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As long as she goes on one knee to do it..

ITbomb: @ addictiv
FWB? hmm , I wonder the benefits
I do enjoy her company even more than my gf, there was a time my gf came in and she just quietly left and the next day came back and behave like nothing happened.
I wonder if a girl can agree later to marry a person that she had seen with another girl in that kind of situation

Friends with benefits@ fwb.
Bro you just have to decide ob what you want. Do just want her for intimate reasons or you want to keep her n possibly spend the rest of your life with her.. if its d latter then you ll have to show commitment by ending tinz with your current girl but it may not be enough to convince her. She may really dig you but you ll have to convince her by not just words but actions too that you re serious. However if itz just for fun n intimacy, then I wont advise that you go into it. Cos it may ruin your friendship with her later after the euphoria has worn off. What do you value more your friendship or your intimate satisfaction?

Like the op says "marry your friend" if marriage isnt in sight and you re not ready to settle down. I wont advise you to go into it cos the breakup could have a devastating effect n your friendship may be lost. Except its a FWB relationship.

Dating your friend is usually nice cause you already know the person n what he or she likes. However the scare is that when you guys breakup you might never return to being friends again.The best relationship I had was with my friend. We were like 5 n 6. We reasoned at the same frequency. We only had to look at each other n we could tell whats on each others mind. The relationship was beautiful n amazing, n ll do it again if I could. But now we cant cross paths with each other, which I regret deeply.

You can always get veet for her. Heard it removes hair like hypo removes stains.shaving is a bad idea if she doesn't wanna end up looking like rick ross. She should also see a dokita.

Means she be better pikin and she go sabi d thing.

Submission this subjection that....whats wrong in putting personal sentiments aside and doing whats best for the union and the home....

obaobirin: .

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Africa Magic: [color=#FFFF00]It's simple. If you are dating any lady and she doesn't live up to your expectation, simply call it a quit and stop holding someone's wife to ransom in false pretenses and pity [/color]

How many guys would do dat when they know they wont eventually end up with the lady....there re even cases that even when the lady knows this she ll still stay for reasons best known to her. I have heard guys who say that they cant marry thier current GF's yet they wont free the chick cos obviously she is just used for intimate gratification. Many folks re not sincere to themselves not to talk of their partners. So therefore its left to thier partners to decide on what they really want..

Personal Opinion.

It doesn't mean that you must sleep around with every folk you go on a date with. But it gives you the opportunity to have variables which you can compare against each other and objectively make a choice which best fits into your lifes goals and desires. So if gf sees someone she feels ll fit into her life better than myself n she wants to know more about that person, she can go on a date with em. Same applies for myself. But from the moment I propse marriage to her . She accepts to be my wife and we get engaged to each other. I would expect her to abide with me, cos she has made her decision objectively after comparative observation of variables. Thus she can be held accontable for any breach.

Note...this is solely my view n personal opinion which i am entitled to.. I am not saying its ideal for everyone.

While i agree with yield. ...... Most of us dont get the op s. Perspective. Primarily Relationships where meant to lead to marrìage then procreation . However so many folks get into relationships for so many reasons most of which 80% involves personal interest. How many of us can sincerely say that when you started dating your current partner, it was based on pure selfless love. The type that makes you give everything just to see that person happy and without expecting anything in return. Even if the person loves you back or not,you just want to create an impact in their lives and affect them positively. If you can boast of this then i must commend you. What most of us re running now, are just trade by batter franchise where we give either our care, attention, funds, sexual gratification in exchange for someones loyalty, respect, security etc. People get into relationships for so many reasons be it emotional, financial ,spiritual, sexual reasons etc. No guy would come straight up n tell a lady that he just wants her for a bedmate n no lady would tell a guy outrightly that she is only in for the financial benefits. They would all hide under the umbrella of love. We see people who give their all in a relationship that lasts for 3 to 11 years and in the end they re left heartbroken. After all the money spent, mental n emotional stress that cant be quantified, time wasted that cant be replaced, at the end you get to have memories you wish can be wiped out. So how does one decide on the partners who share the same ideologies with em with without wasting resources on those who are not on the same page with you?.......mutiple dating comes to mind.

^^^_ can you post some pics of the 5wks gsd. Wanna know the size. Cos I about to buy an 8 wks gsd n a 7 wk german caucasian. Thnks. @ Your dog not eating, I am still a newbie in dogs but you can talk to dogsworld or send her a pm. Sure she can help out.

^^^^ thats d problem, people are no longer ready to stick to one person. There is always backup. So in order not to be disappointed, you just have to let em do what they want cos when you place restrictions on them thats when they ll do worse without you knowing.

^^^even if she has a walk in wardrobe it ll never be enough. Nothing wrong with having her own room but you can remove the bed in hers so that there ll be only one bed in your room. If you dont want to sleep separatly.

Its a must o...cant stand seeing her belongings lying here n there. It itches me whenever I see a woman applying make up....I dont know why but it annoys me funny enough i admire it when its on a womans face esp when its applied mildly......so for us to live in peace she gat to have her room where she can keep her makeup containers and dressing table n all other stuff.

Always pay through escrow!!!! ...enough is a word for the wise.

Also once saw a white unicorn and a black stallion one night I woke up to ease myself. Ran and called a senior who was awake but he was too freaked out to come and see em.
Saw some crazy things as a child but the memories re quite blurry.

While in boarding school there was a night my friend n I decided to eat cabin flakes. We waited till after lights out n got up around midnight when everyone had slept. Just as we where concluding the preparation no our down bunks. We heard a very loud screech that sent a terrible chill down my spine. It was like dat of an animal or something n we thought it was coming for us because we were awake...my friend just pushed plates n beverage under his bed while I just jejely lay down on my bed whispering hot prayers for my life. I didnt move a muscle till the nxt morning.

ghen ghen......it is what I think it is....

I dont see any wrong in allowing your babe to go on a date with her toasters as long as you are not engaged. But from the moment she agrees to be your wife it brcomes a different ball game. If she wants to go on a date, she is free to do so. In the same vein the guy should be free to take who so ever he wants out on a date without her raising any eyebrows.....but I feel that the partner should be informed that he or she ll be going on a date with someone else before hand.

Isnt it easier to let her know that her calls put you at risk of losing your job.. she could probably call in the evenings when you re though with work. After telling her this if she calls during work hours, then dont pick. Better still you can switch off during work hours to help you concentrate.

She maybe scared that dating him would ruin their friendship. ...which is usually true cos in doing so they would argue, have disagreements nd may eventually breakup. Then the friendship is ruined. If he is serious he should gice her some space like staying away totally after a little while try again. He should bear in mind dat he might loose her totally. That would mean that she doesn't love him enough to keep him. But I believe if she misses him. She would re evaluate her stance....

Ph....hope upcoming Gas Engineers are included.

Before you tell her ensure that there is no knife, bottle, glass,pistle, acid or anything that can be used to break ur head or cause ur untimely demise in the vicinity. Fail to heed this advice at your own peril. You can thank me later.

Thats why I never allow any girl wash anything for me, to me its not right.why should she wash my clothes if she isnt yet wifey? In the same vien she no go even think am to ask moi to wash her cloth, on what basis, abi she chew plantain leaf?
Try it n daz the end of us there n then.

xtervaganza: may your son, grandson and great grandson wash their babes undies....can I hear a thunderous amen?

Amennn!!!!!! On her behalf. I know she ll thank me later.

My kid sister had a similar issue, she got accustomed to ac as a baby. When they tried to stop it she developed breathing problems and her ribs began to expand...but it stoped as she got older n got used to normal conditions.funny enough she is the only one who has never had pneumonia.

That would depend on the kinda people they are and life they want. Personally, I prefer a six bedroom duplex as an ideal home.