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See the way you just came here to disgrace yourself.
Olosho spotted

Robi65:
I see broke guys coming to Nairaland to rant about girlfriends or wives leaving them for another dick or even secretly doing it while still with them
Let me make it clear today , a lady who grows up with poor parents and family is not looking for love, she is looking for a better life , not for herself but for her coming generation
You as a man wants to cuddle and thrust, no! She is not looking for that, she probably suffers trauma from how her father being shamed for not paying up on time for a paint bucket of Garri, or how her mother is ridiculed in neighborhoods for wearing rag
Such lady or girl would be stupid if she grows up and start looking for love … she needs money
So guys , stop being selfish, if you do not have money, girls are not meant for you , they are for those with something to offer

You have made so much sense in this your write but it seems you have so much hatred on women.
I have learnt so many things from you and it has been helping sha.

TheGidRedpiller:
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"THE RIGHT WOMAN FOR YOU" DOES NOT EXIST!!
You only have the one you can tolerate more than the rest!!
This simple fact is another humongous reason why the Bad Boys/Chads/Alphamales or any other form of [b]#GoldenPenis weilders still get the best women even after using and dumping so many women in the past.

MEN, understand that society will always be against you whilst fighting to have you, i will explain.

Every form of physical, psychological, emotional and spiritual tribulation that will ever surface is always targeted at the MEN in the end. But at the same time, the same society dishing out these tribulations still need you alive to keep things afloat.

So instead of trying to kill you, the main goal is to BLIND you so you can be manipulated to bend to whatever sub-standards it wants you to bend to!
One of the major sub-standards is THE IMMORALITIES OF WOMEN!!

So society will keep coming up with stupidd notions like "There's The Right Woman For You Out There" to further blind you into thinking that decent women will just show up one day out of the blue

I'm totally against marriage, but if you still want to consider marriage in this age, you should at least not be an !d!ot about it!!
This is how the #GoldenPenis syndrome helps you out of so many bad decisions!!

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This Lady abi na Guy u be, u too talk abeg.
Na every thread I dey see u now

Rozross:
Go for medical checkups sir. �

It pains me to see my fellow man being a SIMPle man with women.
OP just ignore what she said and move on

How I wish u can behave like me when it comes to relationship

The best you can do is move on.
Impregnating her will be a problem to you in the future and it will always be in your mind that you have a child somewhere OP.
Just zero ur mind from her

Miravik900:
I want to break her heart so badly I'm planning on impregnating her and denying the pregnancy I just want to see her cry with pain

It means Hunger

Just like the other OP tell you, never you be a second option.
Try dey know ur worth as a man, She come back dey beg you, bcus say the Dubai guy reject her, she dey beg you.
If that guy come back tomorrow dey beg her she go run leave u sharperly.
You better wise up as a man

And less I forget, abeg I want learn this work from home stuff

Davincii78:
So I met this girl sometime last year in school, we had issues in keke where in I asked her to drop down from the keke that I already paid for charter... after that incident, I loved her... I asked her out and she told me she was engaged and getting married, but I persisted .. I made her come to my house, and we had s**.
. According to her was that her intentions was to sleep with me and then leave being that it must be what I wanted , I had to let her know I needed her heart. It took a while but she eventually did love me ( or so I thouht).
I got to find out that her supposed engaged partner, she hasn't even met the guy for real.. they met on Facebook and now they only talk on whatsapp but she loves him .

This girl lives in with me , I get pissed when the guy calls her.. she tells the guy she loves him and then come back to me to tell me the same ...
Few days ago , we had issues again because of this and she called me selfish, that I don't care about the feelings of the guy and that I knew from the beginning .
I love this girl deeply, and she says she loves me too, most of her sisters knows me but her feel she is lying to me ... I feel she doesn't love me and I should let her go ..

She has explicitly said she can't stop talking to this guy and I should have a heart attack if I want to, that I should take the relationship step by step , and I'm ime wtf,

What do I do nairalanders ?? I'm confused ..
Should I let her go or keep her around knowing filly well she's gonna leave .... its very clear to me that she will leave although she says she's not so sure about that .
Lol, she tells this guy that she's dreams about him daily on whatsapp and yet Come back to sleep with Me.

I need help...I'm losing myself for a girl.


Eight months later , dubai guy came back.. the girl left to lagos airport to meet him .

After a few months with him she found out that she couldn't marry him, he has been lying to her.. once she told me she was going to her parents house only to find out later that she went to see this guy , they had sex (although she claimed she was raped by him) took her a month to find out she was pregnant, brokeup with me again, then got frustrated when the guy says he doesn't want marriage , just baby mama . She came back to me with the pregnancy begging for me to take her back, she bought pills and although I told her I wasn't going to be involved , I helped go pick up the pills, took care of her through the pain.. now everytime I look at her , it's with disgust .... I feel sick just thinking of it ... do I break up now? She's promise to change and that I should give her this one chance to prove herself

Just get over it, such is life, I believe you have learnt the hard way.
She will still miss you though bcus u have been taking good care of her

Josepin:
Why I feel like suing her, is because I felt she took advantage of my simplicity. Though I have blocked her off completely but I still feel cheated

It's even better she blocked you, at least that money you have been spending on her, you will have sense now and be using it for something better or spend it on your family.
Why u wnt even sue her self...?
Just lock up the matter, try man up, beg your wife, if she no gree. Look for someone that she listens to, if e no still work then just lock up. Life goes on

Josepin:
Sincerely, I messed up big time and I never thought I could find myself in this kind of mess, please I need your advice. Not to waste time. Am married for eight years now to a beautiful woman and have 3lovely kids.
About two years ago I employed this girl to work with me, she was in her early 20's and I was 37 then. This Girl became very respectful and very committed to her job. About five months down the line we start getting too close and most time I caught her stirring at me she will smile. Each time my wife complain about her closeness to me I will assure her that there is nothing to worry about.

To cut this short, we became fond of each others and we sometimes kiss in the office and in two occasions I took her out and romanced her but I avoided making a penetration into her. I bought her phone and other things.

Early this year she gained an admission in one poly in the North. Due to her parents financial strength I practically carried all the responsibilities. My wife was aware I assisted her but not to the extend that I did.

From January till this month I send her money every month for her upkeep and other things at least 25-30k monthly. But an issue came up last month.

I saw some of her pictures and videos on tik tok which was very undecent, I called her and scolded her but I observed she wasn't happy the way I talked to her. I went ahead and reported her to her and hell got loosed. She called my wife and Informed her that I have cheated on her and that I have had sex with her twice. Which is not exactly the truth. Now my family is falling apart. My wife is threatening to end the union.

Please, I need every advice that I can get, to earn my wife trust again. Also what can I do to this girl? Can I sue her? Please bear with my grammatical bluders.

Where you Bleep, na wen u go renew ur rent

So wetin come concern us

Lolz

U no lie o

tosaino95:
Na the money wey the guy dey spend for her dey mek her cry nothing else abi no be Nigeria girls we know

Abeg I want know weda you still dey front of the ShopRite as them dey call you thief
Hahahahahahaha

If ur fellow guy ask u for money now, u go say u no get, see as u almost wnt fall victim

Love don blind this girl face.
Can you just listen to yourself

Maybe she wants to be sleeping inside the iPhone 13.
Lolz

Sammy101111:
That is women for you
I always appreciate my self the way I am
I don’t have low self esteem

Yanch or breast does not make you a big girl
Once you are a woman and you don’t have money you are useless to a man and you are liability to the man


A girl in my area is owning house rent of a room of just 60k yearly
And she is using iPhone 13 pro
( what is your advice for her )

The only thing I will advise you is to move at your own pace, don't let anyone pressure you. Marriage is a lifetime and mind you, you're not only marrying the lady but her family as well

Georgekyrian:
Naked truth, but gene comes from both parents not just the mother please consider that. The girl father is my kind of man, so strong and hard working at young age. The mother is not just a bad person but she get characters that easily pisses me off, like she too like prophecy and ministries stuffs, she talks a lot and always want you around but I’m not that kind of person at all

No matter the advises everyone is given you here, you will still do whatever is in your mind.
There was a time I was traveling inside a public transport, there was a man telling us about how he met his wife.
He said without his wife's knowledge he travelled to her home town just to know the mom's character. According to him, he said whatever character the mom exhibit same as the lady.

The only thing to do is to let her be

KyberTHEGREAT:
I swear that word pained me a lot
But I know what to do
She will regret ever saying that word and looking down on my music

Please try and win her heart, maybe she will still consider you.
Send her friends to beg for you. You might be lucky she will accept you back.
Please OP how old are you...?

I no know why u are killing urself OP.
There are always good girls around, I know it's hard to find but you will definitely see one.
Somebody that claim to love you is supposed to support you, she's supposed to be your number one fan not about telling you that she doesn't have time for that because she's not jobless, chai!!
One thing I learnt about life and in this Nairaland is, anything that doesn't give me peace of mind, I let it go, because I cherish that a lot

My advise to this is, get a registered simcard, chat him on WhatsApp with it, and also send him the pictures.
Even if sees the pictures, if he's related to that person, he will know.
Just tell him from a good Samaritan
You don't need to chat him directly or try to meet the wife to ask her anything, make sure you are anonymous e get why

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

So you are trying to tell us that you're back from school that's why you are blowing all this grammar, please next person to tell us because even me too, I don't understand

You recharge 180k but waiting we dey see na 186k

Johndagr8t:
so this morning,I was in my working place having a face time with one of my side chick,I saw my gf msg she needed credit so I was just carried away with the girl I was having the video call with and boom I recharge my gf #180000, please how can I get it back,coz it from company account and dey don't know yet!!!!

You sabi lie o
Na you recharge ur girlfriend phone and na ur phone the airtime enter, lolz sense no go kill me

Johndagr8t:
so this morning,I was in my working place having a face time with one of my side chick,I saw my gf msg she needed credit so I was just carried away with the girl I was having the video call with and boom I recharge my gf #180000, please how can I get it back,coz it from company account and dey don't know yet!!!!

OP I need ur help abeg

Even if na 2k, make I use am see front
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