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Education / Re: How I Found Out My Student Was My Nursery School Teacher –lecturer by adisabarber(m): 8:40am On Feb 11, 2023
webincomeplus:
Aunty IJ has automatically passed the man's course. She should focus on other courses.

She has passed all courses. In fact, she has graduated
Foreign Affairs / Re: UK PM, Rishi Sunak Fined For Not Wearing Seatbelt In A Moving Car by adisabarber(m): 8:40pm On Jan 20, 2023
God1000:
Here is the country where nobody is above the law.

This can never happen in Nigeria

Our leaders in naija are the biggest law breakers, and they do it with impunity


But it seems Rishi Sunak didn't learn anything from his predecessor, Boris Johnson was forced to resign due to such similar issue

The crown has sovereign immunity in UK so the king is above the law
Pets / Re: What Breed Of Dog Is This? by adisabarber(m): 10:17pm On Jan 16, 2023
GreatnessT:
Dear All,

Help me identify this breed

Rottweiler + German shepherd
Crime / Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by adisabarber(m): 10:17pm On Jan 04, 2023
MsJackson:
Good morning house. I need your opinion on this issue.

Around May last year, my husband and I went with my 4 year old daughter to visit my sister in-law (hubby's elder sister). They insisted they wanted her to stay some days with them, that I should return for her in two or three days time.

After much persuasion from my oga, I left her. But my heart wasn't settled because I've never stayed away from her for that long.
I just noticed that when we called her on video call the very next morning, she looked and sounded depressed, telling us to come take her home. I just thought she was missing me.

I returned the next three days to pick her up. It was even the oldest cousin, a 15 year old girl, who was actually very fond of my daughter that helped me carry her on her back and saw us off to the bustop.

Two or 3 months later, at the end of a Bible study I had with her, my baby said she wanted to tell me something. Hubby was lying on the couch. My baby said the period I took her to that house, the 15 year old girl was always sucking her vagina. My brain shut down immediately. Her dad jumped from the couch and told her to repeat what she just said. She did. She also said that the girl usually holds her mouth close during the act, and that she beats the girl on the head to stop what she was doing, but the girl refused and beat my daughter back.

I broke down. Hubby had never become so mad at his family to the extent of turning his back on them, to the extent of shutting his dad up, but he did all these because his only child was involved.

The family, they all said my daughter was lying. My question is: can a four year old lie about such? The nature of this supposed lie. I don't think so. But all the family members said my daughter lied. And even the girl denied it.
They are totally refusing to address this. They even after some weeks have codedly believe such happened and have called my husband to beg, hubby said so, I don't know if it's true or not. But me the wife, NOBODY, I REPEAT, NOBODY CALLED ME. Like I am nothing in their eyes. Not even the evil mother that insisted my daughter spent some days with them. It's not like if they called me to apologize it would change the past, no, but I might have some tiny relief.

My daughter talks about that experience till date. Even up till yesterday. I am beyond heartbroken. I can't forgive.

The family all turned their face away. Nobody cared to address it, even his parents. I'm thinking of going to their church to expose her because I hear the 15 year old girl is getting baptized next week. Hubby told me to forget about it, his brother told me not to try it. But anytime my daughter remembers this incident and brings it up, I become very disturbed. I don't know what to do.

Please advise me.

If you want justice go to the police. Going to their church to stop her baptism is blackmail and it is not likely to work.
Education / Re: A School In Onitsha Invited Father Christmas For Fun But It Ended In Tears - Pho by adisabarber(m): 9:26am On Dec 14, 2022
princeemmma:
Which kain costume be this now, he must have got the costume in the shrine angry grin grin grin

Na woman
Crime / Re: Gafaru Buraimoh: Lagos Police Arrest & Detain Officer Who Shot Man Dead In Ajah by adisabarber(m): 4:37pm On Dec 07, 2022
Person comot for house and just like that dem kill am
Pets / Re: I'm Available With Any Type Of Your Breed Of Dog For Abduction by adisabarber(m): 11:33pm On Nov 23, 2022
William98:
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Adoption
Politics / Re: See Funny Comparison Of Tinubu And Obi's Visit To Emir Of Lafia (Photo) by adisabarber(m): 6:22pm On Nov 11, 2022

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Israel's PM Concedes Defeat, Congratulates Netanyahu, Wishes Him Success by adisabarber(m): 12:04pm On Nov 04, 2022
Gospel2Day:


The 2 State solution will NEVER happen.
Why not bother about 2 State Solution in Nigeria first?
Are the Igbos not under 'apartheid' oppression and suppression in Nigeria?
Leave Israelis and Palestinians alone.
Face your apartheid Nigeria.

Ok
Foreign Affairs / Re: Israel's PM Concedes Defeat, Congratulates Netanyahu, Wishes Him Success by adisabarber(m): 6:38pm On Nov 03, 2022
Ireportlive:
cool



Just when peace was about to return to middle east, the evil returns

The incumbent PM was already negotiating with Russia on Iran crisis, he had shown seriousness in letting Palestine have an autonomous territory



.

They will never allow anyone interested in a 2 state solution to last long as Israeli PM

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Politics / Re: Proposed ₦19.76 Trillion Budget Breakdown For The Year 2023 by adisabarber(m): 1:07pm On Oct 08, 2022
Another dark year ahead. Debt servicing will gulp same amount as capital expenditure

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Education / Re: This Happened At My Children's School Today by adisabarber(m): 11:49am On Sep 15, 2022
Learn to mind your business in Lagos. It helps a lot


chegzyshade:
Good evening house

I will be straight and brief with my explanation


I dropped my kids in their school early today. On my way out of the premises, I over heard the HOS/HM telling/asking a particular child " WHY ARE YOUR PARENTS SO STUBBORN?" because the child wore a black socks instead of white. That word strucked me and I felt pained cos, I won't take such.

I intervened immediately and correct her manner( I told her that shouldn't be coming from her as the head teacher).
Though she felt remorsed, but she was like the said parents are always proving hard. She told me she has had several encounter with this parents on this but they always complaining that the road to the school is very bad that whenever it rained, their child will come in black socks.

To be honest, the road is so mouldy and messed, very unpleasant, you find it so hard to walk through the road in raining periods. If you're so familiar with 'QUEENMARIS SCHOOLS' along ikotun-ijegun road, you'll understand better.
She also complained that this child will sometimes wear bodyhug under the unform or improvised cardigan to prevent cold cos the parents refused to buy the school cardigan claiming it's not priority. That they'll rather pay their child school fee than buying cardigan when they can improvise.

I was speechless though, but, I told her what she said is not good enough.

How will you feel and how will you react if your child told you someone in his/her school tell this

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Family / Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by adisabarber(m): 10:40am On Sep 02, 2022
Wetin una talk reach there. OP learn to mind your business

westlius:
Pls pardon my grammar.

Please men have mercies for your wives. My colleague's husband doesn't eat frozen foods, meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and gets home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband.

I really do feel for her, to the extent the man threatening her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more).

She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.

I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out
Family / Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by adisabarber(m): 2:53pm On Aug 08, 2022
TheGift:


Even rich people's wives cheat on them. The money may just be a convenient excuse (that kind of puts the blame on the Man) , there might be a deeper issue.

In this case, the wife already told him why she's doing it.
Family / Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by adisabarber(m): 10:26am On Aug 08, 2022
You need to focus on your children. There's nothing you can do. Your financial situation has put you in trouble that only money can solve.

Lastborn0074:
Please I need honest suggestions. My wife has had several male platonic friends ever since we met. She became friends with others through me. I trusted her because she's a very sociable person, so I wasn't bothered because I know a lot of ladies that have male friends too. She's been open to me about them.

Recently, something happened. A close female friend of hers (also married) started keeping her at arm's length. My wife didn't know what the problem was until information got to her that this friend of hers was going about telling people that she could no longer be friends with her because she's sleeping around with men indiscriminately.

My wife confronted her with this information, for which she denied. But the informant, who was also invited, insisted that she actually said it. Before this time, my wife would always complain that each time she visits her friend, she would knock on the door but nobody would respond. This happened repeatedly until her tenant told my wife in confidence that his landlady was always around each time she visits.

Recently, I discovered that my wife was actually having amorous relationship with her male friends. I have access to her messeinger and I have seen those amorous chats. She would delete the ones that could implicate her. A male friend of hers even sent her adult videos and she told him to send more, that she was enjoying it. This man went further to send her his masturbation video.

I confronted my wife with these and what people told me, but she denied. After putting much pressure on her, she said she was about to do it, not that she actually did it. I asked her the reason and she said that it was because of the hardship we were facing. Since her business collapsed, it's been very difficult to survive with our four children. I'm the only one fending for the family. Even after confronting her, I discovered that she's still into the act.

Given the above scenario, what should I do? Please I want only healthy comments that will help me make my decision. Thanks.
Pets / Re: Rate My Caucasian Shepherd Simba by adisabarber(m): 11:08am On Jul 17, 2022
90%
Politics / Re: Adamu Has Rendered APC NWC Redundant – Tinubu’s Men Cry Out by adisabarber(m): 3:26pm On Jun 01, 2022
Crime / Re: 19 Suspects Arrested At Illegal Oil Storage Site by adisabarber(m): 3:03pm On May 31, 2022
Family / Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by adisabarber(m): 11:14am On May 31, 2022
If your wife openly accused you of sleeping with your brother's wife and you are sure it is not true then send her packing.

DamnnNiggarr:
My entire family which includes my brothers' wives and their kids and my sisters' families was once a peaceful and an enviable large family but right now, the devil wants to destroy the family through our wives.

My wife and my younger brother's wife who were once greatest friends are now mortal enemies, they don't talk nor regard themselves as humans, this enmity has lingered for long despite me and my brother's efforts and that of my entire family, both extended, to resolve the issues between them, over the years but all to no avail.

It becomes worse by the day as we have tried everything humanly possible that is within our reach to quell the situation, but no success.
It is that bad that as I'm typing this, their enmity is starting to effect me and my brother's relationship, as my younger brother no longer calls nor chats me as he normally does. Even if I called nor chatted him, he won't pick up and neither the missed calls nor the chats would be returned.

I want to try something different, a totally different approach in tackling the situation, that's why I brought it here. I don't want anything to come in between me and my brother nor my family. I don't want anything to happen to neither my brother's wife nor my wife because the heart of man is evil, that's why I'm seeking for a resolution to the ugly situation.

please all your opinions will help a great deal in approaching it from a different perspective.
please save my family.

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Obim, My wife is actually the cause of the whole drama,
She accused my brother's wife of having extramarital affair with me due to how close I was with her as a result of the love they(my wife and her) had for each other. It lead to a very heated quarrelling and the lady vowed never to forgive my wife in her life time and my wife whole heartedly accepted the conquest. Obim said if that will keep her away from me that it's a welcome development.

Now, how it's affecting my family is that my kids no longer go on vacation to their place likewise their kids no longer come over to my house during vacation and many more troubles it has caused my entire family.
Initially, My brother understood that it was one of the wahalas associated with women but I'm surprised and confused about his recent change in attitude.

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Politics / Re: Wike, Fayose Meet Atiku Abubakar, PDP Presidential Candidate In Abuja (Photos) by adisabarber(m): 1:01pm On May 30, 2022
They have not slept for days

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

Their faces is not welcoming at all grin grin

Zoom the first pic and you will see that wike was finding it hard to smile and Atiku couldn't wait for the camera man to finish.

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Career / Re: I Have Been Robbed By My Workers. Please Help! by adisabarber(m): 3:17pm On May 24, 2022
You kept 25000 in a bag ? Just look for 25k to refund the company and learn from this experience

lalalista:
Good morning all, please I need intelligence support in this situation I found myself.

Our sachet water factory is in the same compound that we live, we needed workers and contacted an agent to provide us with a motor boy and a driver. The boys came and worked with us for 5 days and after 5days they said they got another appointment somewhere better and they want to leave. We allowed them to go but 3 days later we discovered that the 25000 naira I kept in a bag was missing. The night before they left , I saw some suspicious moves by the motor boy but my mind didn't go there. Now we have called the agent to produce the boy but he's telling stories that he doesn't know anything about him and the information he filled was wrong. Can I get the agent arrested ? What should I do? Your advice is needed
Romance / Re: I Can't Swim Because Of The Size Of My Manhood by adisabarber(m): 9:58am On May 20, 2022
Na your prick other swimmers come look? Go and swim your swin and stop worrying about something that is not an issue

LINSAR:
Been a guest for a while but decided to open an account to share my predicament.

I am a grower. Whenever I'm erect,I'm only average in size. But whenever I'm flaccid,it looks like that of a toddler.
This isn't even a problem since the erect size is okay.

My problem:
I wish to learn how to swim.But the water makes the D to shrink.Now,swimming trunks are usually tight.Even ordinary clothes,water will make it stick to your body.
This will make my small water-shrunk D to be really visible.

Should I go swimming and ignore whatever shades,stares, embarrassment I may receive? or I should avoid all these and leave swimming?
Education / Re: Can I Get Admission With This WAEC Result? Advise Me Please! by adisabarber(m): 5:41pm On May 04, 2022
Social science courses


Goodlyhrt:
I sat for WAEC in 2012 and I got this result

Eng. C6
Maths. C6
Phy. D7
Chem. C5
Bio. D7
F.maths D7
Geo. B..
A.Igbo. A1
Econs. C..

Can I get admission with this results and which course of study will be suitable for my result.

Thanks
Car Talk / Re: How Can You Tell If A Car Has Overheated In The Past? by adisabarber(m): 10:12am On May 04, 2022
fineboynl:
How do you tell if a car has ever overheated in the past?

You can only tell if the gasket got damaged and was replaced.
Career / Re: Private Schools Do Not Pay Teachers During Holidays by adisabarber(m): 10:06am On May 04, 2022
How many private schools have you worked in?


Devilagentcap:
Why is it that most private school don't pay their workers during hoildays. Like once the term ends like this. Salary wnt be paid till when they start work again.

This isn't right now.

Please, what's your view about this policy, guy?
Car Talk / Re: 2005 Odyssey & 2005 Sienna: Which Is Better? by adisabarber(m): 9:17am On May 04, 2022
Sienna


rexlims:
Good evening house.
Pls I am asking for a friend who is contemplating getting either a honda odyssey or a sienna.
Apart from d difference in prices, what about cost of maintenance, fuel consumption and durability?
Thanks car enthusiast as I await ur response.
Politics / Re: Eid-El-Fitr: Ugwuanyi urges Muslims to remain committed to God by adisabarber(m): 12:39pm On May 02, 2022
This is Eid el Fitri

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Education / Re: Should I Sell My Late Mother's House With Her Grave To Fund My Masters In UK? by adisabarber(m): 9:07am On Apr 27, 2022
If the house will fetch money to travel out then I'm sure if developed the rent can sustain you

Kelechi20007:
I recently got admission in a university in uk for my Masters. The challenge I have is that I can't fund it. The only way to to do so is by selling my mom house.

I'm her only child and another difficult challenge is that she was buried in the yard of the house 5 years ago.

I don't have a good job, I have been teaching in a private for a long time, I need a better future for myself, I'm seeing a chance here for a better life by furthering my education in uk.

It's a difficult decision for me selling the house with her grave in it. Please guys put yourself in my shoes, what will you do in this kind of situation?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Was The Interviewee's Answer Wrong? (photo) by adisabarber(m): 12:53pm On Apr 14, 2022
siofra:
grin

Tell me about yourself does not mean Name, age, DOB, qualifications etc

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Science/Technology / Re: A Nairalander's Trap Caught A Pangolin (Pictured) by adisabarber(m): 9:45pm On Apr 13, 2022
jesvic91:
So, our trap caught this animal...and I don't know what it's called.
Can you help?


Pangolin. The scales are very expensive but if you are caught selling it you can be jailed.
Romance / Re: Help! A Man Is Threatening To Release My Nudes, I'm Depressed! by adisabarber(m): 12:29pm On Apr 07, 2022
Angela1996:
I'm just depressed over this situation, I'm tired of him, he snapped me while I was naked and threatened to release my nudes...I've told him to sign the undertaken and leave me alone but he has refused...
Please I don't know what to do again!...Don't judge me or insult me because no one is perfect

Tell him to release it
Health / Re: Can Ampicillin Capsule Dry And Heal An Open Scar? (Graphic Photo) by adisabarber(m): 3:08pm On Apr 05, 2022
Just leave it. It's healing naturally already.

Cakkie:
Good morning all,


Pls doctors and nurses in the house, I need your suggestions.


Not so long ago, I had a wound on my arm that later formed a lil raised scar, though I've been on steroid injections (Tetramicinolone) for sometime now and it has shrinked to the barest minimum, but I had to peel it open, so I can be able to sprinkle powdered capsule (Ampicillin) on the surface — to fasten the healing process.

But I don't know if sprinkling the capsule on it would dry off the wound, thereby healing it.

I am open to any other suggestion that would prove effective.


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