MyProblem: Hello house, I'm in a little problem and I have no idea how I should go about it, I'll appericiate any vital contributions I can get here, thanks.
I am a 24 year old guy living with my uncle who is like a father to me, he is an ordained Reverend tho he isn't practicing, he works with an international missionary organization where he leads the Nigerian chapter of the organization. After graduating, I joined him in the organization and have spent 6 years working with the organization, I am the leader of the Lagos chapter and my uncle totally trusts me, I have been faithfully carrying out my duties for the last 6 years without any problems. During the course of my job, I have had various advances from female colleagues who clearly wants something with me, but i have always managed to keep myself intact without falling for their games, the organization does not allow relationships with colleagues who serve in the same center, tho it is non profit and non-salary, which means we are not being paid, I remotely run my company where I earn about 350k on average monthly, so I am very fine serving in the organization as it does not clash with my role in my company.
So about 2 years ago, we had this Nigerian lady who was transfered from the Indian branch of the organization to Lagos to serve, and I picked her up that day, and we blended, we got talking and we soon became good friends, but on the way, I found out that I was feeling something for her, but I didn't let her know or show it, she was 5 years older than I am, but I'm her superior in the organization, she respects me and is a good lady, so one night, she confessed over the phone that she has feelings for me, I told her it was mutual but I have a girlfriend whom I love already.
During the covid lockdown, the lady somehow got my uncle's permission to stay in the house with me, my uncle is never around as he travels frequently, so I'm home alone most times, I knew this was going to be trouble, but there was nothing I could do, so I stayed behind, and one thing led to another, I found myself cheating on my girlfriend with this new lady, she was a virgin and was looking to settle down, I was not even thinking about setting down now, not to talk of with one 5 years older than I am, we had a lot of romance but never sex as I didn't want to deflower her if I knew I was not going to end up with her. I was not happy about my new cheating habit but this lady is pretty, tho not as pretty as my girlfriend, but she is well endowed every where, more than my girlfriend. This lady tried to persuade me to marry her but I refused and decided to end everything with her, and asked her not to mention anything to my uncle, else it will break the trust he has in me since I flouted the organizations rule.
After I ended it, she left the house for sometime and returned almost a year later after I cut contact with her, I knew that there was a possibility for trouble again, so I started preparing to go get my place and totally avoided anything that would leave us alone together, but one night, a mutual friend came over, and we had a great conversation together, after he left, the mood was still a happy one, and I continued to talk and joke with this lady, one thing led to another and I found myself ontop of her once again, I didn't penetrate her as it was too tight and painful for her, but my joystick was brushed on her veejay many times but I didn't cum, she told me she intentionally initiated it as a last time and it was never going to happen again, after that day, I began to avoid her again.
Few weeks later, she began falling ill randomly and said she missed her period, I was scared but hoped for the best but the illness kept coming, so I took her to 3 clinics and was dumbfounded when all the pregnancy tests came out positive, I explained to the doctor that I didn't cum and I didn't penetrate her but he said my precum can contain semen and it was enough to impregnate her if it finds it's way in, I didn't know what to do but I told her we could never keep the baby, so we found a pharmacy who finally agreed to help us take it out, it was 7 weeks old already, but we were successful after spending close to 80k to make sure she was fine, we both agreed that no one must know what happened, we prayed and asked God for forgiveness and that was when she revealed to me that she told my uncle about what we had before, I was mad at her cos I saw a change in the way my uncle looked at me, plus, he now gives me full privacy, he has not been inside my room for more than 4 months now which is unlike him as he comes in when he needs to tell me something, I decided to let it go and pretend that I didn't know he knew about my atrocious acts.
To cut the story short, yesterday, this lady called me and started saying things I didn't understand, saying we need to confess our sins to my uncle, bla bla bla, I just couldn't believe my ears, like, I thought we were over this already? She was saying stuffs like she doesn't have peace, bla bla, I told her telling God was more than enough, but she was saying strange things, threatening to tell my uncle about it as her mind was not at peace, this is almost 3 weeks after she took the drugs and everything was flushed, I don't know what to do, I have gotten a house already and want to move by the end of the month all because of this, but how do I manage to face my uncle and family with this terrible act, I told her that she was really crazy to allow us compound our sin by taking the baby out and then still confessing to man, plus, how can I face all that embarrassment for a sex I never did or enjoy?
please any advice will be appreciated.
Lalasticlala please don't move this to the front page, my girlfriend is a nairalander please.
Ambush her. Go to your uncle first. Confess everything to him, ask for his forgiveness. Then absolutely cut off that girl. Cut her off completely. Block her line and all social media contacts. She is evil. She is using you. She is actively destroying your line of trust with your uncle. She is angling for your position in the NGO. I pray that one day men will wake up and become wise. Haba, I am personally disappointed with you.
Anytime you see women, you completely loose your senses! So, terrible.
ThumbzTNA: The Igbos in the South South (Rivers and Delta) should be left where they are, their presence in the SS increases igbo influence. The Fulani are not relegated only to the North West and neither are the Yoruba to the South West, so Igbo shouldn't be different
As for the Igbo in Kogi, Benue, Cross River and Edo, their case is different. They should be added back to the already existing igbo states in the SE. They wield little to no influence in the states they have been attached to and they are virtually overlooked by their various state governments
Here you miss it. If there needs to be another addition to the already existing states in South east, then states like Kogi, Benue can shed landmass plus people plus a little addition from Enugu and ebonyi to form another state for south east, or Igbo speaking areas in Delta, Edo, Rivers can come together with parts of Anambra state to form another state.
That is what you call addition. If we are not getting more landmass, then it is an exercise in furtility.
ThumbzTNA: The proposed Etiti state is made up of parts of all the 5 existing states of the South East
Orumba South, Orumba North (Anambra)
Awgu, Aninri, Oji River (Enugu)
Afikpo North, Afikpo South, Ivo (Ebonyi)
Ehime Mbano, Okigwe, Onuimo (Imo)
Umunneochi & Isiukwuato (Abia)
It's no news that the South East is the only region with 5 states while the other regions have 6 while the North Central and North West have 7 each. This warrants the creation of an additional state in the SE, not just for fairness but also so governance can move closer to the people. This makes a case for the creation of Etiti State from the parts of the already existing landmass of the South East.
Nonsense. Anything that is not adding landmass and or more people to Southeast is useless! Southeast has the least land. Any new state must either incoporate the Igbo's in Rivers state, Benue, Kogi, Delta, Edo or it is useless.
Wisdomkosi: BREAKING!!! Sen. Okorocha Disgraced Aboard Airpeace Passenger Flight
There was a major altercation this morning at Sam Mbakwe cargo airport involving Eze Cletus Ilomuanya, Obi of Obinugwu ancient kingdom in Orlu LGA of Imo State and Senator Rochas Okorocha, Senator representing Imo West senatorial district in the National Assembly, aboard Air Peace flight to Abuja this morning.
IGBERE TV reports that the royal father, a former chairman of Imo State as well as Southeast council of traditional rulers, accosted Senator Rochas Okorocha sitting close to him, exploding with so much rage and royal anger.
What started as a mild altercation all of a sudden snowballed into a full-fledged confrontation inside the aircraft, as the charismatic popular royal father descended on Okorocha with his walking stick. If not the timely intervention of the flight captain who rushed out when Eze Ilomuanya was hitting Okorocha with his royal walking stick to depart from his sight, the story would have been something else. The embattled former Governor was visibily rattled and shaken to his bone marrow. Okorocha was hastily relocated to another seat even as Eze Ilomuanya was heard warning him to stay away from Orlu if he truly wants peace to reign.
It may be recalled that Eze Ilomuanya was removed from office by Okorocha during his reign as Imo State governor and subsequently installed another in his place as traditional ruler. Since then, the bad blood between the duo can only be imagined.
Yusufisraelj: Look I understand you, you don't seem to get where am coming from, the woman needs to really work on building that trust/"betrayal" she has broken/created, but saying the man will not lift a finger is where I'm of a difference.
You see, what atmosphere did he create that gave her the space to only reveal her initial salary only and kept mute on the subsequent increase? What tolerance did he permit that allowed her think she was okay doing those things behind his back? Does that tell you the level of communication between them? Do you know mostly a man dictates the general well being and how a relationship should grow?
You see faults in love relationships mostly travel both ways, there are exceptions however.
Am not hating on my gender, but I'd rather focus on what I can do to create my realities, while the woman works on herself to regain that trust I will focus on things that I can do never to create that space for such stupidity on her part to thrive.
Keep blaming the man, you just cannot stop yourself. If someone is untrustworthy, must it be because of someone else. People like you may even blame Jesus for the betrayal of Judas. In your own mind, Jesus should have worked on himself to gain the trust of Judas, abi?
The woman hid her salary increase because exposing it will raise questions on what she does with the huge sum she controls! Get it into your skull, it was not the MAN'S FAULT.
Quit blaming your gender. She and her family planned the whole thing, all along, they are only sorry now because they were caught.
Learn to appreciate your gender. For your own good health.
Yusufisraelj: I understand you clearly, the challenge with your "objectivity" is that you believe most likely in disagreements that things are wrong only with the other party and not you, hence your unreasonable doubt on my gender and a change for my sex, that's being careless on your part. I've never attacked you directly, but you find joy doing that.
This leaves me with the position your are either close minded and follow the redpill narrative or have a faulty mindset on what the definition of masculinity really is. At the end your kind glory in self righteousness and not tolerant on other people's misgivings.
Real objectivity lies in what you can change as a person, without relying on anybody else, it is the ability to see how you can create your own realities without depending on anybody, and if something is wrong in a relationship, you see what you can do to improve general dynamics and health and not pass blames, and if you feel you can't handle it you walk out of that relationship.
So from your depositions that is too hard for you to handle, I now understand your position. Like I've said from inception as for me, I'll look for what I can do to change the situation where that "betrayal" can never happen again, I don't marry with the aim of divorce, hence my absolute dependency on God to show me what to do and his counsel on everything. For your info only good and submissive ladies who don't hide anything from me comes across my path, it's not my doing but there are certain things when you posses only sincere people cross your path, bkos what you know, how you handle things and your source matters a great deal.
Enjoy your weekend.
He still keeps blaming his gender! Na una type for challenge Jesus for not selecting even one woman among his twelve apostles. Your mind is completely closed against your gender! To you every marital issues must be the fault of the man!
That is where you are wrong! The person who betrayed the trust is the woman and not the man, the person who crossed the line is the woman and not the man. So, the ONUS is on the woman to WORK HARD and restore the broken trust and love. The man does not need to lift a damn finger!
That is where you are wrong, quit blaming your gender, if you are really a man.
Did you see any part of the post where anybody from the family blamed him! STOP hating yourself and your gender. If you are truly a man, God knows why he made you one.
The woman needs to work hard indeed to restore the broken trust. You don't even understand the extent of the betrayal and lies.
You are not invested enough in the story to understand the dept of the betrayal.
The man needs God guidance to forgive this, not the slanted oblique ideas of people like you!
Yusufisraelj: I get your perspective of not trying to be bais and gender sensitive on certain issues, but going through your profile tells me you're a Christian let's disect this matter from our Faith.
Now Jesus speaking said - forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us; Luke 11:4
Peter speaking to church said - husband's dwell with your wife according to knowledge; 1 pet 3:7
By your predisposition you said that was betrayal on the woman's part and I say it's lack of trust, with the following assertions.
1. A woman who trust her husband will have nothing to hide from him.
2. A woman who trust her husband will not think anything she does to her family will be seen in a bad light to her husband.
3. A woman who trust her husband believes he will give good counsel to her hence the submission of her will and opinions to him which will be grounds for oppeness.
I have made these assertions from the following background, a man lacking wisdom (isolation God's counsel concerning a matter) has no business marrying.
That gross mistake on the wife's part can only emanate from a wrong mindset or lack of trust, it has happened, what is now the way forward;
You - it's betrayal hence divorce
What does the Bible say - a man of wisdom is hesitant to make quick judgement, he should learn to forgive and ask God to show him what to do and Grant him the knowledge he needs to up hold his marriage.
The Bible says except for the sin of sex, God does not approve Divorce, it says husband's love your wives as Christ loved the church laying down his life for her.
like I said will there be consequences for her actions; yes, but my overall objective is to bring the woman to a place where she cannot hide anything - spirits are real and seek to break homes with little misgivings, if all you think all there is to the matter is all physical, think again
That's capital offence, self-centeredness and greed on the woman's part - seek to correct that and build a marriage that last than finding faults to break your home, who will raise your kids?
Some things are becoming clear from your viewpoint right here. It is either you are a lady using a male profile here or you have a strong bias against your own gender. It has to be either of the two.
A woman hides her income from her husband, uses her income exclusively for her family, buying cars, lands and houses. Your Verdict: The man is at fault because his wife does not trust him.
Please, you may not know it but something is seriously wrong with your ability to reason objectively.
Where in the write up, did the wife accuse him of being untrustworthy as the reason for her betrayal and lies?
If trust was the issue, why then did the wife start spending her own money after being discovered? Even the father in defense of his daughter laid the blame squarely on his own feet. He blamed himself instead of the husband because he knew the daughter betrayed the husband.
My brother, go for gender reassignment surgery and become a woman. You have no business self hating your own gender. These days it is very possible to change your own gender. Or start cross dressing. But please for the sake of your own sanity stop parading yourself as a man as one of the characteristics of men is ability to reason objectively.
It is very simple, his wife has betrayed his trust and love completely.
Forgive her, divorce her thoroughly and move on. There's nothing left.
Naijalanded: An unknown young man is making serious preparations to marry a lady he literally picked from the streets. The story was shared by a Facebook user who narrated how the couple met and added some pictures as well.
“He met her homeless and hungry in the streets. She asked him for R50 to buy food. He took her, cleaned and bought her new clothes. He searched for her relatives and ask them for a hand in marriage because she already said yes but he needed permission from her elders. 29 May 2021 they will be getting married. Their wedding is going to be very big.” He wrote.
Checkout the photos below;
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She is not just a begger, she looks like a mental case, a mad woman. I am very sure that this is not love. The man like so many misguided, unsmart simpletons, thinks that because she depends on him for food, clothing and shelter that she is also in love. The mad woman is just trying to survive. Some men cannot diffrenciate survival with love.
Even, a woman opening her legs to you does not eqaute to love.
martineverest: how many Nigerians eat chocolate compared to the western countries?....it's better being exported as people of western countries prefer their own brand of chocolate.. especially Swiss,Belgian or Italian chocolate
How do you know that they prefer their own chocolate? Do they options? Are there Nigerian Chocolate in their country?
Very simple, if we start producing good quality chocolate, they will also buy our products. It is as simple as that.
Obaseki500: I have never been this confused in my entire life...
I have a girlfriend that we have been dating for 6 years now... We are not married because I was not stable financially but now things seems to be much better and next year should be the year....I reside in Ibadan so she came in last year after her education to get a job, she's a nurse and we were staying together up till now.
Sex has never been an issue between us up until December last year. We sleep on the same bed and we live in the same house but we have not had sex since December 2020 till date. She's right beside me as I type this message. Each time I go close to her, she tells me I am not entitled to sex because I have not paid her bride price. I just could not understand the sudden change in her attitude towards sex when wedding is next year.
She also locks her phone and even WhatsApp. Now, I am beginning to have doubt about marrying her.
Are you dumb, can't you get another girlfriend and also start hiding your phone?
Yusufisraelj: Lols, how I wish you knew me in person, that aside, I don't understand your perspective of what marriage is and what informs that perspective.
But if you think being vengeful is the way to go, then you miss road. The goal here is to let the woman see that her priorities were misplaced and fix the situation, will living with her be comfortable in those times; NO, but like everything you (the man) will get over it. I'd rather have a family burn out of growth and genuine love, than a house full of paybacks, will there be consequences for actions definitely, but my overall objective will be that I create a situation where she trust me absolutely and won't hide a pin.
I'm a very strategic person, I'd rather lose a battle and win the WAR, than behave like someone settling scores. Call me simp, your headache.
You have lost the battle and the war totally if you reason like this. Did the lady and her Dad claim that she did what she did because she could not trust him? I know your type. You are already insinuating that trust was the reason why she betrayed her husband. Which is why you said, if you were in the husband shoes, you would have made her have so much trust in you that she would not hide a pin. It is obvious from your mindset that your type always believes that the man is wrong no matter what. You have conditioned your mind to hate your gender and be biased against your gender!
It is shameful, you reason this way. Even the wife's father recognized that they were wrong when he caught them! But you here, an internet warrior in your internet 'wisdom' has narrowed it down to lack of trust in her husband. Your shame dey shame me! Tueh! As for me, the marriage ends the day I find out. I don't take kindly to betrayals! Certainly not from my wife.
Yusufisraelj: Mehn this is heart breaking, the wife no try at all.
Hmmm but watin man go do. What I will do in his position is not to take any action for like three months until my head clear, am not the divorce type but she go hear am small. Starting to sell the land and vehicle he bought for her was a bit premature and emotionally induced on his part, since her family all came by and she has shown remorse, he should capitalize on that to make new rules for explicit openness. Again talk is cheap, make person no jam this kind type.
Na weak men like una women dey take play joke! What is premature in retrieving his money collected under false pretenses? Is you head correct? You went to the same university with a lady, got the same degree. She is working as well as you, she may even be earning more than you, but you are the one footing all the bills dying of high blood pressure. Tell me again, what is the definition of hell? That woman never loved him! And you can quote me anywhere!
EJanni: Keeping secrets in marriage is never good but I don't see anything wrong in try to build house for her family. If she had relied on you, you would have still complained about the burden.
BehindIPOB: Soldiers actually released a video yesterday Nairaland should make uploading videos possible. for those saying the photos are fake news. But the video is too graphic to share on my YouTube channel. And Facebook might also strike u. But let me share the pics. Unknown gun men were killed in Aba by the Nigerian army. Nnamdi Kanu shouldn't have denied his men killed They also put 7 leaves in their pocket as odeshi protection. U can see Biafra emblem on the floor.
These are not unknown gun men, these are innocent people massacred by the Army!
That my girlfriend lied to me that she lost her phone mean while she did not.
I saw a post here yesterday how the guy bought his girlfriend phone she block him after he bought the phone to her, so the post motivated me to make more findings about my girlfriend phone this morning. She told me that she has lost her phone that she need new phone I bought her the phone and I gave her my sim since NCC stop Nigerians from buying new sim.
So today I use my guy phone number to call that her lost line and it was ringing I was surprised she picked the call and I pretend as if am not the one online with her I change my voice and I spoke with her I later Change my voice to my original voice and she was shock and cut the call immediately.
I was very angry with her I told her so you lied to me I ask her to return my sim and my phone , I just collected my sim and phone back and I ended the relationship. Although am bigger than the phone but I couldn't let go the phone I collect her because she deceived me.
I checked her messages so many guys were calling her with my own line and I thank God i have collected my phone back ,I once saw her with two phones she immediately deny it that day.
hope what I did was right
Note below : she started acting funny immediately I gave her the new phone.
So happy men are becoming smarter these days. Thank God.
Ekejoestar: This question keeps ringing in my head after a girl am dating for close to two months stopped picking my calls and didn't reply my text even going as far as blocking my number with the phone I gave her. And the reason why I gave her the phone was because she's complaining that her exs' are still disturbing her and her phone doesn't have the block option. Glory is her name and she is from Delta, and we never had a quarrel neither did we fought. Well I've taken back my phone though it was a hard thing for me cos I was hoping that she will come back to her senses....
Pls has anyone experienced this, you dated a girl and got her a phone and after 2 days she stopped picking ur calls neither will she reply your text,,,, Is that a sign of multi personal disorder?
The problem with most guys, is that you don't pay any attention to subtle hints in a relationship. That girl don tire of you since but because like a brute driven purely by lust you are unable to read the handwriting on the wall, the now has to block you.
If you must be in a relationship with any girl in this modern times, pay attention to hints and little details. Hype her well but spend frugally. Be wise.
That is how some young fools get married to a coded lesbian without knowing! That a girl opens leg for you doesn't mean she likes you. Pay attention to details.
heniford2: NO WAY KIMYE Kim Kardashian hoped divorce filing would ‘shock’ Kanye West & win him back but plan ‘backfired because he doesn’t care’
KIM Kardashian hoped her bombshell divorce filing would shock Kanye West into changing his ways and fixing their marriage, a source has exclusively claimed to The Sun.
But the plan backfired as Kanye doesn't appear to care and "basically rolled his eyes" - and now the couple are at a standstill as to who makes the next move, the insider added.
Kim filed for divorce in February Kim, 40 years, filed for divorce last month after six years of marriage and is seeking joint custody of their four kids.
However, friends claim Kim never wanted her marriage to end and hoped that filing for divorce would "shock" Kanye into making changes in his lifestyle and become the husband she wanted him to be.
But that plan has backfired as Kanye has had very little reaction to the divorce, an insider claim
"Kim loves Kanye and her plan to turn things around by filing for divorce has backfired.
"She had visions of the news breaking and Kanye would in turn have a reality check, yet instead he basically rolled his eyes.
"Filing for divorce was incredibly difficult for Kim. She felt this huge gesture and move on her part would make Kanye turn his life around, but unfortunately, it hasn't.
Kim is said to be struggling to come to terms with the end of her marriage
Kim is said to be struggling to come to terms with the end of her marriageCredit: Instagram The couple were married for six years
The couple were married for six yearsCredit Press Association "So now Kim and Kanye are in a standoff over the next move. Those closest to them say neither of them is willing to give an inch
"Kanye wants to live his life on his terms and at this point is ok with whatever happens now. He will not bend to Kim's wishes, he just isn't willing.
"Kim had high hopes Kanye would realize this divorce would mean KIMYE was no longer. That he would realize they would lose themselves as a brand, something they had spent years building together.
"She literally has been awaiting this huge apology and some promises he would change to make it work but instead, he has stood his ground.
"Kanye seems to have had very little reaction to Kim filing for divorce. In fact, he's just focusing on work and his new music.
"Kris's push to help fix the marriage also had no bearing on Kanye and in fact possibly made things worse.
"The stress has been unbelievably difficult and it's even been hard for her to eat. As always Kim looks amazing and has been posting many beautiful shots on social media to get his attention but it's had no effect
"Every day she's waited for a sign, something that would mean 'I'm sorry' or 'I'm willing to change'. Instead, Kim's finally beginning to feel it doesn't matter what she says, or how beautiful she is, or what an incredible mother she is, Kanye isn't willing to change and her plan has definitely failed.
"This last year of their marriage has been terribly challenging, and this move which was meant to be an eye opener for Kanye has instead been an eye opener for Kim. Once again, she's trying to come to terms with the fact that it's over.
The Keeping Up With The Kardashians star made her first public appearance since filing for divorce on Saturday at the Kids' Choice Awards.
The day before, Kim posed in a bikini and offered her fans a bit of advice and encouraged them to "focus on you."
On Thursday, Kim threw a "pizza party" with her daughter North and son Saint, choosing to focus on her kids amid claims that Kanye has blocked off contact with her.
He has reportedly changed all of his phone numbers and is forcing Kim to speak to him through his security team.
gabazin080: firstly I am a carpenter and furniture maker. a friend on the the next street called me to come fix his door net. on getting there I stripped the clothes I wore from home to my working cover-all. I put my clothes with my pulse inside on the chair in their sitting room.
few minutes later I wanted a cold Pepsi, on getting to where I dropped my clothes, I realized #500 was missing from my pulse but I thought maybe I left it at home. I went outside to get the soft drink and I met my friend's 11 year old daughter drinking yogurt with snacks.
I asked where she got the money from and she said her dad gave her the money. I asked his dad if he gave her money to get something and he said no. that's when I told him #500 was missing from my clothes I dropped in their sitting room and I went outside now and saw her daughter drinking yogurt with snacks.
he then begged me to forgive the girl and returned my money, he told me about how the girl has been disgracing him in the compound by entering people's room to steal. she steals from the parents too and in school and will later say its one spirit that used to tell her where people keep their money and to go and steal it.
he claimed the problem is spiritual and has gone to some pastors and alfas but no changes. the thought of the little girl's problem never left my mind till I finish my work there that day that's why I brought it here, ask u guys if such thing could be spiritual and what can be done because he is tired of beating her everyday with no changes
Notice one thing here. See the way all the female commenters are playing this down. Sympathising with the girl. I pray and wish foolish men here will ever learn. The first instinct of women here is to protect their gender here. The first instinct of some male hegoats is to attack their gender first! Learn the difference.
If it was a young boy that has the habit of stealing, the same nice women will attack him mercilessly. This example here might be why the future may indeed be female.
This gay man with a gay son should just shut up his mouth! Did the North tell him that they have not forgiven Igbo's? Did they? When did he become the spokesman of the North?
Criminals like Doyin Okupe are the reason the old generation failed Nigerians terribly. At each point in time they fail to rise to the level of statesmen rather they prefer their selfish, tribalistic agendas and nonsensical political theories that only serves to divide instead of unite.
Doyin is only saying this now to wake up the ugly memories of the ugly past and the civil war because he calculates that political hatchet men like him in the North will latch unto it as an excuse to create further distrust between the Igbo's and the North. He believes that if enough distrust is created, Yoruba's can now gain politically from it.
It is an evil agenda, with nothing but greedy quest for power behind it.
But let me remind the evil man Doyin that the same North also murdered the first Nigeria GOC and head of State General Thomas Ummunakwe Aguiyi Ironsi in a counter coup. Dozens of senior Igbo military leaders were also murdered. The same north also carried out a program against igbos and thousands of Igbo's were killed. Massacres of Igbo's during the civil war also occurred. Not to talk of more than three million Igbo people that died as a result of the war.
Doyin is a dubious and evil man. For political reasons he is willing to ressurect mutual suspicion, hatred and lack of trust. Such a man should never be allowed anywhere near the seat of power. He is pure evil!
It must be horribly more difficult for you to bind words together than it is for your unmotivated forebears to stand on their own two feet without looking for a woman to wipe their reeking anus.
Now this lazy skank here can only date a woman who can loan him money.
Shameless waste of male headcount!
Someone who can't be there for you financially in this world and time is not an asset.
AwesomeStormy00: Come up with something tangible other than to yell keyboard warrior. Lack of work turn u into a blogger you are not gifted life must be hard for you. Cunt
AwesomeStormy00: @AbujaCitiBlog it was my opinion it has got nothing to do with you. I have nothing against those that have done gender reassignment i have gays and lesbians friends that are open about their sexual orientation.
Focus on your blog and stop calling me names. Me empty headed lol funny enough daft people like you are quick to call people names. Maybe you should go out more and interact with people. Now crawl back into your hole and concentrate on your blog. Or go screw yourself.
Shut up! Be a man or if you can't be a woman, period.
Romance › Re: This Lady Is Trying To Embarass Me In Front Of My Family by AbujaCitiBlog: 8:35am On Mar 30, 2021
