OMOJOHN001: Our relationship is just three months old, she she has used my pics as her DP both on WhatsApp and FB for the past two months now, Its irritating and I don't even feel any vibe from that shit.
She can't go a week without posting my pics on her status and now too many people already knows that I am dating the babe.
How do I even stop her without making her feel silly. She is loving me too much, Like the love is choking me for real.
why posting all the time with captions like..Forever is the deal. for better for worse, Ayomi I will not leave you even at the point of death.
I am scared I may even break her heart sooner, please advice me how do I stop her from putting much hope on me. To her she has found her husby but Me I am not even ready for that marriage shit in the next three years.
She is doing that to hold you down, while she is knacking by the side! Don't mind her!
AfroKnight: According to feminists, we should all have believed the wife cos she was telling “her truth”. When women in tears accuse men, we must never examine or doubt their stories, else we shall be called rape apologists or some other buzzword.
But here we are.
Imagine the doubts the children had for their dad for years, all because of a senseless lie!
And the police too. Once they get a report from a woman against a man, that man will be restrained even if he’s taking his own daughter to the hospital. They won’t even offer to escort him there. No, they will rather treat him like a criminal until proven innocent.
The game is rigged against men.
No, it is men that foolishly rig it against them selves because they want to make women happy against their own gender.
Cursed men!
Men will easily support a woman even against their own best friends who are guys. A lot of cursed foolish men everywhere these days.
Our forefathers who restricted women were by far smarter than this generation of hegoats and yahooboys!
Winneygirl: Take some time. Have a heart to heart talk with her. So you ask the questions that are burning in your heart. So you can know if your marriage is salvageable... That is the first step.
You are an adulterer, that is why you are suggesting this. A woman was confronted about her adulterous ways but instead of acknowledgement of her mistake, she proudly admits it and says she wants a divorce. Forget matter.
LegendVibes: Nollywood actress Toyin Abraham says she has only met fellow actress Lizzy Anjorin twice in her life, Igbere TV reports.
The 38-year old stated this during an Instagram Live session with actress Iyabo Ojo on Tuesday.
Toyin and Lizzy have been at daggers drawn since 2019 when a blog reported that the latter was held and searched for drug peddling during her hajj trip to Saudi Arabia.
Lizzy Anjorin subsequently accused Toyin Abraham of leaking the story to blogs.
Things got worse when Toyin gave birth to her son Ire in September 2019, with Lizzy claiming the actress was delivered of the child by an alternative medical practitioner.
The two shielded their swords after the Theatre Arts and Motion Pictures Practitioners Association of Nigeria (TAMPAN) threatened to suspend them.
Old wounds were recently reopened when Lizzy had an interview with social media influencer Esabod, in which she rained curses on Toyin her husband Kolawole Ajeyemi, and their son Ire.
This is exactly how Boko Haram started. I hope they learn their lessons! I hope Buhari will not make the mistake of PDP by mudering these boys instead of hearing them out.
Insidenaija: The dislodgment of the Abubakar Shekau-led Boko Haram terrorists from the Sambisa Forest and the killing of Shekau have heightened fears of terrorist attacks in Borno and adjoining states, according to multiple military sources, NewsPremises has learnt.
Military sources confirmed that troops had been put on high alert to contain the ISWAP likely attacks which would be to spread fear that a new set of terrorists were now in charge.
“This is a public alert; ISWAP might be planning to attack Maiduguri and its metropolis after Shekau killed himself. All locals are strongly advised to report any suspicious activity to the security agencies. All security agencies must be on high alert for a possible attack,” a top military source stated.
NewsPremises had earlier reported that Shekau, who had evaded the Nigerian military for years, killed himself during a violent clash between his faction and the ISWAP province fighters who overran the Sambisa Forest in the state.
Multiple military sources had confirmed to SaharaReporters that Shekau blew up himself with an explosive when it was clear that the ISWAP fighters wanted him to relinquish power to them, after all his commanders were captured and killed in the forest.
It was learnt that the incident took place on Wednesday evening following the invasion of the terror group’s stronghold in the Sambisa forest area by ISWAP deadlier fighters.
ISWAP, which had broken away from the Shekau-led Boko Haram faction in 2016 after pledging allegiance to the Islamic State, reportedly raided the group’s hideout using no fewer than 50 gun trucks.
HumAngle also reported that Shekau’s enclave was tracked down by ISWAP using its forces based in the Timbuktu Triangle. His fighters were killed in the process, followed by a long gunfire exchange between the invading group and Shekau’s bodyguards.
Shekau had been the leader of Boko Haram since 2009 following the death of the group’s founder, Mohammed Yusuf.
He had been rumoured to have been killed by the Nigerian military at least four times between July 2009 and August 2015.
In August 2016, the Nigerian Air Force had claimed he had been “fatally wounded” by military bombardments, but the terror group released a video only a month later showing he was alive.
ISWAP has accomplished what the Nigerian Army under Buratanshi couldn't do! With all their equipment, they couldn't track Shekau but ISWAP using bush telegraph eliminated him!
Infolenka: If your answer is yes, then you'd have already said yes. Obviously your answer is no.
The thing is, it takes a certain level of men to date top teir good looking women. You need to have a lot of money and high social status.
The kind of girl your date is directly correlated to your level of financial success.
That is not dating to me, looks more like buying her companionship with money! So fake. Most girls in this category are either lesbians or prostitutes. They Bleep men for money and then use the money to entice their broke ass but pleasure giving lesbian partners! So for men buying the companionship of girls such as this with your money is a classical definition of foolishness and idiocy!
Drinokrane: Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo has vowed not to back down in her campaign that comedian Baba Ijesha should be punished for allegedly molesting a teenage girl, Igbere TV reports.
The 43-year-old mother of two stated this in a video she uploaded to Instagram on Tuesday, a day after Baba Ijesha was granted bail on health grounds.
Iyabo, who has been the most vocal supporter of comedienne Princess whose foster child Baba Ijesha was caught on CCTV molesting, said the matter must not be swept under the carpet.
The actress along with Princess and other women staged a protest at the state criminal investigation department in Panti, Lagos on April 29 over media reports that the police wanted to release Baba Ijesha.
Now that the accused has been granted bail with conditions attached, Iyabo said they will continue to monitor the situation to ensure justice is done.
Baba Ijesha was granted bail on health ground by Chief Magistrate Oluwatoyin Oghre on Monday after weeks of incarceration.
The bail conditions are two reliable sureties – one of whom must be a level-10 civil servant and the other a direct blood relation to the accused – and N500,000 bail bond.
There is a pact and a gang up by Iyabo Ojo and Princess to bring Baba Ijesha down. It is now becoming irritating.
To Iyabo Ojo, I ask this questions. 1, Iyabo,you claimed that you were raped by five different relations while growing up. Where are the culprits? Why haven't they been arrested like Baba Ijesha?
2, Since according to your claim you were molested, why are you focusing public attention on Baba Ijesha who is not related to you in any way or the poor girl who was molested? Why don't you use all this energy and effort to bring to book those five relations of yours that molested you when you were a minor?
3, Sexual molestation of a minor is a bailable offence, why are you intent on the police denying bail to Baba Ijesha and holding him indefinitely? What exactly is your reason? Why don't you arrest those who molested you directly and expend this energy on them?
Someday your evil plans against Baba Ijesha will be exposed! And as for Baba Ijesha who deliberately messed himself up, you have the full wrath of the law to face.
federal9: To the ladies out there, always aim for the blokos.
Hit rapist on the blokos.
I am trying to compare this guy's crime to boko haram guys that were caught and rehabilitated.
This one is a big crime. Should I say?
hmmm.
When women start hitting men on the blokos and killing them, when you arrest them, they will claim self defence against rape, that is when you know what you did to yourself.
family6644: I need serious advise from experienced nairalanders, please forgive my lengthy message because it requires detailed explanations.
I lost my wife exactly 3 months ago, 4 years of relationship and 13 years of marriage with her before she passed on, she left behind 3kids, 13yr old girl 7yr and 3yr old boys. I understand marriages are full of their challenges but we have been through the journey and we came out victorious having a loving and happy home, a union other partners appreciates.
My late wife was so organized and we trainned my kids to be independent while she travels on local business trips. So I just needed to continue our family habit of buying and stocking everything at home while they manage themselves with the help of an older maid who has been part of the family for many years, in short, we are faring quite well as I continue to mourn my wife and carry on with life.
Here is the problem, from a lot of condolence messages coming in on my Facebook, I had the chance to reply some of them 2weeks ago, I met this single mother of two who invited my kids to her daughter's birthday party, i was reluctant but she said it is time to start taking the kids out since they are yet to resume school, exactly what they needed at that point was the usual outing which has been missing for a while since their mother's sickness and after her demise, approx 6months in total. She said it's not a loud party that she needed only my kids for the small sitting room party.
I decided, went to the party with the kids, it was fun for the kids, I have not seen them happy like that in a long while, it made me happy too, they fell in love with the two sisters and their mother all like a miracle, my little 3year old boy started calling her mommy, others follow and it all seem like a family reunion. We left late at night with her girls asking that they meet again the next day which was a Sunday. To cut it short, my kids and hers agreed to meet the next day except for me. To be honest, the lady is a nice and lovely person to be with, she's a realtor who can work from home, she's real and beautiful, she has been a single mother for 4yrs after her husband travelled out and abandoned them to marry another woman, that's according to her.
She called me that her kids could not allow her rest, they said if we can't come, she should bring them to our house, I mildly rejected but i was persuaded by my daughter and my first son to have them around, I could see that they have bonded quite well, I want my kids to be happy too, that's what I have always wanted for them so I agreed and gave them our address. To cut the story short, I find it impossible to separate the two families that has come together to become one, when they were leaving back to their house my kids pleaded with me to allow them go with mommy to her house, I understand that is real because she's lovely with kids. I had the confidence to trust my kids with someone for the first time in my life. They didn't want to come back, I had to go and pick them up the next day, all of them made sure they came back home with me, we started living together as a family and everyone was enjoying it.
It became an automatic affair with her, I was worried about it been too early, I had to involve few of my friends to seek opinions, some were happy that i could get a good mother for my kids this soon, others asked me to stop the family union and give it a little time to study her character. I suggested some space but she felt very bad, she thinks I am sending them away. I had to allow them stay while I use the opportunity to observe the new found love and family.
12days after, I realize that in a bid to reorganize me and help me to move ahead in life, she totally disregards anything that concerns my late wife whom I still hold dear to my heart, same as my daughter and my adopted daughter, I don't like to address her as a maid. We loved and cherished my late wife, everything she introduced seems to be strange to the norms of the family. If I try to raise my concerns for her to adjust, she will simply tell me that the dead is dead and I should just forget everything about her including whatever she stood for as a mother and wife.
If I try to talk some senses into her to make her understand that brooding over the dead is different from honouring and respecting the deseased, she gets really angry claiming I am comparing her with a dead person. Whatever she discovers as our way of doing things in the family she disregards it and replaces it with her own way without minding how we feel as a family or how easy or difficult it is for us to adjust.
It looks like we are the only ones tolerating and accommodating them here, I have tried with no avail to stop her from insulting the memory of my late wife. I discussed with each and everyone at home, they all wish I could perform a miracle to have them leave because no one can tolerate the mother and kids anymore, I am equally fed up myself and willing to take a break.
I have a friend who is aware of my problems with her, he told me that I am the problem here, he said it will be hard for any woman to fit into our family way of doing things and it will be difficult for us to cope with a different way of life introduced by another woman.
I hope I can get one or two advices that could help. I am quite confused
At first I wanted to insult you with every fiber of my being for the disrespect and dishonour shown to your dead wife. But I checked myself because I sense that you hegoat has already impregnated the desperado! And hey, don't try to deny that, your narration has already exposed you as a man of easy virtue.
How can you meet someone on Facebook and in less than three months of your wife's demise you have already invited her in, start having sex with her, impregnated her and now you are talking gibberish.
Young men of nowadays are just so foolish and immature. Without any doubt, your late wife was the hero of your home not you. And I tell you her spirit will destroy foolish you!
Even when she was alive, you were cheating on her. You never loved that woman. You are only complaining now about your new catch because like a hegoat you are you placed sex and her supposed beauty before your senses. Someone you met on Facebook? Kai, I am ashamed of you!
Anyways, put your foot down and demand she gives you time for a proper evaluation of your relationship as you and your kids are uncomfortable with her moving in so soon after your wife's death. Let her go back to her house. She will refuse ofcourse and throw tantrums because you substituted your brain with your dick when it mattered most. But be firm. That is the only way this will be salvaged. And watch and see why when is a single mother. You will see very desperate tactics from her. And I don't need to experienced her to know. I tell you categorically, she is not a good woman! No decent woman will move in with a man so soon after the he lost his wife, even at your insistence she will be worried about public perception but this one just spread hands and wallop into you.
Finally, as a parting shot, which tribe is she from?
SmellySperm: Maybe na ogbanje dey worry her fa. Na dem full this uyo wey i dey stay
I keep warning you young guys of nowadays, most young girls now are lesbians. They only go around with you if you have money and are willing to waste it to impress them. If you don't have money, they concentrate on their broke lesbian partners where they derive immense pleasure sucking and licking each other's pussies.
NwekeUG: Nigerian actress, Omoni Oboli has joined the #comeandseemymotherchallenge on social media as she was seen dancing with her three grown-up sons in a video she shared on her Instagram handle, IgbereTV reports.
The 43-year-old actress shared the video with the caption;
shogsman: Nairaland is home to the most stupid set of people in this country,you stupid nonentity that keep cheering for Israel,this is what they have done in the last 4 days ,dozens of children murdered for nothing. If you are okay with this may your wards end up just like this children very soon, I'm Christian by the way
Shut up! You don't even know what's at stake! And I sincerely doubt if you are a Christian.
AlexReports: Top Rwanda Actress Isimbi Alliance Celebrates Birthday Reception With Friends In Abuja
Top rated Rwanda Celebrity Actress, Isimbi Alliance has marked her birthday in an amazing and colourful birthday party in Abuja. According to Abuja Press Reporters, the fun-filled birthday party recorded the stunning presence of notable personalities, celebrity music Artists, Comedians and Showbiz Entrepreneurs.
The impressive occasion had the distinguished presence of perdonlities like Lineo Didi Kilgrow, the wife of multiple award winning Artist, Dbanj, Stephanie Bond, "Too Much Money", Alexreports, Jennifer Ephraim and amongst several other famous Personalities, both with Abuja and from across Africa.
Speaking during the occasion, the Rwanda Celebrity Actress, Isimbi Alliance received loads of amazing gifts, felicitations and affectionate gestures from friends, family members, colleagues in the industry, fan, followers, sponsors and partner organizations. The occasion was been described by several guests as amazing, colourful and filled with so much fun.
The Rwanda born Actress who also doubles as a Journalist and Producer had earlier joined the movie industry in 2010 with her first movie titled "Rwasa". Decorated as the best Actress in Rwanda in the famous Rwanda Movie Awards, Isimbi Alliance has starred in other massively viewed movies in Rwanda. She thereafter joined the media industry in 2015, where she worked with Flash TV, after which went into movie production in 2020, with the establishment of Allah Movie.
Ginaz: We have known each other for 6yrs. he’s a very smart , highly intelligent dude, Very playful and deep minded .
We have spent both good and bad times together and he’s the one I run to when I have deep stuff on my mind but I just want him as a friend cos I have never envisioned more than friendship with him.
He came to town , took me on a lovely trip and he confessed his feelings for me which came as a shock to me. He’s a perfect guy , very caring and hardworking. He knows me so well, my imperfections and introverted self. He’s the only morafucker that can call me in the morning , say shittt and just end call without me being angry . Lolz
Since the revelation he hasn’t called me, he said he doesn’t want me in his life for friendship and he needs some space . I am missing him terribly.
I don’t want to lose him, this friendship we have . I’m in a dilemma. He hasn’t been online , I don’t even know what’s going on with him. Should I leave him alone ? Pls advice me.
I don’t want a relationship! This has made things awkward for us , I don’t even know what to do anymore. We haven’t been the same since that day!
Be honest, tell him that you see him as a friend and nothing more.
Stand your ground, if you date him, you will regret it.
Whizzdom: On Sunday, last two weeks my mom got a bank alert notification, someone sent her 3 million naira, she wasn't expecting money from anyone.
She was shocked, she called I and my younger sister. We couldn't believe it, so we waited for three days to see if the bank will reverse the money, they didn't, so I and my sister took our mom's ATM card to withdraw and test if the money was genuine.
We bought three phones from it. That's when we believed it was real. Then I transferred #50,000 to my bank and transferred #50k into my mom's other account which we used for foodstuffs.
On the fifth day the bank froze the remaining balance of the huge money sent. But no bank official or staff called my mom. That week passed, on the 3rd day of the second week, one lady called my mom by phone in the afternoon, she said her name is Sarah from so so bank.
My mom is not literate so they spoken in pidgin, she told my mom that she knows that my mom received a #3mil last two weeks and she has spent out of it. That the money was government money. Sarah told my mom to go to any nearest ........bank and write a mandate letter authorizing the bank to unfreeze the remaining #2mil in her acct and the bank will give us the beneficiary account which she will send the money back to. And we should return the money we spent out of it immediately.
When we got to my mom's bank, we went to customer agent area, instead of writing the mandate letter, we told the agent everything that happened leaving nothing untouched. the agent said we should give him the number of the staff that called us, when he called the Sarah with his phone, Sarah gave him another name, instead of introducing herself as Sarah, she said her name is Evelyn. She now told the agent to hold my mom down till she (Evelyn) gets to that bank to arrest my mom or whatever.
The agent said on what basis would he hold my mom down. The agent checked the description when the money was sent and he couldn't understand the description. He was saying how could this be government money. He told my mom to try and return the money spent and he told us to go.
The description on the transfer when it came in on Sunday was: "National Procurement of Scanners" #3million.
Is this truly a government money?
Nairalanders what are your opinions? Because my mom is scared, Sarah or Evelyn bullied her on the phone with jail time.
I don't know what to do.
It is stolen money. They spread the money into several accounts. Next time she calls, tell her you are going to media houses to expose them for stealing from government. Which government parastatal or agency or ministry sent the money? Ask her to tell her office address so that you come there and meet her there. She will back out immediately.
GeeX: I don't pity her at all. First it was a naked video on Mc Galaxy's live, then was the blasphemy with the Holy Bible and she even tried to use the Quran, if not for fear of attacks by muslims...
Such a silly lady. It's obvious she lacks the wisdom to keep a home. Very soon, she'll become a senior lecturer in feminism studies, advising upcoming silly ladies like herself to blame men for everything wrong with the world.
Tinubus personal Prophet! We know your God Tinubu has instructed you to Prophe..lie about South East Presidency. So we are not surprised. Both you are him will be alive and see an Igbo man become President by 2023!
Celebrities › Re: Denrele: “Dating A Man Was One Of The Biggest Mistakes Of My Life” by AbujaCitiBlog: 10:44am On Jun 14, 2021
Pls advice me. 