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RomanceRe: My Cousin Has The Longest Natural Hair In Nigeria [pictured] by Abee79(m): 2:48pm On Jun 14, 2023
We can't really say if your claim is true or not, till we see her face grin
PoliticsRe: We Didn’t Give Dangote License For Fuel Import ― NNPCL by Abee79(m): 2:37pm On Jun 14, 2023
Time will tell . . . lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
PoliticsRe: Student Loan: Nigeria Students On Thank You Visit To President Bola Tinubu by Abee79(m): 10:27am On Jun 14, 2023
No right thinking student should be excited about "Student Loans". Do a research on how this thing has crippled many people in western countries. I won't say more . . .
FamilyRe: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Brother by Abee79(m): 2:46pm On Jun 01, 2023
He needs to be tamed ASAP!

That's how the fracas between me and my younger brother started decades ago. I'm currently 50yrs and he's 48yrs. We don't see eye to eye now.

As children, he was always causing trouble and fighting me as his elder, but our parents ignored it and thought he was just being childish and will outgrow it with time. The fights grew worse and more bitter. He has never acknowledged me as his elder brother and keeps defaming me to other relatives and people outside the family. He has succeeded in poisoning the mind of my other siblings & mother towards me, because he is more out-going than me. Defending myself against the many lies is not worth the effort and strength. It is really painful.

Our father is currently very old and sick, and I had to assume control of his business as the first son (also as the first child). My younger brother, who was also named a Director of the company in the CAC documents, has been challenging my legitimacy to head the affairs of the business and has threatened to institute legal action against me - and I know he's not bluffing!
Fortunately, our father did a formal handover to me. He boycotted the ceremony. He doesn't want to resign as a Director, and does not want to support the business. I find this very frustrating.

Funny thing is that he has a very good job and even doing far better than me financially, but he can't just let go of the bitterness in his heart.
I've been praying for him and I know that God will touch his heart one day. I love him deeply, but he just can't see or accept it.

LESSONS:
1. Parents, don't take for granted that your children were born from the same womb, and think that they will grow up to love and support each other in the future.
2. Address every sign of jealousy or hatred as soon as you notice these.
3. Be deliberate about inculcating love, cooperation and unity among your children.
4. Leave nothing to chance.
5. Never allow a younger sibling to disdain an older one, regardless of their gender. Younger boys tend to disrespect older female siblings.
6. Pray for your children always against sibling rivalry.
PoliticsRe: Gistlover Apologises Sarcastically To Dino Melaye by Abee79(m): 11:19pm On Jan 18, 2023
What's that thing they said about he who comes to equity?
Christianity EtcRe: Prophetic Picture Of The Year 2023 By Daniel Olukoya (G.O Mfm Worldwide) by Abee79(m): 9:03pm On Jan 03, 2023
Vague "prophesies". At best, they could pass for ADMONITIONS
PoliticsRe: 5 Countries In The World Where Celebration Of Christmas Is Illegal And Totally.. by Abee79(m): 8:06pm On Dec 03, 2022
Their loss! grin grin grin
EducationRe: Students Organize Sex Party In Anambra Hotel, Spark Outrage by Abee79(m): 10:57pm On Sep 05, 2022
H0didon:
Chaii....To marry for this generation to hard ohh undecided. In those days, the evil wasn't as high as this. Now, so many people eye don tear especially ladies who want soft life without working.




As our Ancestors would say "A generation of desperation hungry young folks is a consumed fire already burning"
Trust me, since the days of Sodom and Gomorrah, evil has always been high. The difference is that we now have social media and internet enabled smartphones. grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Can Not Win. Concrete Proof. by Abee79(m): 9:27pm On Aug 31, 2022
I love the way PO is causing some people insomnia grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Chose Between These Possible Incoming Firslady Oluremi Tinubu Or Mrs Obi by Abee79(m): 9:09pm On Aug 31, 2022
They are both beautiful women. I have deep respect for both of them.
PoliticsRe: Goodluck Jonathan Helps Tinubu To Climb The Step. (photo) by Abee79(m): 9:07pm On Aug 31, 2022
With due respect to BAT, I really think he should be somewhere taking care of his health. I respect his determination to be president, but health is the real wealth. It breaks my heart every time I see him in public struggling lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
PoliticsRe: Production Of Tinubu/Shettima Textiles For 2023 Campaign (pics/vid) by Abee79(m): 8:56pm On Aug 31, 2022
Good luck to them. As for me and my family, we know who we go vote! cool cool cool
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Share Your Job Hunting Experience! by Abee79(m): 4:06am On Aug 30, 2022
Thank God for his mercies, I have always been divinely favored regarding employment. I am headed towards becoming an employer of labour myself. To Him be all the glory!
PoliticsRe: Kashim Shettima Puts On South Eastern Attire (Pictures) by Abee79(m): 3:58am On Aug 30, 2022
Reminds me of when Buhari wore Igbo attire & suit before elections that year. Nice one SHITttema grin grin
PoliticsRe: Moment Shettima Acknowledged 30 "Bishops" From The Christian Faith (video) by Abee79(m): 9:42am On Jul 21, 2022
We keep playing this "religion card" to our detriment . . .
TravelRe: Canada Is Not For The Faint Hearted, Reconsider This Before Relocating: Pictures by Abee79(m): 10:47am On Jan 19, 2022
This white snow is far better than insecurity, corruption, uncertainties, nepotism, backwardness, directionless-ness, fraud in high places and other things I cannot mention because of the vex in my heart! angry angry angry
CrimeRe: Soldiers Dislodge IPOB/ESN Stronghold At Lilu Forest In Anambra State (Photos) by Abee79(m): 9:34am On Jan 19, 2022
Use the same energy for bandits and BH lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
PoliticsRe: Heavy Police Presence At Lekki Tollgate (Photos, Video) by Abee79(m): 8:02am On Oct 12, 2021
I would love to see the government show strength where it matters most . . . lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
PoliticsRe: BREAKING: Gunmen Invade Bishop Oyedepo’s Church In Kogi, Abduct Customers by Abee79(m): 9:37am On Aug 31, 2021
By their headlines we shall know them! lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
PoliticsRe: "It Cost Me 2.5 Million To Live In Nigeria For Two Months" - UK-Based Woman by Abee79(m): 9:30am On Aug 31, 2021
God! Please show me why you sent me to Nigeria instead of other countries that have sense! embarassed
PoliticsRe: Kaduna: Bandits Kill Two In Kajuru by Abee79(m): 12:05pm On Aug 30, 2021
God have mercy!
PoliticsRe: Full Extract Of Kyari's Conversation With Hushpuppi That Nailed Him by Abee79(m): 10:04pm On Jul 29, 2021
Small by small, fowl nyash go open lipsrsealed
PoliticsRe: The Amount Paid To Agberos In Lagos Daily & Annually by Abee79(m): 9:53am On Jul 26, 2021
Me I no go consider that Agbero work so? grin grin grin

PoliticsRe: Ortom: Buhari Is Working With Fulani To Take Over Nigeria (Video, Graphic Pics) by Abee79(m): 9:21pm On Apr 28, 2021
Dear God!
Of all countries in this world, you decided in your infinate wisdom to make me a Nigerian.
You did not see USA, UK, France, Canada, Germany, Swiss, Australia, China, even Ghana sef. cry
You must really have a damn good reason for that decision . . . cry cry cry
Amen
RomanceRe: I Still Keep & Look At My Ex Pictures & Videos. by Abee79(m): 12:09pm On Jan 21, 2021
Her juju is strong! grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Nairaland Girls Who Used Their Pictures On Their Profile Are Looking For Husband by Abee79(m): 10:09am On Dec 14, 2020
JaneYave:
Silence is golden. The earlier you respect womanhood the better for you. No thanks to the person that gave a kid like you a phone. These are some of the types our daughters will have to contend with and to make it worse they think they are every lady's desire. Reset your mentality, and affect lives through write ups that are worthwhile. Thank me later.
Your profile picture is fine grin
PoliticsRe: IGP Adamu: #EndSARS Protesters Wanted Buhari Removed From Office by Abee79(m): 10:09am On Nov 25, 2020
We want him removed . . . QED!
PoliticsRe: Revealed! Teacher Who Lost 2-months Pregnancy In SARS Custody Is Evan's Sis by Abee79(m): 2:18pm On Nov 17, 2020
lipsrsealed
PoliticsRe: Desmond Elliot Crying On Live TV Following Backlash by Abee79(m): 10:03am On Oct 30, 2020
He never see anything! Desmond Idiot! angry angry angry
PoliticsRe: FFK: The Truth About Lekki Toll Gate Will Be Exposed When Buhari Leaves Office by Abee79(m): 10:38am On Oct 27, 2020
We want the truth out NOW! Not after her leaves office!
CelebritiesRe: Singer, Timaya Shares Photo Of His Drastic Weight Loss (photos) by Abee79(m): 10:03am On Oct 27, 2020
Nice one. Next story . . .

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