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healthserve:
4.5Million and you didn't consider quitting. Well perhaps it's a job to some of una. May sense fall on the rest of y'all

2 week change

Unique357:
In brief, I am a male married with 2 children, my daughter is 8 and son is 5. I also have my niece 11 and a house help 15 staying with us.

On Monday I gave my wife Christmas shopping money to get foodstuffs, hers and children clothing including our house help.

Yesterday my wife went shopping, she bought clothes for herself, our children and nothing for the house help. She claimed that the girl doesn’t need any clothes for Christmas as long we feed and send her to school, the rest is her parents' duties. The girl in question is my wife's relative from the same village. This girl is so nice to our children, she is like a second mother to them despite her being just 15, I have never had any problem with her.

I was mad at her that I told her, if she cannot treat another woman's child well then she doesn’t deserve to be a mother, yes I did said some harsh words to her because of anger. She accused me of sleeping with the little girl which I told her she is mad and she couldn’t stop crying the whole night. This morning she didn’t make my breakfast and refused greeting me back.

Please house let me know if I overreacted

For me o....
The girl is maid would you prefer that your own daughter is the maid
All your accolade of the girl is right and you never said anything harsh, now you know you married a devil who thinks her status is by her prowess and look down on other.
Please for the sake of your generation born and unborn send the girl back gently with better package exclusively from you, then let your wife resume her duty fully and if domestic staff is required employ professional and pay the fee let see if your wife can pay 100k or more.

chival:
He probably doesn't have the funds to rent a new apartment yet. He'll leave eventually. Home owners should learn to have compassion for their tenants. The state of affairs in the country is causing millions to suffer untold hardship.

Average inheritors is wicked and the state does not care about her citizens.

WAECMATHEMATICS:
Good day all.

Please, I need your advice on one wicked stubborn tenant. My family gave this our tenant a quick notice since February this year 2019. As a matter of fact, the tenant and our family went to Lagos Arbitration and Mediation Centre. It was at the Mediation Centre that we both reached an agreement that he should leave our apartment.

So, we gave him 6 months quit notice in February, 2019. His previous house rent elapsed that same February, 2019. So, for the 6 months quit notice we gave him, he didn't pay any money. He actually said he would need 6 months to search for another apartment at that meeting we had with him at the Mediation Centre in February. So, we gave him the 6 months for free.

The 6 months we gave him elapsed at the end of August, 2019. When the 6 months elapsed, he refused to vacate the apartment. So, my family went back to the Lagos Mediation Centre to complain. The Mediation Centre sent him (the tenant) a letter giving him 7 days ultimatum to vacate the apartment. At the end of the 7 days, this man refused to leave. My family complained again to the Mediation Centre and they said they would look into it.

After another 3 months again by last November, 2019, this tenant refused to leave the apartment. My family went back again to the Lagos Mediation Centre and one of the officials there said "So, the man has not left the house since?". We responded yes. At the Mediation Centre there, they said something like they are incapacitated by the law to take any action.

This is December now going to an end. The tenant is still in the house. He has refused to vacate the apartment. It's about 10 months now living in our apartment without any payment. He has refused to leave.

The apartment is a 2 bedroom flat in Aguda Surulere, Lagos. The tenant's name is Mr Chigozie Okongwu James.

We don't want to take law into our hands as it seems there is no solution to the problem through the Lagos Mediation Centre. It's about 10 months now!

What can my family do to get the man ejected from the apartment? Your advice are welcomed.

Property tenancy is a legal matter but the so called landlord are only after money hence this kind of issue and to be honest with you shelter issue is beyond any other transactions so if the tenant earned the quit then do the normal thing prescribed by the law via the law not just the other way.
My humble submission.

msmon:
https://www.channelstv.com/2019/12/19/frsc-records-9-698-accidents-4737-deaths-in-2019/amp/#click=https:///DkmJgBCWop

This is accident data, Pls give us Hospital data, crime data and Polithifians data

Kosiso12:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/thenationonlineng.net/breaking-efcc-picks-up-adoke-on-arrival-from-dubai/amp/

Involuntary after one month in custody of Interpol hence the legal advice as he had no choice.

Racoon:
https://www.thecable.ng/femi-adesina-nigeria-would-have-been-better-if-buharis-military-regime-had-lasted-longer

True

IAmStrange:
I think it was done unintentionally or she was trying to cover her.

What do you mean by signal by the way??

Signal as in advertising her

Freethought:
Good afternoon nairalanders, a couple of weeks ago, i came here to seek advice on how to handle knowing my wife to be is AS as i also am. A lot of people here said we should just break up that the marriage won't end well for us.

We both listened to your advices and decided to call off the wedding but now we can't seem to stay away from each other. I tried severally to not see her and I'm sure she also tried not to see me but most times we just found ourselves together having sex again.

I think about her almost every time so i told her to stop calling me, at least to get her off of my mind. But she may just call simply to say hello and from dere we are having sex again.


The sex we keep having is my problem as i fear the SS problem we were trying to prevent by calling off the wedding may now come this time.

She's irresistible and i don't know how to go about this whole thing. Please kindly advice accordingly if you've gone through this before. I really need to get over her and stop having sex with her.

Thank you

Marry your chance of as is 1in 3 and with medical advancement God crowning it all.

I am just saddened when I read stories like this. Seems marriage is overrated after all?


I concur

How can or will this donkey loosen itself?

oshovic11:
Its Cele-Aguda boys vs Pako Aguda Boys

Kworect

SarkinYarki:
Ofcourse we don't call you rubber stamp for nothing

This man has said any call from major general buhari even if it's to bed his mother,wife and daughter it's always a divine call for the nation.

Temidayo9:
Typical black guy , always show off

This isn't show off but off sense

RiyadhGoddess:
They can do this shit with the christians because our God is merciful, loving and slow to anger but they also forget the fact that he's also a consuming fire!

Stop this stupidity

jaszplus12:
You know most of us love drama. Therefore knowing that the best way to portray the event is to use the word bullet. I'm sure she doesn't even know what pellets are.
Make we jus sympathize with her! At least she has seen something about life and death maybe it will help her understand life better!

She stage it to trend if not she wouldn be the one talking. Not even if it's a USA specialist hospital.

Mrop:
Hmmm

Una no fit use oluwaburna blow.

DrJossy:
What's the certainty of this??

Everyone is saying since they've done my documentation in Kaduna already, another center may not be able to embark ón it too.

Go and settle them they will produce booklet ASAP.

defxon:
Why not just return the said money and Dave yourself all these embarrasment

He thought about it since he said terminate the contract and they did hmm bad publicity that's just normal then he thought again make news the bigger and common way #NPF#APC#socialmediatrial.
#ducanmighty@trend!

Flier:
He probably offended Rochas and need to go and beg him because I don’t think it’s going to be easy to refund 11 million naira

Poor you

Xisnin:
They neither work nor live with her.
They are opportunistic criminals who happen to be employed by the estate management.
The only offense this woman committed was being too friendly with strangers.

And you are blind to the racist and inhumane comment.

davillian:
The black pig killed her....
Be nice to people who works and live with you.

Only you said it right no sentiments.
Being rich comes with baggages and garbage so be advised.

Sabby1:
Don't be so quick to jump into conclusion

There are things far beyond our imagination we just can't fathom

Spiritual ok! But your 7day fasting totally wrong.

lomprico:
not true, most times she does not give attention to the one that really wants to date her.

God bless you.

lomprico:
not true, most times she does not give attention to the one that really wants to date her.

Very soon there will be spirit for appetite

TheGiftedOne:



Madam Tinsel, see how you almost turned to a witch trying to recreate Nolltywood's foremost wicked mother-in-law

She is a perfect equivalent for Mama G

seunmsg:
Today’s punch editorial and decision to henceforth refer to Buhari as a General really unsettled the presidency. The way some of the president’s aides have been reacting to it since morning showed that punch really punched the president below the belt.

Personally, I think the president opened up himself to the attack. He could have played the role of a sensitive leader when DSS carried out their deadly attack on the court by dissociating himself from the irresponsible action and ordering the immediate release of Sowore. Instead of doing the right thing, he backed up DSS in their show of shame.

Malami’s attempt to order a probe into the incident today is a face saving afterthought that is too little and too late. The president needs to start listening to better advisers going forward. The sycophantic aides he has surrounded himself with obviously doesn’t mean well for him and the image of his government.

They said sowore is a person and personality of interest to the DSS perhaps he is teaching them their job better while in their custody.

Davash222:
Speak up against this devilish 'regime', automatically, you're working for PDP.




-ZoneBs

He for call them revolutionists

Oladimejjy:
Shey na only me notice the Major General Muhammad buhari and not president Muhammad buhari

Femi Adesina claims the MG was earned and it gladden the presidency to be so addressed as a proof of their concocted and purported freedom of speech and expression.

Kylekent59:
Hope you all can now see it is for their selfish interest.

Yes oooooo