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Teacher1776:
One thing about having a JW background is that whether you are fully practicing it or not, you find it difficult conforming with the world's standards

Radiant1020:
Very interesting .... But I don't like tragic movies

faithubah70:
that's not true... I dont hide my age... I have never lied about my age..no matter the scene...so stop generalizing

Exwizard:
What you only need to do is tell them, they will fill a replacement form for you, then the information needed will be corrected before submission

Exwizard:
Nope they have a database for the previous one

nkwuocha:
yes.What we call ''relationship'' between the opposite sex this days is an avenue to commit several immoral atrocities.
The best way a lady can easily get married from my observation is when she plays the no strings attached kind of relationship with guys as long as she is not having sex with any of them.From experience,those who really do love you will be so frustrated and then you end up having two or more guys popping the question at same time.

lets say my name is chioma.

i have the following dudes on my call list

chinedu- spare part dealer
seun-banker
emeka- engr and youth leader
ikechukwu- business man
martins- yahoo boy
dele-aspiring polithian
ogadimma- doctor

As chioma,i will invite chinedu for a fresh fish point and kill on sunday evening,after which i will invite him to church on Wednesday evening.calling him once in a while to ask after his business and his mother.ladies always ask after our mothers,Believe me we love it!

on wednesday,Emeka is in church.after talking and passing witty talks and charming smile,he watches as i bid him farewell and join my invitee chinedu.I will send a message minutes later to Emeka on a long call that i just arrived home and bid him good night.Thats an indication that i didnt take chinedu home to Bleep him.Him mind go dey reason many things.....

dont forget i have a dinner date with Seun on saturday.Dont forget we chat once in a while and i bought a nice bottle of cologne for his birthday last month!He is a very busy man so saturdays and sundays are is very free days.Infact i recently joined him for a bachelors eve of his colleagues and so we maintain a very healthy communication.

martains na G boy.All the paroles is always at night when he picks you up at 11pm an drops you off at 1 am.Dear martains if na seex you dey find ,no come my house again.By the way martains,id like to visit you soon,at least let me help with your dirty laundries and clean up the house.He likes the idea even if he uses laundry services and spends more time with prostitutes in 5 stars hotel rooms.When you go,go with a more beautiful friend.It will leave him either confused or outsmarted. Dont ask him for money.No need sef. He will spend without you asking.


dele na politician. Dont forget to send him inspirational quotes every morning.Engage him in politics.Call more often than normal and make him know his dreams and aspirations are important to you.

As for ogadimma,Be nice,classy and straightforward.Doctors are good listeners and intuitive.Be on your goody two shoes with this one. Ogadimma please go and pay my bride price if you want me so badly in your bed/After which you drop the cooler of freshly prepared veggies on his office table,carry your hand bag,swing your buttocks and walk out of his beautifully furnished office.



in a year if any of them no marry you,then your spirit husband is wicked!

nkwuocha:
yes.What we call ''relationship'' between the opposite sex this days is an avenue to commit several immoral atrocities.
The best way a lady can easily get married from my observation is when she plays the no strings attached kind of relationship with guys as long as she is not having sex with any of them.From experience,those who really do love you will be so frustrated and then you end up having two or more guys popping the question at same time.

lets say my name is chioma.

i have the following dudes on my call list

chinedu- spare part dealer
seun-banker
emeka- engr and youth leader
ikechukwu- business man
martins- yahoo boy
dele-aspiring polithian
ogadimma- doctor

As chioma,i will invite chinedu for a fresh fish point and kill on sunday evening,after which i will invite him to church on Wednesday evening.calling him once in a while to ask after his business and his mother.ladies always ask after our mothers,Believe me we love it!

on wednesday,Emeka is in church.after talking and passing witty talks and charming smile,he watches as i bid him farewell and join my invitee chinedu.I will send a message minutes later to Emeka on a long call that i just arrived home and bid him good night.Thats an indication that i didnt take chinedu home to Bleep him.Him mind go dey reason many things.....

dont forget i have a dinner date with Seun on saturday.Dont forget we chat once in a while and i bought a nice bottle of cologne for his birthday last month!He is a very busy man so saturdays and sundays are is very free days.Infact i recently joined him for a bachelors eve of his colleagues and so we maintain a very healthy communication.

martains na G boy.All the paroles is always at night when he picks you up at 11pm an drops you off at 1 am.Dear martains if na seex you dey find ,no come my house again.By the way martains,id like to visit you soon,at least let me help with your dirty laundries and clean up the house.He likes the idea even if he uses laundry services and spends more time with prostitutes in 5 stars hotel rooms.When you go,go with a more beautiful friend.It will leave him either confused or outsmarted. Dont ask him for money.No need sef. He will spend without you asking.


dele na politician. Dont forget to send him inspirational quotes every morning.Engage him in politics.Call more often than normal and make him know his dreams and aspirations are important to you.

As for ogadimma,Be nice,classy and straightforward.Doctors are good listeners and intuitive.Be on your goody two shoes with this one. Ogadimma please go and pay my bride price if you want me so badly in your bed/After which you drop the cooler of freshly prepared veggies on his office table,carry your hand bag,swing your buttocks and walk out of his beautifully furnished office.



in a year if any of them no marry you,then your spirit husband is wicked!

ndy87:
not all ! some ladies are simply afraid of marriage because of wat Der see around them. character is far from wat you are talking about.

EweduAfonja:
Attention seeker...

Who Raised Barrack Obama when the Dad left them and returned to Kenya

eyinjuege:
That wasn't a study you posted, and it's just someone's musings and thoughts. Not evidence based.
Out of the thousands of girls vaccinated so far, only 6 has had premature ovarian failure according to the vaccine gist site you posted.
Same way MMR was initially linked to autism, despite no study supporting it. Till date, no study supports autism is caused by MMR. Yet hundreds of children have come down with measles and some having the really bad long term complications because parents believed unconfirmed reports by dodgy studies and refused to vaccinate their children.
Many vaccines including the MMR, chicken pox and a lot of other vaccines for viral infections can cause encephalitis as a possible complication. That's not enough reason not to get vaccinated, or to discourage vaccinations.
I know Gardasil has different types, all still under research. Research is never ending on vaccines and medicines generally and cohort studies are never ending some taking over 20 years if possible sef before you can find out the true effects of medicines generally.
Gardasil is specifically targeted at strains of HPV that is known to cause cervical cancer- type 16 and 18 specifically and even covers other strains causing other hpv related cancers(throat cancer, penile cancer, anal cancer, vulval cancer) and those strains causing benign warts.
I have done a thesis before on organisms causing cancers, in a former life when floppy discs were still in use
Paracetamol can cause anaphylaxis in some people, doesn't mean it should be taken off the market.
Definitely, people should be given the power over their reproductive health.
Abstinence and faithfulness are good options, and should be encouraged. It may just not be for everyone, as I've come to discover that societies that don't even preach it have lower prevalent rates of STIs despite their "promiscuity" than societies that do.

eyinjuege:
You are the one trying to project your belief on others. You mentioned me, and not the other way round.
I believe condoms are a more practical way to prevent spread of diseases especially STIs. Be responsible with yoir sexual health folks, and use a condom. It's important you use it properly too. Knowledge is power
I believe the Gardasil vaccine should be given to children in their teens. Yes, it is efficacious, otherwise responsible govts round the world wouldn't be spending millions of dollars to ensure their children get it. So any parent on here who can afford it should plan it for their children from age 11. Some private pharmacies stock it, and some immunization centers in some teaching hospital- luth can get if for you.
I believe screening programs should be made available for women, so if you're a young woman from age 25, and can afford it, you need to find out more about centers that do screening. Health is wealth.
I believe in educating young people about having sex responsibly.
I refuse to be an ostrich burying its head in the sand, and would rather face the reality that humans will always exhibit their pattern of having sex

eyinjuege:
Any trained nurse or health care assistance can do a pap smear, but is it a program in Nigeria?
Is it free in the teaching hospitals? Ideally, the health centers should do it, as it doesn't take rocket science to do.
Information and awareness isn't the problem.
The main thing is the cost implication.
Is it free? If it's not how much is it?
Lagos state used to do a cervical screening program for its staff, but not the pap smear, they were more about using the liquid based cytology. But that was just for their staff. I'm not sure if they even still do it.
Compared to the whole population of women in Lagos state, I'm sure less than 1% are Lagos state staff.
There are some other centers in surulere and ?akowonjo which offer similar services free once a month or so just for a select few.
Pap smear in teaching hospitals are not free, it used to be about 5K or so many years ago. You need to do it every 3 years. How many can afford it?
Now, regarding the Abstinence and be faithful slogans, even the people who formulated it are not abstaining and are not being faithful to their partners.
Are you abstaining yourself? Keep the answer to yourself, just reflect on it.
For every 100 people you advocate abstinence to, maybe 2 of them will do it, meaning 2 of them are 100% free from the risk. The remaining 98 persons are still exposed.
For every 100 people you preach faithfulness to, maybe 45 of them will take your advocacy (You can be faithful and still carry the HPV virus from previous exposure before marriage btw) meaning 55 of them will still be exposed out there with no protection.
Now, for condom users- out of a 100, you can still get 80 people who will take your advocacy about using condoms.
The preaching of abstinence and faithfulness has been on longer than HIV through religion, and even many of the religious leaders preaching it don't practice it. It efinitely didn't stop people from having sex. Even with HIV, it hasn't stopped anyone.
Africa adopts that because we're hypocritical and still love to pretend we don't do sex. Preaching condoms will make it seem we are endorsing promiscuity, but better that than putting people's health in jeopardy.
Face the reality that the Abstinence thing is dead on arrival. Nowadays, children as young as 12 are having sex with themselves in that same Nigeria, despite the advocacy of abstinence going from one secondary school to another teaching them about it. Being there, done that and it's made little difference.

eyinjuege:
Goodluck with your advocating abstinence and faithfulness. ABC of prevention sounds very nice on paper, but Your advocacy has done little, and Nigeria is now one of the gonorrhea capitals of the world. HIV prevalence seems to be rising too instead of coming down, despite your ABC. The only practical one there is the use of condoms.
Gardasil vaccines is one of the vaccination schedule of developed countries. Yes, it may need booster doses, but its cost effectiveness is still better than having to treat cervical cancer. Nigeria has no screening programs for cervical cancers, the responsibility lies with parents to ensure they protect their children.
You can't change human behaviour on things like abstinence and faithfulness.

eyinjuege:
Multiple sexual partner also includes being married to a man or being in a relationship with a man who has had many sexual partners. That's why as a young girl or boy, always ensure you use protection
It is the HPV virus being transmitted that causes it.
Meanwhile, we have the gardasil vaccine for the young girls from age 11 or so. Please ensure your children are vaccinated.
Also remember to vaccinate your boys, as they are also at risk of having hpv infection from sexual encounters.
Certain HPV strains have been linked to various cancers and not just cervical cancer

Babiboy:
Only women, during penetration nothing goes inside the man

While researching the topic, I came across a website that a claim a woman’s uterus is like a computer that stores the code of men she mates with. Each sperm or man carries a unique code. When the computer is infested with many codes, they become virus like and infect the whole computer. This is why all prostitutes will eventually suffer from cervical cancer.

Ajoboss:
See penalty ooo
Ref no one go.look VAR now o
If to say na big team now d reverse will b d case
D ref is a cheat

dalaman:
Jay Jay doesn't age. When he married his wife she looked as young as his daughter looks now, now his wife has aged but he still looks about the same.

MichaelSokoto:
as in how?