Nosa111:
Hello everyone! This is a new building project from my architect. Please I need everyone to give all the necessary criticism. Please

For the one bedroom can he move the kitchen and bathroom to where the living room and bedroom are, so that the living room and bedroom can have more windows and ventilation.

akpunda86:
My son just three months but look like a man..im scared

Maybe you are always playing and baby has decided to be the serious man in the relationship. I laughed so hard at this post.

Mumaraoluwa:
Hello good evening momma's.happy mother's day. Please I want to ask if it's normal for my 1 year 8 months baby to be handling with his penis. Even when we beat and beat him, he doesn't stop. Sometimes he hides to do this

I think its a normal thing for boys. Some adult men even sleep with their hands in their boxers. Disgusting, right? Don't beat him, just make a bad face or tell him yuck, its disgusting. He will change with time. Try to read up about it.

Nancystan:
I'm pregnant again after 4+months of delivery twins.i was shocked! I took morning after pills afterwards..Mother pls what I should do? Plz respond asap am losing my mind

My sister I can relate to what you are going through. I took in when my first was 9 months. I was shocked cos it took a while to get pregnant for my first child and I thought breastfeeding was a method of family planning. I didnt expect it to happen so fast. I also had her through cs. You can imagine all the emotions with one child at nine months. So I know the emotions will triple when its twins at only four months. So here's how I was able to cope:
1. Calm down. Dont think about anything. Just calm down.
2. Forget about what people will say. This is about you, your health, your babies and what's best for them. People will always talk.
3. Seek medical advice. If you had cs, has your incision site fully healed? do you still feel pain there? How much monitoring will you need? Will this pregnancy threaten your life?
4. Surround yourself with supportive people not judginas. My mother in law was that support for me. She was so happy to hear of the pregnancy and she was supportive through out.
5. I know its not easy but try to rest as much as you can. Your body is going through a lot and you need to rest it as much as you can. Don't feel ashamed to ask for help. Get a help if you don't already have one.
6. Finally, be happy. To be the carrier of life is a rare privilege and not everyone is as lucky. Some people will kill to be in your shoes. Be thankful.
I am sending lots of hugs and kisses your way. You are going to be just fine. You will come out a stronger person. Congratulations ma.

sunbestie:
@adezie my wonderful teamie that year . Is been a long time oo
How are you and our princess doing?

hello ma. yes its been a while. this children no dey let me see road. we are all doing well. how are you and the family? Great hearing from you.
edited:
I see you are on team December. congratulations. May God make it an easy and healthy time for you. I done hang my boot till 2023. God helping me.

nnekaike:
BA To God's glory I welcomed my son on 5th of may at 8pm weighing 2.6kg Baby is in the incubator and oxygen. BS later. cc:angeltolly

Congratulations sis and may God keep him for you.

toxxnoni:
Good evening
Please, I need an advised.
My baby is 1year 1 month and she has been taking nutribon since 6 months.

Now we tried to introduced her to Golden morn last week Tuesday but she vomitted after some hours that we had to give her ORS. Now today (Sunday) we tried PAP (OKA BABA) and she vomited again, this vomit is not at once ooo, she will to sleep then wake up and vomit. She has done it up to 4 or 5 times since 5:30pm to 8:20pm. Her stomach is empty now. I feel she is having stomach upset too because she is just turning up and down on the bed.

Please what could be the cause of this, I am really worried.

Hello ma. why don't you try giving her what you eat. My baby used to throw up anything that is not breast milk. But she will be crying for my food when am eating, so I dish her food along with everyone else. I put her plate in front of her and she picks her food with my supervision. She only started taking pap when she sees everyone taking it with akara. she also just turned one last month but if you see her eating Eba eh. I just mold it for her.
Maybe your baby wants solid food not purees. you can start with noodles, akara, macaroni, amala etc. Find a solid food she loves and garnish it with enough protein.
you may also need to see a doctor for the vomiting. I noticed my baby stopped vomiting and started eating better after she was dewormed. All the best ma.

SoccerUSA:


The woman also lied to the man.
I guessed the man should be duly punished for his reaction but the woman caused it had it been she told him already he knows what he is expecting.

Why lie about the child gender?
she went for the scan 2 times and came back saying it's a boy.

She should have just said the truth or probably go to a doctor,before the pregnancy, behind him to get IUD or even permanent contraceptions done for her at least they have 4 kids already.
That could save her all these stress.

The man is wicked!!! No doubt

You say she shouldn't have lied. Then you advice she should have done family planning without him knowing. Is that not lying by omission?

This looks like a terrible way to kill a bird. How horrific.

divanita:


I think I shud try this and see the result. I'm just tired of taking drugs that might not be healthy

Start with a tiny piece and see how your body will react to it. I just read its not for everyone so pls be cautious. It worked like magic for me tho.

Simsimz:
this garlic therapy is not for everyone o.. I tried it and my eye see 'wen' na so all my inside begin dey hot, I removed it o sharperly and I wasn't even preggy when I did it.

Wow. I didnt know it had side effects esp since its natural. Its really not for everyone o.

divanita:
Good morning mamas!!!

Please help me out. I was two months pregnant when I started experiencing infection. I went to the hospital and was given these drugs: cikamox 500, greenzoral and another that doesn't have name but BPL written on the tablet. The infection left but soon came back so I visited a health centre and was given flagyl but the infection didn't stop.

I registered for antenatal yesterday, told the nurse all about the infection and she advised me to stay off antibiotics for now, that I should just learn to manage it and maintain proper hygiene. That antibiotics can affect the organs of the baby but I still discharge.

The discharge doesn't itch, doesn't smell, cream in colour and thick. Please mamas in this forum, I need your urgent replies as this is my first pregnancy and I'm really scared of anything happening to my baby.

Thank you

For the two times I was pregnant, I notice vaginal discharge and itching once I enter third trimester and start to near the end of the pregnancy. I don't take any drugs, I simply insert garlic into my veejay. The relief is almost instant and in 24 he's you will notice the discharge will stop. I don't insert too deeply but if I put it in at night, its comes out by morning. I do this sort of cleanse every two weeks until I deliver cos I don't want it to come back.

babyholar:
Good day sabi mama's pls am a first time mom and my baby is a month now but he doesn't sleep in the afternoon all he do is cry cry and when he finally sleeps it's not always more than one hour before he wakes again.i will have to pet again for hours before he sleeps again.i got tired of the whole that why I bring the matter here.Abeg sabi mama make una no waka pass edakun

My baby slept a lot when she was a newborn unlike my first that was always crying and I never knew how to console her. What I know I did differently with her was
1. to make sure she burps after every feed. watch YouTube videos on how to burp a baby. Sometimes they doze off while you are trying to make them burp. Continue until you get a burp. Sometimes it can take 15 mins but the more you practice the better you get at it.
2.dress her up in weather appropriate clothes. With my first, she was always wearing like 2 layers of clothing whether its hot or cold. With this baby, sometimes she slept in just diapers. Yes, Lokoja can be that hot. Pls note if you dress baby in light clothes, you have to closely monitor changes in weather to know when to cover him up more.
3. When bathing her, I pour not too hot water on her anus. Its makes her poop at least everyday. Unlike my first that will not poop for almost one week and her tummy will be making rumbling noises, her fart smells so bad and she will be so uncomfortable. Then any day she poops she will sleep well.
4. Make sure you drink lots of water so baby gets enough milk. Sleep is easier with a full tummy.
All the best mama.

Adesquare2:
Good morning mamas, please my milk just started flowing last night since I gave birth on Tuesday and since then I have just been able to express 30ml. I want to do exclusive breastfeeding and I have tried everything to achieve it. Been taking lactation cookies, lactation yoghurt, fenugreek tea, pap and even done hot breast massage even before I gave birth but for where? I have put baby to breast but its still not flowing well. Please help me suggest things I can take again. Already introduced formula but just want go back to my exclusive breastfeeding. Im really concerned. Please give me suggestions that have worked for you all o. E joor mas.

Water, water, water. Put baby to breast as often as possible and drink lots of water whether you are thirsty or not.

rotecch77:



More questions are welcome.
Let’s safe our environment against diseases like cholera and related ones

Can it be constructed for a poultry housing over 1000 birds? And will the waste be enough to produce gas for a family of 5? Can the gas be stored?

Claire104:
Good morning mothers.. Please help me o.my four months old baby has suffering from diarrhea for a week now.I went to the pharmacy and they told me its teething but it seems the drugs are not working. Please what do I do?

Same thing happened to my baby, I was told to just continue giving breasts milk and no drugs. It stopped on its own. But for your peace of mind, I would advice you see a doctor.

glimpse:
Good evening everybody, my 13 months old son has refused to stop breastfeeding. Please I need ways on how to wean him. He eats other foods, rice, eba, cereals, pap, etc.

Its good he eats other foods. That will make weaning him easy.
For my first daughter, I was thinking of how to start. Then one day, we were both so busy having fun that I realized she hadn't suckled for about 4 hours. That was how i took the bold step and started. I just distracted her as much as I could through the first day. You can sing and dance, go for fresh air outside. Anything to reduce the crying. I didn't stop at once. I just kept extending the time between each feed till we got to the point where she could go a whole day without breast milk. The whole process lasted about a week but it was easy for both of us as I didnt experience engorged breasts or pain and she didnt cry much.
Go from giving the breasts on demand to making him wait some mins before giving breasts. Dont let him cry. If alternatives and distraction doesnt work, give him the breast. However, keep extending the time between each feed. You can go from 30mins to one hour, two hours, three times a day, once daily and no breast for the whole day. Same applies at night.
Offer alternatives like water, tea or pap.
Lastly be committed. Once you start, go through with it if not it will be harder to start again.
Good luck and happy weaning.

saydfact:


I'll most likely go with a sum in the region of 700k - 800k

Building about 600k-650k and 100k-150k for septic tank..
Small as you say...

Note. It's just an estimate, actual cost wld need design.

Thanks a million. This has been truly helpful

Pls how much will it cost to build a simple security house with toilet and kitchen and small soak away. The soil is very okay. Thanks in advance.

saydfact:


OK... 100k is enough -

Lol.

saydfact:


it wld complete the foundation only on good soil
it can only buy part of the materials for foundation on waterlogged soil

One million for only foundation? For three bedroom bungalow not duplex o? Ha

spiceeamiee:
Depends on if the area is waterlogged. If its not and you are using cheap labour with no contractors, it can get you to lintel stage (I think o). Gurus will chook mouth more

Thank you for replying. The area is not waterlogged at all and labour here is cheap. Thanks again.

Pls how far can a million naira go in building a three bedroom apartment?

Horbar1:
Because their breed is different from others. Ros 308.

Does this mean this is the best breed?

Am on interested in this. How much does it cost and how do you get the litter into it?

Pls how do you manage litter. Can one build a soak away for it?

BA and BS
I welcomed my baby girl on the 23rd of April through elective CS. I had placenta previa which later moved. Also the gap between my last Cs and this one was less than 18 months so my doctor didn't want to take the risk.
I went to the hospital on Monday night. Early morning Tuesday at 5am I was taken to be prepared for the surgery. The nurse shaved me, checked my bp and heart rate and inserted the catheter. She also took baby's clothes and arranged them in one corner.
Surgery started at about 6:30. Baby was born 6:55am. I was awake through out and was even gisting with the doctors cos I was given spinal anaesthesia. Surgery ended at few minutes to 8. Can't remember cos they gave me one injection at the end that made everything to be hazy.
Was discharged on thursday. Baby, daddy, big sis and I are doing well. I give God all the glory for making me a mum again.
To all GTC mums, God will come through for you. To the waddling mamas especially my team May, God that brought you this far, will see you to the very end and bring you rejoicing. To my Cappo, God bless you ma.

sunbestie:



Eat healthy and drink a lot of water... Take ur fruits and vegetables.. Do not forget ur drugs oo
Be exercising small small and u can start cleaning ur nipples

8. adezie ______________ EDD 6th May Pink


Pls if I did not mention u no vex ooo just indicate

Present Cappo. Everything is going on well over here. Placenta has moved out of the way and baby is head down. Now am thinking if I should attempt a vbac tho my doc is insisting on a cs. In all I give God all the glory. We are almost at the finish line.

motic2:


what about recovery process were you already walking and was naming ceremony done following
please dont mind my too much question reason is my mum had 3 operation and i can remember how she was delayed so much for the first operation how we had to support her with walking for days, thou the 3rd one with our last born was quite better but it took a while for her to walk straight

For me, I was discharged two days after and yes I was walking though with some pain but it got better. About 12 hours after the surgery, I was asked to walk from the bed they laid me in after the surgery to my main hospital bed. It was about ten steps, very painful. I was doubled over.
I was always encouraged to take short walks. Infact the doc threatened he won't discharge me if he didn't see me walking. It was really painful but it helped. By the time I was discharged, my neighbours and even the mama that was bathing me at home didn't know I did cs. It helps to be active after the surgery. I also think it depends on how it was done and if it wasn't traumatic.

sunbestie:
TEAM MAY 2019

Welcome to a new month, the month of Marching into greatness and all d good things of life.

Teamies how are we doing?
The waddling now is on another level ooo even d kicks too.

If u dey team May identify yourself sharply and sama ur EDD and baby's gender immediately

Pls if I did not mention u no vex ooo just indicate.

Cappo I dey o. Just that sometimes my tummy gets hard for a few minutes and then it becomes normal again. I initially thought it was baby's position but found out from google that its called braxton hicks. Can't remember having it with my first.
One more month and May will be here. Yay! Happy bumping to you and my fellow teamies.

Horla01:
Team June it pains me to say this after waiting for so long...... Please im sadly out due to incompetent cervix

May God comfort you and answer you speedily. Its well sis. Pls take heart.

Towerofgrace:

Amen to all your prayers and thank you for the comforting kind word
I am so sorry, just needed to pour out my heart

Am so sorry for your loss mama. The Lord will make you smile again this year and you shall carry your bundle of joy.