Politics › Re: Peter Gregory Obi Celebrates 62nd Birthday by Abee79(m): 10:16am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ola9ja23: The baby voice president of IPOB 😀😂😄
Ndi headless mobs of unscrupulous elements are happy for you for making It possible for Asiwaju to win the presidential election
In baby voice of Pandora Obituary... Thank you Daddy 😄😂😀 Your blind hatred will not change the price of PMS or the terrible state of the economy. Enjoy your upscaled shege! |
Family › Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Abee79(m): 4:15pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
blueghost: hmmmm Dealing with betrayal from a close friend can be deeply hurtful and challenging to navigate. Here are some suggestions on how to handle the situation:
Allow Yourself to Feel: It's important to acknowledge and process your emotions. Give yourself permission to feel hurt, angry, or disappointed. Allow yourself time and space to heal and come to terms with what has happened.
Seek Support: Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or a counselor to share your feelings and seek support. Talking about your experience with someone who can provide empathy and guidance can help you gain perspective and cope with the betrayal.
Reflect on the Situation: Take some time to reflect on the circumstances surrounding the betrayal. Consider the reasons behind your friend's actions, as well as any contributing factors from your side. This self-reflection can help you understand the situation better and come to terms with it.
Communicate Your Feelings: If you feel ready and comfortable, consider expressing your feelings to your friend. Honest communication can be a crucial step in the healing process. Clearly articulate how their actions have affected you and allow them to share their perspective. However, keep in mind that their response may not always meet your expectations or lead to reconciliation.
Set Boundaries: Evaluate whether it is healthy and appropriate to continue the friendship. If you decide to maintain the relationship, establish clear boundaries and expectations moving forward. It may take time to rebuild trust, and it's essential to protect yourself from further harm.
Focus on Self-Care: Engage in activities that promote self-care and well-being. Take care of your physical and emotional health by engaging in hobbies, spending time with loved ones, practicing mindfulness or meditation, exercising, or seeking professional help if needed.
Forgiveness (if possible): Forgiveness is a personal choice and can be a long and complex process. It does not mean condoning or forgetting the betrayal but rather freeing yourself from the negative emotions and the burden of holding onto resentment. Forgiving can be liberating, but it should not be rushed, and it's okay if it takes time.
Learn and Grow: Use this experience as an opportunity for personal growth and reflection. Learn from the betrayal, identify any patterns or red flags, and use the lessons to make healthier choices in future relationships.
Remember, healing takes time, and everyone's journey is unique. Be patient and kind to yourself as you navigate through the process of healing and moving forward This looks like something ChatGPT would spew out  |
Celebrities › Re: Chef Dammy Bags ₦1M Endorsement Deal With Fekomi Herbal (Photos) by Abee79(m): 4:07pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Congratulations Dammy! |
Travel › Re: Rivers State Newly Acquired Fuel Subsidy Palliative Bus Breaks Down by Abee79(m): 2:32pm On Jul 12, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: BREAKING: NSA Set To Declare National Emergency In Plateau by Abee79(m): 1:25pm On Jul 12, 2023 |
Good. They should also declare in Kaduna & Zamfara . . . |
Fashion › Re: Men, What Is The Cost Of Hair Cut In Your Area? by Abee79(m): 12:11pm On Jul 12, 2023 |
Since lockdown, I started barbing myself. It's economical, healthier and therapeutic!  |
Education › Re: African Mother's Proud Display At Daughter's Convocation Sparks Mixed Reactions by Abee79(m): 12:09pm On Jul 12, 2023 |
DKM123: Abeg this is overdoing it and being excessively dramatic. Did she just know that her daughter has graduated? Wetin be this? Hear her story first, then you can judge. Thank you  |
Politics › Re: 7 Benefits Of Executive Bills Signed By President Tinubu (Video) by Abee79(m): 9:53am On Jul 07, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Kano State Terrified As The Governor Refused To Shake Hands With The New Emir (V by Abee79(m): 9:51am On Jul 07, 2023 |
Ahmed0336: Google the governor's age and that of the emir Royalty transcends age. Once a person wears a crown, his/her age becomes a non-issue. |
Politics › Re: Kano State Terrified As The Governor Refused To Shake Hands With The New Emir (V by Abee79(m): 5:19pm On Jul 06, 2023 |
I think he was just showing respect . . . Not everything can be understood via the lens of Western Culture. In most African cultures, it is unthinkable to shake an elder, talk more of a royal figure. Handshake is not African culture!
I personally don't shake elders, even if they stretch their hands. I bow instead, with my hands behind my back. If they insist, then I give in, but only if they insist. |
Romance › Re: Children Of This Generation Are Wasted (pictures) by Abee79(m): 5:13pm On Jul 06, 2023 |
I am not encouraging them, but is this not the same thing we used to do back then in Secondary School? The difference is that there was no social media back then, so people did not know the extent of moral decadence among young people. The situation has not changed much . . . . |
Politics › Re: Do People Read This Portion Of Bible In Nigeria? (photo) by Abee79(m): 5:10pm On Jul 06, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Peace Critical For National Development – Shettima by Abee79(m): 9:57am On Jul 06, 2023 |
Coming from a known Boko Haram patron, this means a lot! |
Health › Re: New Law Allows Nigerian Trained Medical Doctors To Bypass US Residency by Abee79(m): 4:09pm On Jul 05, 2023 |
These Western countries NEED us badly. They need us to supply raw materials for their industries. They need us to buy whatever junk they are selling. They need our professionals. They need our IT experts. They need our fresh ideas. They need our monies (both clean and dirty), They need us to enroll in their schools. Yet they will be doing yanga like they don't need us. They are actually doing themselves a favour by giving us Visa. THEY F*CKIN NEED US! |
Properties › Re: Trademore Residents Protest Planned Demolition (Video, Photos) by Abee79(m): 10:17am On Jul 04, 2023 |
Opanka44: Why always demolishing people's properties? Because some of the affected properties were built on waterways, and water will always find its way . . . |
Properties › Re: Trademore Residents Protest Planned Demolition (Video, Photos) by Abee79(m): 10:16am On Jul 04, 2023 |
Opanka44: Why always demolishing people's properties? Because some of the affected properties were built on waterways. And water will always find its way . . . |
Politics › Re: Witnesses Absent As INEC Defence Of Tinubu’s Victory Starts On Shaky Note by Abee79(m): 10:01am On Jul 04, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Should I Stop Making This Married Woman Happy? by Abee79(m): 11:27am On Jul 03, 2023 |
You have done enough already. Married women should be a no-go area. If found, could be fatal. BTW, she might be lying about her husband. She might be the one inciting him to violence. A man who can beat his wife can kill out of jealousy. No talk say we no warn you! |
Politics › Re: With Strong Evidence Before The Court,tinubu Could Be 1st President To Be Remove by Abee79(m): 11:21am On Jul 03, 2023 |
Obaaderemi2: You better forget it. Tinubu can not be removed. Like seriously? In this day and age? |
Politics › Re: Kate Henshaw Smiles,shakes Hand With Sanwo Olu. Is She Disobidient? by Abee79(m): 11:20am On Jul 03, 2023 |
Nothing there. It just shows she's a civil person. |
Romance › Re: Girl Who Saved Her Toasters Number As Mugu 1 Gets The Shock Of Her Life by Abee79(m): 11:18am On Jul 03, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: My Administration Will Re-Establish Nigeria's Status As Giant Of Africa - Tinubu by Abee79(m): 11:15am On Jul 03, 2023 |
Giant in what? Please be specific. We don't want to wake up tomorrow and discover we are giants in drugs and thuggery[b][/b]  |
Politics › Re: Asari Dokubo And His Boys Storm The Street With Military Weapons: Video by Abee79(m): 5:03pm On Jun 27, 2023 |
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Education › Re: Italian Boys Castrated By The Catholic Church To Retain High Voices (photo) by Abee79(m): 1:20pm On Jun 23, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: What I Meant When I Said, “I have a Tiger, Lion In Me” - IGP Egbetokun (Video) by Abee79(m): 12:01pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: RMAFC Denies Salary Increase For Tinubu, Govs, Others by Abee79(m): 10:52am On Jun 22, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Sowore Releases Details Of Campaign Expenses, Asks Others To Emulate Him by Abee79(m): 12:49pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Picture Of Major General Lagbaja The New Chief Of Army Staff On The Front Line by Abee79(m): 2:55pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Something New Is About To Happen Pst Adefarasin Speaks On Tinubu’s Administrat by Abee79(m): 2:50pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Police Seal 17 Local Government Area Secretariats Of Plateau by Abee79(m): 11:12am On Jun 16, 2023 |
Good move by IGP. Also use the same energy to tackle kidnappers, bandits and terrorists killing innocent people in Plateau State on a daily basis! |
Politics › Re: Something New Is About To Happen Pst Adefarasin Speaks On Tinubu’s Administrat by Abee79(m): 11:06am On Jun 16, 2023 |
Shey this is the SAUL he was talking about? Why is he hailing Saul? David is coming!  |
Politics › Re: Meet President Tinubu's Special Advisers by Abee79(m): 10:38am On Jun 16, 2023 |
Still does not change the fact that he stole the mandate  |