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Its not a necessity o neither is it tradition but in recent times people have decided to Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ it as sometin everybody has to do. Its not meant for everyone abeg.
Agreed its ordained by God but even God didn't say its compulsory instead the bible said it is a good tin.
If u can't handle it then dont bother. If u allow ur parents to rush u into marriage, afta buyin aso ebi, dancing etigi and azonto na him go know say no be beans wen everybody don go their house and na u n ur hubby remain.

1. I still don't eat my meat until I have finished my food.
2. I spend a lot of time in d toilet, feels so comfortable. Sometimes read there *covers face*
3. Drinking water several times in the middle of d night. Ve tried to stop but not easy jor.
4. Love Slamming the door (that drives my hubby crazy) but am kinda used to it
5. Still greet people I don't know cos my mama tot me to greet anyone older than me. I do it without even thinkin.
6. I say thank u for almost everytin. Sometimes I tink I say it too much sef. Annoying.

Hmmmmm if its natural dreads its still acceptable that guys that do theirs. And it has to be well taken care of. Has to be neat else even my dog will bark at u.

God no dey do mistake cos am beta n well appreciated hia

There's nothing wrong wit her been in a nursing home because its not easy taking care of the elderly at home. They like attention but its not easy wen u have to go to work. You end up spending very little time wit them and they will feel neglected but in nursing homes they meet other old people who they can relate with. So they don't feel lonely.

All u have to do is make sure u re available whenever she needs u. Visit regularly and do things she enjoys wen u are wit her.

I had to take care of my grandmum for a little more than a year. It was not easy cos we had different diets and I couldn't spend as much time as she wanted. She always wants to talk but I have zillion things to do.
It was fun but very tasking and with her getting older it was really difficult so if I have to choose again, I'll rather choose a good nursing home.

Eh! I show respect my mother in law than my hubby because my husband knows me. He knows wen am joking or not. But some mother in laws if u crack an ordinary joke sef, they'll Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ it as an insult so I prefer to show her all respect possible so as to give myself peace of mind.

Depends on everyone preference. Some mums are too emotional and can't handle it. I'll move my child to a seperate room when is one year but before then he will ve his own bed in d same room wit us. I don't want a clingy baby *covers face*
we can bath together until he is around 2 wen he started asking me JAMB questions.
I can remeber my friend's son seeing Always ultra. Sanitary pad advert on tv n he screamed " that's my mummy's pampers" ℓ☺ℓ shame catch the mama well well.
So wen they are old enuf to know sometinz , no bath time together.

I feel its all about trust. I don't bother checking my husband's phone and sincerely he doesn't bother to check mine.
We use d same password 4 our phones so that other people can't check it but we don't hide it from one another.
Its wen u ve sometin to hide dat u'll turn ur fone to private thingy .

Its only normal to be hurt. All u can do is ask God to give u d strength to carry on cos u will feel alone even if a thousand peeps are wit u. Happened to a close friend afta dating a guy for 7yrs n he had proposed n they had done introduction.
It messed up the poor girl. She is even strong sef cos if na me, I don't know wat I will do.

Its more of tears of joy cos even if u date a man for hundred yrs it doesn't mean he'll propose or marry u.
So for me, I tink its d joy of realising that he sincerely wants to marry u.

Depends on what u mean by love affair. I started my first relationship wen I was in SS 1. Not much of a relationship since we re both young n naïve. We didn't even share a kiss till wen we were in higher institution but everyone in Secondary Sch knew us including teachers. Still funny wen I remember the relationship, very childish. Both of us are happily married to different people now.

The Problem with this makeup artiste is that they want to make all the money on one person's head. Aha! Na only one person wan use all the makeup in the box ni? And yes most of dem are snobs although I ve met some few good ones. What they don't know is if u re nice and friendly, ur customers will gladly recommend u to friends but if u re a snob, Ur wahala.
Another problem is with the big names in d industry, when u book, some of them will agree to be there in person to do the job but on that day, they'll just send a representative after charging a HUGE amount.

I believe in prophesy 100% but it doesn't mean u should allow wat prophets say RULE ur life. Even the bible says U should find out things n hold onto the truth. So wen a prophet tells u sometin, u can pray and ask God to help u confirm it wit a sign or via dream cos there are a lot of fake prophets.
So u urself ve to be prayerful and be in d spirit.
Let's not deceive ourselves wen they tell u that u will build a house by next year and u are not even planning for ur future how is it gonna come thru wen u re not in line wit God's plan. Heaven helps those who help themselves.
Some peeps will be prayin for financial breakthru and they don't ve source of income, u have to help urself and be prayerful for the TRUE prophesies to be made manifest.

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I totally agree with the guy dat said u should cook 4 her, movie etc. Every woman wants her man to cook sometin special. And if u can't cook u should order for a meal she has been talkin about from her favourite resturant, if she likes massage then take her to a massage parlour where they cater for preg woman afterall a preg woman deserves to have her muscles well relaxed. U can also plan a romantic getaway by taking her to a place she has never been( somewhere she must have tallked about wanting to go)
Finally u can round up the day by giving her an anniversary present which doesn't ve to be expensive. Maybe Shoes.

Normal

I wouldn't waste my time watching his reality show. Mbanu!

Firstly, where is ur own husband? If u re ranting like dis then ur husband must be very angry for accommodating such people. And u must be one of those people who will rather die in silence than speak up.
It is ur home so call the lady and let her know exactly how u feel. Ur cloths n laptop is a no go area for her. If she spoils the lappy, will she repair it.
Sometin similar happened to me wen my cousin came wit her son n d boy broke my laptop screen and I had to repair d tin.
So speak up instead of ranting here. Abi u'll give us ur address so dat we can come n chase dem 4 u.