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Properties / Re: Renting In Abuja Made Easy! by abujabooks(f): 12:13am On Nov 11, 2008
How much can u get a brand new 3 bed bungalow in Jikowyi or Karu area?

Urgent.

Office details as well pls.
Properties / Re: Houses For Sale In Abuja by abujabooks(f): 12:09am On Nov 11, 2008
How much can you get a brand new 3 bed bungalow in Jikowyi or Karu area? Urgent.
Family / Re: What Is Best About Your Marriage Life? by abujabooks(f): 12:02am On Nov 11, 2008
My husband is my best friend. I tell him everything.

When I am away from him, I feel like a part of me is missing.

He spoils me rotten! Anything I want he buys, except for my X5. Still waiting for that jeep from him.

He is my mentor. I respect his advice.

We have similar hobbies. He loves football & I have grown to watch Liverpool play for d whole 90mins & enjoy it.

We complement each other.
Family / Re: Is It Right For Parents To Show Affection Openely? by abujabooks(f): 11:52pm On Nov 10, 2008
Affection such as, holding hands, hugging, kissing are fine, in front of d kids.

Massaging each other's shoulders and feet are fine as well.

Everything else are meant for later!
Family / Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by abujabooks(f): 11:48pm On Nov 10, 2008
I think it is wrong for married couples to sleep in separate beds.

Because, you get body warmth from each other.

Also, if u argued before going to bed, after sleeping on the same bed and your body touches each other, u can forget d trivial differences.

Sleeping on separate beds, u will end up as friends rather than lovers, after 2 decades of marriage.

You will feel alone and this can encourage adultery. A woman was created for the man and her place is next to him.
Technology Market / Re: Cheapest Inverter ever 24hrs Electricity, imported... by abujabooks(f): 10:20pm On Nov 09, 2008
@Blezzing,

I believe u don't have a business. People have asked you for your office address & you have cleverly evaded the question.

Whoever buys from you, I pity them.

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Religion / Re: Who is your Favorite Popular Pastor or Preacher in Nigeria? by abujabooks(f): 2:43am On Nov 05, 2008
If famous, then it is Pastor E. Adeboye.

My Pastor is a man of God.
Religion / Re: Your Favourite Bible Verse by abujabooks(f): 2:27am On Nov 05, 2008
Blessed am I in d city & blessed am I in d country. Deut 28
Religion / Re: Fasting, God's Way by abujabooks(f): 2:25am On Nov 05, 2008
Fasting! Somethings do not go away except thru fasting.
Religion / Re: Have You Praised Him Yet, Today? by abujabooks(f): 2:21am On Nov 05, 2008
Thank U God,
Religion / Re: Benefits Of Patience by abujabooks(f): 2:19am On Nov 05, 2008
Thx
Religion / Re: To Tithe or Not to Tithe? by abujabooks(f): 2:18am On Nov 05, 2008
Tithe!
Religion / Re: Pst Chris Oyakhilome And T.b Joshua Are Secret Agent Of The Devil by abujabooks(f): 2:14am On Nov 05, 2008
Holy spirit shd tell us d truth.
Events / Re: Ladies Only: Planning A Wedding by abujabooks(f): 1:21am On Nov 05, 2008
@Amakaone,

U r very informed about wedding.
Family / Re: My Fiancé Is Tied To His Mum’s Apron Strings! by abujabooks(f): 1:16am On Nov 05, 2008
The man needs to detach himself.

I don't envy you.
Family / Re: How Much Money Should A Lady Contribute towards Family Upkeep? by abujabooks(f): 12:58am On Nov 05, 2008
A woman shd be able to buy food for the house.
Family / Re: What Are Your Views On Divorce? by abujabooks(f): 12:44am On Nov 05, 2008
Divorce is NOT an option!
Family / Re: Is It By Force To Stay With Ur Inlaws by abujabooks(f): 12:41am On Nov 05, 2008
She shd not stay with her in laws!
Family / Re: Does by abujabooks(f): 12:37am On Nov 05, 2008
Yes!
Family / Re: Should Parents Go Through Contents Of Their Children's Mobile Phones? by abujabooks(f): 12:32am On Nov 05, 2008
Yes!

I ask 4 it & check it.

I have my daughter's password for her email. I check it regularly cuz she is in secondary school.

I know what teenage boys r like.
Family / Re: Marraige Pressure by abujabooks(f): 12:29am On Nov 05, 2008
Find someone u love & marry. Don't be pressured into marrying a non graduate.

Education is important!
Family / Re: Reasons Why You Should Never Leave Your Kids With A Househelp/domestic by abujabooks(f): 12:14am On Nov 05, 2008
@Poster,

U r very right.

I don't trust ANYONE around my kids.

Even with helps, I pick my kids from school myself. I ask them questions about the aupairs or househelp. Did she slap, shout or do anything to them? What happened d day b/4? Do dy like her? If no, d househelp is out of my house.

I taught them about what they should do if anyone tries to touch them sexually. Including Uncles. Most sexual abuse on children was committed by people we know & trust.

I cannot leave my baby with an househelp.

A baby that cannot tell me what has happened.

If I go out, my baby comes with me with d househelp.
Family / Re: Is Marriage Compulsory? by abujabooks(f): 12:01am On Nov 05, 2008
Not compulsory.
Family / Re: Do You Support Periodic Leave In Marriage? by abujabooks(f): 11:58pm On Nov 04, 2008
That is separation.

Not a good idea!
Family / Re: Pls I Need An Advice, 2 Weeks Preg. And My Hubby Does Not Want The Babe Now by abujabooks(f): 11:55pm On Nov 04, 2008
Against killing your baby!
Family / Re: A First Time Mother Looking For A Good Hospital And Baby Stuff by abujabooks(f): 11:48pm On Nov 04, 2008
First time mums, safe deliveries.

Pls don't use Johnson baby products, they cause eczema on black skin. Use olive oil to rub d baby's body and bath with Dudu Osun soap. You will love ur baby's body with these.

After 6 months, u can change to whatever soap or oil.

I shop in US for my kids. Cheaper than d UK.

Boots is a haven for mums to be. Look out for Buy 1 Get 1 free wipes.

Mothercare is too expensive.

Next Baby clothes are the best.
Family / Re: IF U R IN MY SHOE WHAT WOULD U DO? by abujabooks(f): 11:30pm On Nov 04, 2008
Just be her friend. Sounds like, she has be hurt too many times.

Be yourself. Treat her d way u will treat d Queen of England.

If she is yours, u will get her.
Family / Re: At What Age Would You Allow Your Kids To Use A Cell Phone? by abujabooks(f): 11:25pm On Nov 04, 2008
My 9 year old has a mobile phone.

It depends on d maturity of d child.
Family / Re: Would You Buy Designer Clothes For Your Kid? by abujabooks(f): 11:13pm On Nov 04, 2008
I have 3 kids and I will not buy designer clothes.

I buy quality clothes from NEXT clothing, Marks & Spencer and others.

Kids outgrow their footwear & clothing like no man's biz.

Kids' clothes are expensive compared to adults anyway.

I am an investor and I don't waste money on liabilities.
Family / Re: Confirmed! My Neighbour Is Shagging Her Houseboy! by abujabooks(f): 10:31pm On Nov 04, 2008
Ha!

Adultery is wrong.

Nko ti ko da ko da! Period! No excuses!

She can move to where her hubby's job is.

Why shd a married woman who's hubby comes home at d wkend, have a hunk 4 an houseboy! D temptation is too much!

The yorubas would say that, what you don't want to eat, you shd not stiff it. Interpreters!
Family / Re: Going To Nigeria To Meet His Parents With His Daughter (from The Ex-wife)? by abujabooks(f): 10:24pm On Nov 04, 2008
@Udode,

Give your boyfriend a chance. If a Nigerian man wants to take u home to 9ja to meet his parents, he is serious.

Don't worry about it. In laws love white wives in 9ja.

Advise, learn to kneel down with your knees for people older than you & they will love totally.

Respect is a big thing in 9ja. Don't disrespect people. Take presents like shoes and clothes for your dad in law to be. The others give what you can.

Your boyfriend's child is their child & they will love her.

Do u love the child? If u do. Then, don't worry.

I felt anxious when I went to 9ja to meet my in laws, even though, I am black 9ja girl.
Family / Re: What Do You Do To Keep Your Husband Interested In You by abujabooks(f): 10:10pm On Nov 04, 2008
I dress to kill.
Make sure that, I look good when we are going out & he is always proud to say, meet my wife.

Cook different dishes. Tell him it is for him.

When he is sick, I take care of him like a baby.

I spend at least an hour a day with him, talking about our dreams & us.

Always sit close to him anywhere we go. Including church. Talk sweetly into his ears.

Pray for him always.
Look for business & things for him to invest in.

Identified everywhere he is weak & made sure that, I am strong in those areas to help him.

Make sure that, our home is a peaceful place he can run to, with me waiting for him.

That is how I keep my hubby interested in me.

B/4 I forget, I let him know that, there r other men interested in me anyday he decides not to be interested. Lol!

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