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BeeSwagz:
shey na only me dy waka go kogi ni?

thought I was the only one dashed Kogi

They have dash me Kogi when I did not pick that dry state

hadura29:
One cold Heineken for you bro..

I hail o

2017 prophecy Airforce1 and Makydee in nuptial bliss upon all this gra gra

if u want to be happy for the rest of your life, reject her on the basis of telling u point blank and also don't be any one option. Learn to show a high self esteem

hectorswag:
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Please send links to your portfolio (instagram, facebook page or website) here or privately to my whatsapp: 08180335389. I'll contact you if your work meets the required standards. Thank you

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sucking.of your wife breast is biblical according to the book of Proverbs

Cholls:
my sister the brother is just afraid of himself..........he knows anything can happen in future.

am not a lady ooo
true talk

you need not be worried if you don't have such intention, stay Faithful to her and live in peace

Catalin:
I support the woman. Your brother should send 45k each to them. Her family is also his responsibility so far they are married.

You must be a joker.... she is even lucky that he is helping her brother, let her add extra to it and give her bro. I married the sister, not the whole family.
Generally, when a married man donate to others outside his immediate family( wife and children), whatever they get from him is a privilege and not a benefit or right/ entitlement.

Bluezy13:
It doesn't work that way, bro

How, would love to learn

Ignore her, treat her like a regular person. Guys should learn to hold ladies to their words and use it against them. A serious minded lady would never play games, her yes is yes and no means no.

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]Wait. . . Holup.

You're in a relationship with a man you consider a fiance, but you still initiate and chat with a man you broke up with, calling him sweetie, and bae? If he is your sweetie, and bae, why are you both not together? You leave the nonsense on your phone, and expect your fiance, a man that wants to marry you, to be cool about it?

Honestly ask yourself: would you be happy if your fiance has an ex he still refers to as sweetie, and bae?

Selfish human, you are. . . And yes, you are cheating on your fiance emotionally. So of all the friends you have in this world, it's ONLY your ex, that you want to talk to, every time you're bored? I'm guessing you're jobless. That's why you do not understand how busy your fiance always is. That's why you have so much time to chat unnecessarily with an ex. And that's why you always initiate the chat.

Your fiance is reacting, giving you the consequences of your actions, and you dare call him unreasonable? So, you actually want to eat your cake and have it, in 2017?

Chai!!!! Ekwensu e romancia mami water.

I'll personally lead the calvary to go congratulate your fiance a.k.a, your latest ex
, for having the guts to stand up to, and kick you out to the curb. . . Too early in the year to start 2017 with iranu. . .

Good riddance.

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Infact you will make exploits this year. you took the words out of my mouth. the lady is not Worthy to be called a fiancée. She want to eat her cake and have it. In a relationship and still keeping tabs on your ex

rokiatu:
but what if you rush into it and they turn out to be a Di..ck? I just believe in taking time before saying yes or no.

If they turn out to be a dick, you simply walk out with shoulders high, that's why relationship has stages. you get to know someone at the noncommittal/ early stage of the relationship where you haven't invest much.

The problem with many especially ladies is many of you are feeble minded, that's why many of you rush in offering a guy your body because you focus more on mundane things

rokiatu:
One shouldn't really rush into a relationship. Take your time observe the person well unless offcourse your are just into casual flings and casual sex and one night stands.

True, but how will you achieve that without giving the person a chance, especially when you as a lady is also attracted to the guy?

If you don't feel any attraction, it's better to tell the person off than raising high hopes

rokiatu:
You just don't know what you want that's all.

The girl was playing hard to get n you couldn't even wait?

I see you are confused. A lady who knows what she want will respect and put other people interest into consideration. 6 months of playing hard to get and what is she trying to prove? is she an high value package and will it reflect in the relationship?

If you must play hard to get, then show me what differs you from other ladies. If otherwise I will walk away and see you as another regular girl I have come across.

It is a very wrong concept to give and for a lady to be expecting transport fare though it is not bad. The issue is that if you must give, do because it is coming from your heart not because you want to impress or follow cliché
Relationship should be symbiotic and not parasitic. if a lady ask me, I will give on the basis of sincerity and necessity and not of entitlement mentality

Note: Never start what you can't end or sustain

eezeribe:
I hope they can keep to their words and enforce it. When Multichoice gives them bags of Dollars, story will change.That was how they allowed our Indigenous HI TV to crumble to the monopoly of DSTV.

For your information, HItv Packed up due to founder's mismanagement of 9 billion naira loan from GTB

lola024:
Lolzz.... OP did u meant "Having Sex" ohh.... "Making Love" is the religious way to say having sex?..... Good boy....

tiri gbosa for u madam

Kenshinmunac:
*sigh* searching and searching for a girlfriend, all to no avail. Young cool fine guy, but very lonely, no girlfriend. I don't think at this point with all this rejection that I will ever get married in life.

I have searching for a gf, met some girls who turned out to be nasty gold diggers, I didn't wanna waste my time on them cause I'm not a flirt, I'm not looking for a short term relationship so having "fun" with all these girls seemed like a waste of time to me as Sex is not my problem, love is.

So I met this girl few days back, we got talking, I fell for her instantly, she looked calm and very honest, she is not all these girls who do kk in chat, she is caring and very simple, hard to come by., we flowed really well chatting and I was very happy I found someone as I quickly asked her out and she said "let's see how it goes"

I said okay, so today being Sunday, normal chilling day, I called her, very eager to see her beautiful face once more, we got talking and she said I should come to her side.

So I said okay by six,

Six reach I entered road straight to her side, 30 mins drive, when I got close I dialled her number twice she didn't pick I thought maybe she was taking her bath or something was patient and kept on going, so when I got there by 7pm, I called and called but she didn't pick up the call and she was expecting me o!

Na so I begin call her, Even send whatsapp message and direct message all to no avail. I got so maddddd and pissed off, I almost cried because I don't know why I'm being treated like this by ladies. Head to toe I complete, face I fine, fashion sense Is great, but yet, my handsomeness and the growing cash I get can't even get me the slightest fly talk less about a lady

*sigh*

By 5 mins past 8 she called me, by then I was already going home, and she began to plead, this where error words.

"please I'm sorry, my elder brother took my phone to share WiFi, I didn't know he would go far"

I asked "didn't you tell him you were expecting someone"?"

She replied" i did na but he did not listen, I can't just come and stand on the road and be waiting for you, please don't be angry"

In my heart I said Chai! What kind of excuse is this?? This girl just told me indirectly that I'm not important.

So painful.

I see guys with their girl very happy preparing for Christmas, me i have none. All I do is admire beautiful couples and wish It could be......

Unfortunately the sad reality greets me in my face.

I begin to lose my self confidence gradually because of rejection.

Smh, all I feel right now is self pity, all I can do is lament.

I don't know if I just dislike women right now self.

op don't take it too far..pleading with you not to take rash decision whenever it is ladies matter
Her acknowledging and apologizing really shows she has your interest @ heart
Don't judge her using this..give her a second opportunity to prove herself since her excuse is tenable
don't listen to those saying dump her. I have been in your shoes and me and the lady have been enjoying a healthy relationship.
Lastly, dont be quick to judge. else you look insecure and desperate

san316:
That is the issue. How can we give our GF a responsibility of someone that doesn't exist? She's prospecting to be THE wife so she has to play the role.

You see, When a girl is in a relationship, it's like someone on IT, only entitled to transport money(some organizations don't even give), anything else she gets from the company is a bonus and not because she is entitled to it.

However, it doesn't stop her from working as a full staff because, her performance may get her a full time appointment (marriage)

Employment is scarce these days oo. Lol

this is excellent

the consequence of releasing too much inside her :othe consequence of releasing too much inside her

A classical case of many are mad, few are roaming

herzern:
Followinq.

Your moniker determines the answer you will get

lefulefu:
D middle one make sense

u sabi correct package jo

Alhkerimu:
My brother it has happen to me several time but the recent one was a lady who is living in my street, i like her so much and i confronted her one day by telling her how much i love her after the whole things the only reply i got from her was that she has a boyfriend which i hardly believe.
I started giving her money and material things thinking she will fall for me. But i got the shock of my life yesterday when she confronted me and told me i should leave her alone she did not love and i can't buy her with my money.
Now i'm confused should i collect my money back or i should leave it for God.

Very good, you will learn
never use money to lure a lady except you want to be a statutory maga

doll912:
I see people who play games even so called men called players as stupid.if you are bold, make your true intentions known. I'm known for been so blunt, it hurt. I've been accused of being unpretentious. If I like you, I will make everybody know,If I don't, honey I won't even go on a date with you....and if there's a first, there won't be a second.

Don't mind them jare. we are on the same page
it's a good thing to be blunt cos u earn the trust of people
Only insecure people want to be sweet talked and live in fantasy

Barigaboy:
1. Don't attract a woman with material things.
2. Don't spend crazily on a woman becos u wanna get her love cos she would get use to it n once u don't have what u ve been keeping d relationship she lives.
3. Don't date a woman who doesn't possess the qualities u want in a woman cos if she mistakenly get pregnant u will hate yourself.
4. Don't love her too much or she will be making u fail exams.
5. When she is in love with u nack her well. Every guy who date a girl without sex is a toaster those who had sex her ex bf. So no where u belong
6. Don't jump around your girl or tighen her she would soon get tired of u. U can't watch her at all n don't ever think u following her around wouldn't make her cheat. If a woman loves u n u r following her here n there she would soon hate u. Woman get sex in a seconds before u open your eyes. So stop watching her around.
7. Women who doesn't like u r d ones who demands a lot. They don't demand from that ugly boy they r in love with.
8. If your woman is flirt don't beat her do your own n leave only weak guys beat women n its a course
9. Forgive whatever your babe must have done to u when she is doing something important eg exam, menstruate etc
10. When a woman is too demanding break up with her cos she go soon kill your carrier but if u go love? Good luck your account will soon b dormant.
11. Don't ever tell your babe about your salary or someone paying u some cash. She is going to place her percent on that n it might later result to break up.

Your.5 and 11.


I hail o

remedick:
lol... never believe what a girl tell u. Their no sometimes means yes.

All girls including my girlfriend who dare pulled such stunt on me always regret it due to my actions and behavior
We are not kids, if you say no mean it, if you say yes let it be
Don't tell me no if you don't mean it cos I don't have time for games

remedick:
Sure bro. My ex and like 2 other girls that once turned me down did same. The major ex sha... dem fork that girl tire into frustration. She was wooing me few months back and desperation was written all over her. I should have recorded the call. It was so fun seeing someone that rubbished me completely around 2009, never apologized for any of her acts, cheated on me, lied to me, took me for granted, took me for ride, even told me I wasn't handsome... then come 2016 she is saying: "is it too late to love me?" " you know what Ii want" "can it work" " I was on your facebook profile, you now look handsome" Oh bro, I can only THANK GOD for the journey so far!

Play along and do the needful on her.manipulate her.emotions.. she will never take a guy for a ride

Aburi001:
You hustle you buy JAMB form....
You hustle you enter University and pay numerous school fees, handouts etc.....
You finish school no work.....
One illiterate employ and pay you peanut....
Davido made his money and paid for First class....
What a Country!

Be informed accurately Davido graduated with.a Second Class Upper

I don't know why guys still try to force themselves to chat with a Lady. The open secrets you don't know is that ladies are naturally chat box..a lady who wants to talk with you will not allow the discussion to fizzle out without logical conclusion. Also build value for yourself to become indispensable, with that no one will take you for granted except if they are ridiculous.