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I'm from Ogun and even me don tire for this negative publicity

I know this area well. So sad, may her soul RIP

This is a good time for them to use their charms to fix Nigeria. Use the charm to feed hungry people. I guess evil powers are only good for destruction. Smh

Very unfortunate situation. They should give priority to those who are manufacturing in Nigeria

Very nice. I hope they maintain it! Good job

IamNawty:
I guess that's the price she has to pay for her past mistakes

But somehow Tuface is not called Sumbo and Pero's ex

IamNawty:
I seriously hate that BS!

She holds a sensitive position in a church, still people won't let her rest. Very annoying

The woman's name is Sumbo, not anyone's ex. What kind of nonsense tagging is this?

Oh my God. My condolences to her family and her fiance. No matter what, he will forever blame himself for this incidence. RIP pretty woman. Kadara sha

That mouth though

Beautiful!

God bless all our mothers and future mothers!

horlakunle25:
D tailor really try!! Dat trouser can stil size d boy 4 d next 6yrs!!!

Recession-proof for the next 3 academic years

What a cutie!! May God be with him always

these millionaires aint loyal

Nnamdikalu:
Nigerian girls shey una dey see the negative ways wey we the men take dey address una? Olosho,gold digger,Ashawo ten kobo in fact you guys have lost it,what went wrong? Why can't u be level headed so that God will give you the Joy of your heart? Or are u people not planning to marry a good husband,bear children,train them in the fear of God and enjoy the benefits thereafter? ....jus curious tho'.

Nigerian MEN shey una dey see the negative ways wey una dey take dey address women just like your sisters and mothers ? Olosho,gold digger,Ashawo ten kobo in fact you guys have lost it,what went wrong? Why can't u be level headed so that God will give you the Joy of your heart? Or are u people not planning to marry a good wife,bear children,train them in the fear of God and enjoy the benefits thereafter? ....jus curious tho'.

kabukabu:
I got to go back home jor and get a fine,thick, smart, intelligent,chocolate Naija girl who can make jollof rice and other sweet things oh.
US naija girls don't cook, they want to eat out at fast food all the time.
I'm dead serious

ALL the Nigerian girls in america eat out ALL the time? Do you people gain anything from spreading these tales?

ibx1976:
My good people I am in a bit of a situation here and would like to hear from the community. I have lived the last few years in the UK and can say I am in a reasonably "settled" place in my life except for one thing: I don't have a wife and I am getting old!.

For the last few years, going by people's advice I thought it was best to cultivate a relationship here with someone here in the UK, learn about them and settle.

It has not worked out for me. Maybe its my luck, it has not quite worked with me with the ladies over here. I always end up with someone diametrically opposite to my goals and aspirations. The idea of marrying an Oyibo is even worse - things just did not work out in that direction either.

To compound the problem, I my job does not allow me much of a social life. I just cant make it happen without help.

On a friend's advice, I have been invited to come back home to naija and see how things can work out. I have therefore taken a months leave and am headed home for the next 1 month. Our plan is to visit a few good families and places to see if anything can materialise from that.

My people any advice on this? If you were in my shoes, how will you conduct this affair. What will you look out for. What will you avoid.

Instead of you to seek to make a meaningful relationship where you live, with someone you can see everyday and learn more about them, you are going to look for who you don't know in Nigeria. Someone you will date for 6 months over the phone and import them into UK like raw material? Could this be because you are one of those traditional men that is looking for a virgin to pound yam for you? Search yourself. There are too many Nigerians in the UK that you can meet through family, friends and also going out socially. Work on your packaging and stop chasing dreams of importing a doormat. Remember, the devil you know...

It's not child abuse.

What's going on in Ogun state?

lmao! shebi you people are the ones that give women expiration date? there you go

gidjah:
won't give any one counsel outside Gods will, with the experience I have gathered ,you ladies need straight talk, pretence and garnished advice won't do you all any help, na so e dey take start,...a little stuborness here ,a little ego there, ladies must stop been fake ,learn to always demand the truth from guys always, once a guy knows a lady will always demand for the truth, he will adjust and get more responsible , ladies are the major reasons for this mess in ,most case,you(abike)can't speak for the op,abi na your sister she be?,you sure don't know her ,do you?she is still young and should understand how actions can count in the nearest future,every lady should, Self defense won't help any Lady, no lady should be adviced to hurry in to marriage, that's pretty horrible .I drop my pen over this matter.

So it is a woman's job to make a man responsible by demanding for the truth? An adult man cannot have sense without a woman demanding it? I rest my case on your Counselling career. Best of luck.

luvola:
can I meet u ? Name -Ola , late 20s and a chartered accountant in the next few month. based in Lagos. Ciao

See packaging!

gidjah:
,a beg no vex ma, meant no harm, we be friends o, no diss dear,good luck to all the ladies jare

Please watch the counsel you are giving people. A lot of people have rushed into marriage because they don't want to become Aunty and now they are living in bitterness. Marriage can be very sweet, even with its ups and downs. Leave people for their God appointed time. It's not like the OP is picky or proud, is it until she marries a mad man from the street? I don't find that joke funny. Nobody jokes with you men to marry just anybody.

fash78:
@ ABike you are correct. I have since canceled my monthly subscription on Rebtlel when i noticed I am not getting 600min for $15 anymore.

How are you making calls now?

gidjah:
aunty abike? how many times did i call you,??never said I didn't advice you o!,you and I know that the trouble with you ladies is in selection/picking, (respect to few that are truly going through some terrible spiritual manipulation s from the pit of hell),you ladies pick men out of greed,I am a counsellor and a public speaker aunty, una need to re package una picking skills wallahi!,no one will advice or want a close person to fall in to wrong hands, but the truth is that u women contribute 97% of the reason for your wrong choices, do your research and you will be surprised, you guys prefer Lies over truth,I counsel people like you daily, I know the dig,Go to most churches today, majority of the congregation are the Singles and searching group,('YET TO BE MARRIED'!!most of the cases are Self Inflicted /Caused. Your blood dey hot ba !

Your comment shows that you are the one with hot blood. What is the cause of your anger towards me? Are you hurt that a woman didn't settle for you? Please advice the OP and go away, don't face me because I don't even know you from anywhere. Strange behavior

gidjah:
aunty abike? how many times did i call you,??never said I didn't advice you o!,you and I know that the trouble with you ladies is in selection/picking, (respect to few that are truly going through some terrible spiritual manipulation s from the pit of hell),you ladies pick men out of greed,I am a counsellor and a public speaker aunty, una need to re package una picking skills wallahi!,no one will advice or want a close person to fall in to wrong hands, but the truth is that u women contribute 97% of the reason for your wrong choices, do your research and you will be surprised, you guys prefer Lies over truth,I counsel people like you daily, I know the dig,Go to most churches today, majority of the congregation are the Singles and searching group,('YET TO BE MARRIED'!!most of the cases are Self Inflicted /Caused. Your blood dey hot ba!

Don't worry about me, I've learned my own lesson. I am very sure of what I'm saying, Mr Counselor. God is not an author of confusion, show me the part of the bible where it says a woman is better off in a miserable marriage than single and searching. Show me the place where God said his promise for us is to marry the wrong man out of desperation...

A lot of the women who are miserable because they are single are just impatient or they have other problems. They also are not privileged to see the hell that some women who rushed into marriage are facing today.

@ seizethaBae, balance well and invest your salary, eat good food, rub good cream and go on holiday. It will happen and you will be glad you didn't settle out of fear.

This is awful. See the nice houses in the background. This our Nigeria sha, you will struggle to build a house and have to swim to get there

Very important for estate planning purposes

seizethaBae:
I don't even know where to start or how to explain what my problem is, hopefully i get lucky for the 'problem' to be 'diagnosed'. I'm a 27yrs old lady, finished university very very early and i've been extremely lucky with almost everything in life, but to get a suitor and settle down na palava. Friends/family members keep saying I'm too choosy or not serious.

Honestly, I AM NOT choosy. When the one thing i fast/pray for is for God to link me with the bone of my bone very soon, I even gave up my travelling plans in order to increase my chances of finding a future patner (i know you can meet ur patner anywhere, but na just to shut up people wey don tink say i no dey serious), a close friend even suggested i pend my 'work-from-home business', look for job so i can be leaving the house, and i got lucky within a month or two of dusting my CV i got a fantastic high paid job with no connection (honestly i've always been so lucky when i ask God for anything but i have no idea why he is delaying this). I just dont know how to explain it, the ones i like doesnt like me and the ones i dont have single feelings for will do anything to wife me. I'm not desperate or something, i just want to reach out if I'm the only one having this problem.

There was even a time i made up my mind to accept an ex proposal even tho i have no single feeling for him, i kept hoping/fasting/praying for a miracle to happen so i can at least like him (even if its 20%) bcus hes just too PERFECT, but it didn't just happen. My type of man doesnt need to be extremely rich, tall, handsome like most ladies dream man. He should just be neat, God fearing and have something upstairs biko (i love intelligent guys). Back to the main reason why i created this post; Married women/mature lady out there, has this ever happen to you? I really envy people that love their partners and they are loved back equally. Married women, please, I'm waiting to hear from you.

And for most people that will think I'm looking for a rich guy, believe me i once met a guy that was willing to sponsor my M.Sc in UK if i can be his Mrs, but i will never engage in anything that will bring curse on my head. So my problem is not even money. I'm so sick and tired

You will marry at the right time. Focus on making yourself better, grow your relationship with God and be approachable to men (not easy). Your early successes mean you are used to a comfortable life, trust me you DO NOT want to marry the wrong person. God has a plan and time for everything. Focus on all the things that you have going on for you, career, life, health, etc and be grateful.

QuietHammer:
What's it with women and double standards? Why couldn't his wife work on her temper and avoid slapping him?

Slapping a man is equally bad. Hitting people out of anger is a very bad habit. You don't know the person that is just waiting on one small push to cross to the other side. I was provoked will never hold up in court.

taiiremide:
Did you read the part where I said she slapped me and I never raise my hands against her?

That's wrong on her part too but it doesn't cancel the one that you did. You were both wrong to go physical.