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voltron:
Hmmm.. highly educated I presume? running a sweat-shop somewhere in illupeju i am guessing

I am not here to trade words with kids

@truerebel, if you eventually get to see this and need to give these lazy kids some of the rules of Life, hit me up.

Enoughinf of exchanging of words with babies who think ever successful and growing business are achieved with mouth.

lummyguy:
I did save valuable time than trade words with you.

I never wrote anyone to be placed on frontpage should u care to know

From your depositions one thing is clear! You find it difficult to understand all the English we have been speaking.

I think Seun should do a pidgin version of nairaland for mentally challenged folks like you...Jes saying though.

#PEACE

See this lazy, sad,traitor trying to to use me to shine. You have failed because you can only dream to have the exposure and education I have.

I know people like you. Very greedy and lazy employees who think all the money that comes into the company is all going to the owners pocket without knowing majority are running cost and most times the CEO will make little or nothing.

One silly employee tried such crap when I went for summer, I cut my trip short just to come and use him as a scape goat to others. After spending 3weeks behind bars, his people were even supporting my actions as it was obvious to everyone he was a traitor.


If na me you try this crap with ehn, by now na beans and agege bread your family go dey buy come for you for Elephant House. I get special underground cell for lazy, traitors like you.

Who ever put this thread to the front page is so silly and immature. I know Obiniscopy won't do such crazy thing.

Why just hearing from a bunch of LAZY employees and even after truerebel explained his own side of the story this nonsense was still done. I can see aggrieved employees are bent on bringing this man's business down.

Truerebel, if you had an employment letter and contract signed by your previous employees especially the TRAITOR and GREEDY FELLOW called lummyguy you can bring them all to their knees either by paying heavy fines or sending them behind bars for damages. IF YOU ARE INTERESTED LET ME KNOW. Judgement on them will be passed within a month.

Lummyguy, was so quick to steal his boss's idea only to want to sell it to the highest bidder on nairaland and even went as far as setting up a similar business. Shame on you @lummyguy.

As far as none of truerebel's clients can come out and testify he sold them fake goods, you his employees are playing with litigation (if he wants to make case with you guys).

I am NOT supporting truerebel in anyway, but the manner this was put on front page is ABSOLUTELY WRONG. When the likes of Inspiredm were found guilty of taking millions from customers without delivering their vehicles to them, seun and his moderators tried to kick the cases under the carpet and even deleted the thread.


SO MUCH INJUSTICE ON NAIRALAND.

nickxtra:
And pressing the tooth paste from the head, instead of the tail

Quite a number of people mentioned it so I assume it is very serious then.

I met a friend who is in her late 30s earlier today. She is still single and guess what?






She was putting on some very revealing gown, big fashion rings, and also heavy makeup.

I just shook my head and remembered this thread.

Want to Organize a competition tagged " MOST BLEACHED GIRL IN NIGERIA" But I don't know if ladies will be bold and proud enough to come out and participate as most of them keep denying they bleached their skin.

How time flies. 2012 -2014

Nice one
Quite creative. More transfer to come in the coming months
















This single plot of land is for my son Mufu.
No family member or stranger must trespass on it.

daveP: mail palaver or wat. Ok. Meet me@ lanicky's thread on dating zone. Il post only 1 with my hand downwards.

toasting on my thread?

Phame: @ThaiALnigeria. Did u learn how to write/speak english in Nigeria or in thailand? U write well!

I have met Chinese and Russians who speak and write more fluently than most of our Nigerian graduates.

Just the same way some people speak more fluently the dialect of another man who comes from the original region (I.e ibo man speaking far better Yoruba than a Yoruba man).

NOW I CAN SEE WHY MAJORITY OF NIGERIAN YOUTHS ARE NOT LIKELY TO HAVE A BREAKTHROUGH.

I patiently read the posters thread and within the lines I could categorically tell that the OP wanted to genuinely tell Nigerians the gold mine in the Haulage business. But because he wasn't here to sell them "eBooks" as usual. The ignorant childish and brainless kids derailed this thread and tried to talk people out of the posters advice.

I started 2 main entrepreneur threads (still up till now) here some years back on helping young entrepreneurs grow, but when the kids started creeping in, I abandoned the thread.

Its one thing to device fraud, its another Thing to avoid it.

Life is all about knowledge (learning), risk taking, and gathering experience.

People expect to pass through business and life with wanting to go through the above.

For those who have succeeded in making a mockery of this thread I say shame on you.


For those who read the thread diligently and have the money to invest I say good luck.

For the Poster I say nice job. You had a honest heart to help but because Nigerians (majority) prefer criminals to honest people (that account for why they keep voting in dubious politicians) I will tell you that keep doing you bit to help humanity.

Peace!

It was you she should have used the cutlass on and not the innocent goat.

Ewu Liberia

This land is for my son Mufu.

NO Family member or stranger must trespass on this plot.

Any Moderator who seizes this plot go hear from Amadioha.








Apc, Pdp, Apga, Lp, Icpc, Efcc, Npa, Mtn, Phcn, Glo, Nnpc and everything in Nigeria are one and the same.

Until politicians and public office holders start swearing with Ogun, Amadioha and others, Corruption will never end in this Jungle called Nigeria.

Imagine Faahola unbanning Okada and reversing LASU's fees. Who do these people think they are receiving. All for 2015.

princesa: Acidtalk, just reading ur reply. Thanks

You are welcome

numericalguy: laff catch me.. dey there dey where pant.

Keep shrouding your self in mysteries.. by the time your peers and younger ones marry finish you go know.

Let me tell you the truth. Most good and responsible guys have other things to think about and will not have time to worry about what message some immature girl is trying to pass. Besides they meet a lot of cool and mature ladies all the time and they have more pool of mature and responsible girls to pick from than you can imagine. Some one like you is probably at the lowest rung of the ladder and may not get much consideration and you are still acting miss childish and complicated.

So on point.

Vivly: Acidtalk, are you giving individual answers to personal relationship questions?

Only relating to issues raised in the original post.

You have anything you want to ask or share?

princesa: Op, please I need a list on how to know a serious guy, thank you


nice tips btw

My dear, even the world's best relationship experts can never give you a 100% correct and specific answer to this but however i will try my very best to trash this to the best of my ability.

Now to your question, i want to point us categorically that this might ONLY apply to ladies above 25years. I gave that age range because most ladies below that age have less serious things to bother their mind with and even when they meet the suppose serious guy, they will assume he is too mature, boring, or strict.

Now back to your question.

Every single guy out there have an iota of seriousness or silliness in him, it all depends on which part you as a lady accept him to present forward and unfortunately, most ladies usually hope for a serious minded guy but when they meet that man, they start to accept his unseriousness and that guy thinks the lady isn't a serious minded person either. So when he has had his fill of unseriousness with such a lady and become bored, he now decides to move on to another prey. Then the lady (victim) starts going around crying of how the guy used her and all sort. Forgetting she accomodated his unseriousness from the onset.


Now here are a few points to help our ladies in the house:

* Once you meet a guy and he has made his intentions known, NEVER HESITATE TO ASK HIM TO STATE OUT EXACTLY HIS INTENTION. This doesn't make you desperate or too forward but this will only throw him off balance thereby being bold and saying the truth, or start to stutter and you can see cleary the lies in him (please note, there are perfect liars too).

* Never think playing hard to get will get a guy to love you more or decide to become serious. Like i said earlier, after 10-30mins of serious conversation with a man/woman, you can tell if you will want to know them better or desist from meeting them ever again. This is what i mean, if you meet a guy for the first time and you guys have a few discussion, after your first date if you ever want to have any serious thing to do with them again, decide between the first and 3rd day. LISTEN DON'T DELAY MORE THAN THREE DATES BEFORE GIVING YOUR "TOASTER" A REPLY/RESPONSE. This is not imply that you must start kissing him or jumping to his bed the next day but this is to let him know you have decided to consider his proposal but he should still give you more time to confirm your decision. Request he doesn't start demanding for hugs, kisses, sex, or even introducing you to his friends as his girlfriend just yet as he is still under probation.

Believe me, he will do anything to prove he is the right person. But playing hard to get (even when you already like him) will only force him to start planning a revenge mission (HIT & RUN). This is the silly mistakes most girls do.

* When you meet a guy and all he talks of his "Me, My Money, My Car, My House, My Ex, Me! Me!! Me!!!" and doesn't bother to genuinely find out about you, ladies please RUN! This guy is only there to impress you, make you fall for him, get whatever he wants and the vanish into thin air. He is also an egocentric and selfish being. A guy who likes you and what to be serious with you will be very concerned to find out as much as he can about who is wants to be with. But if he doesn't even bother about wanting to know you what makes you think he wants to be with you?

* When you meet a guy and for no reason is he suggesting ways on how you can be a better you then please don't be deceived he isn't serious with you. Whether advice you to improve on your dressing, looks, accent, career, manners or otherwise. We all have one flaw or the other and it takes only someone who truly loves us to tell us what the whole world are either too scared or too shy to tell us. Those words from them might be what will hurt us or break us down but the truth is those are the words that will make us better people.

Imaging a guy claiming he loves a lady and wanted to spend the rest of his life with but had to break the relationship because she has mouth odor. That's a very silly excuse. When he could have easily bough her good toothpaste, tooth brush, tongue brush, mouth wash and a mouth spray. sit her down and with loving words tell her she needs to use them always and stating the reason for his actions. That girl might feel slightly bad for a moment but trust me, she will never let such guy slip away. if she does, she will surely always remember him.

* Money, cool ride, great outing, and gifts never always translate to love. But unfortunately most ladies either know this fact but are always carried away or that are just outrightly confused. This is the reason why most girls turn down great wonderful upcoming young men and follow a rich cheating partner and only to end up crying later in life. An Already made man more often than not always think ladies are with him for his wealth and nothing else (even if the lady genuinely loves him) as such, they (men) are never faithful or respect such women as they think down the line when they had nothing and all the numerous rejections they got from ladies because of the lack.

Bottom line, LADIES IF YOU KNOW YOU ONLY WANT A VERY RICH MAN, WORK HARD ALSO TO BE COMFORTABLE. A billionaire who knows you are a millionaire will never look down on you outrightly


MY FINGERS DEY PAIN ME JOH! MAKE UNA MANAGE THIS ONE FOR NOW. Sorry for the grammatical errors.

depato88: one of d most reasonable post av read on this section n i must say d OP s very gifted both intelectualy n odawise. i thnk i wil stat folowin his posts....i got tins to learn from this genus

Thanks boss. very honored. Please feel free to visit my previous threads and a promise from me to you is that "you will be glad you did"

okparaugo: Abundance mentality .

Thanks sir, i am honored

Adufetohposh: I'm guilty of just one of these points and that is d number one Hanging out with friends... truth is I cannot go to d cinema/pool/party alone. I wnt feel myself wen I'm alone, I ll be soo bored and miserable...

I was once like you way back when i was a little naive. Try and twice and believe me, you will always sneak behind your friends to go for outings. Not only will you have more opportunities come your way but you will be more confident in yourself.

Ivanspring: Acidtalk how do i stop the mean look thing?

Once you are about stepping out of the house, always remember to tell yourself this "i am a wonderful, kind, and respectful person both within and outside of me, so i wouldn't only only a small part of me (face) make me appear to others like a sad, rude, and proud person. I will smill as much as i can".

Always be cautious of how your face is. pay more concern on your face as thats the first thing person notice and even use to judge your personality.

I hope this helped. All the best

okparaugo: The bolded is cool

Really, that's the trust. Most people refer to shyness as pride.

cybug: Nice work Acidtalk... Always on point!

Thanks! Appreciated.

guente02: What of in a situation where you already told the girl you're coming to see her to discuss (asking her out) but before the day came you changed your mind because you don't see that commitment in her. We've been close friends for a while and I've been letting her know i have feelings easily noticed from our type of conversation and my inputs. But she cant call or even text and I perceive this as she's not interested. How do i go about this?

Just withdraw since it is obvious she has no interest in you. There are 7 billion people on planet Earth. Don't let 1person make you feel bad.

Kinkybraids: I cant be cruel again and ignore him. Ill just be friends with him...without leading him on. Im not leading him on... I think Although i did agree to meet with him. I told him the year is almost over so i wanna focus on my books but we can be friends...but a part of me is curious...in all honest

The whole word can suggest or advice. But surely, only you know what is best for you.

All the best.

This land is for my son mufu.
No family or stranger must trespass here.

This land is for my son mufu.
No family or stranger must trespass here.

obayaya: Boss!!!

I want to be like you when I grow up

Like a good father will say to his son "you will be greater than me when you attain this age"

Its so unfortunate parents no longer sit with their to advice them about serious issues of life. They are too busy chasing after money. Only to realize after the have retired that majority of the problems their children are facing in life would have been avoided if they gave them that little attention while they were growing up.

Kinkybraids: You see maybe playing hard to get isnt bad then you have time to suss him out. Yeah you are right....maybe his intentions arent good...wish i cud read his mind.

Now listen dear, the heart of man is desperately wicked. So if you have no intention of dating him, it is better you set the record straight instead of leading him on.


You don't want to imagine the extent guys go to revenge on a lady they perceived traumatized them psychologically and emotional. I was one a student and I am telling you what I know.

talking as an elder brother, I will tell to to lay your cards straight for him. Instead of giving him unnecessary hopes.

Some get enjoy the chase by guys only to be shown. A word they say......

obayaya: If I pay such fees, na automatic first class in premature _ejaculation..

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Leave me to worry about that.