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PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:42pm On Oct 06, 2021
theTranscriber:
almost everybody's grandfather's practices polygamy that's not an achievement

my grandfather was one of the first christain priests in Abeokuta yet he married about 3 wives

we are awaiting the weddings of homosexuals in African society
When did I say it was an achievement? I'm saying that I have nothing against polygamy as you wrongly claimed you keep on trying to make it seem like i'm pandering towards western views when infact my views are from an African pov
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:41pm On Oct 06, 2021
theTranscriber:
you just posted links for posting sake cheesy

both the links support my view

they say *homosexuality is not alien to Africans*

but I say *"yes they are not alien,but they were never seen as normal"*

the Igbo female husband's stuff was just a way to protect women as far as I read
they did not practice homosexuality
Where did they say it was a taboo as you claim? It may not have been normal in the sense that most people weren't like them but they were there and weren't considered weird or out of place and it definitely wasn't taboo

And what do you mean by it was to survive? Survive what and who?
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:35pm On Oct 06, 2021
mtisTheQubit:
did the gay folks marry cheesy grin
I'm not actually sure about gay marriage in pre colonial socieities I know of gay intercourse in pre colonial socieites but for anything else is a blank spot for me
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:34pm On Oct 06, 2021
vankelvin:
you are already a waste of time so I can't waste your time in anyway.

But please, I abeg of you, stop littering the page with your plenty rubbish. Allow us some peace of mind today..

Let's experience some level of sanity on the page today.
Go and read the links I posted and search about Igbo female husbands I will do some research on the Akan people and i'll get back to you no one will rest today till you get sense by force angry
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:33pm On Oct 06, 2021
mtisTheQubit:
Abohboy my guy get a girlfriend....dont let a dude screw ya stuff grin i know all this mumbling is to justify ya stuff but it no gonna help .. Pushing folks to accept gayism just alienates them. so stop dragging africa culture to make butt screwing an advancement broh grin
I'm in the process of doing that and why would I let a dude touch my bum that shit digusts me but it is something that was accepted by those in pre colonial African socieites and in any case we should live in a society of live and let live as long as it isn't actually vile or evil
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:32pm On Oct 06, 2021
theTranscriber:
just watch closely
the guy would soon say polygamy was never accepted in African society

just because dem whites don't like it

the west are really crazy
they make polygamy a crime but LGBTQ is legal
that's what happens when a too much liberty country like the US is world power

why can't the us go talk the homosexuality trash with Saudi Arabia their main ally?

why disturbing African countries?
See this is your problem you assume my views are based on a western pov I believe in polygamy my great grandfather practiced polygamy so how could I be against it? My views are of African origin and culture it is you who is blinded by the whites and the west not me
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:31pm On Oct 06, 2021
theTranscriber:
I can't see the links

I solely said yoruba
go back to my posts

I've been asking for 3 posts in a row

where are the links?
I stg this is the third and last fucking time that i'm posting these links if you still can't get them then I don't know it's just nairaland being special

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23808346/

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/sep/09/being-gay-african-history-homosexuality-christianity

Now after reading those go and look into the Igbo practice of 'female husbands' where women married other women it's okay you will lose this argument today and see how wrong you are
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:26pm On Oct 06, 2021
mtisTheQubit:
So my guy ya moved to foreign lands an caught new practices...Please i beg dont assume all folks are in to that stuff..don listen to white man..even in America the number is below 15% ...yes the U.S.A
It has nothing to do with western culture my views are from African religion and culture why do you believe so strongly that it is of western origin when i've posted links to disprove it but for whatever reason no one here has bothered to read a basic article
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:24pm On Oct 06, 2021
theTranscriber:
I told you to bring anyone in "YORUBALAND"
I know you can read

now you're lying
the Muslim and Christian traders never saw homosexuality in the common people of the place

you're fooling yourself alone

kings could do basically anything they wanted and you know that well
I'm talking about Uganda and Rwanda in this situation and you never solely talked about yorubaland if you cared about in Yorubaland you would have read the links that i've given you twice now but clearly you're too fucking thick to click on a fucking link and read
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:22pm On Oct 06, 2021
vankelvin:
[b]

Trash detected, successfully swept, collected and thrown into the dusbin.
Go and do some research you clearly haven't bothered to so until you do we'll keep on running in circles you're wasting both of our time
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:20pm On Oct 06, 2021
mtisTheQubit:
dude i think ya confusing stuff here..incest is a taboo so is homosexuality...lemme ask you..some Greeks practiced homosexuality so we say Greek culture accepted that
Incest is a taboo but homosexuality isn't idc about the Greeks we're talking about African culture and religion
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:19pm On Oct 06, 2021
vankelvin:
Something that is not frowned upon is openly accepted true or false?

Yes, some people were doing it secretely but it was/is not part of our culture so stop all these balderdash you are spewing out here cool cool
True if it isn't frowned upon then it is accepted by the populace

It wasn't done secretly though it is a practice that was at the time known by the people and it wasn't frowned upon so there was no reason to do it in secret and since when was sexuality a cultural concept? It was there it was never taboo and it was normal for people to practice it unlike what you and a lot of other people are claiming
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:16pm On Oct 06, 2021
theTranscriber:
give me a common man

you know kings are different and can do whatever they like
Oh so now you're changing the basis you need huh? You told me to bring evidence of ANYONE in the past who did it openly without stigma and now you;re chaning again well unfortunately I can't bring up a common man who practiced it because it wasn't unique or even special so why would they remember the names of those who did it?

If it was a taboo you don't think they'd have recorded the names of those few who practiced it openly? You didn't think of that now did you, it was a practice that was normal and was allowed to be practiced freely in most parts of Africa so those who did it weren't really remembered as special only reason why the kings and queens in Uganda and Rwanda are remembered is because they were the first of royal families to do it and because people from abroad like Muslim and Christian traders found out and they thought it weird that there was no stigma or discrimination against those who practiced it
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:12pm On Oct 06, 2021
theTranscriber:
that's what the guy doesn't understand
some people also practiced incest and it was a taboo

but since the white man said incest is bad he says it's bad too

bloody fool

homosexuality was never accepted in African society
Incest has always been bad but homosexuality hasn't it isn't up for argument go and read the links I said then go and do more research it was never a taboo in most parts of Africa and i'm still waiting for you to bring evidence for your claims
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:07pm On Oct 06, 2021
Just30:
grin grin grin

Your girlfriend will catch you... Better delete your search history
cheesy
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:06pm On Oct 06, 2021
vankelvin:
[b]

The fact that some few people were practicing same sex in the past does not mean it is/was part of our culture. It doesn't mean such practice was accepted..

Mention just one African tribe that openly adored same sex as part of their traditions? mention just one Tribe.
Does it have to be adored? I'm saying it was never taboo or frowned upon they were just there living their life as normal

And I only told you about the kings and queens in Uganda and Rwanda who practiced homosexuality
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:05pm On Oct 06, 2021
theTranscriber:
where are the links?

you're just talking rubbish
I posted them before here they are again

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23808346/

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/sep/09/being-gay-african-history-homosexuality-christianity

Now after reading those go and look into the Igbo practice of 'female husbands' where women married other women it's okay you will lose this argument today and see how wrong you are
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:04pm On Oct 06, 2021
theTranscriber:
where are the links?


they were free but looked down upon

it was a taboo
a great taboo
I posted them go and look through the last four pages they were never looked down upon you asked for an example use this

Another generative Yoruba concept is adodi, plural of ado, indicating a man who erotically loves other men. In one pataki, Yemayá travels to a land filled only with adodi, where she falls in love with an ado. In another, she divorces her husband Orula, whom she discovers is an ado, though variants of this legend say that Orula left Yemayá for the male orisha Ogún
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:03pm On Oct 06, 2021
theTranscriber:
you are talking nonesense

Africans never loved homosexuality

you can take that anywhere
Go and read the links then come back to me you haven't provided a single source for your beliefs and i've provided three if you can't argue with evidence then stfu
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:02pm On Oct 06, 2021
This discussion is staining my search history
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 12:02pm On Oct 06, 2021
theTranscriber:
you've been reading rubbish information
I gave you links did you even bother to read them? My information is from scholars and babalawos and I will tell you for free that you don't know more then they do
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 11:58am On Oct 06, 2021
mtisTheQubit:
i will not judge you my man...bythe way i also know someone who is gay but am just telling to stop practicing white man stuff
It's not a white man thing it was here before they came, we knew about it before they came and we never had stigma against it before they came all this stigma came with the white man
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 11:57am On Oct 06, 2021
vankelvin:
[b]

Guy, you are behaving as if someone stepped on your tail.... Are you one of them?

Those LGBTQ guys hiding, let them hide. Is that one your problem?
My problem is Africans being unaware of their past history, culture and religion to believe that they were demonized in the past is wrong

I don't care what the topic is if Africans are reciting their history or culture wrong through sheer ignorance I will attack it
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 11:56am On Oct 06, 2021
theTranscriber:
that is not gay or transgender

that's just saying the deity represents both genders

I'm still waiting for Yoruba poems that celebrates homosexuality
I'm awaiting the historical figure that was LGB whatever you call it
I gave you some posts in yoruba culture and religion showing homosexuality go and read them then come back to me

And it doesn't have too celebrate it does it? I said it was tolerant of it and they were able to freely practice it
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 11:52am On Oct 06, 2021
mtisTheQubit:
again Africa culture encouraged man to be man..not p..sies ...
Being gay doesn't make you a pussy now does it?
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 11:51am On Oct 06, 2021
mtisTheQubit:
homosexuality is not natural my friend...am not telling you not to practice but just saying its not natural...even animals knows that
I don't practice it but I know some who do and I can tell you it's natural

You tried to use animals as a point without realizing that animals are also gay

there've been gay dolphins, gay lions, gay monkeys, gay leopards we've seen it all in all shapes and forms across nature whether you like it or not it's natural
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 11:50am On Oct 06, 2021
theTranscriber:
you're saying rubbish
can you point to any historical figure that was gay?
can you point to such in any Yoruba poem or folk song?

it has always been looked down on even before the Europeans came


stop defending rubbish
I personally don't believe in Abrahamic religions
I have read a lot of African history
homosexuality was ALWAYS looked down on
Logun ede is a yoruba deity that was transgender and I promise you there's stories and music about him go and look for it.

Now read these articles and educate yourself

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23808346/

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/sep/09/being-gay-african-history-homosexuality-christianity

Now after reading those go and look into the Igbo practice of 'female husbands' where women married other women it's okay you will lose this argument today and see how wrong you are
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 11:47am On Oct 06, 2021
mtisTheQubit:
you keep on dragging the Bible in your discussion. We talking about African culture here..an yes the guy who translated King james was a white dude...
I'm just telling you the religion that majority of Africans on this forum practice and the version that they read was written by a gay person i'm just killing that point that anyone wants to use before it can be used but if you want to talk African culture from here on out by all means I can do that
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 11:45am On Oct 06, 2021
mtisTheQubit:
Now they are blaming homosexuality on Africa..the white man is really smart grin
Who's blaming homosexuality on anyone? It's a natural thing that was everywhere the view of other cultures on it is different though
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 11:45am On Oct 06, 2021
theTranscriber:
I have no business with king James whatever and the Bible

Africans society have always seen homosexuality as abnormal
That's false there's quite literally a transgender deity in the yoruba religion who passes from both male to female throughout the year and has sexual relations with both male and females whenever they switch does that not tell you that they had a concept of gender fluidity in the past?
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 11:44am On Oct 06, 2021
mtisTheQubit:
gayism was an still is a taboo in my society..maybe yours its open style...good luck then cheesy
Your society must be very small because in every single major African empire homosexuality wasn't frowned upon and was allowed to be practiced openly from Rwanda to Burundi to Buganda to Oyo to Aro to Nri to Fon to Asante to Dahomey to Ghana to Kongo to Zulu doesn't matter where

If you bothered to make a few searches or just read about pre colonial African views on gender and sex you'd have a better understanding
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by Abohboy: 11:41am On Oct 06, 2021
Just30:
30% is not possible even in the most homosexual capital of this world..
It is possible but unlikely my estimate is on average 2-7% of the population but the numbers could be a lot higher

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