₦airaland Forum

OruExpress:
a man with 9 children and 4 wives, telling his followers to have less children, is a sane mind?

my friend 9 children 're not much with his position and wealth.He is talking about men that cannot provide for the immediate family

Ellarhh:
I'm 21, a graduate, will be serving in March. I don't have money ooo
I'm kinda broke (struggling with my importation business I started of recent). I'm not looking for a guy that'll spend on me tho' (spending on me is a plus but it's not a priority). Still, I need a man that's okay financially. Someone with a legit source of income.
I'm inexperienced with sex but I'm open to it if we vibe well.
Also, before you indicate interest, I'm not a slay queen ooo abeg. I'm quite lean, a bit busty and *not* tall.

I can really fun to be with when I like a person and can definitely have intelligent conversations and motivate you to do better. I'm not promiscuous as well.

I'm searching for an honest guy that I can be friends with (I lack male friends). As time goes on we'll decide on if we want a relationship or not.
If you're between the ages of 24–27, you're fair , fun to be with and smart then I'm your girl. If you reside in Port Harcourt as well, that'd be nice.

Any interested persons should PM me please. Thanks

Cc: Lalasticlala

24 - 27,You still want to date children.think twice

dochenaj:
We know PDP will not win 2023.

What happened in 2019 will repeat again.

your �

FactsAndTruth:
Whatever PDP does it must not allow itself to be goaded and pushed by external and internal enemies to ceed the ticket to any zone prematurely.

PDP MUST wait for APC to finish their own jamborees and primaries before determining how to play it's card.

If you are discerning, you'd notice that those goading and pushing PDP to zone their ticket to the SE or SS are mainly pro-Tinubu yorubas from SW, they are not doing it because they love the SESS region.

They simply believe that if PDP zones it to the East, they'll find it easier to argue for the APC ticket where they have a foot-hold, get the APC ticket and then sponsor anti-christian/Igbo propaganda in the north to damage the East's chances, while tinubu coasts to victory on the APC ticket. Then they can sit down and taunt the rest of the south on how they are 'sophisticated'.

Be ye not deceived, this is their thought process. They are only interested in power coming to SW not the real south. Their goading and blackmail should be resisted. It's a pit they are trying to dig for PDP.

By next year they'll start sponsoring publications in Tinubu's The Nation's newspapers goading and blackmailing PDP to ceed the ticket to the East with crocodile tears. PDP must hold it's ground and wait for APC to ceed theirs. If PDP can't resist the urge to ceed their ticket prematurely, then they should be ready to have the party dead.

For equity sake, if both tickets are coming to South it must come South East. The SW have ruled for 8 years as presidency and by 2023 will be in VP position for 8 years. That's 16 years in aso rock cummulatively.

They've had their turn to the full and must not be allowed in there till others in the south take their turn. Zoning means 'turn by turn' and must be respected 100%.

If APC pick an Easterner like Dr Ogbonnaya, PDP will be forced to pick someone from the East too. But if APC picks a SWner, the PDP should do the needful and send the ticket up north with an Eastern VP until zoning is fully respected.

When SW contested in 1999, no other southerner contested with them in a major opposition party. So if the right thing is to be done, the East should contest with the East in both parties in the spirit of equity and unity.

Tinubu and his minions, goading and blackmailing PDP to zone it's ticket so they can show their hands prematurely should not work, if PDP has people with good heads piloting it's affairs.

your mother born you well, your head correct

Halo22:
The only thing PDP should focus on now, is how to balance some issues as 2021 national convention is next in the pipeline. For me, any candidate that must emerge for PDP to win the next election should be from the north. In addition to that, the candidate must be very influential and financially buoyant. By now, am sure you know who am referring to.

your head is working fine

netpro:
PDP zoning the 2023 Presidential ticket anywhere other than the South East will spell doom for the party.

Decades of loyalty cannot be ignored without consequences.

you actually want PDP to lose, if APC gives its ticket to a Yoruba Man and PDP go for an Igbo Man who do you think the north will vote for?

sergio16:
]Yes, I was serving in Anambra in 2011, He paid 3/month arrears.
Thats great to know

I was paid four months arrears, i served in oyo.

OoniOfIfe:








Jagaban is a cat with 9 lives
He has never fought nd lost any battle

He fought Obasanjo nd won.
He fought GEJ nd won
He fought Ambode nd won.

He will surely win again in 2023

Tinubu2023

till then

CHoccolaTE:
Westin concern me?
I told them the bitter truth, if they like make dem vex

how old are you?

eduman365:
Bitter feminist on the loose. Check out her profile

Ladies wise up! There is nothing wrong with building with your man. Both good and bad experiences are part of life, women too have disappointed men, it's not easy both ways.

Don't flock senselessly to men that have made it already cos they will take you for gold diggers. Most importantly, don't listen to bitter feminists who are using the movement to cover their shame. None of them is truly happy being single and lonely.

correct

GamalNasser:
Shut up stop this deceit .. every Muslim in Nigeria including you dream of the the day this country will be completely all under Sharia law ..The end goal of Islam as a religion is 100 percent world wide domination

that why you will never come out of darkness.you belong to niger not Nigeria because in no distance time the Nigeria you see Will be divided into 6- 7 different countries.you will be alive to witness it.only 10-12 millions souls may be lost, the middle belts that were with you will be no more.

fbtowner:
Lol u don't think I have done that?

Let me burst ur brain

I ship on CVM at $6/kg, they won't ask u for another mumu 400 naira oo for clearing,do u even know that 400 naira is about $1.2 and I get my goods in 13 days even including battery goods

If u don't understand these sites that's when u call them scam

I normally use CVM so I was thinking their shipping fee was expensive so I tried funkam, with funkam at some point I gave up that my goods is lost I couldn't cry funkam torture me with silence at the end of the day they are even more expensive compare to CVM

Let me tell u funkam started by calculating yuan at 54 naira when cvm is 52 then again procurement fee at 9% when CVM is 3%

Did I even mention that my goods was not complete at funkam I just had to take it like that and I went back to CVM

At this point CVM is cheaper than any other logistic on this forum and did I even mention that they have a physical warehouse in Lagos

I currently have over 200k goods with CVM just 2 days that I paid all my goods have already been supplied to their warehouse

They are unbelievably fast I can say this anywhere

I'm not trying any mud house logistic that I don't know where to go when I can't get my goods

The only difference right now with CVM is that they don't rearrange ur goods into one pack they just tape everything together so there will be plenty carton and u might get extra 1kg for that but I tell u it's worth it

I'm staying with them for now

please how can I get their contact¿

olatunji71:
My best advice, seek the services of a freightfowarder in your best interest. The values you are quoting aren't the real deal from experience. Firstly, have you opened a 'FORM M' with the bank of your choice before proceeding to ship in your goods? Secondly, you can contact any shipping line of your choice for the shipment of your goods e.g MAERSK LINE, COSCO, PIL, CGM e.t.c to confirm cost. You can then notify your sender on your preferred shipping vessel line for him to send your goods through. There exist other little charges which you are not aware of but might pop later to add to the shipping cost. Though you will be notified accordingly by the shipping company.
Important point to note, ensure you open a 'FORM M' before bringing in your goods otherwise you might end up over paying for your goods !

what is the meaning of form m?

delishpot:
Ask her na. You that is smart go her house and ask her. He prolly was infertile. Aren't men encouraged to go try outside when their wives can't have babies? Why can't the woman also try her luck outside? At least now men know how it hurt women when you bring in a baby from another woman in the name of it was an accident.

you are one of such

Ladycewhy:
Beverlyjean Mindset is the key, people butcher a full human being and sell the parts for 1k in this country yet they still sleep soundly and go about their daily lives like nothing happened.


Tell her i said "na dick she fvck ,she nor kill person". A married man is the one bound by an oath to his partner,should the universe want to mete out punishment it should start from the married man. I know a man who boasts to anyone who cares to listen of how he married his wife a virgin but he is a community dick. So this how it will affect her is just superstitious nonsense. Men even cheat on wives they married as virgins these days.


Tell your friend to stop self sabotaging herself what you think about your self transforms in to the energy you send to the universe. Let her go for test to make sure she didn't contact disease from him.

supporters club

mukthar2000:
but she felt she could control the situation when she visited him, but one thing led to another after a couple of drinks and they ended up having unprotected sex.

What make u visit him when u no that u don't have interest in him, and u even still take drink, is better u end up with him

she went there to collect the money for free ooh

Beverlyjean:
Why is it difficult for people to believe what is not true... I said it's my friend and I promised to bring it up on nairaland... If it was me, I would have used another Moniker

the problem is not just having sex with a married man but taking various sizes and shapes must affect marriages. During the time of y
Our mothers and fathers, even if the man married more women it's better than this present generation whereby a girl would ve tested all before marriage thereby taking nothing to the husband's �, shame on this generation

Beverlyjean:
A friend of mine is in desperate need of advice... She had unprotected sex with a married man... Her fear now is that she feels it might affect her in the future because she knew he was married before she did it...

She regrets her actions... She said she never planned it, although the man had always been disturbing her, but she felt she could control the situation when she visited him, but one thing led to another after a couple of drinks and they ended up having unprotected sex.

The man in question is old enough to be her father according to her but she still doesn't know why she did what she did because at that time she was having relationship issues. She has ended all ties with the man but her fear is that if what she did will affect her in the future because she doesn't want her future husband to ever cheat on her.

She is so broken now and confused... Again she doesn't know how her next boyfriend will think she's that type of person that sleeps with married men if he finds out what she did, because her boyfriend ended the relationship when she told him, although it happened before they met. She doesn't want her next boyfriend to treat her with disrespect if he finds out or make her loose her value.

after collecting money from the man you now think it's free, don't fool yourself just say it's me

Dbullofficial:
Mmmm that maybe true but another problem is i hardly talk infact after 5minutes of talk I get uncomfortable. I hate calling too

then don't go into any relationship now until you are ready to communicate more effectively and frequently

Dbullofficial:
I haven't been very lucky with women this year. I became really lonely and unhappy due to my nature as a conc introvert. In this moment I remembered the only girl that seemed to love me. So I resorted to traveling and visiting her. Actually she lives with my aunt so I visited them both. I got there and I met a really huge and unpleasant suprise. It was during this period that it occurred to me that the only reason she liked me then was because I was the only available option. But now she has gained admission and has met lots of other younger guys and all she did was to make me her ATM card a girl that seemed to love me when I had nothing. I was sternly rejected by her and the whole experience turned out to be opposite of what I expected. Now I found myself wallowing in deeper emotional loneliness.

guy sorry for even keeping a student girlfriend.i know by now you must have learnt your lesson

rukell:
we were created 2 b spent on...only broke nigax complain tho...

tell your brothers to go into the world and spend on every girl they see

Pr0cter:
Keep quiet jor. Be there be looking for free lunch

good

Rabson44:
There's this teenager i met a couple months ago, to cut it short, we started dating, before she visited me i asked her if she was a virgin and she said no, she told me she was raped once by a guy in her compound, well a day happened to come when she came to my house for the first, we started having foreplays before we actually had sex, when she got home, i asked her if this was her only second time experiencing sex since she claimed to be raped once, because her pu**y was already wide, and the way she was riding, i knew she already has experience, well i kept pressuring her and she finally told me she had had sex with the guy she claimed he raped her, she said they had sex 6times, not because she wanted but because she is a kind of girl that find it hard to control herself, she told me he was the one that disflowered her at 18, that was last year, now she is 19, well the guy is no more in the compound, he only came for youth service and he had left, she claim to regret her past actions and begged me to please stop bringing up the issue, it still bothers me whenever i think of it, though we haven't met when the incident happen, i need ur advice, should i continue or back off？because i am willing to marry her when she is 25, though am 25 now, she is 19, and she sincerely love me for now, i don't know if our relationship will last, though things are going on well now, and i hv met her parents on a low, and they know my motive, but her past keeps hurting me, what should i do？

you're not ready for any relationship, by the way she will still have others to work on.so be careful

vikkimimi:
piercings does not mean a girl is loose or an OLOSHO as you call it, it's all about taste and fashion, and other times out of curiosity....same way most guys love to have tattoos, but tattoos seem costlier than having multiple piercings that's why most guys haven't gone for it.

A girl can have multiple piercings and still be more ethical than a girl without one.

I hope you're not one them ooh

femi4:
Her boobs virginity or what? Those boobs have lost it already

who told you that this one is a virgin?

bolayei:
And he said that at a human right function. It's a woman's right to get married. So illiterates can't get married as if it'd not their right. What if the girl finish secondary school at 15 yrs old. Put age limit not educational limit.

it's impossible for any child to finish secondary school by 15 in the north s go and find out

hammerU:
We are talking marriage not universal age of maturity.

There is nothing like that, we have 18 year old that are very immature and childish.


21years is better.

them never give you 18 for now na 21 you dey look for marriage in the north.to them 18 is even too old.i just pray the Gov implement it immediately so that things will get better.but I wonder if the religious beliefs of the people will allow the good move by the Gov

irynterri:
most times I wonder why people like making so much ado on Twitter over marriage list. That list is the same for every woman in the community from the King's daughter to okada man's daughter , when they give it to you it is left for you to "man-up" and pay it or you say I am not reach enough to pay please can it be reduced and it will be reduced for you or you can negotiate to pay over a 2-3 year period. las las that list no go pass 400k and even if it is 1M no be wetin people they pay for 3 bedroom flat for the island

're you from Mbaise and hope you're married ooh

seankafor:
Whether money or not she go still marry her.

These things are somehow exaggerated. The list is just like someone telling you to brink 10k on a 6 or 7k stuff..las las if u give am 6k him go collect.

This ain't new to our culture and please stop painting it as if mbaise people are that bad and sacrilegious.

Ndewo...proudly mbaise

so you're saying 600k is not much for the list now,for already used product ooh.is their daughter from mars or Jupiter? Check she is not even a virgin ooh

pocohantas moppost=81372765:
Na people wey no get money dey always write nonsense na. Even Dangote in one interview said he was searching and might consider remarrying if he finds an ideal woman. The so called celebrities know that it is a whole lot harder to get that woman they need to compliment them, not random slay queens without values.

Yet all these boys on NL will be screaming money. In this same Nigeria with a high poverty and unemployment rate.

Whereas their broke asses are in relationships and chatting with their gfs while managing their weekly sub.

You no even fit come their house see light. Na to knack inside heat sure pass.

Only on NL.

pls 've you experience what you ve just said now?

skukimania:
The same reason why the single guys don't want single mums.
Thank you.

're you a single mum?

mrvitalis:
Maybe u lack comprehension ...fela is popular for his activism through music not for his fine music

you're a jocker,you didn't even know fela.how old 're you?