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PoliticsRe: Wike, Fayose Meet Atiku Abubakar, PDP Presidential Candidate In Abuja (Photos) by adisabarber(m): 1:01pm On May 30, 2022
They have not slept for days

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

Their faces is not welcoming at all grin grin

Zoom the first pic and you will see that wike was finding it hard to smile and Atiku couldn't wait for the camera man to finish.
CareerRe: I Have Been Robbed By My Workers. Please Help! by adisabarber(m): 3:17pm On May 24, 2022
You kept 25000 in a bag ? Just look for 25k to refund the company and learn from this experience

lalalista:
Good morning all, please I need intelligence support in this situation I found myself.

Our sachet water factory is in the same compound that we live, we needed workers and contacted an agent to provide us with a motor boy and a driver. The boys came and worked with us for 5 days and after 5days they said they got another appointment somewhere better and they want to leave. We allowed them to go but 3 days later we discovered that the 25000 naira I kept in a bag was missing. The night before they left , I saw some suspicious moves by the motor boy but my mind didn't go there. Now we have called the agent to produce the boy but he's telling stories that he doesn't know anything about him and the information he filled was wrong. Can I get the agent arrested ? What should I do? Your advice is needed
RomanceRe: I Can't Swim Because Of The Size Of My Manhood by adisabarber(m): 9:58am On May 20, 2022
Na your prick other swimmers come look? Go and swim your swin and stop worrying about something that is not an issue

LINSAR:
Been a guest for a while but decided to open an account to share my predicament.

I am a grower. Whenever I'm erect,I'm only average in size. But whenever I'm flaccid,it looks like that of a toddler.
This isn't even a problem since the erect size is okay.

My problem:
I wish to learn how to swim.But the water makes the D to shrink.Now,swimming trunks are usually tight.Even ordinary clothes,water will make it stick to your body.
This will make my small water-shrunk D to be really visible.

Should I go swimming and ignore whatever shades,stares, embarrassment I may receive? or I should avoid all these and leave swimming?
EducationRe: Can I Get Admission With This WAEC Result? Advise Me Please! by adisabarber(m): 5:41pm On May 04, 2022
Social science courses


Goodlyhrt:
I sat for WAEC in 2012 and I got this result

Eng. C6
Maths. C6
Phy. D7
Chem. C5
Bio. D7
F.maths D7
Geo. B..
A.Igbo. A1
Econs. C..

Can I get admission with this results and which course of study will be suitable for my result.

Thanks
Car TalkRe: How Can You Tell If A Car Has Overheated In The Past? by adisabarber(m): 10:12am On May 04, 2022
fineboynl:
How do you tell if a car has ever overheated in the past?
You can only tell if the gasket got damaged and was replaced.
CareerRe: Private Schools Do Not Pay Teachers During Holidays by adisabarber(m): 10:06am On May 04, 2022
How many private schools have you worked in?


Devilagentcap:
Why is it that most private school don't pay their workers during hoildays. Like once the term ends like this. Salary wnt be paid till when they start work again.

This isn't right now.

Please, what's your view about this policy, guy?
Car TalkRe: 2005 Odyssey & 2005 Sienna: Which Is Better? by adisabarber(m): 9:17am On May 04, 2022
Sienna


rexlims:
Good evening house.
Pls I am asking for a friend who is contemplating getting either a honda odyssey or a sienna.
Apart from d difference in prices, what about cost of maintenance, fuel consumption and durability?
Thanks car enthusiast as I await ur response.
PoliticsRe: Eid-El-Fitr: Ugwuanyi urges Muslims to remain committed to God by adisabarber(m): 12:39pm On May 02, 2022
This is Eid el Fitri
EducationRe: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by adisabarber(m): 9:07am On Apr 27, 2022
If the house will fetch money to travel out then I'm sure if developed the rent can sustain you

Kelechi20007:
I recently got admission in a university in uk for my Masters. The challenge I have is that I can't fund it. The only way to to do so is by selling my mom house.

I'm her only child and another difficult challenge is that she was buried in the yard of the house 5 years ago.

I don't have a good job, I have been teaching in a private for a long time, I need a better future for myself, I'm seeing a chance here for a better life by furthering my education in uk.

It's a difficult decision for me selling the house with her grave in it. Please guys put yourself in my shoes, what will you do in this kind of situation?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Was The Interviewee's Answer Wrong? (photo) by adisabarber(m): 12:53pm On Apr 14, 2022
siofra:
grin
Tell me about yourself does not mean Name, age, DOB, qualifications etc
Science/TechnologyRe: A Nairalander's Trap Caught A Pangolin (Pictured) by adisabarber(m): 9:45pm On Apr 13, 2022
jesvic91:
So, our trap caught this animal...and I don't know what it's called.
Can you help?
Pangolin. The scales are very expensive but if you are caught selling it you can be jailed.
RomanceRe: Help! A Man Is Threatening To Release My Nudes, I'm Depressed! by adisabarber(m): 12:29pm On Apr 07, 2022
Angela1996:
I'm just depressed over this situation, I'm tired of him, he snapped me while I was naked and threatened to release my nudes...I've told him to sign the undertaken and leave me alone but he has refused...
Please I don't know what to do again!...Don't judge me or insult me because no one is perfect
Tell him to release it
HealthRe: Can Ampicillin Capsule Dry And Heal An Open Scar? (Graphic Photo) by adisabarber(m): 3:08pm On Apr 05, 2022
Just leave it. It's healing naturally already.

Cakkie:
Good morning all,


Pls doctors and nurses in the house, I need your suggestions.


Not so long ago, I had a wound on my arm that later formed a lil raised scar, though I've been on steroid injections (Tetramicinolone) for sometime now and it has shrinked to the barest minimum, but I had to peel it open, so I can be able to sprinkle powdered capsule (Ampicillin) on the surface — to fasten the healing process.

But I don't know if sprinkling the capsule on it would dry off the wound, thereby healing it.

I am open to any other suggestion that would prove effective.
RomanceRe: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by adisabarber(m): 8:47pm On Mar 17, 2022
Make him miss you grin


Sheleads:
I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there...

I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate.

If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment.......
Foreign AffairsRe: ICJ Orders Russia To Immediately Suspend Invasion Of Ukraine by adisabarber(m): 7:42pm On Mar 16, 2022
Go and read about ICC and Israel/Palestine conflict.


descartes400:
That's where you are wrong!

This is a legal judgement in the international courts which may lead to a legal prohibition of doing business with Russia. I am not familiar with the process, yet the outcome would be something like legally closing ports, businesses, trade with Russia because they are a "terrorist" like State. Through legal means. So even countries doing business with Russia could be held accountable for business with "terrorists". And this i believe allows Ukraine to go after Russian assets as well. So the 300b (Russia's) being held now could be legally used to rebuild Ukraine. Also going after state property around the world, and the peoples assets who were responsible. There are many steps, but in legal term this went fast.This is incredibly simplified.
Foreign AffairsRe: ICJ Orders Russia To Immediately Suspend Invasion Of Ukraine by adisabarber(m): 5:58pm On Mar 16, 2022
Russia is not a member of ICC. The ruling is not binding on Russia
BusinessRe: A Loan Company Insists I Take Another Loan! (Photos) by adisabarber(m): 1:03pm On Mar 08, 2022
Go to your bank and fill unauthorised debit form


TeamLeader:
I took the loan and it's was due for repayment yesterday. On my own I was waiting for funds somewhere so I can set off the loan. Then A lady from the company called and was just ranting, I wanted to explain to the girl to have patience till 5pm she wasn't just listening, she was just ranting and bang the call on me.

Luckily for me few minutes later the money am expecting entered and I pay the loan immediately I do the repayment but seems the lady didn't notice and the app wasn't cleared. I didn't even noticed myself because I had low battery and I was on transit. Lagos traffic

Then around 10pm I got another debit alert from the company immediate I notify the lady through WhatsApp with the proof of payment I made earlier and what she said shocked me. She said the company can't refund the money that I should keep the debits alerts and took another loan but I refused say na my money I want but she is insisting that I will have to take another loan.

I don't want to take another loan am done with those loan sharks but how can I get my money back please. Should I take the risk because I don't know the game she wants to play o.

Help me guys
RomanceRe: Help My Ex Wants To Ruin My Marriage by adisabarber(m): 12:46pm On Mar 01, 2022
It happened before you met your new girl so tell her the truth. If she decides to leave, let her leave now.

OGBEREIJEBU:
Stright to point

I am 36years old. Many years ago after NYSC, I have no Juicy paying Job that can enable me to marry. I was in a relationship with Ugochi from when she was 20 until 28.
Age was not on her side so I being a nobleman advised her to go ahead and marry one wealthy middle-aged man 41, that was asking for her hand in marriage.

The pressure to marry him was too much from her friends and family. I had no juicy Job, could barely eat, pay bills and have a chance to even drink and buy clothing.

I had to make sacrifices for her, so 5 days to her wedding, we agreed in unison to meet for farewell and farewell F@@k.With frustration and Heavy heart I ca..me deep inside her Four times. Gave her money for drugs (White quinine or postinor 2), she rejected it and promised to take care of it herself. I went to her wedding, eat, wished her well and left. Cried all night and moved on.

Her hubby took her to Abuja.

Now I have a good job. I am building my house and I have a car. I am extremely comfortable now.

I got a call earlier this year and it was Ugochi. She was desperate to see me.
she travelled down to Lagos to see me.
I wasn't comfortable so I talked her out of coming to my house. We met at an eatery and she came with one handsome little boy.
I ordered Food for them and then my biggest fear came.
She said her husband found out the baby is not his and sent her packing.
She informed me the baby is mine.

I was shocked and I had to tell her I am squatting with someone, She and xxxxxxxx left for Imo State but before then, I denied and I argued, I went defensive.

The problem I have now is that I am planning my traditional wedding in August 2022 I have a presentable fiancee I love way too much.

Now, I can lie to the world but I can't lie to myself. That Little boy looks like me and has my pointed nose. Facially, it is glaring He is mine but I don't love Ugochi again, I have moved on. I love my fiancee so much.

How can I handle this situation?
HealthRe: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by adisabarber(m): 12:02pm On Feb 24, 2022
Learn programming, it might help.

HenryIgwe01:
My name is Henry, 27 yrs old. I am new here, it was my younger sister who introduced me to nairaland. She is a member here.

Brilliant and intellectual minds are here so I believe you people can help me with an advice because I am so depressed and I don't know who to talk talk to about my depression.

I'm a stammerer, a chronic and dreadful one at that. I can repeat an initial word like forever before I could complete my statement. It has made me hate my life and existence. I have a very low-self esteem, I can't express myself, I can't even approach a girl not to talk of being a relationship because I'm afraid of being mocked.

I'm a graduate in accounting education from AAU. I have always dreamt of becoming a lecturer/teacher. I'm smart and intelligent, I love to impact knowledge but I can't express myself. It's a big disability for me.

Back then in University, when i went for my teaching practice, the first day I taught in a classroom, I sense an undesirable atmosphere. I knew the students were trying to laugh but they respected their selves. When I got home, I locked myself and I cried.... But life goes on.

I graduated 2017, I went for nysc 2018. Since then my life has no bearing. I have not achieved anything. I feel inadequate despite I read a lot and I'm intelligent. It pains me I can't communicate to impact knowledge without stammering.

My father is making it worse for me, he compare me with other guys, he has never appreciated any thing I've done for him, he talks down on me. He finds fault in anything I do, he talks as if I created myself.

My mom and siblings are the reason why I haven't committed suicide. They encourage me everyday, especially my mom who is sick now.

I prefer to be completely deaf and dumb than for me to talk and not be able to express myself.

God is not perfect. If God was perfect, he would not have created some people with disability or deformity. Some people were born crippled, deaf, blind etc.. And you wanna tell me God is perfect? He's a partial and sentimental God. I try to understand his vision but all I see is damages.

Please I'm so depressed. I need advice.
CrimeRe: NDLEA Destroys 255 Hectares Of Cannabis Farms In Ondo (photos) by adisabarber(m): 9:40pm On Feb 23, 2022
FamilyRe: Help: My Brother Is Addicted To Gambling by adisabarber(m): 6:56am On Feb 22, 2022
clockwisereport:
Good evening bro

Are you from Orlu? I know a man in Orlu that bears your moniker as his nickname
Good morning. I'm not from Orlu.
FamilyRe: Help: My Brother Is Addicted To Gambling by adisabarber(m): 7:55pm On Feb 21, 2022
Boogiebee:
My brother is 17 and addicted to gambling.
This addiction has cost us so much as a family especially my widowed mum.

He is constantly selling things and using money meant for his rent, upkeep, etc to gamble. Just last week he used his laptop to gamble. We have used tough love and right now we have exhausted all options to make him stop.

Like every other addiction if we are not proactive I'm afraid this will ruin him.

Additional Information: He's currently a 200L student of a federal uni but ever since he gained admission it has been one problem or the other caused by gambling. I'm thinking of withdrawing him and put him in a juvenile home if everything else fails.

I need practical solutions and advice on how to make him stop. If you are a recovered gambler please share what helped you.
Tough one but you need to apply wisdom here. Make sure you never hand too much money to him directly. Send food stuff to him instead of feeding allowance. Send him money weekly instead of monthly. Keep valuables away from him so he cannot steal them. If he sells his things, don't replace them. Lastly, pray for God to help you
EducationRe: NECO To Register SSCE Candidates Offline, Says Scratch Cards Not Available by adisabarber(m): 10:32am On Feb 13, 2022
ogododo:
https://punchng.com/neco-to-register-ssce-candidates-offline-says-scratch-cards-not-available/
Wrong information. NECO already stopped using scratch cards like 2 years ago. You have to register your candidates offline, capture biometrics and then purchase tokens by paying into FG TSA. It is only after that you can complete your registration by uploading the registered cadidates to the online portal.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: An Encounter With A Job Applicant by adisabarber(m): 1:03pm On Feb 07, 2022
merit455:
Why asking her personal questions
POS business means she will be handling raw cash. He has the right to even ask if she smokes weed.
BusinessRe: A Customer Blocked Me After Making An Order by adisabarber(m): 12:14pm On Feb 07, 2022
So sorry for the inconvenience. Next time, you can go to GIG park in Ikotun if you want to send something to Bayelsa. It's closer to Iyana Ipaja.

Xcelinteriors:
So this customer(a nairander) called me and asked for 15 rolls of wallpaper and 15sqm of linoleum which the total was 90,000.

We reached an agreement and he told me to waybill it to bayelsa and he will only transfer my money only if I take it to the park and make video call with him showing the packed items. I agreed. I couldn't get any vehicle going to bayelsa from iyana ipaja so I called him to ask if he will prefer peace mass which he said yes. All this while he knew he didn't have any money to pay me but because he want to show the wickedness in him, he asked me to take it to park.

Everyone knows iyana ipaja to jibowu is a very long distance and I did not even charge him for the trip just because I want to please and make my customer happy .

I was in traffic for more than 2hrs and this devil of a customer didn't see the need to call me to inform me that he don't need those items again
I reached peace mass and was negotiating with the driver about the waybill fee and that was when I saw this message below. Funny enough he also blocked me.

As for the wallpaper I can always get another customer that will buy it but the linoleum has been cut into the square meter he want. Selling it won't be easy but God will bring a customer that will buy it.

When this man knows he doesn't have money to pay for an item while ordering it and giving me unnecessary stress.

Vendors please take note of this, when a customer request for anything and he /she can't send money first please kindly ignore them . Most of them are time wasters.
TravelRe: Man Thanks God As He Emerges Unhurt From Ghastly Accident by adisabarber(m): 4:41pm On Feb 02, 2022
NaijaCoverBlog:
A Man survived a ghastly accident with his Mercedes-Benz and he went on Facebook to thank God for sparing his life.

Francis David Matthew shared photos of his car before and after the accident and revealed that he survived the accident without a scratch on any part of his body.

He asked his friends to join him in thanking God.

See Photos As Obtained By Below
He's lucky it's a benz
EducationRe: Is This How Polio Vaccine Is Forced On school Children Without Parents Consent? by adisabarber(m): 9:07am On Feb 01, 2022
Vaccination is a child's right. The school cannot stop health workers from administering polio vaccine. If those health workers come to your house and see unvaccinated children they have the right to give them the vaccine. No put school owner inside wahala


Mrshape:
When health workers come to a school, will they not allow the school to contact the parents before they vaccinate their children?
Some health workers came to my school and started disturbing the peace of the school because we told her we will contact the parents and seek their consent before they can vaccinate the children, she started shouting they will close down the school, this that, torn the visitors book, we have to tell her to go. We contacted our parents some refused most said we go ahead then told the local health center to come and vaccinate the children tommorow.

I want to know do they have right to force vaccine on children without parents consent?
PetsRe: 17 Month Old Neapolitan Mastiff Male For Sale Sangotedo by adisabarber(m): 2:54pm On Jan 28, 2022
This dog needs to be fed properly
CrimeRe: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by adisabarber(m): 11:35am On Jan 12, 2022
yinkeys:
Very bad advice
You’re a novice bro
Expert, say your own and leave me alone
CrimeRe: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by adisabarber(m): 10:42am On Jan 12, 2022
See the exact way you showed remorse here, show it to her. Show genuine remorse but don't think forgiveness will come immediately. Give her time so wounds can heal naturally. Goodluck


Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life cry. I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life sad. What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here cry. Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.
PetsRe: I Need Pigeon (eyele) For Sell by adisabarber(m): 10:26am On Jan 06, 2022
I only know where you can get in Lagos. They are usually sold where local fowls and ducks are sold or herb stores. If you have anyone in Lagos, tell the person to check Onipanu market.

legendine:
I'm in warri and Benin... anywhere preferably

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