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coolguy4christ:
My girlfriend and I had issues sometime last year which eventually led to a break up. Early this year, we made up. I initiated the make up because I still loved her even though, it was she who ended the relationship.

When we started again, I told her I wanted a fresh start and that she should come out clean with me of whatever I need to know when we were apart. She knows how much I emphasize sincerity as I hate lies. She confided in me, that she had sex with a guy whom she dated briefly when we were apart but that she used protection. I believed her and didn't really bother myself because we were not together when it happened.

Few months later, I proposed to her and she accepted my marriage proposal. Since then, the relationship has been beautiful and we have become better as we were previously before the break up. We are actually planning our wedding in a few months.

Yesterday, she confessed to me that she had an abortion while we were apart. That she lied about using protection and that she got pregnant and aborted the baby.

Since then, I have mixed feelings for her:

Firstly, I am strongly against abortion and she knows that. Secondly, She lied to me!

The second reason is actually why I am more angry with her. She has lied to me previously and I don't know if I can believe and trust her again.

She has been very remorseful and she told me she came out clean because she wants to set everything right before we get married.

The issue here is that I don't know how can I trust her again?

Bros it's either you are anyhow and anything goes person or simply a fool.
My reasons you break up for few months instead of being emotional about it she just moved on. And you never considered this before initiating comeback and even marriage proposal.
I can attack you as much as I could because you are a man.
Mind you love is the iresponsible language of female but to a Man love is responsibility where no excuse exist.
Go to school or go back if you actually went and forget. I mean school of becoming a Man.

3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first


Just marry any or all of them Fool!

Praizenewstv:
hmmm she right

She is Mad

slimthugchimee2:
And it never bothered you to think, maybe that landlord is in nairaland

Such landgoats are not on nairaland but Naira notes

Ngcrooks:
Bovi has weighed in on the victory of COZA pastor, Biodun Fatoyinbo in court over his rape case with Busola Dakolo.

Bovi threw the indirect shade on twitter after the latest news regarding the Biodun Fatoyinbo’s rape case with Busola dominated the headlines.

He wrote on twitter;
https://twitter.com/officialBovi/status/1194990616951832582
BY LASGIDIVIBES - https://www.lasgidivibes.com/entertainment/that-your-pens-will-rise-again-bovi-shades-fatoyinbo-after-his-victory-in-court/

And Novo's shall fall never to rise again.

Gossipninja:
A video has surfaced online showing the moment popular Nigerian singer, Davido punched a man who was allegedly trying to take pictures with him at Club Boudoir in Dubai.

It's believed that Davido was very drunk at the club to the extent of lossing control of his actions.

Watch the video below..

Source:https://zenithnaija.com/davido-punches-man-trying-to-take-pictures-with-him-in-dubai/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6bH14bNvP4A

Cc: lalasticlala dominique Mynd44

This davido triviality just to trend is getting irritating anything besides his work is nonsense to me

Erediauwa:
Genevieve
Omotola
Stephanie Okereke
Sandra Achums
Lillian Bach
Regina Askia
Liz Benson
Chiege Alisigwe
Nkiru Sylvanus
Bimbo Akintola




These are the beautiful screen goddess that made us stayed glued to our 14inches TV way back....

The new crop of runs girls hiding under the umbrella of Nollywood had made the industry a laughing stock.

Good looking out to Omotola and Steph-Nora.

Genevieve over hype

byna:
I have beat her once and she enjoyed it. Infact she wanted it. She once told me she wants me acting fierce, it turns her on not being too gentle. But me as a gentle man, d thing tire me o

Was she determine to send you to jail orhell

oglalasioux:
This wife is the type that loves beating and settling through sex. Many women are wired that way.

Just as those that says if their husbands didn't beat them he didn't love them[color=#990000][/color]

englishmart:
No reasonable government closes their border this way
We lack direction, especially now

OYO

theButterfly:
Rather than wooing a man, a woman should give him hints that she's interested and let him pick it up from there.
A man who's likewise interested will make the subsequent moves thereafter. If he doesn't, move on.

Clap for yourself!

postbox:
The job market is very competitive and getting an interview is a chance to let an employer or HR manager know you’re the best person for the job. It’s all about communication skills at this point how well you express yourself, word choices and your ability to persuade an employer to give you the job. One of the best tactics is to be specific when you describe your work experience, skills, and accomplishments as well as avoiding certain words. Using these words that would be shared below can make or mar your chances of getting the job.

Amazing

Was your last job really amazing? Is your work experience amazing? How about your communication skills? What does amazing mean? Stupifying? Unreal beyond belief? If your last job was so “amazing,” why are you looking for another job? Is this one more “amazing?” Used once in the right context, the word isn’t bad. You can use it once and after the first one, it doesn’t really have much effect except being annoying.

Awesome

This word really doesn’t say much at all. It’s filler, overused and just sort of thrown out there. This said few of us can describe ourselves or our abilities as awesome. Your skills may be exceptional or superior, but awesome is a no-no.

Whatever

You may be tempted to use this word when answering  “…tell me about a time when…” questions. Used alone as a comment on a situation or as a response to someone comes across as lazy and rude.

Totally

The total of what? If you mean you agree, say that. It is used as an affirmation. Interviewer: “That project seems like it was very rewarding. You: “Totally!”  Or, intensity. You: “I was totally amazed at the awesome opportunity!” (Sorry, I couldn’t help myself.) You can see what happens when you string them all together. A lot of nothing!

Great

This word is so overused and has lost its punch. It’s supposed to show a high level of something, but the word great is really lukewarm. With the wrong voice tone, it can be negative. On a scale of one to 10, great is around five or six. Be specific and find some other descriptive adjectives that show proper intensity and relation to the situation.

Can’t and don’t

Can’t and don’t are negative words and negativity has no place in an interview. Refrain from using phrases such as “I don’t like doing this, I can’t do this,” or “I don’t want to do this,”. You want to show an interviewer that you are open to taking on any role or task and that no job is too small for you.

Freaking or Fricking

We all know what you really want to say, and using these substitutes don’t lessen the effect of the word they represent. They are still rude, inappropriate, borderline vulgar and don’t have a place in an interview.

SOURCE:https://brandspurng.com/2019/11/11/you-should-totally-avoid-these-words-during-an-interview/

The amazing part got me.
To the writer interviews are not based on this your esteemed mentality of employer and slave.
In a simple expression let me ask you if your BSC is amazing should that stop you from pursuing your MSc?.

Donbrig:
After 40yrs of age, plans for retirement becomes a big priority for so many people. My qestion is, how much does one really need to retire comfortably in Nigeria, regardless of your location or state of residence?

Billion Dollars

Bewiseedet:
Shut ur mouth Asisat. Else your contract will be terminated.

Thanks, she is there to play soccer not tweet.

merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....

I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..

I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful

Details please.

1shortblackboy:
Praising Buhari at every opportunity makes him seem more incompetent

Some facts will surely be classified as praise for someone like you who is wired that way.
The flattering is the one police and common Government people does but not this one.

Risingblue008:
Ceremony VP we have,SAN wey no knw he work na kpakooo,,na kpako

Suegbe not pako

AXYZ:
I saw a tweet (on twitter) from a certain Ronald Nzimora and later supported by his friend, Hon. Akin Alabi as regards the above subject (as attached).

Thus, I'm compelled to ask if it's actually right for a WIFE to own properties in HER name.

1. What if the wife is richer and kept everything in her name. Don't you feel the husband will feel 'detached' and maybe unhappy?

2. What if the husband is richer and kept all the properties in his name. Don't you feel the wife will feel 'detached' and maybe unhappy?


PS. My wife and I work, and are financially independent of each other. She's been supportive
though and we buy properties in our names, e.g. Mr Kenneth Cole and Mrs Grace Cole. This is rational and not abnormal.

Any woman you paid bride price for or the marriage is categories by families and not an act by two consenting adults the man own the wife so anything in her name is taboo

Gucciblog:
This young girl in pictures below is a maid and the way she is always beaten and frustrated by her madam was unbearable so she decided to leave.

But immediately she told her madam of her intentions, she was locked in a cage for two solid days, before her madam handed her over to the police.

According to an eyewitness, the little girl was taken to Isheri Police command in Lagos.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B4ckt0TnAVM/

Gist From:
https://zenithnaija.com/underage-housemaid-locked-inside-a-cage-by-her-madam-for-saying-shes-leaving/

Kill all the police involved

Antoeni:
How can this Ugly thing give birth to cute baby in the first Place

Thank you the resemblance Na over the field.

TonyeBarcanista:
By TonyeBarcanista

Wednesday, October 30, 2019, the Supreme Court of Nigeria, in a unanimous decision, dismissed the appeal filed by the Peoples Democratic Party and its presidential candidate, Atiku Abubakar, challenging the victory of President Muhammadu Buhari and the All Progressive Congress in the February 23, 2019 presidential election.

The seven-member panel justices that gave the judgement was led by the Honorable Chief Justice of the federation, Justice Muhammed Tanko with honourable Justices, Rhodes-Vivour, Amiru Sanusi, Uwani Abaji, Ejembi Eko, John Inyang Okoro and Olukayode Ariwoola making up its members.

The apex court did not state reasons for the judgement, it however left the camp of the president and ruling party in celebratory mode, while members of the camp of the appellants left the court room sadder than when they came for hearing.

Notwithstanding of the feelings of the interested parties, there are some issues that need to be discussed, these issues bothers on discarding traditions of the court by the CJN Justice Muhammed Tanko.

Firstly, the noninclusion of honorable justice Mary Odili and honorable justice Sylvester Ngwuta as members of the panel of justices that heard the appeal raised concern as both justices are senior members of the Supreme court bench, and the CJN, by so doing, discarded the age long tradition of having the most senior seven justices to hear presidential petition appeals at the Supreme court.

Secondly, composition of members of panel that heard the appeal did not reflect national spread as it excluded justices from the southeast geopolitical zone in the seven justices that heard the appeal. The panel has two justices each from the northwest and southwest geopolitical zones, one each from northcentral, northeast and south south zones and zero from the southeast zone. This is also against the age-long tradition of the apex court. More worrisome is the fact that justice Sylvester Ngwuta, a senior jurist at the apex court from the southeast zone was excluded.

Thirdly, the speed at which the appeal was heard and discarded left observers worried. This is because the names of the seven-member jurists that heard the appeal were only unveiled few minutes before commencement of hearing and the verdict was given less than thirty minutes after conclusion of hearing- all these happened same day and it is unprecedented in the history of presidential appeals in Nigeria. This left Nigerians to wonder whether the whole process was mere academic exercise as the court seemed to have reached a verdict even before parties argued their briefs.

Though the public await the reasons for the decision of the apex court, the question on the lips is of everyone is whether justice was dispensed or miscarried. This can only be answered by the conscience of the seven justices that heard the appeal.

May God Bless Us All and Bless Nigeria

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When you openly reject someone as your sworn enemy now you want him to do what?

supremenews:
Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/breaking-mothers-of-yahoo-boys-now-forming-association-magu/amp/

Stupid talk what's your work arrest them all

Automotive1:
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gvZqUqC5Dbo

This armoured off-roader is not something you will likely see on the Nigerian roads. The 1of1 Showcar, called the Enok P1, is based on Mercedes G500 4×4. It was built by the German company Gruma, in collaboration with Armoured Car Systems.

The Armoured Mercedes G-Class was inspired by German Armed Forces’ patrol G-Class, designed to provide protection against assault rifle ammunition and against tank mines.

Powering this truck is the same 416-horsepower 4.0-liter twin-turbo V8 that comes with the G-Class SUV that it was based on.

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Inside, it maintains its luxurious interior. This includes a black leather and Alcantara seats and a massive screen. It also has a massive man-hole at the rear – an open-roof-like feature you will never see in a standard G-Class.

This G-class on steroids rides on armoured Beadlock wheels with a massive 37-inch tyres. Should Gruma put this monster car into production, top executives – who navigates warzones – going to and from the office – will surely be the first to order it.

https://autojosh.com/this-armoured-mercedes-g-class-on-steroids-will-navigate-a-war-zone-without-any-problem/

If dem reason im matter navigation my ass

Famoustemmy:
Sneak-peak into the 100 Kia Rio automatic transmission executive patrol vehicles provided by Governor Seyi Makinde of Oyo State to make security agencies to be more responsive

What happened to IVM.

igwegeorgiano:
Friends on NL I greet you all. Trust your day is going well? It is with very heavy heart and confused state of mind I sent this post on this platform so you can advise me on what line of action I should take. Pastors and genuine men of God should also advise me on what to do as well.

There is this lady i have been dating for about a year and 6 months now. We love each other to the moon and most importantly we respect each other opinion and decisions. She is a born again christian who appreciates the things of God more than she appreciates me which of course I have no issues with.

When we agreed to start up a relationship after being friends for about 6 months, it was agreed that there will be no sex until the wedding night but at a point I asked her "what if we are done with traditional marriage rites are we still not gonna have sex? To my creates surprise she said we won't until church wedding is done. I did not actually took her serious.

Fast forward, on the 15th of July 2019 the traditional marriage was done in her father' compound in the east and all I was asked to pay and give was paid and given without any remainder . after the traditional marriage we went back to my house in abuja. Note that we were not staying together before now. I am base in abuja while she is in owerri. When we got home that night I told her we can now make love as husband and wife hence the traditional rites has been done and most importantly the bride price paid. To my amazement my wife bluntly refused. She told me she will never compromise her stand on pre marital sex

I have been very faithful to our agreement based on her claim that she is a virgin. But refusing me my right over her body after every thing including the bride price has been paid is something I can never subscribed to and to this end I have I have involved her parent and her pastor her decision however, still remain no sex till the wedding night. I am putting the wedding on hold for now until she willingly allow me make love to her and she seems not to be comfortable with my decision as well.

This is the dilemma I have found myself please I need your wise counsels on this. Thanks and remain bless. Moderators kindly push this post to the front page so it can have adequate views it deserves thanks

Any woman that talks about white wedding is a fool.
Marriage is what you called TM.
The court self is even because of Government, Certificate,Travel document and other officials stuff but the natural marriage is family the modern marriage is simply two adults in the presence of law and witnesses but I doubt Naija ladies can stick to it they just want everything mixed up.
Any form of wedding (marriage) you do first be it TM, Court or Church that marriage must be consummated within 24hrs else it's none and void.
People should stop being stupid and foolish at the same time western culture isn't ours.
For me it's one court, simply because it's has power over others also when there is issue the court is still the final arbiter.

Drkeo:
Oya... Name the businesses that moved. Everytime na so so Propaganda

For person to face Lai threat.

LagosismyHome:
I dont like Buhari and definitely think his policies have been cluess...however for credibility this articles should have listed / named some of these companies

I guess you don't like your father either.

meccuno:
Untill the 3rd mainland bridge falls down or the Abuja airport catches fire before this useless government knows that this policy has no weight or direction for the Nigerian economy. Buhari has a way of destroying any thing that he touches.

You are Mad

Empredboy:
Some of the guys from neighbouring countries who buy goods from nigeria will look for another alternative. It is not good for business. This will affect traders in nigeria who supply goods to these guys who come from these countries.

Pls get education

niyisky:
You people will just sit in a corner and fabricate lies, just to discredit the government. Hate! I guess...98 firms without names, industry sectors etc...is easy to just relocate a business like that?

Haters, I hail una!

God bless you no Naija company is complaining rather it's blessings to them.
DSS should arrest this group of saboteur.

Automotive1:
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According to the cease and desist letter that fashion designer Philipp Plein recently received from Ferrari, Ferrari’s lawyers wants him to delete an Instagram post that showed his sneakers on the bonnets of his two parked Ferraris.

I mean the one that features a limited edition pair of Plein’s $800-plus PHANTOM KICK$ sneakers sitting atop of Plein’s $350,000-plus(₦127m+) green Ferrari 812 Superfast, with Ferrari’s word mark and legally-protected prancing horse logo front and center. 

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The letter reads:


The letter concluded by threatening legal action and demanding that Plein take down the post within 48 hours.

https://i2.wp.com/autojosh.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/IMG_20190804_135641_256.jpg

In his Instagram post on Monday, Plein, who has opted not to remove the images despite the threat from Ferrari, stated,
“I can’t even put in words how disappointed and disgusted I am about this unfair and totally inappropriate claim against me personally,” noting that he purchased his first Ferrari 10 years ago and remains a “good client” of Ferrari.

“If you want to continue treating your loyal clients with such letters from your lawyers, you will lose the support from many Ferrari fans.”

Plein concluded by saying:
“My lawyers will go hard and I will make every step public until FERRARI stops bullying their clients,”

https://autojosh.com/ferrari-threaten-to-sue-fashion-designer-for-advertising-his-shoes-on-top-of-his-n127m-sports-car/

They are Mad have they purchased his own products worth the purchase he has made from them or Na advert he is doing for them.