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Its very normal, it only shows dat u actually care about her. Tank God u re already dating someone else. Just close ur eyes and move on

Best prayer of the century cos dats goodbye to bad luck.
I deserve much beta in my life

Una no go kill person wit laugh.
Jack Sparrow wore it beta. ℓ☺ℓ

Stay wit ur parents and try to complete the house. if u rent house, rent go finish o. But if na block and cement u buy, u can then start sometin.
Good luck

Very touching stories nd a lot of views but a lot have refused to say their own stories.

I have been molested by a very close cousin dat was living in our house. It started wen I was 7yrs old. It was always on the pretense of play. At a point he even said it was an exercise. ( The tot alone is killin me)
I can remember when he ejaculates I'll ask why he is urinating on my body. It happened for yrs and I didn't tell anyone cos I didn't even know that it was to my own detriment.
Wen I grew older and now realised wat he has been doing I didn't tell anyone because I was afraid and my family might not believe.

Along the same line, another family friend tried d same tin whenever I had to sleep in their house wen my parents travelled to our hometown. I hated d guy 4 yrs even though he was not successful at what he wanted to do.

I still Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ my cousin till date, there was a day he asked me if I can remember anytin dat happened wen I was younger, I just walked away cos dats a part of me dat I'll rather forget. Am sure he feels I can't remember since I didn't answer him.
Tank God 4 Christ, getting closer to God helped me in forgiving these people but the tot hurts.
And ofcourse, its affects the way u Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ men.
Am presently married but I have never discussed it with my hubby and I pray I don't ever have to tell him.

Parents should be careful of who they leave their kids with. Even some siblings do it. A close friend of mine was raped by her step brother. Some people have been molested by their drivers.
Now I keep praying that I don't have a daughter cos I would probably keep her under lock and key cos I'll do anytin to protect her.

It has only proved dat no one is to be trusted in our community

Afta reading some of the comments fear catch me. Una harsh o.
Abeg relationships and marriages are not meant to be endured.
Tank God am married if not, afta reading some comments I would have started running away from commitment.

@Op, the best thing in a relationship is communication, wen u re hurt, talk about it wen both parties are calm and more relaxed. Cos there are so many times that wen u re angry and ur partner wouldn't even know (since no be mind reader or spirit)
So make sure there's communication. And date someone u trust not someone dat takes u for granted.
Another thing is to respect each other's feeling, don't do wat u wouldn't take just because someone loves u.

Hmmmmm since ur babe can't stand dis ur friend, then reduce ur familiarity wit dis friendly friend.
I no blame ur babe na fear dey catch am. And who knows dis friendly friend sef might have feelings 4 u Ooº°˚ ˚°ºoo

onyxo76: if only the dstv office was close by,am based in ilesa. Will I have to travel all the way to lagos to rectify this prob? The super dealers have no solution to offer me.I have called them on phone several times already so I believe all should be well.like you said its difficult to fashi them, there is no good competitor for their customers.

Eh yah. So u re in ilesa. Dats my villa

onyxo76: if only the dstv office was close by,am based in ilesa. Will I have to travel all the way to lagos to rectify this prob? The super dealers have no solution to offer me.I have called them on phone several times already so I believe all should be well.like you said its difficult to fashi them, there is no good competitor for their customers.

Eh yah. So u re in ilesa. Dats my villa
I tink u should just call a friend dat is based in lagos dat can go to their ofice on ur behalf if its still not working. Pele sogbo

Yes, they should rent first abeg cos I don't trust Kim, what happens I it doesn't work between them and dey have already bought a house together. Na legal battle for ownership be that one abeg.

U are even begging for front page. ℓ☺ℓ. Just go to DSTV office to rectify the prob. U asked if u should fashi DSTV for which substitute abeg? Startimes?
No even try am

Na wa o. Una don press P! If u don't want someone to do sometin then say the reason cos I believe there's one.
They also frown at it at my former church so pls dear try not to do it wen u re in church b4 dey bite u.
But sincerely, I feel its beta to cross ur legs at the ankle cos some babes no sabi sit at all.
@OP, don't do it in church sha dats all I can say.

January is like every other month in d year but the problem is that people spend too much during the Xmas n New year holidays and they end up having nofin left for January. Its beta to have a budget of what u want to spend during the festivities, that way u won't have to worry in january.

I studied accounting. I actually wanted to study Mass Comm but my parents refused because my elder sister is a journalist. I still wish I studied Mass Comm. sha.
Anyway it has tot me to allow my kids pick what they want be in future because there's nothing like feeling so fulfilled in wat u do.

Ur story was very difficult to read but rather touching. Try to focus on ur health and retrace ur steps to God because he is the only one that can save. U also need to find out the nature of ur sickness because there are times when we mistake medical conditions for spiritual. So be sure of the nature of sickness and try to get well.
Na person wey dey alive fit work out him marriage Ooº°˚ ˚°ºoo

It actually depends on how close u are to ur folks. A friend of mine actually WAILED on ur wedding day. Was a funny sight.
I almost cried when I was leaving my parent's house dat night cos my sista kept sayin emotional stuff and my mum just blanked so dat she wouldn't cry too.
I come from a very close knit family so yes it depends on ur relationship wit ur family not babes dat can't wait to leave their parent's house.

We got cloths for each other and I also got him a new perfume n deodorant.

@amdrowning, keep waitin she might still get u sometin. *wink*

@iceprincess, aha! Na wa 4 ur comment which was all in favour of those undergrads living together.
Believe me there's nofin to learn there cos a lot happen wen u stay together. It sometimes come to d stage that u don't respect each anymore. It happened to a very close friend and d guy is happily married wit a daughter now while d girl is still searching. Its so terrible because even wen d guy graduated and she has toasters, there was always peeps warning the toasters to leave her cos she was stayin wit a guy b4 and was probably engaged to d guy, little did dey know dat d guy had moved on.
As far as am concerned its not worth it. Keep ur own space cos everyone needs it. Dat way u can do tinz ur way n ur time not wit one bobo pratically turning u to his personal house girl.

Its really a nice move and I admire ur courage n determination to veer into that line. but wat kind of channel would it be? It should be fun sha. Looking forward to it.

Let Wendy continue running her mouth while beyonce keeps making money

which kain yeye remembrance? u just don't like urself. once u start just know that you have signed your death certificate cos you wouldn't stop sleeping with her

Are you sure you sincerely want a man like him? before u continue that prayer point, ask your mum cos she knows her man more than anyone else. my Dad was an amazing man but he had his flaws so i asked God for a better version of him

hire a caterer na since all u need is not to die of starvation. marriage is for those that need a companion definitely not for u.

I hate when he doesnt give me the attention. Or wen he just doesnt feel like talkin to me. There are times I feel he loves his blackberry more.
*straight face*

My face! Don't worry am not vain. ℓ☺ℓ but dats d first tin people Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ so I focus on my face n how I look.

Its a welcome idea. A lot of times I prefer if my noodles is not the same everyday taste so I add other things I can lay my hands on.
I also like my pasta been very tasty and good looking so I'll like sometin for noodles and pasta
It would also be very nice if there's sometin special for rice so that it can look different and delicious. Tryin new stuff is good 4 my taste buds abeg.

Dis one na JAMB question. Its beta to blog cos u enjoy it not because u want to make money. And gettin approved on adsense is not easy. Ve been tryin that for a while.
Anyway, its not easy to make money off blogging cos almost anyone that has a laptop and modem now blogs. So I feel if u wanna blog, do it cos u enjoy it maybe money will come thru it later.

I don't think its a sin. It was not intentional its pure survival instinct. If ur friend dint kill the person, ur friend would be dead now so he should look at the brighter side.

He should also speak to his pastor or Imam as the case may be for counseling

Abeg make dem divorce sef. Kris is always in control and doesn't respect Bruce. They act like he is not part of the family. Mschew

I think 3 is good but pls talk to ur OB-GYN. It is well dearie

I have 14 names and I know everyone of dem cos wen those people that gave the names came visitin they will call those names.
I have those names cos my mum had delay, my sister is 14 yrs older than I am so I guess the load of names was as a result of excitement that she finally had another kid.
And yes yoruba people do it more cos all the granparents already have names in mind once u are pregnant.
My hubby and I have already chosen like 6 names for our children and I aint even pregnant yet so I tink Yoruba peeps just have a tin 4 names
*wink*

Thank God she survived it. If it had happened in naija, I don't tink she would ve survived it cos the hospital will be busy asking for deposit payment before treatment.
For those that said we don't ve rattlesnake in nigeria, am sure we have other poisonous snakes but if no believe abeg go ur village go check.

Really proud of her because a lot of lagos men wouldn't agree for their wives to do this job.
Also peeps are sayin its done in other states, driving in Lagos is not easy at all and u cannot compare it to other states.