Crime › Re: Gafaru Buraimoh: Lagos Police Arrest & Detain Officer Who Shot Man Dead In Ajah by adisabarber(m): 4:37pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Person comot for house and just like that dem kill am |
Pets › Re: I'm Available With Any Type Of Your Breed Of Dog For Abduction by adisabarber(m): 11:33pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: See Funny Comparison Of Tinubu And Obi's Visit To Emir Of Lafia (Photo) by adisabarber(m): 6:22pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Israel's PM Concedes Defeat, Congratulates Netanyahu, Wishes Him Success by adisabarber(m): 12:04pm On Nov 04, 2022 |
Gospel2Day: The 2 State solution will NEVER happen. Why not bother about 2 State Solution in Nigeria first? Are the Igbos not under 'apartheid' oppression and suppression in Nigeria? Leave Israelis and Palestinians alone. Face your apartheid Nigeria. Ok |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Israel's PM Concedes Defeat, Congratulates Netanyahu, Wishes Him Success by adisabarber(m): 6:38pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Ireportlive:

Just when peace was about to return to middle east, the evil returns
The incumbent PM was already negotiating with Russia on Iran crisis, he had shown seriousness in letting Palestine have an autonomous territory
. They will never allow anyone interested in a 2 state solution to last long as Israeli PM |
Politics › Re: Proposed ₦19.76 Trillion Budget Breakdown For The Year 2023 by adisabarber(m): 1:07pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Another dark year ahead. Debt servicing will gulp same amount as capital expenditure |
Education › Re: This Happened At My Children's School Today by adisabarber(m): 11:49am On Sep 15, 2022 |
Learn to mind your business in Lagos. It helps a lot chegzyshade: Good evening house
I will be straight and brief with my explanation
I dropped my kids in their school early today. On my way out of the premises, I over heard the HOS/HM telling/asking a particular child " WHY ARE YOUR PARENTS SO STUBBORN?" because the child wore a black socks instead of white. That word strucked me and I felt pained cos, I won't take such.
I intervened immediately and correct her manner( I told her that shouldn't be coming from her as the head teacher). Though she felt remorsed, but she was like the said parents are always proving hard. She told me she has had several encounter with this parents on this but they always complaining that the road to the school is very bad that whenever it rained, their child will come in black socks.
To be honest, the road is so mouldy and messed, very unpleasant, you find it so hard to walk through the road in raining periods. If you're so familiar with 'QUEENMARIS SCHOOLS' along ikotun-ijegun road, you'll understand better. She also complained that this child will sometimes wear bodyhug under the unform or improvised cardigan to prevent cold cos the parents refused to buy the school cardigan claiming it's not priority. That they'll rather pay their child school fee than buying cardigan when they can improvise.
I was speechless though, but, I told her what she said is not good enough.
How will you feel and how will you react if your child told you someone in his/her school tell this |
Family › Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by adisabarber(m): 10:40am On Sep 02, 2022 |
Wetin una talk reach there. OP learn to mind your business westlius: Pls pardon my grammar.
Please men have mercies for your wives. My colleague's husband doesn't eat frozen foods, meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and gets home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband.
I really do feel for her, to the extent the man threatening her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more).
She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.
I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out |
Family › Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by adisabarber(m): 2:53pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
TheGift: Even rich people's wives cheat on them. The money may just be a convenient excuse (that kind of puts the blame on the Man) , there might be a deeper issue. In this case, the wife already told him why she's doing it. |
Family › Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by adisabarber(m): 10:26am On Aug 08, 2022 |
You need to focus on your children. There's nothing you can do. Your financial situation has put you in trouble that only money can solve. Lastborn0074: Please I need honest suggestions. My wife has had several male platonic friends ever since we met. She became friends with others through me. I trusted her because she's a very sociable person, so I wasn't bothered because I know a lot of ladies that have male friends too. She's been open to me about them.
Recently, something happened. A close female friend of hers (also married) started keeping her at arm's length. My wife didn't know what the problem was until information got to her that this friend of hers was going about telling people that she could no longer be friends with her because she's sleeping around with men indiscriminately.
My wife confronted her with this information, for which she denied. But the informant, who was also invited, insisted that she actually said it. Before this time, my wife would always complain that each time she visits her friend, she would knock on the door but nobody would respond. This happened repeatedly until her tenant told my wife in confidence that his landlady was always around each time she visits.
Recently, I discovered that my wife was actually having amorous relationship with her male friends. I have access to her messeinger and I have seen those amorous chats. She would delete the ones that could implicate her. A male friend of hers even sent her adult videos and she told him to send more, that she was enjoying it. This man went further to send her his masturbation video.
I confronted my wife with these and what people told me, but she denied. After putting much pressure on her, she said she was about to do it, not that she actually did it. I asked her the reason and she said that it was because of the hardship we were facing. Since her business collapsed, it's been very difficult to survive with our four children. I'm the only one fending for the family. Even after confronting her, I discovered that she's still into the act.
Given the above scenario, what should I do? Please I want only healthy comments that will help me make my decision. Thanks. |
Pets › Re: Rate My Caucasian Shepherd Simba by adisabarber(m): 11:08am On Jul 17, 2022 |
90% |
Politics › Re: Adamu Has Rendered APC NWC Redundant – Tinubu’s Men Cry Out by adisabarber(m): 3:26pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
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Crime › Re: 19 Suspects Arrested At Illegal Oil Storage Site by adisabarber(m): 3:03pm On May 31, 2022 |
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Family › Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by adisabarber(m): 11:14am On May 31, 2022 |
If your wife openly accused you of sleeping with your brother's wife and you are sure it is not true then send her packing. DamnnNiggarr: My entire family which includes my brothers' wives and their kids and my sisters' families was once a peaceful and an enviable large family but right now, the devil wants to destroy the family through our wives.
My wife and my younger brother's wife who were once greatest friends are now mortal enemies, they don't talk nor regard themselves as humans, this enmity has lingered for long despite me and my brother's efforts and that of my entire family, both extended, to resolve the issues between them, over the years but all to no avail.
It becomes worse by the day as we have tried everything humanly possible that is within our reach to quell the situation, but no success. It is that bad that as I'm typing this, their enmity is starting to effect me and my brother's relationship, as my younger brother no longer calls nor chats me as he normally does. Even if I called nor chatted him, he won't pick up and neither the missed calls nor the chats would be returned.
I want to try something different, a totally different approach in tackling the situation, that's why I brought it here. I don't want anything to come in between me and my brother nor my family. I don't want anything to happen to neither my brother's wife nor my wife because the heart of man is evil, that's why I'm seeking for a resolution to the ugly situation.
please all your opinions will help a great deal in approaching it from a different perspective. please save my family.
*Modified* Obim, My wife is actually the cause of the whole drama, She accused my brother's wife of having extramarital affair with me due to how close I was with her as a result of the love they(my wife and her) had for each other. It lead to a very heated quarrelling and the lady vowed never to forgive my wife in her life time and my wife whole heartedly accepted the conquest. Obim said if that will keep her away from me that it's a welcome development.
Now, how it's affecting my family is that my kids no longer go on vacation to their place likewise their kids no longer come over to my house during vacation and many more troubles it has caused my entire family. Initially, My brother understood that it was one of the wahalas associated with women but I'm surprised and confused about his recent change in attitude. |
Politics › Re: Wike, Fayose Meet Atiku Abubakar, PDP Presidential Candidate In Abuja (Photos) by adisabarber(m): 1:01pm On May 30, 2022 |
They have not slept for days GuyWise101: Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
Their faces is not welcoming at all 
Zoom the first pic and you will see that wike was finding it hard to smile and Atiku couldn't wait for the camera man to finish. |
Career › Re: I Have Been Robbed By My Workers. Please Help! by adisabarber(m): 3:17pm On May 24, 2022 |
You kept 25000 in a bag ? Just look for 25k to refund the company and learn from this experience lalalista: Good morning all, please I need intelligence support in this situation I found myself.
Our sachet water factory is in the same compound that we live, we needed workers and contacted an agent to provide us with a motor boy and a driver. The boys came and worked with us for 5 days and after 5days they said they got another appointment somewhere better and they want to leave. We allowed them to go but 3 days later we discovered that the 25000 naira I kept in a bag was missing. The night before they left , I saw some suspicious moves by the motor boy but my mind didn't go there. Now we have called the agent to produce the boy but he's telling stories that he doesn't know anything about him and the information he filled was wrong. Can I get the agent arrested ? What should I do? Your advice is needed |
Romance › Re: I Can't Swim Because Of The Size Of My Manhood by adisabarber(m): 9:58am On May 20, 2022 |
Na your prick other swimmers come look? Go and swim your swin and stop worrying about something that is not an issue LINSAR: Been a guest for a while but decided to open an account to share my predicament.
I am a grower. Whenever I'm erect,I'm only average in size. But whenever I'm flaccid,it looks like that of a toddler. This isn't even a problem since the erect size is okay.
My problem: I wish to learn how to swim.But the water makes the D to shrink.Now,swimming trunks are usually tight.Even ordinary clothes,water will make it stick to your body. This will make my small water-shrunk D to be really visible.
Should I go swimming and ignore whatever shades,stares, embarrassment I may receive? or I should avoid all these and leave swimming? |
Education › Re: Can I Get Admission With This WAEC Result? Advise Me Please! by adisabarber(m): 5:41pm On May 04, 2022 |
Social science courses Goodlyhrt: I sat for WAEC in 2012 and I got this result
Eng. C6 Maths. C6 Phy. D7 Chem. C5 Bio. D7 F.maths D7 Geo. B.. A.Igbo. A1 Econs. C..
Can I get admission with this results and which course of study will be suitable for my result.
Thanks |
Car Talk › Re: How Can You Tell If A Car Has Overheated In The Past? by adisabarber(m): 10:12am On May 04, 2022 |
fineboynl: How do you tell if a car has ever overheated in the past? You can only tell if the gasket got damaged and was replaced. |
Career › Re: Private Schools Do Not Pay Teachers During Holidays by adisabarber(m): 10:06am On May 04, 2022 |
How many private schools have you worked in? Devilagentcap: Why is it that most private school don't pay their workers during hoildays. Like once the term ends like this. Salary wnt be paid till when they start work again.
This isn't right now.
Please, what's your view about this policy, guy? |
Car Talk › Re: 2005 Odyssey & 2005 Sienna: Which Is Better? by adisabarber(m): 9:17am On May 04, 2022 |
Sienna rexlims: Good evening house. Pls I am asking for a friend who is contemplating getting either a honda odyssey or a sienna. Apart from d difference in prices, what about cost of maintenance, fuel consumption and durability? Thanks car enthusiast as I await ur response. |
Politics › Re: Eid-El-Fitr: Ugwuanyi urges Muslims to remain committed to God by adisabarber(m): 12:39pm On May 02, 2022 |
This is Eid el Fitri |
Education › Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by adisabarber(m): 9:07am On Apr 27, 2022 |
If the house will fetch money to travel out then I'm sure if developed the rent can sustain you Kelechi20007: I recently got admission in a university in uk for my Masters. The challenge I have is that I can't fund it. The only way to to do so is by selling my mom house.
I'm her only child and another difficult challenge is that she was buried in the yard of the house 5 years ago.
I don't have a good job, I have been teaching in a private for a long time, I need a better future for myself, I'm seeing a chance here for a better life by furthering my education in uk.
It's a difficult decision for me selling the house with her grave in it. Please guys put yourself in my shoes, what will you do in this kind of situation? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Was The Interviewee's Answer Wrong? (photo) by adisabarber(m): 12:53pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
siofra:
 Tell me about yourself does not mean Name, age, DOB, qualifications etc |
Science/Technology › Re: A Nairalander's Trap Caught A Pangolin (Pictured) by adisabarber(m): 9:45pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
jesvic91: So, our trap caught this animal...and I don't know what it's called. Can you help? Pangolin. The scales are very expensive but if you are caught selling it you can be jailed. |
Romance › Re: Help! A Man Is Threatening To Release My Nudes, I'm Depressed! by adisabarber(m): 12:29pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Angela1996: I'm just depressed over this situation, I'm tired of him, he snapped me while I was naked and threatened to release my nudes...I've told him to sign the undertaken and leave me alone but he has refused... Please I don't know what to do again!...Don't judge me or insult me because no one is perfect Tell him to release it |
Health › Re: Can Ampicillin Capsule Dry And Heal An Open Scar? (Graphic Photo) by adisabarber(m): 3:08pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Just leave it. It's healing naturally already. Cakkie: Good morning all,
Pls doctors and nurses in the house, I need your suggestions.
Not so long ago, I had a wound on my arm that later formed a lil raised scar, though I've been on steroid injections (Tetramicinolone) for sometime now and it has shrinked to the barest minimum, but I had to peel it open, so I can be able to sprinkle powdered capsule (Ampicillin) on the surface — to fasten the healing process.
But I don't know if sprinkling the capsule on it would dry off the wound, thereby healing it.
I am open to any other suggestion that would prove effective. |
Romance › Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by adisabarber(m): 8:47pm On Mar 17, 2022 |
Make him miss you  Sheleads: I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.
The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there...
I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate.
If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment....... |
Foreign Affairs › Re: ICJ Orders Russia To Immediately Suspend Invasion Of Ukraine by adisabarber(m): 7:42pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Go and read about ICC and Israel/Palestine conflict. descartes400: That's where you are wrong!
This is a legal judgement in the international courts which may lead to a legal prohibition of doing business with Russia. I am not familiar with the process, yet the outcome would be something like legally closing ports, businesses, trade with Russia because they are a "terrorist" like State. Through legal means. So even countries doing business with Russia could be held accountable for business with "terrorists". And this i believe allows Ukraine to go after Russian assets as well. So the 300b (Russia's) being held now could be legally used to rebuild Ukraine. Also going after state property around the world, and the peoples assets who were responsible. There are many steps, but in legal term this went fast.This is incredibly simplified. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: ICJ Orders Russia To Immediately Suspend Invasion Of Ukraine by adisabarber(m): 5:58pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
Russia is not a member of ICC. The ruling is not binding on Russia |
Business › Re: A Loan Company Insists I Take Another Loan! (Photos) by adisabarber(m): 1:03pm On Mar 08, 2022 |
Go to your bank and fill unauthorised debit form TeamLeader: I took the loan and it's was due for repayment yesterday. On my own I was waiting for funds somewhere so I can set off the loan. Then A lady from the company called and was just ranting, I wanted to explain to the girl to have patience till 5pm she wasn't just listening, she was just ranting and bang the call on me.
Luckily for me few minutes later the money am expecting entered and I pay the loan immediately I do the repayment but seems the lady didn't notice and the app wasn't cleared. I didn't even noticed myself because I had low battery and I was on transit. Lagos traffic
Then around 10pm I got another debit alert from the company immediate I notify the lady through WhatsApp with the proof of payment I made earlier and what she said shocked me. She said the company can't refund the money that I should keep the debits alerts and took another loan but I refused say na my money I want but she is insisting that I will have to take another loan.
I don't want to take another loan am done with those loan sharks but how can I get my money back please. Should I take the risk because I don't know the game she wants to play o.
Help me guys |
Romance › Re: Help My Ex Wants To Ruin My Marriage by adisabarber(m): 12:46pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
It happened before you met your new girl so tell her the truth. If she decides to leave, let her leave now. OGBEREIJEBU: Stright to point
I am 36years old. Many years ago after NYSC, I have no Juicy paying Job that can enable me to marry. I was in a relationship with Ugochi from when she was 20 until 28. Age was not on her side so I being a nobleman advised her to go ahead and marry one wealthy middle-aged man 41, that was asking for her hand in marriage.
The pressure to marry him was too much from her friends and family. I had no juicy Job, could barely eat, pay bills and have a chance to even drink and buy clothing.
I had to make sacrifices for her, so 5 days to her wedding, we agreed in unison to meet for farewell and farewell F@@k.With frustration and Heavy heart I ca..me deep inside her Four times. Gave her money for drugs (White quinine or postinor 2), she rejected it and promised to take care of it herself. I went to her wedding, eat, wished her well and left. Cried all night and moved on.
Her hubby took her to Abuja.
Now I have a good job. I am building my house and I have a car. I am extremely comfortable now.
I got a call earlier this year and it was Ugochi. She was desperate to see me. she travelled down to Lagos to see me. I wasn't comfortable so I talked her out of coming to my house. We met at an eatery and she came with one handsome little boy. I ordered Food for them and then my biggest fear came. She said her husband found out the baby is not his and sent her packing. She informed me the baby is mine.
I was shocked and I had to tell her I am squatting with someone, She and xxxxxxxx left for Imo State but before then, I denied and I argued, I went defensive. The problem I have now is that I am planning my traditional wedding in August 2022 I have a presentable fiancee I love way too much.
Now, I can lie to the world but I can't lie to myself. That Little boy looks like me and has my pointed nose. Facially, it is glaring He is mine but I don't love Ugochi again, I have moved on. I love my fiancee so much.
How can I handle this situation? |