amosy007: choi wetin d gurl do u na

desari: Nairalanders,

I am a career woman in my late 20's living in the U.S. It has been almost impossible for me to meet good Nigerian men much less Nigerian men at my financial level. As you all know the U.S is very big; i generally don't hang out with Nigerians..not that i don't want to, i just don't know where and how to go about meeting up with my people. When i do go out to naija lounges or clubs in my area, all i find are little kids playing around or 419ers( which i would rather remain single than have anything to do with them). I have tried the church avenue, but i am catholic, and catholic churches in the U.S are much different from naija catholic churches. I live in NYC, so anyone that can give me pointers on where to meet eligible professional Naija men would be great.

I have been very blessed and fortunate in my chosen career, and i would want a partner that can pull his own weight financially in a relationship. Though i have accepted that i would most likely do much better than a potential partner, i can never respect a man that would find it hard to give me money to cook food in the house and take care of some bills, instead of assuming i will take care of it since i make much more. Akatas and white men chase me all day, but i would rather settle down with a Nigerian man(preferably yoruba) i am half yoruba and half something else I grew up in naija, so i speak yoruba and can cook naija food well well.

Let me add that i am well mannered and come from a great family. Guys and girls, if you have single brothers who are financially stable, between 29 and 35 years old looking to settle down, please IM me. Thanks!

desari: Nairalanders,

I am a career woman in my late 20's living in the U.S. It has been almost impossible for me to meet good Nigerian men much less Nigerian men at my financial level. As you all know the U.S is very big; i generally don't hang out with Nigerians..not that i don't want to, i just don't know where and how to go about meeting up with my people. When i do go out to naija lounges or clubs in my area, all i find are little kids playing around or 419ers( which i would rather remain single than have anything to do with them). I have tried the church avenue, but i am catholic, and catholic churches in the U.S are much different from naija catholic churches. I live in NYC, so anyone that can give me pointers on where to meet eligible professional Naija men would be great.

I have been very blessed and fortunate in my chosen career, and i would want a partner that can pull his own weight financially in a relationship. Though i have accepted that i would most likely do much better than a potential partner, i can never respect a man that would find it hard to give me money to cook food in the house and take care of some bills, instead of assuming i will take care of it since i make much more. Akatas and white men chase me all day, but i would rather settle down with a Nigerian man(preferably yoruba) i am half yoruba and half something else I grew up in naija, so i speak yoruba and can cook naija food well well.


Let me add that i am well mannered and come from a great family. Guys and girls, if you have single brothers who are financially stable, between 29 and 35 years old looking to settle down, please IM me. Thanks!

Basildon1:

I am sure you are good looking but I dont think you are a hottie (no offence), the kinda men u seeking will definitely not queue outside for you. Just givin you the cold hard truth

shymmex:

The OP is a lunatic, and I don't like anti-Nigerian men threads...

You can bash naija men for everything - but don't ever bash naija men when it comes to money..

Aside probably African American hiphop superstars - no other race of black men make more money than naija men, and that's a FACT..


The OP is just an attention seeking i.diot...

Naija men are the richest out there - and we put our money where our mouth is..


She's probably from Somalia, and the name looks Somali.

desari: @tpia,

Tpia, i am not claiming to be bill gates or steve jobs. For a single woman at my age with no children, i do pretty well. If i meet a man a man that is at my financial level then that's great, but if not..i at least want him to be able to buy some stuff like food stuff...go half on the bills when we eat out e.t.c. I don't think i am asking for much. I am going based off a past relationship, where this bobo wanted me to take care of all things financial...needless to say i had to kick him to the curb. I find it hard to respect such men.

Regardless of the fact that i have lived in the U.S for quite few years I am still a naija woman, and i would love it if a guy i was in a relationship came to me of his own free will and said "babe here is some money" cook some fabulous ila asepo and some hot amala for me" instead my ex would want me to buy groceries with my money all the time so he can enjoy the food too. imagine that nonsense?? Thats when i decided no more "akushe folks" bobos have to be able to play their part financialy or they can keep it moving.

desari: Nairalanders,

I am a career woman in my late 20's living in the U.S. It has been almost impossible for me to meet good Nigerian men much less Nigerian men at my financial level. As you all know the U.S is very big; i generally don't hang out with Nigerians..not that i don't want to, i just don't know where and how to go about meeting up with my people. When i do go out to naija lounges or clubs in my area, all i find are little kids playing around or 419ers( which i would rather remain single than have anything to do with them). I have tried the church avenue, but i am catholic, and catholic churches in the U.S are much different from naija catholic churches. I live in NYC, so anyone that can give me pointers on where to meet eligible professional Naija men would be great.

I have been very blessed and fortunate in my chosen career, and i would want a partner that can pull his own weight financially in a relationship. Though i have accepted that i would most likely do much better than a potential partner, i can never respect a man that would find it hard to give me money to cook food in the house and take care of some bills, instead of assuming i will take care of it since i make much more. Akatas and white men chase me all day, but i would rather settle down with a Nigerian man(preferably yoruba) i am half yoruba and half something else I grew up in naija, so i speak yoruba and can cook naija food well well.

Let me add that i am well mannered and come from a great family. Guys and girls, if you have single brothers who are financially stable, between 29 and 35 years old looking to settle down, please IM me. Thanks!

2buff: ^^ You need to leave your village in naija first to understand what the OP is saying.

She wants an available Naija bros who can hold his own, and these things are hard to find when you leave naija both for male and female.
If she was in naija, she wouldn't have a problem. Truss me, it ain't fun looking specifically for naija luv in a place where everyone is pretty much white.
In naija you have no need for that criteria, because everyone is a nigerian.

kinectik: Dis girl again?

desari/90love/queensmith/[b]sosoluv [/b]r the same person wit multiple personality disorder.

da hoe is pissy poor & lonely. poor thing. lml

Wallie: You are focusing on a good quality but that quality shouldn’t be anywhere near the top! If I may, this should be the order of the qualities that you should be looking for:

1. Mutual physical attraction
2. Good and kind man with values
3. A responsible and committed man
4. God fearing man if you believe in God
5. Someone at your financial level
6. A Yoruba man

I think qualities 3-6 are just icing on the cake and 1-3 is all you really need to be happy in life. I know Nigerians will say that God should come first and my response will be for them to explain how God-fearing Nigeria is so corrupt and reminiscent of Sodom and Gomorrah era!

dis ode dey write essay to fraud. maga

kinectik: Dis girl again?

desari/90love/queensmith/sosoluv r the same person wit multiple personality disorder.

da hoe is pissy poor & lonely. poor thing. lml

Basildon1:

I am sure you are good looking but I dont think you are a hottie (no offence), the kinda men u seeking will definitely not queue outside for you. Just givin you the cold hard truth

desari: I didn't come here to boast or toot my own horn. I wll not be disclosing how much i am worth now or in the near future. I mentioned finances as a sticking point as i have met men in the past that want to mooch off me and it ain't happening.

There are quite few fraudsters in London, i hope you make your money the legal way. I mean no offence

2buff:

sosoluv is not nigerian.
She also still boasts with money from "daddy".

So she and the OP don't seem the same going by what I've read.

maga una don hear multiple personality disorder before? writing different fraudulent lies for the different personalities. the ode was outed yesterday. u be maga.lml

wey usofia make I play 'i go chop ya money' for all of una.

adefash:
U initially said u were based in nyc now u are mentionin london.are u now in london or u'r just making reference to london?

violent: Go marry your money!

logica: Ode. Na you be the first for ya family to travel abroad abi? So if person dey find husband, na here dem dey come place advert? She no get family, friends, nada? Please get real.

Ileke-IdI:
Na wa o! Dem don abuse the OP pari.
You have to be high to post this.

kinectik:

maga una don hear multiple personality disorder before? writing different fraudulent lies for the different personalities. the ode was outed yesterday. u be maga.lml

wey usofia make I play 'i go chop ya money' for all of una.

2buff:


Where people choose to post advert is their own choice. Last I checked, this is a Nigerian forum.
What makes you think her friends and family are not aware of what she's looking for in a man?

You know you have no further point continuing down your chosen line of conversation, so it would be in your best interest to drop it lest you affirm my earlier statement earlier that you've never left a village.