those who don’t believe in the same things they do. They talk large about persecution but somehow are suddenly blind when they see people of the same faith as they are persecuting others for not believing in the same things they do. Child sexual abuse, marital rape, misogyny and all kinds of family violence etc run rampant in many churches. Half the pastors are scam artists and the others are actually good people at heart who can’t see how some of the things they support perpetuate violence against women especially.

Yes I believe in marriage equality for everyone. I don’t think any government of any nation has the right to create national laws based on their religious beliefs because that opens the door for everyone to want to tailor the laws to suit their own personal religious beliefs. You can’t support that and cry against jihad or any other religious oppression from a different religion.
I could go on and on but that’s it in summary” [/b] .


If you don’t like, take it up with Jesus my dear.

bukatyne:

You have it backwards:

I had your time today. You quoted my first on a post that doesn’t concern you (except you are the OP).

I never said I would fish for your posts: I said I would call you out on anti-Christian posts (if I have the time or in the mood).

You are free to believe what you believe in. However, there is nothing like marriage equality in the Bible: it is a man & his wife; there is nothing like marital rape either.

I keep telling you: you can't do one leg in and one leg out. You can't seat on the fence. In this spiritual race, you are either for or against.

"If I don't like it, I can take it up with Jesus." What a Christianly way to speak. I am not a Muslim yet it wouldn't cross my mind to refer to Allah or Muhammad that way.

Stop forcing yourself to identify as a Christian. You are seriously struggling.

Dannysaka:
■ Isn't marriage supposed to be till death do us part? When he was healthy she had no problem eating his money, now he needs his wife the most, she wants a divorce

conscienceman4:
A man and a woman got married and right from that day the man started getting weaker and weaker until he got to a point where he needed support to climb the stairs.
But one Christmas day they came to church were they were prayed for and baptized even though they had baptized where they were coming from. They got home that day and climbed the stairs without support that very day. He started getting stronger and stronger. His wife also got promoted at her office with breakthroughs everywhere.
Let me tell you. Even before that marriage, God knows a time like this will come. But what you do at this time is your choice.
If you run away it's your choice, if you stay and win the battle, it's your choice.
Remember one thing, karma's is real, what goes around comes around.
The choice is yours.

Farfalla:


Human beings (in general) naturally pursue what benefits them, yourself included.

cococandy:


You don’t hesitate to add naive and reductive comments to posts that require more complex and nuanced takes.

MadarasBlade:


Very good. Then i wonder why women get angry when men cheat because they look unattractive after giving birth.

Farfalla:


I don't see the relevance of your post to my submission. The dude I was responding to claimed that women are selfish and I was only clarifying to him that selfishness is a human trait. It's not necessarily specific to women.

To respond to your query, I guess the women get angry when men cheat for the same reason men get furious at paternity fraud.

BRATISLAVA:

@bolded is an indisputable fact, like distilled water being transparent.

As a good, obedient, submissive, role-playing, hard working, price-paying, yam-pounder deserving of low octave praise, what else to expect? It is always coincidentally "never my experience" and doesn't exist in pp fantasy world.

cococandy:


Sis I sha I wanted it to just be between us. When third parties start adding their opinions it puts fire to the flame. If you don’t mind. 🙏🏽

Kobojunkiee:
1. Why can't she divorce him whenever it pleases her?

Why must she do so before?

Persephone1:
As a Christian, she is not to divorce her husband. Separation (which isn't divorce) in Christianity is based on "adultery" and "threat to life". God does not support divorce and really divorcing on health is a big question on a christain's faith.

efficiencie:
■ Why did they even get married?
■ Is it necessary for them to be married and tied into a stupid knot?
■ If she can divorce him whenever she pleases then why marry at all?

Kobojunkie:
Scripturally, this is wrong but the religion of Christianity has always been known to adopt doctrines and traditions of their pastors and mogs over that which is in fact scriptural anyways..

Persephone1:
This isn't a doctrine but scripture. Kindly show where it divorce is allowed in the bible.

Kobojunkiee:
It is wholly of the doctrines and delusions of men and not of scripture. If you actually processed what is in fact written for your own self, you would instead find that Jesus Christ never infact said anything like "divorce is sin". He did state that remarriage after a divorce that was not due to fornication was sin but he never did say divorce in and of itself is sin.

Persephone1:
Kindly refer back to my first and last post for further clarification. If you insist on countering, provide where it is scripturally written that divorce is allowed.
I believe you are mixing up separation and divorce, nevertheless I'm not interested in arguing this until you provide proof of your argument.

Kobojunkiee:
Again,
○ Jesus Christ never said in any of His conversations that divorce is sin implying divorce is allowed.
○ Jesus Christ instead said remarriage is sin in the case the reason for the divorce that led up to the remarriage wasn't fornication.
○ Jesus Christ said nothing about separation.