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No

Never keep secrets from ur hubby, rule no 1.

Record him on ur mobile & tell him u will play 2 his wife.

Report to d mgt, if he persists.

No

Divorce d woman.

My goodness! Lack of self control!

In this day & age of sexually transmitted diseases!

Divorce her!

I commend u 4 giving your wife monthly allowance.

The money is too small that is, why she is complaining.

Find out from her hw much she wants. Then, reach a compromise.

Yes!

This cannot be real.

The woman wants to get pregnant by ur friend & give 2 her hubby.

After 4 yrs of marriage, she must hv bn advised to "da ogbon si oro ara re".

But there is consequences 4 ur friend & her.

Don't do it. Adultery is wrong!

Prefer my mum!

In 9ja, dy wd say, she killed her hubby.

Have daily hour with them.

A time to talk, listen to them & subtletly train them.

Find out their talents & spend ur money on activities to improve that talent.

For instance, if one of ur kids loves to sings. Don't waste money and send dm to Basketball Club. Enrol dm in Singing clubs. Make dm join d church & school choir. Find out abt local singing competitions and enrol dm.

Good luck as we discover our kids!

Dear Austin,

I will advise u like my broda.

One thing is 4 sure, ur son is still ur son.

Pls don't take that woman back in ur life. A woman like that, cn kill u.

But, be a father to your son.

What does our heavenly father do 4 us? Do it 4 him.

Provide for him. Make arrangements to have him, if u cn, every weekend. Get to know him. This baby is innocent and was nt asked 2 be born by both of u. Don't punish him 4 his mother's mistakes.

Forgive ur wife so that, u cn move on with ur life.

If u don't forgive, unforgiveness tends to hold people in bondage and u might miss a good woman. Cuz u r still thinking all women r like ur wife.

To d women that, give ur children to d wrong father, there are consequences waiting 4 u in d future. It is one of d worst things u cn do 2 a man. U r laughing now but wait, we will c.

Austin, I pray God will heal ur wounds & give u d flesh of ur flesh and bones of ur bones. Amen!

U r welcome Dellynash.

Afterall, d bible says, d older women shd counsel d younger women.

Holla anytime!

Peace in ur home in Jesus's name!

I am against abortion.

Thy shall not kill!

Ok now.

@Poster,

A matured man shd be supporting himself at 32 years!

He will be tied to his parents apron forever.

Forget him!

Pray for another "real" man.

I hv 2 generalise & say, 9ja men find it hard to forgive an adulterous woman.

I have adjusted my life with d arrival of my kids.

Making money is nt that imp to me anymore. I work as a self employed person so that, I can pick my kids from school, take dm to swimming, football clubs or any club, they r interested.

I like to teach them things and nt a childminder.

My kids first and then, whatever I hv left, I spend on myself.

Well, I got d man I aspired to have.

Tall dark & handsome Yoruba guy.

Educated to degree level.

Honest, reliable & man of integrity. Hardworking. Someone who wanted more in life.

After I married him, God blessed me even more, and made him a born again Christian.

He is nt perfect but I love him just d way he was created.

This topic shd be taught in schools in year 7 or JSS 1.

Google it & ur will find some interesting articles to give her.

Look for a woman to speak to her about hygiene, staying away from boys, etc.

Good luck!

None.

There is no human 3rd party in my relationship.

When my hubby "mess up", and he will always do since he is not perfect, I report him to the God who made him. Jehovah. He has never failed to talk to him on my behalf.

The day a married starts reporting her hubby to her mum or sibling, u r reducing d respect dy will hv for your hubby.

When u reconcile with ur hubby, dy will nt forget d incident.

My family holds my hubby with high respect & I intend it to stay that way.

Family r too nosy anyway.

Educate our daughters! Some men r paedophiles.

Train a child in d way she shd go & when she is old she will nt depart from it.

Try d good old trick of scaring d brains out of our daughters. It worked 4 me. My mum used 2 hammer it into our heads that, if u get pregnant, she will throw u out of her house. I was scared.
Also, tell daughters nt to sit beside drivers.

No houseboys.

No male lesson teachers.

Prayer to God really.

@Poster,

2 months is too early to give up.

U hv to be like Queen Esther & nt like Queen Vashti.

Ur home shd be a place where ur hubby can run to.

When he comes home, NEVER nag him. Nagging means, saying, why r u home late, why did u leave ur clothes on d floor & repeating them over and over again.

Patience is important.

Making love is important. U were created 4 ur hubby. NEVER deny him sex.

That friend needs to leave. Call your hubby when he has eaten & tell him that, u want d friend to go.

If you have smth imp to say to ur hubby, cook for him and when he is full, tell him without shouting.

First year of marriage is always like that. You are learning to know each other.

Best Advise that, I had from my sis in law's mum was that, do not have any friends especially best friends. They end up taking ur hubby.

Make ur hubby ur best friend.

My first pregnancy! Wow! Long time ago.

Anyway, no one told me expectant mothers had to exercise daily by walking. My daughter was overdue cuz I did nt walk according to my aunty.

I took her advice with my 2nd and 3rd and she was right.

I was nervous cuz I was overdue.

Also, another mistake I made which I promised myself that, it will never happen again was, I heard other mums saying dy wanted "caesarean section", I said it & ended up with it.

Women, be careful, what u confess with ur mouth during labour.

Caesaerean was painful!

A day's labour.

I learnt a lot from my first pregnancy.

I glowed during pregnancy. I had a craving for "dancing". Not food but I could dance all day long.

My hubby was by my side. Great man.

@babeisme,

It is nice to see a woman selling cars.

What is d best car from d US for ladies? 1million. Auto. Air con. Low mileage.

Used to British cars.

@Poster,

Good info.

@Hello,

Can you install solar panels, an inverter & battery?

1000 watts in total.

For Abuja property?

Pls post how much you charge?

Urgent!

What is your office details? Nt sure if u have posted it before.

Why is d govt land double d price of d private sellers?

Will do.

Is Chida Hotel d one owned by d owner of Chisco Transport?

Which one is it? Do u know Mr Hakir?

How much can you get a brand new 3 bed bungalow in Jikowyi or Karu area.