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The potential one is just.... guys will be shouting "if he has potential marry him" "he mustn't be this" "he mustn't be that".

It's almost like they want women to "manage" them you know "take them the way they are" and all that BS. But on the flip side, the woman must be perfect before marriage.

But I don't buy it... no1 is perfect! true! But, if I must be evaluated, I surely will evaluate the man as well. No1 is gon manage anyone. I aint marrying potential coz potential money makers might just remain potential money makers at the end of the day. A man has to pull his own weight.(period)

skelefish:
King daughter, this is absolutely not true. Your comment bespeaks nothing but bleak female bigotry. I begrudge your ludicrous perception, u have said it all, women are nothing but mere procreation toys who have nothing to offer rather than their specious contribution for equality.Nothing signify a woman in heaven, we conceive God as male, jesus came as a man, angels are male, that was why they were able to transform into human form to slp with women. The only creature I conceived to be a woman back then in heaven happens to be satan. my Instinct tells me the devil is a woman, lucifer, sounds feminine & also had a nice voice, because her envy of God's position in heaven started with this same equality struggle. God- papa, Jesus- pikin, wey the mama?

Adaeze u'll help me to research on this.

ROTFL... are you a hermaphrodite? if no, abeg swerve jor make I see road.

Ok... reading some posts here is just... lol


I think the superior beings are actually hermaphrodites... I mean, to make a baby all by yourself? that's dop£!

Other than that, guys can dream on... there is no superior gender as far as life is concerned. I saw somewhere that a lioness needs her lion? Well I guess the lion is gay and tearing up his fellow lion's annus will give him babies rii?

Everyone is as important as the next person... and I think it's pathetic that some ladies actually think they are inferior. smh.

lilmax:
i was waiting for your post, I know you must say something about submission

lol

So... having a Facebook account is now a job...

Demanding submission is just the most silly thing I've heard of... Boys don't get it, you just don't tell another human to submit to you!

If you show yourself worthy to lead your family and you're both humble, she will let you lead!

Women just can't submit to every tom ,dick or harry just coz he has a pen in between his thighs...

Submit this.... submit that... even the agbero on the street will be shouting submit.

*sighs*

abbyrian:
What figure does she have

Lol! Wicked...

Ok, maybe I should have used physique.

I'm sorry but I don't like the dress on her at all.

She did so well last award season, what's happening now?

The dress don't look right on her and doesn't flatter her figure in my eyes ie from what I see.
It's a miss 4 me...

^^ just what I thought!

Happy new year guys!

Ehm... do I expect him to tell the chick who was in the car before me to go to the back? That's rude like sm1 said and knowing that girls have some sort of bad belle for other girls be sure she'll not speak to him again... lol.

Seat at the back jor... unless u add money buy the car...

The only reason an average lady will lie about her status is just that... She's AVERAGE!

No sense of self worth... I mean, if your worth died with your hymen then you have more problems than you know of. lol...

emusmith:
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Are you in a relationship?

Lol

emusmith:
Are you married?

Nope but I see nothing extra special on the list. I mean, they're not so hard to do.

Cheating is one betrayal I can't handle...

Yet some ladies be washing em stinking boxers... lmao...

No hugs? Hang out with a third party?

Lol I'm out of that SHIP biko

What's on that list that people don't do everyday?

Happy new year people!!!

Longest time, I went to the village... yes! Village not "villa" or "le ville" coz the network service there was nothing to write about...

Well, the suggestions given so far are kul, maybe except for the time frame coz sometimes it takes a while to get enough comments due to uncontrollable circumstances I must add.

Anyhoo, hoping to have much more fun with ya'll this year, God willing that is...

Cheers

jingh:
Marriage isn't the criteria for been happy
but as a lady from Yoruba tribe, I don't condone all this nonsense she is doing.
child she no get
Husband she no get

I pity your life for
you Ve money and fame and you think dats all matter.
I pray your eyes open before its too late

Lol... see how bitter you are over someone else's life? she looks happy n you're there dying ontop her matter... ha! shuo...

I hope you won't mind the wifey giving you palm wine on your trad standing?

Sounds like a stupid question rii?

Elantracey:
I understand biology perfectly but you need to do some work on physics , Newton's first law states that a particle remains at rest except an external force is applied to it . If some of you guys don't always demand for sex like its a right this thread would have not be created and Most times the force (pressure) applied is usually greater than the resistivity of the lady . Only ladies with grace like me could easily resist it.

Been reading your posts n m kinda on edge about it, what ever that means.

Why are you making excuses for gals? You don't want sex but he pressured you? I'd say, you put yourself in the position to be pressured, if you aint alone or in in the dark with him how on earth will he pressure you?

That's one hell of a messed up excuse unless you're underage.

You sabi physics sha

lilmax:
what is the meaning of the word? And why are you avoiding my question?

I attached screen shots below that post... refer to that for your definition.

What question? On how i'll raise my daughters? Lol that's not your problem or is it? Ya'll like getting all personal unnecessarily.

Is marriage a job? If yes, why is it a job only for women? Abi man no dey obey him female boss?

lilmax:
Submitting to your husband does not mean a wife can’t have independent thoughts, feelings or desires. Or that she must follow her husband’s command if he’s sinning.

It doesn’t mean she’s less intelligent than her husband or that she shouldn’t seek to influence him in family decisions.you cannot tell me you are a christian and you cannot submit, you are making it look as if its a sin to do it

You claim you are a christian, the question is how can you raise your daughter in a christian way if you think it's not a good idea to do it and btw how do you raise your daughter? By telling them its wrong to submit to their husbands? And right to obey every instructions from their bosses?

Lol! Really? I knew it, most of you dunno the meaning of the word.

ha cho iri m

M just saying my mind jor, doesn't mean your wives will think the same way...

Let me just go ahead to say that demanding submission sounds as ridiculous as demanding respect. If you prove yourself worthy to lead your home, you won't be bothered about submission it'll just come...

And again, 100% submission is not even possible. Why? Coz we all gat a mind of our own

lilmax:
a mind of your own seriously?.... So if your son decide not to respect you and say thats how his mind works, what would you do?.... Seriously "a mind of your own " as an excuse doesn't make sense to me......when a girl decides not to submit to her husband I think that's where pride comes in, may be because she earns more than him or something

Respect? Lol. Well how about you tell me what you think submission is?

Btw, respect is earned! I can't be a junky mum n expect my son to respect me.

Why can't you beg on the street when you're dead broke? It's pride man... it's not so evil.

lilmax:
really? Because you are the most beautiful woman on earth? the problem is you girls don't know the meaning of submission, you think its slavery

Nah... so the reason you seek a submissive gurl is coz you're the most handsome man on earth? Oh please...

Coz i'm a human with a mind of my own... how about that?

And since you know the meaning of submission, how about you enlighten me?

Hmm...

I can't believe that someone somewhere is expecting me to submit to him...

I'm a Christian but the idea of submission gives me the itch because the word connotes a master-slave type relationship.

I like this thread but like someone said, you are married and you don't look 27-30 to me unless of course you look younger than your age.

If I'm right then there's some kind of hypocrisy in this post... you know, saying one thing n doing the opposite?

Oh well... like I said, I agree with the post, there is no specific age for marriage.

mentorandfriend:
Do it for the right reasons. Be sure she understands why you wanna quit, and search your heart thoroughly to know if you aint being selfish; selfish in the sense that you only thought about yourself. Yes. Any questions?

Errm... why shouldn't I be selfish? are we married? Why shouldn't I do what's best for me?

Dunno if you've noticed but "in a relationship" is not even a status...

Errm... No.

Date a spouse? Lol...