L1TTLE:
She brazenly told me "I have a 5yr old son", before she did I was crushing hard, then she told me she has a son today, I was taken aback for a while but much to my shock, I find her more attractive now? Instead of getting repulsed by the new information I want her more now, is it weird? Lol, I'm even thinking she can bring her son and live with me like we're family.

Please advise me.

L1TTLE:
She brazenly told me "I have a 5yr old son", before she did I was crushing hard, then she told me she has a son today, I was taken aback for a while but much to my shock, I find her more attractive now? Instead of getting repulsed by the new information I want her more now, is it weird? Lol, I'm even thinking she can bring her son and live with me like we're family.

Please advise me.

Nicepoker:
You find her more attractive even after such a bone cracking and nerve paralysing revelation. You have been jazzed big time.

Angelfrost:


You make a great point, but it doesn't always happen like that... Nothing is ever that simple.

Virgin ladies can do far worse to a man than single mothers.

Great character is not always wrapped up in virginity.

My point is... We should keep an open mind at all times.

Once you find a good woman, it shouldn't matter whether she is a virgin or not.

Decarbonisation:


How do you come to this conclusion? Because of a post you have concluded the guy has a good and kind spirit? Lol

Some of you are so gullible.

Nicepoker:
You find her more attractive even after such a bone cracking and nerve paralysing revelation. You have been jazzed big time.

humilitypays:
There is nothing wrong at all.


Just try and adopt her son legally as your own son and you guys are good to go.

L1TTLE:
She brazenly told me "I have a 5yr old son", before she did I was crushing hard, then she told me she has a son today, I was taken aback for a while but much to my shock, I find her more attractive now? Instead of getting repulsed by the new information I want her more now, is it weird? Lol, I'm even thinking she can bring her son and live with me like we're family.

Please advise me.

SIONKPO1:

If Na your sister or daughter get pikin at her youthful age,would you discourage single young men from marrying your daughter?

FertilityH:



If ladies say no sex, na war
if we allow sex and get pregnant

Angelfrost:
Why should a single woman's child or the fact that she has a child repulse anyone?!!

Does birthing a child make a woman less human?!! Is that supposed to make them less attractive?!!

SMH!!!

SIONKPO1:

If Na your sister or daughter get pikin at her youthful age,would you discourage single young men from marrying your daughter?

Princezibk:
They are gullible indeed ,,, A similar case scenario just happened to a well brought up lady who’s 33 yrs of age at my work place …

Her mom’s Chinese while her dad is a rich yoruba man … She was giving all juicy and beautiful things life could offer while growing but she was always grounded. She had no sense of the negativities going out there and boom she got married to a naija guy here, gave birth to 2 kids and alas guess what happened?

She’s now dumped by this guy after elevating himself financially& Status wise through this babe. He talked her into having a joint account, traveled 🧳 to UK 🇬🇧 to her parents, made high class partnerships but unknowingly he had no love ❤️ for this innocent beautiful soul . After he relocated to abroad , story and character changed and wanted a divorce.

He has ruined this lady mentally cuz she now drinks from clubs to clubs telling every dick and harry her ordeals. Note that “He deflowered this babe at 25 “ he was her first love ❤️ and she did everything a woman in love could offer her man … So I don’t mean to side all single ladies but some are just unlucky to fall victim

advanceDNA:
I don't want to marry a woman with another man's kids.......why will I advice a fellow to do what I cannot do..??

See ooo ...even single mother nor want make their own son marry a fellow single mother....

L1TTLE:
She brazenly told me "I have a 5yr old son", before she did I was crushing hard, then she told me she has a son today, I was taken aback for a while but much to my shock, I find her more attractive now? Instead of getting repulsed by the new information I want her more now, is it weird? Lol, I'm even thinking she can bring her son and live with me like we're family. Go ahead, I have been in love for over a year now with one, and her daughter is 14, between God and man she has been the best of ladies I have gone out with, she loves me like made and don't joke with anything about me, I have watched her closely to see her intentions, but to me surprise she is pure as she has uncousiously passed all my test. So go ahead for love can be found in any place.

Please advise me.

kunle75:


I will teach her early to reason with logic and not emotions. Perhaps she fell in that trap,she will have to deal with her decisions.
Let's be responsible for once.

There's cause and actions, chose wisely

SIONKPO1:

Ladies are averagely mumu with fish brain, A Secondary school guy can easily manipulate a PhD Ladies and get her pregnant.
Nobody should be rejected and Discriminated

advanceDNA:
I don't want to marry a woman with another man's kids.......why will I advice a fellow to do what I cannot do..??

See ooo ...even single mother nor want make their own son marry a fellow single mother....

Xpol:
you're wickedly wicked haba. Lol

There are many factors that make a woman single mother. It can happen to your sister or mine. In this case are we going to wish they remain single for life? No

[/b]The major problem with most single mother is that they'll deceive you with good characters til you marry them finish and start seeing shege banza[b].

L1TTLE:
She brazenly told me "I have a 5yr old son", before she did I was crushing hard, then she told me she has a son today, I was taken aback for a while but much to my shock, I find her more attractive now? Instead of getting repulsed by the new information I want her more now, is it weird? Lol, I'm even thinking she can bring her son and live with me like we're family.

Please advise me.

kunle75:


You're capping bro

Secondary school guy to a PhD no be juju be that?

L1TTLE:
She brazenly told me "I have a 5yr old son", before she did I was crushing hard, then she told me she has a son today, I was taken aback for a while but much to my shock, I find her more attractive now? Instead of getting repulsed by the new information I want her more now, is it weird? Lol, I'm even thinking she can bring her son and live with me like we're family.

Please advise me.

sylve11:


They will not listen to you.

GOFRONT:
You fall for a single mother.......Okay but be wary of Okafors law of CongoElasticity

GreatOchuks:

😂😂🤣🤣🤣 You don spoil the whole thing now

Error401:
You are walking into a trap. Its best you fucccck and leave. They are always lovely for the first few months till they show their true toxic nature. I have been there, its not worth it.
They have too much emotional burden to carry, (ex husband, child, family, financial issues, emotional blackmail, depression and insecurity, They think everyone is like their previous abuser / deadbeat spouse)
You should only proceed if the ex husband is dead. If not, I will suggest you abort mission.