₦airaland Forum

ONEjoblessGUY:
Don't say what u don't know.........
95% Yoruba kids speak the language perfectly.........same can't be said of other tribes..........

I'm referring to the 5% Yoruba kids and whatever percentage you attribute to other tribes.

ghettochild:
First off... Your parents are wicked..... They had the first SS n still continued to have two more

Without shishi

fastseo:
I ask again did you parents conduct genotype?
If they did then they must be enlightened or well exposed.
Don't you know that in the past most especially 80s downward people hardly test for stuff like this as majority of Nigeria where in rural area with little or no information about genotype.

Referring to them as wicked is unnecessary as they don't know anything of such.

Even till today.go back to your village you discover that some are not well informed on genotype.

It was even in my secondary school I began to understand what sickle cell is all about and did my first test on that in 100 level which was a requirement from the University.

So imagine if I am not educated up to the point of secondary school. What would have happened?

Why are you referring to the 80s? Do you know any teenager born in the 80s??

Of course, you can only begin to fully understand sickle cell in your secondary school. However, the knowledge of sickle cell did not begin during your secondary school days. People attended secondary school before you.

Jonathan:
Some of you are just irredeemably senseless.
Oloriburuku ọmọ ofo.

An emotional dingba.t like you is more concerned about preserving the integrity of a wicked parent than the pains and crisis of three helpless SS adolescents.

Shame on your coconut head.

Incrediblekutty:
You are very daft!! If your own parents escaped that, it's not that they are not wicked, it's their gambling that worked out

F00lish man. My parents did not abandon their children to die of sickle cell. They did not shift their responsibility to the first child of the family either.

Thank your stars I'm not Nigeria's president, wicked parents like you will spend a good part of your life in prison. The government under my watch will take your children and throw you behind bars.

1Sharon:
Lol they were old. But still, after the 1st SS child, they should have taken some precautions.

They were old? With three Gen Z teenagers in the University?

I'm the last child of my parent. I finished University 13 years ago and my parents are not "old."

1Sharon:
I wouldn't say wicked, just ignorant.

Ignorant until they decided to abandon the three SS kids to fate.

Ubdavis:
Don't seek unnecessary attention by spewing trash.. what if they didn't know

Some kind of ignorance is sheer wickedness. "I didn't know" has send many people to mortuary. You should seek to know whatever will benefit you and you child, not everyday blaming witches and wizards when N200 paracetamol is all you need to cure fever.

Switruth:
Nairaland is indeed faceless. I wish we all see each other face to face. I don’t blame you.

Lol.

Send a DM. I'll send you my house address.

Gerrard59:
My argument against that belief is that it is better to reside with racists in a prosperous land than live with tribalists in a poor area. Humans are tribal, but better being amongst wealthier ones.

I agree. The poor folks are more radical and vengeful.

One of my major concerns about migration. These folks can wake up anytime and decide to "ronu" calmly or aggressively. Living in an hostile environment won't ever make sense.

fastseo:
Ask your mom n dad if they did genotype test before marrying. And they should be in their 60s.

In the 70s, 80s and even early 90s most of us don't know what genotype is. Where is the lab to run this test as you can find today. If exist will be expensive.

Even now.. Go to remote villages, they still don't know what genotype is.. We are lucky to have this level of education n leave in city

Again, OP has revealed that his siblings are all Gen Zs. It's now up to you to continue to make excuses for ignorance, poverty, birthing 5 children in the midst of poverty, or abandoning 3 SS children to fate.

tosyne2much:
Don't call them names bro

The ignorance of genotype incompatibility was top notch in the 50s, 60s, 70s and even in the 80s

Our parents didn't have access to the kind of information we do in our own era

Ignorance of genotype incompatibility was top notch in the 50s, but certainly not in the 2000s. The 3 SS children, according to the op, are in the University. There is a lot of reason to stop at one or two children, but they proceeded to have a third, fourth, and fifth, all in the 2000s.

enemyofprogress:
they are more than wicked. Now they are no where to be found to take care of the wahala that they caused

Absolutely

LalastiklaIa:
2005 to be precise

Just imagine. They did not stop at 1, they had the second and the third SS child, all in the 2000s.

Yemike:
How many people are aware of genotype back then?

Back when? Go back and read the op clearly. Having three SS teenagers is stupidity. There is nothing like back in the days. An 18 year old teenager is a 2005 baby.


Like I said, many of you are needlessly emotional. That's why the idea of insulting wicked parents gets you more angry than the pains of three abandoned SS children.

Switruth:
Omo you no get sense at all. You’ll definitely have a child with complications and you’ll understand

You won't even be able to have a child.

Congratulations. Well deserved.

oliverwrites:
You are very dumb and very mannerless. How many of our parents know about Genotype? Most parents in their late 50s today did not do genotype test before marrying.

Dumb f*ck.

Any parent with three AS children in the university is certainly a wicked human being. That includes your parents if they fall within that category.

I understand the fact that the word "parent" makes you needlessly emotional.

Your parents are very wicked.

LOL...

I'm not setting new goals kan kan..

Speak for yourself sir. As agba.do bandi.ts, we are not bothered. We are ready to buy a bag of rice for 500,000.

"He was so broke" don turn to "we own..."

advanceDNA:
"He" has changed to "We"....Na their way járe ....they own everything u have after one or two rounds of sex...........Their vagína equals all ur struggles, risk, loans, financial investments combined......

some will even claim just dating you and giving u vagina is what made u made it in life..."the good luck charm"

i like one of their common saying...."I suffer for that man ooo"....please ask her how did she sufferd..........and she will boldly say I did u a favour by dating and fvcking u when u were broke......and it's not like dangote or otedela come to ask her hand in marriage her oooo....u were the only option ooooo. .

.very fvnny gender.....always claiming to be what they are not

Lol

folake4u:
Lol. I envy you guys getting agitated over this guy's matter. Y'all really have time mehnn.

Just as Israel is, his friends are one and the same. Like minds isonu.

By the way, this guy has been giving loser vibes since he called out his ex who dumped him in 2001. I just knew once that he has low self-esteem issues.

Very very obvious.

Speak for yourself.

michlins:
and you don't see the problem inherent with it

Inherent problems, such as?

folake4u:
Valid points, Acid.

My father did something like this to me.
People have to ask me twice my state of origin.

This is exactly how I like it, my dear. I enjoy leaving people puzzled about matters of ethnicity.

Fountainofyouth:
Lmao valid points there, very valid and sensible, but then we have to promote our culture and tribes, part of which is our use of native names, I for one did not give my kids english names because to me, english names sound ridiculous, more like bland with no identity.

True, but I hope your kids can speak their native language, sha?


It's always delightful to meet a Chinedu or Emeka who speaks Yoruba fluently than an Ayomide struggling with Yoruba language.

Rich4god:
Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

The highest form of sacrifice you have encountered.


CS is the easiest phase in some TTC women's reproductive cycle.

Did she go through ovarian stimulation, where she'll risk hyper stimulation and the pain resulting from egg retrieval? Ever done myomectomy, i.e., uterine fibroid removal where you risk losing your womb? cervical cerclage where you'll risk bleeding and persistent spinal pain and headaches due to epidural leakage? Ever done the unbearably painful HSG test?

If CS is all your woman went through, thank God. That procedure takes only 15-45 minutes max. Some people went through hell. Any woman that goes through any of the above phases is already a god on earth; deserves to be worshipped every hour.

You want them to bear Ayo, Chinedu, and Adamu so you can use tribalism to finish their destiny?

If I have my way, I will avoid all native names from Nigeria's major tribes (Yoruba, Igbo, and Hausa).

A Mark John is more likely to get a University admission from any Southwestern University than a Chinedu. A Jenifer Confidence is also more likely to get a job in Igboland than a Nurudeen Ayoola.

Y'all pathetic decendants of racists and losers will preach one thing and do another.