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I hate pretence so...



I'd go for option 6.


If she can't accept me for who I am then make she go.



4get public etiquette...


NA MY HAPPINESS BE THE TOP PRIORITY.



I can't waste money and food in this BUHARI ERA

BRO...

She's indirectly telling you that she don get your replacement once you bleep up.


You better start finding one babe for one corner too, chat her up and be showing that your babe how another babe is hitting on you ( ask her questions that will make her repond as if she is highly interested in you).

Then screenshot the part of her desire for you to your babe telling her similar thing she tells you but make sure it's really deep.

Trust me she'll stay glue to you like Fulani and cow



*Do this and thank me later*

I'm currently running a an educational program (biology edu to be precise) in national open university while working as a teacher in a reputable school but I've been having issues with physics even right from secondary school then. Even when I did my semester exam I failed woefully in physics.

Now I intend to change to ECONOMICS as (that's the only alternative on their courseware that satisfied my credentials) though when I checked through the career guide I discovered it falls right into what I'm good at as I love writing creatively and my love for politics is second to non.

My scare now is the long run as education provides more job opportunity due to my experience (4years) than economics.

Also I had won an award in a debate competition for the sch and also held a management position as head which in one way or the other boost my c.v but I feel not fulfilled as individual studying education while my love for writing and politics is high

Kindly advice me

Sometimes last year, I bought a phone for my babe (now ex)

One evening, on my way back from work I decided to chill at a restaurant but on getting there I met her having good time (to the point of kissing) the guy who she had told me was just a friend.

I got pissed off though I was able manage my anger. I politely ended the relationship, took the phone I bought for her and left her sim for her.

Later that evening, her new guy called me on phone and started insulting me, calling me a poverty stricken guy and all sorts. The funniest part was he said he had transferred the sum of #200,000 into my account to manage my poverty life (which I later confirmed as message of credit entered while still on call).

Later the babe used that to troll me on WhatsApp as the brokest guy she has ever dated posting my pix to shame me but I didn't give a damn after all I had had sex with her on different occasions.

Fast forward to yesterday afternoon, the same guy called me telling me he no longer had interest in dating the babe that she was a parasite and he was sorry for his actions towards me.

Now he's requesting for the money he sent to me (almost 9months) that it was a mistake on his part. I told him I had used the money but this guy kept pleading that even if it's #50,000 he will manage it.

What's your say?

There is this lady who recently joined our organization. She caught my attention but I wanted to take things slow. Later I got to know that my other colleague at work had already spoken to this lady and they had been having serious romance. I had to cut off every affections though the lady in question and I later became best friends.

Fast forward to the present day, they broke up and the babe had been trying to gather herself. I cunningly asked her if she could work things out with the guy but she bluntly said no.

The issue here now is that I've been developing serious affection for her again though during our chats before their breakup I had told her I developed feelings for her but my other colleague was faster than I in approaching her of which she said I should have told her about it.

This lady ticks every boxes I want in a woman.

Kindly advice me...

The moment you start comparing yourself to others, you'll start having low self esteem

Everyone works at their time zone

Keep pushing on, pray, have hope that things gonna turn for the best and stay happy and be happy for others


Stop putting unnecessary pressure on yourself.


Remember that if you die because others are doing better than you, the way those school mates of yours go take crush chicken bone for your after burial party go shock you for heaven.


Value yourself.

Mr man, if you fail to deliver the printer you'll be tagged a fraudster and since he paid you through transfer, meaning he has your bank details and would definitely trace you get you into bad mess with the police.


Just fulfill your part of the transaction and give yourself peace of mind.


Shalom

O boy




You're good for Photoshop




Abeg you fit Photoshop Rolando and me together

Princesslee:
I think you should ask her about it instead of costly assumptions.

Again she might not be getting the needed attention from you hence just using this to get your attention.

Thirdly the guy might just be a friend so kindly talk to her about it. From her reply you will definitely know the next steps to take

1) He should ask her and she'll definitely give him a version of what she feels might soothe ( except if the guy is not a loverboy but judging from his write-ups it seems he is)

2) If my girlfriend believe I'm not giving her enough attention and she decided to get it elsewhere my brother I'll believe she was never my girlfriend. I'll just dump her and move ( no time to be a caretaker)

3) Trust me a lady that has a male friend to the extent of captioning it LOML is doing the work of LOML's work.

Gimme your bf's number make I tell one babe to perform Africa magic on him and see whether your post of heartbreak won't make front-page next month

GIANTPLUSHUB:
So many benefits of being single but don't get carried away with the benefits and stay beyond the single Life after allowing good and great girls slip off your fingers due to your carelessness. Remember, you can't stay single for Life.

There are still good girls out there. Just have the belief you Will meet One and don't mistake the quality of a good girl to a bad girl when you meet the good girl so that you don't miss or loss the good girl.

Alaye who go stay go stay. Stop giving yourself unnecessary stress simply because she's a good girl.

What if she's not meant to be yours or she's pretending in your presence.

Goatforce1

That moment you see covid-19 update on front page.





You hiss and skip

Well done o



Mr avenger

ZINIIBANKS:
The babe agreed to come to my place
She noticed quickly how shy I was maybe she just want to make me more confident or I don't just understand. Babe later told me to kiss her omo chubby girls no dey shame on first date. Na hin mi go dey do like omo ase. The babe just smile tell me say she don dey go omo E pain me DAT day.the babe later use am abuse me but jokingly. Thou its was my first time then.
But now I'm zinibanks pro max moo tii bed gan

Well thank goodness say na bed you bed no be bad. Òmókòmó �

What were you expecting?


She should remove her kidney for you just to contribute something abi?


When you work on yourself you won't be bothered about anyone's financial impact in your life


Creating topics for bashing females ain't right.


I'm single, cool and Happy

First time I'll be following a topic on nairaland.


Whether the story is true or false, you got me laughing out loud. Thumbs up for that.


Where you dey na...


HOW TAMBOLO GO COME BE IF MOSQUITO BE LIKE BAT

You shouldn't be bothered about break up.
That simply wasn't yours bro.

Yours will surely come.

What if you had married her and it later resulted to divorce due to some differences or she cheats.

How sincere do you think she was while you guys were dating?

Know that any guy/lady that leaves you and in the space of 2-3 weeks he/she's got another guy/lady was definitely using you to catch cruise.

Face your career and have peace of mind.

SOME HEAD CAN LIE SHA!!!

Some artists listed there no worth am but all the same big CONGRATS to them all for their respective effort

Does this meen ALL THIS MARREGES HAPPEN INSIDE ANAMBARA SLATE?

I fear that place o.

This people marriage because of money

Yea I can relate

There was this lady (olamide) I was dying to date but she had a guy who she was dying for meanwhile the guy was dying for a lady (Fatima) who happened to be dying to have me by all means.

I later understood the circle when I and the guy became friends and he told me about olamide who was dying to have him as her bf but he on the other hand fell deeply in love with Fatima.

I was just laughing inside me.

Pèlé dear.
The best thing for you is to move on.
You gave him reason to doubt you that very moment you said "no" and he showed you he never loved you the moment he texted you that message.

Without trust in any relationship, such relationship will be built on a foundation made with elephant cement.

It won't last na the meaning

We endorse trash in Nigeria Sha but all the same congrats to her

Hmmmm... A wake up call to those that have ears

Spending on a lady who loves you wholeheartedly is good but over doing it might change her mentality. Don't overspend on her because if you continue to do, she might on the long run see it as your responsibilities. Spend at your own will and do so lovingly when the situation requires. No man is an ATM for a lady and no lady is a property for a man