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What I see most guys say is dat they have a gf but they dont get along as they do with their female friends. Why not make your gf your best friend. The bond in every healthy relationship should be primarily based on friendship before intimacy.

From my experience I would say over familiarity is a relationship killer. The moment a girl gets too familiar with you, you re done n dumped in that deep dark basement called friendzone. It would only take a divine intervention to rescue you.

[quote author=Nadia_SA1]cheiiii utsini shem wena[/quote]Nne biko suo ya na asusu beke.

Some guys are like that. Its not that they dont love. They may even have more feelings for you than you do for them but they re too shy or rigid to express it. You just have to understand em n give em time to gradually come out of their shells.

obyrich: IKEchukwu.

their gps de scan per second. Before you type their name finish you don see reply.

Congrats Mr Apoti.....there s noting in this world that can be compared to a loving n caring family.

tinahrex: Is it still there??...If yes,hw do we get IT down here?!?

Bringing it here would be like bringing the moon down here....with the size n mass that thing it could probably sink one continent or cause earth to shift outta orbit....did I mention it takes over 40 years to get to it.......but nothing is impossible. It can be done.but its not worth it.

[quote author=Nadia_SA1]the ones in SA like bum bum[/quote]No wonder em no de gree come back. ...

[quote author=Nuzo']Were you just expecting only shallow answers to your question?

That lady just dropped some heavy stuff for you. Read it thru again and again.[/quote]Bro pls decode the message n explain in english. Thanks

Light skinned all the way...dark skinned...you know what to do...

Unbelievable!!!! this is really insane....

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bro....self control n commitment. Two vital virtues in human existence. Not every every car you see must be bought n driven. Not every food you come across must be eaten. Same applies for women. Even if you screw 3 women every day...you cant exhaust em all. And ll eventually end up miserable n depressed. If you doubt ask of the likes of Casanova n Don Juan. life is more refreshing when spent with commitment to those who truly care about us.

Tayeni: if a lady says she is no longer interested then its goodbye o. Thats a bridge of no return. No means "no". I'd be proud enough to walk away; and humble enough to know i lost her(as painful as that might feel).

Gbam.....no return just keep walking. After she calls it off, she calls to say she regrets doing dat but itz already done, sealed,stamped n dropped into the depths of the Atlantic. So face front never look back.....dnt forget what happened to lot's wife. Lifes too short for second chance.

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Hehehe...trade by batter started with our ancestors dont blame us when we continue from where they stopped..

As long as she goes on one knee to do it..

ITbomb: @ addictiv
FWB? hmm , I wonder the benefits
I do enjoy her company even more than my gf, there was a time my gf came in and she just quietly left and the next day came back and behave like nothing happened.
I wonder if a girl can agree later to marry a person that she had seen with another girl in that kind of situation

Friends with benefits@ fwb.
Bro you just have to decide ob what you want. Do just want her for intimate reasons or you want to keep her n possibly spend the rest of your life with her.. if its d latter then you ll have to show commitment by ending tinz with your current girl but it may not be enough to convince her. She may really dig you but you ll have to convince her by not just words but actions too that you re serious. However if itz just for fun n intimacy, then I wont advise that you go into it. Cos it may ruin your friendship with her later after the euphoria has worn off. What do you value more your friendship or your intimate satisfaction?

Like the op says "marry your friend" if marriage isnt in sight and you re not ready to settle down. I wont advise you to go into it cos the breakup could have a devastating effect n your friendship may be lost. Except its a FWB relationship.

Dating your friend is usually nice cause you already know the person n what he or she likes. However the scare is that when you guys breakup you might never return to being friends again.The best relationship I had was with my friend. We were like 5 n 6. We reasoned at the same frequency. We only had to look at each other n we could tell whats on each others mind. The relationship was beautiful n amazing, n ll do it again if I could. But now we cant cross paths with each other, which I regret deeply.

You can always get veet for her. Heard it removes hair like hypo removes stains.shaving is a bad idea if she doesn't wanna end up looking like rick ross. She should also see a dokita.

Means she be better pikin and she go sabi d thing.

Submission this subjection that....whats wrong in putting personal sentiments aside and doing whats best for the union and the home....

obaobirin: .

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Africa Magic: [color=#FFFF00]It's simple. If you are dating any lady and she doesn't live up to your expectation, simply call it a quit and stop holding someone's wife to ransom in false pretenses and pity [/color]

How many guys would do dat when they know they wont eventually end up with the lady....there re even cases that even when the lady knows this she ll still stay for reasons best known to her. I have heard guys who say that they cant marry thier current GF's yet they wont free the chick cos obviously she is just used for intimate gratification. Many folks re not sincere to themselves not to talk of their partners. So therefore its left to thier partners to decide on what they really want..

Personal Opinion.

It doesn't mean that you must sleep around with every folk you go on a date with. But it gives you the opportunity to have variables which you can compare against each other and objectively make a choice which best fits into your lifes goals and desires. So if gf sees someone she feels ll fit into her life better than myself n she wants to know more about that person, she can go on a date with em. Same applies for myself. But from the moment I propse marriage to her . She accepts to be my wife and we get engaged to each other. I would expect her to abide with me, cos she has made her decision objectively after comparative observation of variables. Thus she can be held accontable for any breach.

Note...this is solely my view n personal opinion which i am entitled to.. I am not saying its ideal for everyone.

While i agree with yield. ...... Most of us dont get the op s. Perspective. Primarily Relationships where meant to lead to marrìage then procreation . However so many folks get into relationships for so many reasons most of which 80% involves personal interest. How many of us can sincerely say that when you started dating your current partner, it was based on pure selfless love. The type that makes you give everything just to see that person happy and without expecting anything in return. Even if the person loves you back or not,you just want to create an impact in their lives and affect them positively. If you can boast of this then i must commend you. What most of us re running now, are just trade by batter franchise where we give either our care, attention, funds, sexual gratification in exchange for someones loyalty, respect, security etc. People get into relationships for so many reasons be it emotional, financial ,spiritual, sexual reasons etc. No guy would come straight up n tell a lady that he just wants her for a bedmate n no lady would tell a guy outrightly that she is only in for the financial benefits. They would all hide under the umbrella of love. We see people who give their all in a relationship that lasts for 3 to 11 years and in the end they re left heartbroken. After all the money spent, mental n emotional stress that cant be quantified, time wasted that cant be replaced, at the end you get to have memories you wish can be wiped out. So how does one decide on the partners who share the same ideologies with em with without wasting resources on those who are not on the same page with you?.......mutiple dating comes to mind.

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