₦airaland Forum

aremuforlife:
It is only a bastard Igbo that will denied been Okoro, it's like calling an Hausa man Aboki or a Yoruba man Afonja the you guys call in.
Why can't you guys leave Tinubu alone.and.face your irresponsible leaders, the SE has produce the most useless the leaders since democracy but you guys has not been condemning them but you guys are always eager to condemn the leaders of others region.

Tinubu don't even know your family or your village and you are here killing yourself. Hope you are ok?

Kekereekun123:
the problem is the guy, she say she no wan marry now. you say na by force.

later you people will go to church and start shouting holy ghost fire when you need husband again,till then

[quote author=Pattypatt post=86326626]I'm sure she has someone outside she wanted to marry, spend 3m on a wedding and you misbehave, you must vomit my money [/quite] Good babe

cococandy:
Your marriage won’t work until you drop the boss mentality and treat her like your partner.
You won’t “allow” her make decisions in your marriage. You insisted the wedding be at your own time instead of coming to a compromise.


In my opinion, you are the primary problem and your next marriage if you divorce from this one is likely to have issues too.

idiot

Mizwisdom:
Can someone help to clarify this issue for me, how can somebody in his right senses prefer to be a Boss to his wife than a friend and companion? I feel such a person is not well upstairs. Many men these days will keep reminding women that they are the Boss, why should I marry my Boss for God sake? that's the last person on earth that I would want to share my life with but I would marry my friend any day. OP, lower your pride, stop being bossy, you're using your hand to destroy your marriage, your wife is resisting because she's a human being and she wants to be treated as such. It's only a desperate lady or a villager that will allow you to manipulate and boss her like you're doing but after a while the woman will still find a way of dealing with you if you continue your bossiness. Stop it, be a friend and companion to her, listen when she talks and share your life with her. If you're nice to her, she will submit willingly, good luck

I ve seen a woman who cannot cope in marriage

Makeuplocus:
What if she right?
What if you forced her to tie the not when she isn't ready
Many of us are in relationships but not ready to actually seal the deal like getting married

I feel you should sit her down and y'all should have a heart to heart talk
Ask her what she truly wants
If she wants space, please kindly give it to her!

Don't let anyone guilt you with the statement you forced her to get married!

fucking every day in the relationship till your toto get wider than river Niger and Benue combine.later you will say no husband,fo9ooool

Globarealestate:
Oh, no problem. Let me know so we can arrange on a meeting point.

don't buy that problem ��

Globarealestate:
Very much available

you better throw that dirt away.dont even give anyone for free

hybrid77:
Pls i need a sincere advice here.

Im 3 months old in marriage and im so unhappy about the set up (my wife too)

My wife is a student and she tried everything to shift the marriage until easter this year but i refused due to many projects for the year. so we got married 3 months ago.

I took care of her bills since she got admission and we dated for 5 years

But she is so disrespectful and want to make important decisions in marriage which ive refused to allow.

Now, she claims i forced her into marriage and she is not mentally ready because i asked her to change to my family's name.

She has been good then bad then worse..And i think her words about forcing her into marriage has irreparably hurt me.

I spent over 3m of my cash to give her the wedding she wanted (Without any support from her family) against my wish for a 1m wedding.

And despite getting the big wedding she wants before consenting to marry last year, she claims she is not mentally ready and was forced into marriage.

she has repeated this over and over and its making me go crazy..in fact im tired already

Right now she wants more time to be a wife..but im beginning to feel there is a love issue here..I feel she does not love me as she always claims

Though weve settled but we dont talk as usual..we dont even want to hear from each other...

it seems i nolonger love her like i used to..And worst still, continuing with the marriage when she claims she was forced is degrading and disreputable.

My question is, at what point should anyone seriously consider a divorce?

she wants to enjoy her school boyfriend as her friends 're doing now in school.I work in the school environment and i see what is happening@ nights, so since you tied the knots it's like putting her in bondage.so she can't enjoy the night life with her friends.Guy let her go or else you will never enjoy the marriage because she will cheat on you,because she is already showing you the signs so pls just let her go.God will compensate you big time

First hand information gotten from a reliable source just told me,that His father left the farm at about 2pm before the incidence occurred. Should we keep our one Nigeria aside and tell ourselves the truth that this union is not just working as some groups re taking our simplicity for granted.its high time we wake up to face the truth.#which one Nigeria#?

goodnessme1:
We yorubas muslims are more in population.

That we don't make noise like muslims in north doesn't mean we are minority.

We have at least the 80% of the population,

minus Ibos that fill all part of our land,where are the christians?

Go to church on sundays then check how many of it members that are yorubas.

Start with all this one shop church.

french

murecool:
*Details progress in 21 Ogoni Clean-up sites, drawing international praise
 
WITH the significant progress now recorded in the Ogoni Clean-Up project, attracting local and international commendation, the Buhari administration’s New Vision for the Niger Delta is making good progress.
 
According to Mr. Laolu Akande, Senior Special Assistant to the President on Media and Publicity, in response to media inquiries over the weekend, noted that the progress report on the Niger Delta New Vision indicate clearly that “since the Ogoni Cleanup commenced in January 2019, with 16 contractors moving to site, a total of 21 sites has so far been handed over to contractors by Hydrocarbon Pollution Restoration Project (HYPREP) under the Federal Ministry of Environment.”
 
This is besides the commencement of the Maritime University in Delta State now on full steam with over 1,000 students spread across 13 undergraduate courses in three faculties; and the progress made in the establishment of modular refineries, including the Niger Delta Resources Refinery, NDPR which has now moved from 1,000 Bpd to 6,000 Bpd a few weeks ago.
 
There are altogether six modular refineries currently at different stages of completion in the 6 Niger Delta states of Rivers, Delta, Akwa Ibom, Bayelsa, Cross River and Imo States.
 
Giving details on the Ogoni Clean-Up, Akande disclosed that “the 21 sites where remediation works are ongoing are located in four of the Local Government Areas in Ogoniland, namely: Eleme, Tai, Khana and Gokana Local Government areas,” adding that local and international commendation are being received by the Buhari Administration on the progress of the Clean-up.
 
It would be recalled that the 2011 United Nations Environment Programme (UNEP) report on Ogoniland devastated by decades of oil spills was not implemented until June 2016, when the Buhari administration kickstarted its implementation. Then, Vice President Yemi Osinbajo, SAN, flagged off the clean-up exercise in the region.
 
According to Akande, “the commitment of the Buhari administration to the Ogoni cleanup process has received several local and international endorsements, with visits to the sites by the Dutch Ambassador, British Deputy High Commissioner, US Ambassador, German Ambassador, Norwegian Ambassador, UNEP team, among others, all attesting to the progress being recorded in the Clean-up.”
 
Giving an insight to the Progress Report, Akande quotes this:
“I can see that work is ongoing and hopefully it will produce results soon,” the Netherlands Ambassador to Nigeria, Marion Kappeyne Van de Coppello, said in August 2019 when she visited one of the sites in Eleme Local Government Area.
 
“Also, during an inspection visit, the UNEP team leader, Mr. Mike Cowing, said the re-engagement of the UNEP team for the Ogoni clean-up shows the commitment of the Federal Government to effectively implement the UNEP Report. “We see that very sincere plans are being put together. We are part of the planning and we would be part of the implementation,” Cowing said.
 
The report also noted that, “as part of its commitment, HYPREP and UNEP recently trained young Ogoni scientists and other indigenes with relevant professional qualification from Ogoni. Twenty-one of these young Ogoni youths have returned from Geneva and United Kingdom, after an intensive training in Management of Contaminated Site Assessment, Clean-up Assessment, Clean-up of Contaminated Sites and Field Work Techniques.”
 
Below are some of the highlights of the Progress Report and developments in other projects in the Niger Delta.
 
Some of the ongoing development projects under the Buhari administration’s Niger Delta New Vision include the take-off of the Nigeria Maritime University in Okerenkoko, Delta State. The University had commenced full academic activities for the 2017/2018 academic year in April, 2018, with a total of 370 students spread across 13 undergraduate programmes in three Faculties approved by the NUC, namely: Transport, Engineering and Environmental Management.
 
Also, with the establishment of modular refineries in the region, analysts are of the view that these modular refineries will empower people in the region and also improve the local economy in communities where they are located.
 
So far, six modular refineries are currently at different stages of completion in the Niger Delta region. The refineries are located in six states in the Niger Delta: Rivers, Delta, Akwa Ibom, Imo, Bayelsa and Cross River. This includes the Niger Delta Petroleum Resources Refinery (NDPR), in Ogbele, Rivers State, which was refining at 1,000 bpd, and was recently upgraded to 6,000 bpd.
 
The Federal Government’s Presidential Amnesty Presidential Amnesty Programme continues to engage ex-militants and youths in the Niger Delta in formal education, vocational skills acquisition and empowerment schemes, while creating jobs for beneficiaries.
 
The Niger Delta region is also benefitting for the Buhari administration’s efforts to improve the country's infrastructure, including the Bonny-Bodo road and bridge project.
 
This is an important road and bridge going across the Opobo channel, being undertaken as a collaboration between NLNG and the Federal Government.
 
When completed, the 34-kilometre Bonny-Bodo road and bridge project, which was flagged off in October 2017, would connect several major communities and boost socioeconomic development in the region.
 
There is also the Itakpe-Warri rail line project which is now complete and ready for commissioning. The rail line would handle passenger, commercial and freight services.
 
The Federal Government is also in the process of developing sea ports in the region, including Warri, Ibaka deep see port, among other development projects like the establishment of Export Processing Zones to boost economic activities.
  
In the same vein, the Niger Delta Development Commission (NDDC), is being repositioned for better delivery. It would be recalled that following the directive of President Muhammadu Buhari, the NDDC has since begun the audit and verification of projects and contracts in the nine Niger Delta states to better serve the people of the region in terms of development.

Laolu Akande
Senior Special Assistant to the President on Media and Publicity
Office of the Vice President
26th January, 2020


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aDBj7LGH7nM

Big lie, where re the refineries?

givbitcoin:
Will Amotekun fail? Yes, in less than 2 months, it will cease to exist.

Will "these" people get away with this treasonable act of creating terrorism in the country? No, the punishment for this silly behaviour will be perpetual.

For the fact that this Amotekun nonsense still lingers up till now shows clearly that yoruba elders have evil plan against the unity of this country and we must be ready. I dare say that they have temporary lost their place in Nigerian politics.

Truly, people make mistakes but once they realise, they apologise and make amends. This is what the yoruba elders have failed to do. Even tinubu did not deem it necessary to come out and condemn this terrorism. This has evidently made him an accomplice.

To all yoruba people reading me, IT IS NOT GOING TO BE AN EASY RACE FOR YOU!!

You are about to destroy the trust other Nigerians have for you and this might haunt you for years.

A word is enough for the wise

high on weed

OyinO:
Heaven/Haven is Europe while Hell is Africa. So people run away to escape hell by going to Haven/Heaven. Shame on African leaders and the dumb youths following and supporting them. The land flowing with milk and honey is Africa, and nowhere else. Look at the international disgrace of AFRICA'S TOP CRUDE OIL EXPORTER.

correct

uxomed:
I am a single mom , based in Lagos,an entrepreneur , 40, in search of a single guy, single dad, divorcee or widower who's ready to settle down as soon as possible. Must be above 40, Christian and God fearing. Ibo/ south south preferably.
Call or whatsapp : 07087446753

which state re you from?

obembet:
Source: https://punchng.com/pick-your-successor-bakare-urges-buhari/amp/?__twitter_impression=true

Fool, which legacy are you talking about?

Eve62:
I'm trying to find out if I can get fairly used clothes (I.e okrika clothes) in Aba. This is beco s of proximity to Aba as Lagos is quite far from my location.

Pls if u have an idea, kindly share with me. Thanks.

ask for uche's garden, you will get all your needs from there

victorlake:
Good morning to you all, have an issue that has been disturbing me for some days now. I happened to work in a reputable organization, sometime in 2018, I lost my job and I decided to go into business but lost everything in that business because I was duped, since then life has not been easy. Have searched for jobs since then till now and nothing seems to be happening. just two days back, my supposed fiance who has been so supportive called and told me that she's giving me this year that if nothing good happen and I get married to her, that she's quitting the relationship. the big question is if she really loves me and want to spend the rest of her life with me, will she give me a deadline?

let her go, find your feet back you will get a better girl for sure

Rokia2:
She's pretty.

What made her come to such desperation is what I don't understand.

maybe the society she finds herself

deavicky:
I met this lady shortly after I breaking up with my ex girl on health ground. After we split, i was in great pain till i met my present girl. from the moment I met her, i felt a very big relief and ever since I've kept on loving her more and more by the day, So I decide to tie the nut.
I engaged her, planning to get married to her by june. but her mum is kind of against the union cos she said I'm not from their tribe.(that's what she said).
To discourage the union her mum threaten of telling me of her passed, being sure she hasn't told me. This is why she is just telling me, that she had been married before. That the marriage lasted for about 10 months, no church wedding and there is also no child between them. I'm so worried because of my parents. Their reaction will not be good if i tell them, and If i don't tell my parents before time, and they happens to know of it on the wrong time maybe on the marriage ceremony, (someone said such traditional marriage is always done in a different manner so they will end up knowing).I'm sure their reaction will not be good. And if i tell them now, it might one way or the other affect the marriage because they wouldn't want to be involve and i can not go for the marriage without the company of my people. I'm confuse on how to handle my parents. But for me I'm still ready to go on with the marriage. Only I wonder why she didn't tell me till she was threatened. pls air ur view and advise me on how and when could be the best time to discuss this with my parents.

Run for your life. The woman i married hid everything from me, After wedding child bearing is a major challenge now as I speak, she was even married before but hid it and she is even far older than me before i could know was when I went to her immediate elder sister's burial.that night no be small fight,till now the fight is still on.six months after wedding she started complaining about her stomach, went for a scan is was fibroids.Check why she left the first marriage if you can't get any tangible information please please please please Run.......... For your life.

100Cents:
Marrying a divorced woman is ADULTERY..

the Bible was written based on the Hebrew tradition,as at then you hardly see women misbehaving or had sex before wedding on like what you see today.

DjAndroid:
My cousin will relocate to the US early next year, what skills can he acquire here in Nigeria first in order to make ends meet over there? He is in his early 30's.

it's almost or already late, Nigerians with last minute preparation

veteranExboy:
House, I met my current girlfriend in 2016 when she was in 100 level. I asked her to date me but got turned down. After several attempts to woo her, I gave up and decided to delete her contact because I hate being friend zoned.

Her reason was she had a boyfriend who was in another state schooling. Within 2016 and 2018 she called me twice and was not happy that I didn't have her number (I kept on asking who was speaking the two times she called) but I never stopped telling her I'm not going to be her friend because that's not what I want from her. I want a relationship.

Fast forward to may 2019, we met coincidentally and I got her contact again. I asked for a date, she agreed. We met at the joint, but she came along with a friend (after asking me 5 minutes before we met, I agreed). After the lunch (not a date anymore), we spoke at night and she agreed to date me after I asked again. She was single by this time.

Some of my male friends think I'm crazy because it took her all that time before she agreed to date me but I feel she was right not to double date and she said she didn't have any feelings for me then.

Please House, am I crazy because I still had interest in her after 3 years?

if she meet someone better than you she will quit because to her you re a second choice, period

shawnfamous:
U don't have any spiritual Husband.. U must have Dated for the wrong reasons, and maybe u should check your character.. Not everyone are tolerateble

correct

jimyjames:
We need this world war 3 to restructure this world especially Africa, Africa needs to restructure and adjust its map and break into smaller pieces , Nigeria itself need to break into three nations

6

BuhariAdvocate:
So when Trump is going to kill kanu Because kanu is a terrorist too.
He killed a pastor in Anambra too and many people. Across the nation.

my friend read,understand then make research before you comment pls.must you behave like your brother

XoNaya:
Hello everyone, great platform...

I’m a silent follower of this forum and my favorite is the travel section and I must say there is a wealth of information packed there..

Please I need help in getting clarification..

I’m a single mom trying to start a better life by going to USA on visiting visa with my daughter, , I am saving up money to be able to sustain for 6 months...

I can braid hair, makeup and sew...

My questions are

1. Please what state or city do you suggest I stay for affordability and building clientele.

2. How do I go about renting a shared apartment with a visiting visa that can take me even when my visa expires if I’m not ‘married ‘ before then?

3 . Please any idea on how to reach potential clients with out putting myself out to be caught by immigration and deported.

4 . Please how can I get some one to get married to and what is the cost?

5. Please is there anyone willing to serve as a guide in USA, I promise I won’t be a liability, my daughters life is not safe in Nigeria because of the circumstances surrounding her conception and birth (long story)

6. How much please would it cost to take my daughter through pre school to high school

7. Please if I’m able to be a citizen by marriage, would my daughter automatically became a citizen as well?


Please help a mother, forgive my gazillion questions ..

Thank you �

please try Brazil, if you can give birth there your daughter will be safe there.check giving birth in Brazil thread

DennisEche:
For me buhari should be given a chance for third term because two tenure i not enough to finish the qoob work he started.

pls check yourself very well

Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue.
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future with my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the past 6 months.

We have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust. The journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other.

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him.

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes. I confronted her about it and she started crying, was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her, asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.

She told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much. I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.

Say whatever you want to but just be brutally honest with me....

Go get money that girl will never wait for you don't waste your time

Searchingforbae:
There is something called circumstances . I have had two long term relationship that ended up wasting my time so sometimes its go you don't go assuming what you don't know about people.


As for your pessimism of me not finding the kind of man here ,i will say that is not for you to decide after all something good actually came out of Nazareth ,i am looking or a husband not husbands ,so all it takes is just one man to meet the criteria which i dont think is unrealistic.If you dont meet the criteria fine except you mean to tell me only ugly broke and mannerless men litter this forum

ask God for his choice for you not your choice that may cos you trouble