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An illogical statement from me?
As Eminem said: "naughty woman, are you retarded?"

What a clown, Eminen is now your most quoted  encyclopedia   ?
It seems ur brain is frozen like your eyes? Always coming up with being retarded? The mere fact that you could not read and understand the sentencing judge's statement means that you have selective amnesia with myopic vision or your   Alzheimer's disease is at infancy level. Go see a doctor!!!

Foool, prove your conjecture and show you are smart
Trying to prove an illogical statement from you, is like waiting for a bird to have an orgasm . You can can prove something to a brain that's amenable to learning, but yours has been quarantined by NHS, so there is no point giving any medication after death.

What rampant junk are you talking about here, slowpoke? You just had to say something since you know you daftness is due to a moronic conjecture?

Thanks to Nairaland for putting up with your idiotic displays where minimum criterion for being a member is just having an IQ as "high" as that of a Chimp. So in animal kingdom, a chimp is considered wise, but right here it qualifies U as an NL bouncer and you have clearly displayed it. Big mouth=brainless.

And they wonder why they are unemployable Thinking b4 typing is to your brain what Calculus is to a bus conductor in Lagos . The difference between your irrational fat finger and the one on Wall Street is that yours is only good for raining abuses and curses ,while the one on Wall Street could be useful in making millionaires in a flash, like typing $60 million instead of $60billion or vice versa. Making money on Wall Street is to a fat finger a piece of cake, while reading b4 typing is to your fat finger a rocket science. Wall Street's fat finger is employable, while yours is not, only wandering as an alaye on NL.

It seems he does not know that NEPA is needed to power PCs for facebook users!!

I think it will really be unfair to compare Zuma to Mandela, if that was your benchmark on fairness, however, Zuma he comes off as someone who has lived his life in struggle. It's like Jesse Jackson who fought in Civil Rights era, but had had an illegitimate child. I think Zuma is authentic, relatable and reflects the actualisation of black emancipation in RSA.  It's like George Bush and Al Gore in 1999 elections.

Idiot, you read with your worn-out lenses, made for Papa Ajasco and company, you curse with your brain, so there is no room left for normal thinking in your brain. You come off as someone who's got an impulsive fat finger who lets his hands do the reasoning and typing. It's hidden in the details, but then again, you have no inner eyes to see it. Good luck

slowpoke, you can't defend your statement?
dumb ass, since you could not read the statement, there is no need re-posting it for you. You ve got to defend your statement against the judge's not mine.

Alaye Nairaland, ask someone to read it for u

Change ur reading glasses or use Aromatic Schnapps to cleanse it. MUMU

If the wife paid for the wedding ring and the wedding and has got a nice crib, then the man should move, but I forgot this happens in Sweden, not in  Naija where women do not pay for wedding.  50/50 in everything but finance.

Shut up!

What kind of stup.id and daft mentality is this?

Every negative thing that involves a Nigerian automatically means everyone associate the crime with us. Are you foooools? Do white people not despoil?
A replica of idiocy. Did you not read what the Judge said about Naija? I forgot your were reading with Papa Ajasco's glasses. This is 2010 visit an eye doctor.

Fear of Jonathan is the begining of wisdom. OBJ vs Audu Ogbe style? This gives us an insight on how general elections are going to be played. This man is not going to be different from OBJ.

Why is r-ape being called intimacy by the web moderator? This judge did not also help matter-s/he could sentenced this idiot to 47yrs, so that he will be 60 when he comes out of prison. Send him back to Naija where there will be no welfare to take of him. This guy has established a prima facie against any Naija who may wish to have her in this court.

Nigeria has never or will ever be one nation based on this fear of individual identity of nations. The only little chance for one Nigeria will possibly come through a confederated independent nations, where everyone is free to do their own thing based on their set values.  While maintaining a small centre. You don’t want to hear about tribe but every person you had probably ever voted in an election is from your tribe, unless your tribes man in not on the ballot paper for some reason.
Spot on!!
The same folks who say one Nigeria at all costs are saying that Jonathan is disqualified from contesting next presidential election becuase of his tribe. They are the same folks saying that rotational presidency is the way to go. I guess rotational preidency sounds more sexier than tribal presidency.

Maybe Obama is more Kenyan than Mr Odinga ?

to me the girls are plain dumb, ive seen soo many of them used dumped sometimes dumped with kids and people are still gonna breeze my ear! puhleeeeze some times its a good idea to wake up and smell the cofee

before u start writing me long backside essays on what they do kmt

thank God for them there will be too many illegal men flouting about!

its nothing to do with nigerian culture i think like this cos of the pathetic men and not the lazy women!!!

if a man cannot work and look after himself he's good for nothing and belongs on the streets

even a german wont disagree with that! kmt

How could you call someone who does not have work permit lazy? It's either you are too dumb to understand or too emotional to reason. Since you have known a lot of Naija- millions of them- how many have you seen living off a woman's paycheck? It's customary for Niaja woman to live off a man's paycheck than a man would. Got it? You are trying to use urself as a standard, you are not a statistician to conclude that millions of Naija men are like that or do you have any data to back up your frivolous claims.

Where are u getting your fact that this 'boy' does not want to work? It's illegal to work without work authorization, and employers will not hire you and may report u to the police. Stop spewing ignorance. Ur mentality smacks of someone who has a skewed mentality of how relationship works ie men must always pay bills, even if he has to steal. This is 2010 not 1950.

good one!!!

because u dont want to be seen as failure in life

higgledy-piggledy

First let me say South Africans are not silly and illiterate.And I think Mpele's mistake was to try to reason with you,since I think you've got other issues that you have to deal with.

Regarding the world cup,it is in South Africa,hosted by South Africans and as host we have a right to demand certain things.To be honest you should be happy as an African that we don't let Europeans control us or send us around like headless chickens because we're Africans.
The sad things it is only in Africa where a visitor takes control of the host house and run things,and in South Africa our pride it too big to let anyone to do that in our backyard.
Maybe it was allowed inthe other world cups but in South Afruca we won't let it happens,if we do it will be because we want it to happen and it's not forced on us.
This world cup is sponsored by me,a taxpayer and a proud South African who want his country to move forward,

Should precedence be ignored simply because RSA wants their musicians to sing the song? You are paying for it, but also going to reap the reward. Remembered losing to Germany? This reminds me when Jennifer Hudson-Hollywood actress was billed to play Winnie Mandela in a movie, guild of actors started to demand that a local artiste be chosen even though it was Ok for Morgan Freeman to play Mandela in Invictus. Sometime, this national ego has to be turned down. If RSA had not been given the hosting right, so many other countries would have COMPETED for it. It's a privilege to host the WC not a right.
The WC public does not care who sings the song, but cares deeply how your country would showcase a different side of Africa to the world. This show ain’t it.

@infortune

http://family-law.lawyers.com/divorce/Can-This-Marriage-be-Annulled.html
http://family.findlaw.com/divorce/divorce-more/annulment-vs-divorce.html

hear what your saying-- put me bein a woman aside, or me not likin nigerian men aside

what kind of honest respectable man sits around waitin like a scrub for a woman to be payin for all thier dinners??

a man with no job shouldnt even have a gf, he should be lookin for a job!!!!

if any man will succeed in life- he wont have a woman paying for his ish-----Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime---unfortunately this girl is gonna be feedin him food and puzzy until she fixes up and finds a man that has a job!!!!

You are coming with Naija mentality; a man MUST always spend for his woman even if he has to steal. German girl is different and the guy's predicament is that he does not have work authorization. You are not connecting the story. If you could vouch that all Nigerian men are users, why cant you also say that all Nigerian men are hard workers and breadwinner, so this man in question cannot be different from his folks back home. Since it's inborn in Naija men to use women for sex as you claim, could u also say that Naija women use men for money.
The problem is that your narrow minded view of how relationship works should not be viewed as a model. As per German, women who have culturally been taught that there are no shared sacrifices in relationships are advising you. This is how it goes in Nigeria, a man should go build himself up, after that, and you can search for a wife. Naija way of relationship is , the man pays the bills, and the woman supplies sexual pleasure.
A man who has potentials e.g college degree, but not a job in Nigeria will still find very difficult to get a date let a lone a wife. So it's never in our culture for woman to help build a man. So be careful what you are asking for. If u checked their posts they are were more appalled about picking up the tab than any other thing u mentioned.
The answer to your case is simple, there is no way someone who does not have a job will pay the bills. Stop taking him out if he is the one asking you to spend on him.

be careful with pieces of advice you receive from some female members of NIL. They always give stereotypical answers. If you had changed the question " I'm dating this Naija guy, He does not show me any affection " they would tell that Naija men are like that and he might have wife in Naija. Be careful of one size fits all solutions. You really know this guy more than these nameless and faceless folks. It depends on the context, if you guys really love to talk dirty, that's no way he will not use those words or maybe if you told him that the sex was good, should you not expect his response to be sexually and explicitly worded?

This is different!

Maybe the wife was being tolerant and praying for things to change. Everone wants a wife who will accept them the way they are. The poor woman must have tried hard to do that but like someone siad, everyone has a breaking point!

A guy promised to marry you and kept you waiting for ten years and later broke the bad news that " you are not good in bed" because he slept with other chics to compare.

Ten years will really be long to keep a thing of this nature to yourself. Maybe this guy was the highest bidder and she followed the money- trust most Naija women in picking financial security over most things in a marriage.

and soo? Tony Blair believed that God wanted him to invade Iraq. How doe his belief help average Brit?

why cant these useless Naija journalists verify facts? I guess in Naija we are allergic to facts, that's why someone posted this junk .Moderator please remove or rename this misleading piece.

Culled from Rolexawards.com 
" Over 90 per cent of Nigeria’s population of 150 million lives on less than US$2 a day. Millions of those living below the poverty line are small farmers, many of them cut off from vital sources of information that could help them improve their farming methods and raise their living standards  "

Mr. husband just work on your skills period. very recently I heard of a case where a man was complaining that his wife was no longer receptive to love making and bla bla and their pastor called the two of them. The Pastor began by saying how can you after 9 years now start denying your husband, do you want him to go outside? she calmly replied 'it may do us both a world of good, perharps it will help him improve his skills' after which she broke down in tears and narrated her pain of 9 years and she could no longer cope or keep pretending. everyone has a breaking point!

Posters please do not judge the woman, you are not wearing her shoes.

Any person who's willing to wait for ten years before spewing how bad things were has a carcinogenic and poisonous mind. If she kept complaining in the course of the marriage, then she is free to take a walk, 10 years to figure out that it would not work is very self serving and deceitful in nature. This woman is nothing, but a Delilah. Having the knowledge that it would never work from the onset and she went ahead to sign the marriage contract anyway renders it a nullity.
Let's re-enact the scenario, it took a guy ten years to tell you that she had another wife in his village after you had kids for him? Would that be acceptable by you.
There is a legal loophole to be explored in this marriage" that this marriage never happened" He should seek for a marriage annulment not a divorce.

In America, if u dont want polticians to be held accountable in an election year for their misdeeds, throw in social issues, like gay marriage, immigration, and abortion etc.
In Nigeria, if you  want to kill  a meaningful discuss, throw in tribal affiliations. This OP got it!!

because they limit themselves to black men


instead of bein open to all races- there are succeful men everywhere

cant say the same for succesful black men!

Why do most black women use this as their premise? Once you are in this category of thinking, it puts you into a comfortable delusional corner that  most black men are failures in life. I  was  astonished to hear a black woman talk about how  all black are no good for  her. Even though in her life, she never held a meaningful job, she is a student-never paid her bills. She's always taken off by her parents. I said to her if you cannot find successful black men would you include  your brothers? She said no.  I asked her what happened to all the guys you met in college? Why did you not work to blossom that relationship with a view of settling down with the person? What happened to those  you met at work , conventions and seminars?Maybe they never measured to your social status? How about men you met before you acquired  the so called status?
Some successful black men like Dwyane Wade and Lebron James have gone on to  settle down with their high school sweethearts not minding their new found success and fortune, but some black women feel that If they have a million dollars in their account, they  MUST marry someone who has got 10 million. Okocha and Kanu would still be looking for  wives if they had insisted that she MUST be rich and popular like us. You cannot be as successful as Michele Obama and  still, she found Barrack Obama. She was Obama's senior in their law firm and was making more money than him. She also made more money working at University of Chicago, while Obama was a state senator.  Could these women be more successful than Ursula Burns CEO of Zerox who is happily married, but this time around her husband is not a CEO