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Biglol008:
Good afternoon Nairalanders, pls I need your advice. I’m married 28 years, no children yet. Newly wedded, I have a problem. I don’t last long on bed. I cum very quickly and it takes a long time like 4 hours for me to get another erection and most times it’s not very hard like my first erection.

I was told the nitric oxide in my body is low. Pls I need help. How do I boost my nitric oxide in my body or if there are any supplements let me buy.

I’m afraid if I don’t do anything now my wife might eventually cheat in the future. I no longer have my morning erection like some guys do. I have exercise, did ginger, garlic, bitter Kola nothing seems to be working.

What can I do to remedy my situation. Pls no talk of hospital health wise I’m very okay. No diabetics or anything no infection pls help me so I can save my marriage and my myself.

First call your wife and discuss the issue then discuss possible solutions you are considering

001Lagos:
https://punchng.com/parents-put-padlocks-on-daughters-graves-to-avoid-rape-in-pakistan/?amp

Why not just seal the grave with concrete? Not like the person buried there plans to come out any time soon

7david7:
Good morning my people, I am writing you people at this delicate hour of 12:39am because my son's condition, it's getting worse by the day.

Dandruff wants to kill this beautiful boy, I know it's weird because we all know, myself included that dandruff doesn't kill, but watching myself lose a part of my son everyday.

He's been suffering from this condition for over 6yrs now, we've gone to the hospital and after buying and using all the prescribed drugs (Nizoral shampoo, selsun blue, head and shoulders, tea tree oil, miconazole cream, ketoconazole cream, terbinafine cream, fluconazole tablet, terbinafine tablet: almost killed my son, griseofulvin etc) nothing has changed, instead it's getting worse by day.

From complaining of headaches, to weakness (my son that was filled with energy and plays all the time now barely moves, he is always one place complaining of tiredness and pain), to joint pains, to confusion.

According to him, this dandruff has ate up his scalp so much that he can now taste his bathing soap on his tongue the moment he washes his head. We are now scared of washing and applying anything on his head because he will complain of tasting whatever we put on his head in his mouth and he will start having reactions. It's almost as if the skin on his scalp no longer protects him from outside soaps and other ingredients.

The moment he washes his head, his lips and tongue will swell up and he will start having reactions. My once active and lovely boy is now a shadow of himself. He's refusing to play, always complaining of tiredness and pains.

Pls help me my people, I don't know what to do anymore. I've tried every hospital and everything, I've done all I know, and now I'm watching my son deteriorate gradually before my very eyes without having a clue what to do, pls I beg you, help him, help me.

Nearest hospital straight. This isn't dandruff

Collins4u1:
can't we eat them?

You want to eat a dog that is more expensive than a cow

blackpanda:
Even in south africa it's about $3 per liter (N2250)

22.5 Rand can never be 3 dollars. Petrol is like 550 Naira per litre in SA

FreeStuffsNG:
This is not really a good sign that the peace entreaty worked and I am genuinely concerned.
The Itsekiri are in the midst of unfriendly neighbours and their greatest strength should be their unity.

You can not have another Ologbotsere when one is still alive. I pray the issue is well handled for the peace and prosperity of Itsekiri land.
check my signature for free stuffs!

So the Olu should go and beg Ayiri to come and pay homage? Ologbotsere cannot refuse to go and see the Olu since the Olu was crowned and expect to retain the title.

Westerhoffe:
Ain't this too small compared to footballers', knowing they both run same race around the pitch…

Refereeing is a hobby, playing football is a profession. Most referees have other sources of livelihood

Billionaire2:
People may not agree with me but ….. if not that Nigerian military is politically compromised and highly tribalized… I prefer military rule to this present political system…

Apparently, all African countries under military are more peaceful than Nigeria

Our democracy is so expensive that military rule might end up saving us trillions of Naira per year. Look at how many legislators we pay for doing nothing. Let's not even begin to talk about corruption.

Dsalvo:
Even Derek Chisora holds the Nigerian flag too. Unlike some who only see our flag as fit to burn, spit on or soak in blood to display cynically at a beauty pageant.

Is Chisora a Nigerian? Never seen him holding the Nigerian flag cos I know he's a Zimbabwean.

barbstee:
Ok

I think Obi will learn a lesson here and not waste the courts time.

BAT is our president elect.
May Allah ease the task for him

Do you realize that PDP lost this case based on technicalities and not the merits of the case? Obi's lawyers must have learnt from it.

SmartPolician:
I thought the court was supposed to serve him the process and not the plaintiffs.

In Nigeria, it is plaintiffs that serve documents. Bailiff can refuse to serve until it is too late

You know the man better than any of us. If the only fear is what you experienced in the past then I think you should put the past behind you. Talk to your children about the man. Let his kids come and spend time in your place without their father. Let your kids spend time in his place without you. Once all the children get along, there can never be any problem in future.

Vyvyanvyvy:
Hello guys, I am a 36 years old single mother of four. My son will be 15 in August, first daughter 10 in october, my third 5 and youngest 3 by june.

I have separated from my husband because he didn't want my son to come and live with us, I have been taking care of them singlehandedly for 3 years.

I have been friend with this man, a widower who is 57 years and a father of 2 children. He is asking for my hand in marriage. To be honest, I don't want to be married again, all I want is to focus on raising my kids because I have been through a lot in my previous marriage and I don't want another marriage wahala.

He asked for my hand in marriage, I rejected him and I had explained to him why I don't want to marry again. I told him what my ex did, he said he is a mature man he will love me and my children and he will never hate them or ask them to leave his house. I told him I have to think about it and I will get back to him ASAP. But I am still scared to accept his proposal because I don't want history to repeat itself and he is still on my neck. He wants me to accept his proposal. I am confused.

Please advice me. Is it a wise choice for me to get married again after everything I have been through in the past?

RuMiRgO1stSon:
Family dog develop leg problem on husband right front leg, limping since 2 days ago.... I have check the leg but see no wound, the local vet also came and checked but couldn't not tell what the problem is. Any help pls

Check the paws. Press softly and the dog will try to withdraw the leg when u press the painful part

webincomeplus:
Aunty IJ has automatically passed the man's course. She should focus on other courses.

She has passed all courses. In fact, she has graduated

God1000:
Here is the country where nobody is above the law.

This can never happen in Nigeria

Our leaders in naija are the biggest law breakers, and they do it with impunity


But it seems Rishi Sunak didn't learn anything from his predecessor, Boris Johnson was forced to resign due to such similar issue

The crown has sovereign immunity in UK so the king is above the law

GreatnessT:
Dear All,

Help me identify this breed

Rottweiler + German shepherd

MsJackson:
Good morning house. I need your opinion on this issue.

Around May last year, my husband and I went with my 4 year old daughter to visit my sister in-law (hubby's elder sister). They insisted they wanted her to stay some days with them, that I should return for her in two or three days time.

After much persuasion from my oga, I left her. But my heart wasn't settled because I've never stayed away from her for that long.
I just noticed that when we called her on video call the very next morning, she looked and sounded depressed, telling us to come take her home. I just thought she was missing me.

I returned the next three days to pick her up. It was even the oldest cousin, a 15 year old girl, who was actually very fond of my daughter that helped me carry her on her back and saw us off to the bustop.

Two or 3 months later, at the end of a Bible study I had with her, my baby said she wanted to tell me something. Hubby was lying on the couch. My baby said the period I took her to that house, the 15 year old girl was always sucking her vagina. My brain shut down immediately. Her dad jumped from the couch and told her to repeat what she just said. She did. She also said that the girl usually holds her mouth close during the act, and that she beats the girl on the head to stop what she was doing, but the girl refused and beat my daughter back.

I broke down. Hubby had never become so mad at his family to the extent of turning his back on them, to the extent of shutting his dad up, but he did all these because his only child was involved.

The family, they all said my daughter was lying. My question is: can a four year old lie about such? The nature of this supposed lie. I don't think so. But all the family members said my daughter lied. And even the girl denied it.
They are totally refusing to address this. They even after some weeks have codedly believe such happened and have called my husband to beg, hubby said so, I don't know if it's true or not. But me the wife, NOBODY, I REPEAT, NOBODY CALLED ME. Like I am nothing in their eyes. Not even the evil mother that insisted my daughter spent some days with them. It's not like if they called me to apologize it would change the past, no, but I might have some tiny relief.

My daughter talks about that experience till date. Even up till yesterday. I am beyond heartbroken. I can't forgive.

The family all turned their face away. Nobody cared to address it, even his parents. I'm thinking of going to their church to expose her because I hear the 15 year old girl is getting baptized next week. Hubby told me to forget about it, his brother told me not to try it. But anytime my daughter remembers this incident and brings it up, I become very disturbed. I don't know what to do.

Please advise me.

If you want justice go to the police. Going to their church to stop her baptism is blackmail and it is not likely to work.

princeemmma:
Which kain costume be this now, he must have got the costume in the shrine

Na woman

Person comot for house and just like that dem kill am

William98:
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Adoption

oikirodah:
Source iReporteronline.
https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/peter-obi-was-sleeping-tinubu-was-endorsed-see-funny-comparison-of-tinubu-and-obis-visit-to-emir-of-lafia-photo/

Obi was given a chair similar to the king's chair

Gospel2Day:
The 2 State solution will NEVER happen.
Why not bother about 2 State Solution in Nigeria first?
Are the Igbos not under 'apartheid' oppression and suppression in Nigeria?
Leave Israelis and Palestinians alone.
Face your apartheid Nigeria.

Ok

Ireportlive:




Just when peace was about to return to middle east, the evil returns

The incumbent PM was already negotiating with Russia on Iran crisis, he had shown seriousness in letting Palestine have an autonomous territory



.

They will never allow anyone interested in a 2 state solution to last long as Israeli PM

Another dark year ahead. Debt servicing will gulp same amount as capital expenditure

Learn to mind your business in Lagos. It helps a lot

chegzyshade:
Good evening house

I will be straight and brief with my explanation


I dropped my kids in their school early today. On my way out of the premises, I over heard the HOS/HM telling/asking a particular child " WHY ARE YOUR PARENTS SO STUBBORN?" because the child wore a black socks instead of white. That word strucked me and I felt pained cos, I won't take such.

I intervened immediately and correct her manner( I told her that shouldn't be coming from her as the head teacher).
Though she felt remorsed, but she was like the said parents are always proving hard. She told me she has had several encounter with this parents on this but they always complaining that the road to the school is very bad that whenever it rained, their child will come in black socks.

To be honest, the road is so mouldy and messed, very unpleasant, you find it so hard to walk through the road in raining periods. If you're so familiar with 'QUEENMARIS SCHOOLS' along ikotun-ijegun road, you'll understand better.
She also complained that this child will sometimes wear bodyhug under the unform or improvised cardigan to prevent cold cos the parents refused to buy the school cardigan claiming it's not priority. That they'll rather pay their child school fee than buying cardigan when they can improvise.

I was speechless though, but, I told her what she said is not good enough.

How will you feel and how will you react if your child told you someone in his/her school tell this

Wetin una talk reach there. OP learn to mind your business

westlius:
Pls pardon my grammar.

Please men have mercies for your wives. My colleague's husband doesn't eat frozen foods, meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and gets home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband.

I really do feel for her, to the extent the man threatening her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more).

She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.

I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out

TheGift:
Even rich people's wives cheat on them. The money may just be a convenient excuse (that kind of puts the blame on the Man) , there might be a deeper issue.

In this case, the wife already told him why she's doing it.

You need to focus on your children. There's nothing you can do. Your financial situation has put you in trouble that only money can solve.

Lastborn0074:
Please I need honest suggestions. My wife has had several male platonic friends ever since we met. She became friends with others through me. I trusted her because she's a very sociable person, so I wasn't bothered because I know a lot of ladies that have male friends too. She's been open to me about them.

Recently, something happened. A close female friend of hers (also married) started keeping her at arm's length. My wife didn't know what the problem was until information got to her that this friend of hers was going about telling people that she could no longer be friends with her because she's sleeping around with men indiscriminately.

My wife confronted her with this information, for which she denied. But the informant, who was also invited, insisted that she actually said it. Before this time, my wife would always complain that each time she visits her friend, she would knock on the door but nobody would respond. This happened repeatedly until her tenant told my wife in confidence that his landlady was always around each time she visits.

Recently, I discovered that my wife was actually having amorous relationship with her male friends. I have access to her messeinger and I have seen those amorous chats. She would delete the ones that could implicate her. A male friend of hers even sent her adult videos and she told him to send more, that she was enjoying it. This man went further to send her his masturbation video.

I confronted my wife with these and what people told me, but she denied. After putting much pressure on her, she said she was about to do it, not that she actually did it. I asked her the reason and she said that it was because of the hardship we were facing. Since her business collapsed, it's been very difficult to survive with our four children. I'm the only one fending for the family. Even after confronting her, I discovered that she's still into the act.

Given the above scenario, what should I do? Please I want only healthy comments that will help me make my decision. Thanks.

90%

ganisucks:
https://independent.ng/adamu-has-rendered-apc-nwc-redundant-tinubus-men-cry-out/

Lol

Sunofgod:
https://thenationonlineng.net/19-suspects-arrested-at-illegal-oil-storage-facility-in-lagos/

They will still leave them

If your wife openly accused you of sleeping with your brother's wife and you are sure it is not true then send her packing.

DamnnNiggarr:
My entire family which includes my brothers' wives and their kids and my sisters' families was once a peaceful and an enviable large family but right now, the devil wants to destroy the family through our wives.

My wife and my younger brother's wife who were once greatest friends are now mortal enemies, they don't talk nor regard themselves as humans, this enmity has lingered for long despite me and my brother's efforts and that of my entire family, both extended, to resolve the issues between them, over the years but all to no avail.

It becomes worse by the day as we have tried everything humanly possible that is within our reach to quell the situation, but no success.
It is that bad that as I'm typing this, their enmity is starting to effect me and my brother's relationship, as my younger brother no longer calls nor chats me as he normally does. Even if I called nor chatted him, he won't pick up and neither the missed calls nor the chats would be returned.

I want to try something different, a totally different approach in tackling the situation, that's why I brought it here. I don't want anything to come in between me and my brother nor my family. I don't want anything to happen to neither my brother's wife nor my wife because the heart of man is evil, that's why I'm seeking for a resolution to the ugly situation.

please all your opinions will help a great deal in approaching it from a different perspective.
please save my family.

*Modified*
Obim, My wife is actually the cause of the whole drama,
She accused my brother's wife of having extramarital affair with me due to how close I was with her as a result of the love they(my wife and her) had for each other. It lead to a very heated quarrelling and the lady vowed never to forgive my wife in her life time and my wife whole heartedly accepted the conquest. Obim said if that will keep her away from me that it's a welcome development.

Now, how it's affecting my family is that my kids no longer go on vacation to their place likewise their kids no longer come over to my house during vacation and many more troubles it has caused my entire family.
Initially, My brother understood that it was one of the wahalas associated with women but I'm surprised and confused about his recent change in attitude.