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spyg1:
The reason why i came here for advice is to avoid taking a decision that i will not regret in future.

There is a girl I met at a friend's wedding sometime last year, she is 24 years and a 200L student while I am 30 years old postgraduate student but an amateur when it comes to relationship.

We started dating, at first I wasn't serious because I don't have enough money to take care of a girl, as a student sponsoring myself, I hardly have enough money to take care of her needs, she always complain that I don't take care of her which her friend's guy use to take care of her, the girl in question always advice my girl to quit our relationship because I am a broke guy and even if I get a job in future I will dump her for another lady, that I am just deceiving her, nevertheless she do assure her that I will not disappoint her, despite her friend's advice the love grew even stronger, at times she will buy me some gifts, me too I do buy some for her, having seen the commitment in her, then I started paying attention to her hoping that if things work well I will take her to the alter.

But, there was a day she called me to come and meet her at a particular Junction, on my arrival to the place I saw her exchanging phone number with a guy in car, upon enquiry, I discovered that she did not know the guy before, then I left home quietly she later called and apologized which I accepted.

Another time I called her around 10pm and I discovered that she blacklisted my number, she did this twice which I confronted her and suggested that we should quit, she begged me and cry for Africa then I accepted her back again.

After that, sometimes she will not pick my calls in the night and the following day she will giving excuses that she was sleeping, her phone is on silence or she plugged in her neighbors house etc, I started withdrawing from her, she called me one day and started crying that what her friends were advising her was true, I was just using her, I am just like other guys, she know the reason why I am doing this, is because she asked me to go and see her parents bla bla.

To fast forward the story, she login her Facebook account on my phone and she forgot to logout, when I went through her chat I discovered that she use to give people they meet on Facebook her phone number and according to the chart I discovered that she met one yesterday, I also discovered that she is still having an affairs with her ex.

Note: Anytime i call her to come to my house she used to come.

I feel like quitting the relationship but because of sympathy and I don’t want it to look as if I disappointed her. Honestly I am seriously confused, now my question is this; is it wrong that I went through her chat?

Second, what should I do? should I confront her? or should I quit quietly?

Pls I need your sincere advice, insults are welcomed. I will appreciate if the modulator push this to the front page.

PLS IGNORE MY GRAMMATICAL ERRORS

Just print everything out. Bind it like a project and give her her copy. Then go ur way

And we are blaming private higher institutions.

Go Eagles

Thank God they did not blame Jonathan

EnglishUsa:
Calaba people right now

Do Calabar people eat these kind of dogs?

Corrinthians:
Buhari has done so much for this country ( even though he still falls short of expectations) given the meagre resources at his disposal occasioned by PDP's perennial dis

We are in it together.

This is what I always tell people that keep supporting Buhari. I will not pay 145 Naira for petrol while you pay 40 Naira. I will not buy dollar for 360 Naira while you pay 200 naira. Let us continue. In fact, I want Buhari to win another term. Let us see if any of you will still be supporting him when he finally leaves office.

Kingosytex:
buhari is determined to show fayose that he (buhari) is the boss


they will surely nail fayose

Dokpesi, FFK, Metuh...... have they nailed any of them? Highest he will be detained for some months and then released on bail.

That's how most of their faces are without make up

Lucifer66:
Witches don't exist, Stop living in a fairy tale world.

Ok.

Ebukax:
Witch this modern day? Na wa for shallow minded individuals
Them all will reap them rewards

I used to think this way until a perfectly normal woman started confessing right in front of all of us present. The next day her skin started peeling off like a fire victim. She never recovered till she died. She kept begging for forgiveness. She did not walk into our neighborhood, she lived there for more than 25 years before this incident and she had no history of mental illness. She wven mentioned her coven members and most of them ended up in similar circumstances.

kcmichael:
Did PDP conduct primaries for Saraki,Kwankwanso and david mark? How come the PDP submitted these name without conducting primaries.?

You can conduct primaries and then replace names later. The problem comes when you don't conduct the primaries at all

How many votes can this one bring. Abi una think say dem just dey choose running mate for fancy?

Very soon Zakzaky will be released.

They should move the school away from there to a more welcoming community and see who will suffer it. That's how that one handed Aburi used to behave like a don in Oko back then until the students burnt his house. We were made to pay but he learnt his lessons. If not for Oko poly, how many people will know Oko, Atani or Ufuma?

It would have been better

Person wey dey make mouth before. Shior

So sad.

savio93:
Agbaje... This man no dey tire at all?

He should jejely switch to PDP, at least he might be given house of Rep ticket.

Why spend uneccesary money every four years.
Koyemi

You gbadun so? He should switch from PDP to PDP?

chiefolododo:
Imam? Na wa oo

Chaplin too is there now for christians

Topccy007z:
Supposed target for Boko guys....Clear them away including the ruling party and let's begin a new Nigeria

To blo.w the venue with the prominent members in attendance just dey hungry me

And why would you want to do that?

The only solution I know is harsh. When the child begins to stutter just shout shut up and start again. It's been long since I saw a child stammer so I don't know the new remedy. Maybe you should try making your child read books aloud to you.

Is that not the same guy that was rigged out by APC when he contested under PDP flag?

Elder0001:
I've watched the 2videos and all I can say is that this isn't rape. They can only be charged with revenge porn.

You guys should go to xnxx and type Nigeria girl fuçked by friends.
Observe the videos and judge for yourself

Making love to a drunk girl is rape

Just give her the 200k and let her go and die. All these kill joy people sef

Ambode never start to talk?

calebify1:
Bro why are you going about campaigning for what you ain't sure about sef.
Op requested for solution not pain.
Those of us who have done it have dropped the requirements but you are hell bent on not back off.
It not as if you have been in that situation and was not able to change it.

Did I tell him not to go or does he need my permission? He asked a question and everyone is giving their opinion based on what they know about the matter. If you cannot tolerate my opinion then read and move on. No need to quote me and insult me.

calebify1:
Oga he is completely right.
I had an error in the day of my birthday.
I was asked for exactly those things in the waec office.
Before condemning get your facts right.

What year did you do it?

How did WAEC make you 10 years older? I have said what I know based on information available. If you filled your correct DoB and WAEC makes a mistake they will correct it. If you filled a wrong DoB and come back later to try to change it after results are out it will not be processed. This is 2018 not 2012. Go to WAEC website and see the message flashing there.

Feraz:
It is very possible. Do not listen to those who says it cannot. I made that mistake and missed out on many things. I will give you my experience.

WAEC made me ten years older than my current age and when I went to the WAEC office in Yaba as far back as 2012 (this is after the numerous emails I sent them of which they never replied), I met with an official who told me this "If you were made five years older, it would have been possible but since it is an error of ten years, there's nothing that can be done". I took this is good faith till last year when I applied for a job. The date of birth was in conflict with what WAEC had and I was disqualified despite showing them my DoB certificate. I made frantic efforts to search for a solution till I was pointed to WAEC office in Ogolonto, Ikorodu (different centers have different places for rectification). I brought the necessary documents required, paid N10000 and was asked to wait for a year. It was ready in eight months and the error rectified so try to check before then. (they will NEVER contact you despite you dropping your email addrress and phone number).

You're welcome.



Thank you for the apt answer.

Why do you feel he wants to forge it? What if it's an innocent question?

playcharles:
Go with your:
1. Original WAEC Certificate
2. Original Birth Certificate
3. Court Affidavit (Optional)
4. N10,000

Note: Original copy of WAEC Certificate will be collected on spot...

Be ready to wait for a year or more for it to be ready.

Where did you get this information from? It's completely false and misleading. Once result is out you cannot change date of birth.

almujeebe:
Really or you are joking

You can change it before result is released not after. Talkless of when certificate has been issued.

Go to [url]https://waeconline.org.ng[url] and see the message flashing there.

I wonder where those saying you can do it got their information from.

uijiatalor:
Please help a brother. the date of birth on my waec result differs from the one on my school record. Now am doing my youth service but I wish to correct the date of birth on my waec record to the date of birth on my school record. Is this still possible. Please i need answer and it's urgent.
Thanks in anticipation.

Once result has been issued you cannot change date of birth. If you like go there with a supreme court judge. I will attach proof later.

Once you serve you jail term and the ban time elapses you can be granted US visa