D pastor is not a man of God but belongs to d devil.

A paedophile [a man who likes to sleep with young children] who shd be locked up!

Any police officers in d house.

Lol.

Divorce my hubby.

Erase my mum from my life. Time will heal d broken trust but I will speak to her eventually.

I will ask him to sit down so that, we can discuss.

I will tell him that, this baby is a gift from God. Even though, it might be a mistake. But, God never makes a mistake in giving us a child.

Tell him that, I will NEVER have an abortion. Even though, money may be tight right now, but God that gave us this baby will make a way.

Also, this may be a test from God.

A lot of my friends who had surprises from God in terms of babies said, they were blessed tremendously after the birth of that child.

@Poster,

Pls do not abort cuz ur hubby said so. Remember d Judgement Day, u will be asked why u did it? You & not your hubby. If you don't agree, it will not take place.

Peace!

I will not marry the fiance.

I will cut or erase the friend out of my life.

I will report my sister to the family or my other siblings. But, from that time, our relationship has strained 4 life.
I will still talk to her but on a hi basis.

Once u break my trust, u have lost your chance in my life.

If u marry your fiance, I pity the heartache u will have.

Your decision your life!

Tell her u want an answer in the next 1 month.

Most women should be able to give you an aswer immediately, if they want to marry you.

But, if I have another man that I really love, on the side. And my man is not proposing and another guy is proposing, I will use delay tactics & say, I'm thinking about it.

While I was dating, I told the other guys who proposed to me, NO. Cuz I knew they were not d guy for me.

When my hubby proposed, it was an instant, YES darling!

If d bachelor eve is used positively. A time for the married guys to give GOOD advice to d groom to be! And they have a good time eating & drinking.

I believe in transparency in marriage. I will tell my hubby that, I have purchased additional life insurance.

Never. No.

My paycheck my money.

Yes. Lack of money can lead to divorce.
A woman that stays with a man who used to be rich and now, poor, LOVES d man.

I am married & I know that, temporary setback in terms of money, can definitely strain the marriage.

If you are not married & u have money issues, u can return to your parents' house until you sort out your money problems.

When you are married with kids, it is not that easy. You will want to stay in d marriage until u can't anymore.

I don't agree with keeping my maiden name.

Without sex in a marriage, it is dead.

You should have been a man and not allow your family to bully you into marrying her. I pity your wife though. You have wasted her time & resources.

If u r young marry a young person like yourself.

The reason a young woman marries an old man is for his money.

Forgive her.

Can divorce her on grounds of adultery.

2 choices.

His life his decision.

My maternal Grandma ~ we had a special name for her.

She taught me how to make egusi stew d Ijebu way. I loved her. She is dead now. She used to come and stay with us when I was young!

I miss her!

@Seun,

You are young. So I can understand some of your comments.

@Everyone,

Over our married, I have learnt to ignore most of his bad habits. In d first few years of our marriage, I used to complain about his lack of organisation, but I realised that, it is better to compromise. I have my bad habits too.

Enjoying this thread.

I use dm. They are excellent. Anyway, my account officer is.

If he moves to another company, I am moving with him.

I miss home all d time.

Even though, I was there last month and I go home at least once a year.

I don't do the family presents "thingy". Family can milk u dry in 9ja.

Tell him to try counselling!

No.

14 days after her period!

Never.

Everything about him seems right.

You are on cloud 9 when around him.

Fell in love 18 yrs ago with my husband and still in love 2day!

Love stands d test of time!

Am still crazy about him!

Not bad!

I love u.

3 words.

If a woman nags them!

All women are different.

Ask her to tell you 10 things she likes and focus on that.

Find out what her love language is!

You are wrong!

Look in the right place next time!

A man that hits is a Coward. Should be locked up!

Majority do not work.

For it to work, honesty and trust is d key.

@Poster,
Run! Ditch him!

I have worked with women fleeing domestic violence here in London. Your guy has all the characteristics of violent men.

I am not sure, whether he has not already started slapping your face and pulling you aggressively.

You can still find a man that, can trust you.

If you marry him, he will NOT change but get worse. If you believe he will change, you have smth else coming.

Fast and tell God to give you, your own husband. God did it for me and He can do it for you!

Good luck!

From a Sista!

@Poster,

Suppose the househelp was your daughter & ur caught d security guard frolicking her. What will you do?

Personally, I will sack them both.

The yorubas have a saying dat, "any1 who lies, will steal and prostitute". I can't stand liars.

A man who does not have self control over his manhood cannot stay in my house. He may rape. Pls, note d word, "may".

I am a Christian. I believe in forgiveness but we should not compromise on some important things.

Agreed! Your wife is heavily pregnant & needs help with d gate and d home. But, it is beta 2 b safe than sorry!

Good luck.

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