Family › Re: Appearances Are Deceptive: Meeting Old Classmate By Ademola Henry Adigun by Advancedman(m): 10:12am On Oct 30, 2019 |
[quote author= post=83580362]We had not seen each other for about 30 years. The Lord has been kind to me. When I saw him again - this time at a hotel lobby - he was looking simple. He wore simple Ankara attire. I felt touched. He walked up to me and was glad to see me again. But deep within me I was not impressed with his status compared to mine and poor me, I couldn't hide it. We exchanged contact details and I could see the joy in him as he collected mine.
I told him I will drop him home in my brand new Range Rover and I pointed it to him. He declined and said he had already called for his car. It looked old, a 2001 Honda Accord.
I invited him the next day for lunch at my house. A part of me wanted to impress him - To show off my success and affluence to him, while another was to discuss opportunities and possibly help him.
He drove to Parkview where I lived. He looked impressed with my home. I had taken a heavy mortgage. In fact I was heavily in debt. We had lunch. He told me he was into small business and particularly real estate. I brought up more business discussions, but he didn't sound too interested. I asked him how I could help him. He said he was fine. I even told him if he was interested, I could help him secure some loans... He looked at me and smiled.
He told me he would invite me over soon to his place. His old car came for him. I was grateful to God for what I had. “Fingers are not all equal”, I thought to myself...I was lucky. I worked in a good place.
Two weeks later, we went to see him in Ikeja. My wife and I. She was reluctant to go because she was not impressed with the man's status as to warrant our visiting him in his house. I was able to convince her that we were close friends in college. We saw the Estate. *Wuraola Estate.* We asked for directions to his home. Those leading us spoke his name with deference.
It was a simple but lovely home. A 4 bedroom bungalow. I saw 4 cars parked in front. We entered his home. It was simply elegant with a touch of class inside. He welcomed us warmly.
Lunch was well served. His wife called him Baba Wuraola
During lunch, he asked about my MD. He said they were friends. I saw a company gift on one of his tables nearby. That company owned about 38% shares where I worked. I enquired from him about it. He smiled. He told me he owned the company. He also owned the estate.
I did not know when I called him sir... I was in awe of him too.
I had learnt a lesson in humility - A big one. Appearances are deceptive. He noticed my discomfort.
Driving back home, I was very quiet. My wife was humbled and extremely calm. I could perceive the thoughts in her mind. I looked at myself. Living on loans, heavy loans and showing off while someone who pays my salary is quite modest and living a simple life! Indeed Deeper Rivers Flow In Majestic Silence![/quote]Live or fiction? |
Celebrities › Re: Mompha: Hamza Koudeih Was Arrested In N1.8 Billion Apartment At Eko Atlantic by Advancedman(m): 3:05pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
SouthSouth1914: Don’t be a dunce! Who verified this claim? You should have thought maybe the guy bought the apartment somewhat that figure and not rent!
Why are Nigerians always dumb! There is no foolish man in earth that will pay N1.8B for yearly rent! Well you just found one #scammers |
Politics › Re: How Stella Odua Diverted Airports Funds By EFCC by Advancedman(m): 12:14pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
oyin44: And all this money is meant for she and her family alone.some people are very wicked in this world.  This is why they don't perform as they are busy doing their own runs with our resources even when they go for training it is way of advancing their scams. |
Politics › Re: Shehu Sani: It Is Only Logical To Allow The South To Rule In 2023 by Advancedman(m): 9:54am On Oct 29, 2019 |
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Crime › Re: Kogi Flood: 228 Prisoners Escape, Houses Submerged by Advancedman(m): 9:12am On Oct 29, 2019 |
anonymuz: Many will come again as they will still commit crimes. Watery beans awaits some. Election thugs at half price. |
Career › Re: Her Firm Increased Her Pay To Match That Of a New Job (Please Advise) by Advancedman(m): 8:52am On Oct 29, 2019 |
rentAcock: This is very simple. If she likes her current job, she should absolutely stay with the increased salary. But If she doesn't like her current job, she should leave to the new employer. Her current employer may try to frustrate her or overwhelm her with work now they've increased her pay. But if she feels like her current boss is reasonable and wouldn't try to sabotage her, then let her stay put. The boss can't be reasonable someone who couldn't increase her pay until she's almost gone. |
Career › Re: Her Firm Increased Her Pay To Match That Of a New Job (Please Advise) by Advancedman(m): 8:50am On Oct 29, 2019 |
martyns303: Stay with the company. This happens every time, when you newly join a company, you are inexperienced or not as much experienced so your pay may be lower, over time, your salary should be reviewed. However, except there is a general salary standard for that position, your salary may not be reviewed on time, for obvious reasons.
She should stay with her company because for them to increase her salary, it means they know her value and they are willing to match her new offer to keep her based on her current performance, it will show that she is committed to the company and the company will be indebted to her, they will also understand that she is valuable and can easily get a new offer elsewhere.
This new company will not value her as much, they believe they are offering her better than what she’s earning before and as such there’s no where better for her to go. That if her previous place was better, she wouldn’t have left, for offering her better than what she’s currently earning, they will expect her to perform wonders, putting her under serious pressure.
And by the way, she will soon find out that N850k is not so much. Your point point is defending the current company and bad mouthing the new that they will not appreciate her pls be critical in opinion. The company didn't promote her to about 650 but suddenly match the exact new payment something isn't right. The new company is giving her an entry level of what the current is chasing to retain. But all you said about the new company is evil prejudice and a negative one for that matter. It's too early to address sadist |
Politics › Re: Bullion Vans: APC Reacts To Deji Adeyanju's Petition Against Tinubu by Advancedman(m): 10:20am On Oct 28, 2019 |
raumdeuter: Excellent
Any rich man can tell the bank to deliver his own money to his house.
Let Deji prove that the money in the bullion van belongs to someone else not Tinubu
And if its wrong to spend your personal money to help your party to mobilize your party What about the wife Remi " show your fingertips and get the money. |
Health › Re: Kano Man Found Alive After ‘drowning’ 30 Years Ago by Advancedman(m): 10:14am On Oct 28, 2019 |
ManirBK: The story is unprofessional.they said he was drowned and died in a river, but they didn't tell people what actually happened. Did he really drown as suspected or just run away to Toro, instead and couldn't go back to his family because of his mental retardation? That is the explanation the correctional home gave them and a Muslim they don't drag issue like that pls read again slowly and carefully, mind you bloggers choose the words they like. |
Family › Re: She Texted Her Father's Number On 4th Anniversary Of His Death And Got This: by Advancedman(m): 11:47am On Oct 27, 2019 |
TheExecutioner: "Hi sweetheart, I am not your father, but I have been getting all your messages for the past 4 years," replied Brad, a man who lost his daughter in 2014.
23-year-old Chastity Patterson of Newport, Arkansas, lost her father four years ago. She'd been keeping his memory alive through texting his number each night, updating him on the ins and outs of her day, hoping he was listening.
On Thursday, October 25, the day before the fourth anniversary of her father's death, she recounted her year.
"Hey Dad it's ME," Chastity said."Tomorrow is going to be a tough day again."
She talked about how she beat cancer and how she hadn't gotten sick since her father's passing."I promised you I would take better care of myself!"She recapped how she graduated college with honors, fell in love and got her heartbroken, but she made it through a stronger woman.
This year, she got a reply.
"Hi sweetheart, I am not your father, but I have been getting all your messages for the past 4 years,"the message read.
He introduced himself as Brad and told Chastity how he lost his daughter in a car wreck in 2014."Your messages have kept me alive."
"I'm sorry you lost someone so close to you, but I have listened to you over the years," Brad continued.
"You are an extraordinary woman and I wish my daughter would have become the woman you are." Chastity posted the conversation to Facebook, her caption saying she can now let her father rest.
The post has over 100,000 shares and counting.
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https://www.thv11.com/mobile/article/life/heartwarming/she-texted-her-fathers-number-on-the-fourth-anniversary-of-his-death/91-41554786-0baa-4a3d-a281-fcecabeafad4 Just accept each other as swap become his daughter and him your dad. |
Politics › Re: 2023 Igbo Presidency: We Need 2 South-East Governors, Senators To Defect To APC by Advancedman(m): 11:36am On Oct 27, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Lagos Assembly Lists Ambode’s ‘deadly Sins’ by Advancedman(m): 11:28am On Oct 27, 2019 |
prof2007: The Lagos State House of Assembly has listed 5 ‘sins’ allegedly committed by former governor of the state, Mr Akinwunmi Ambode. They include alleged unauthorised discounting of promissory notes and purchase of 820 buses without due authorisation.
The Assembly, therefore, asked the former governor to appear before it by 1pm on Wednesday 30 October 2019. This made it the second time the governor was summoned. He was first summoned about two weeks ago alongside former government officials, including former commissioners for Finance, Economic Planning, Justice and Attorney General, and Permanent Secretary, Economic Planning.
The House had set up an ad hoc committee to investigate some financial misappropriation during the Ambode administration. However, according to a statement by the House, Ambode and the former government officials refused to appear before the House committee. The House has now issued another invite to the former governor, as contained in an advert in some national dailies, including Sunday PUNCH.
The invite was titled, ‘Notice of summons: Mr Akinwunmi Ambode (the former Governor of Lagos State),’ and signed by the Clerk of the House, Mr A. A. Sanni. In the new summon, the former governor was reminded of the importance of appearing before the House to shed light on a five-point infraction raised by the Assembly.
The fresh notice stated, “The Lagos State House of Assembly, pursuant to Section 129 (1)(c) of the 1999 Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria (as amended) hereby summons His Excellency, Mr Akinwunmi Ambode, the former Governor of Lagos State (May, 2015 – May, 2019) to appear before the Committee of the House on Wednesday, October 30, 2019 at the Lateef Jakande Auditorium, Assembly Complex, Alausa, Ikeja by 1 pm.”
Ambode was asked to appear to clarify the following: (1) Unauthorised discounting of promissory note; (2) Purchase of 820 buses by his administration without due authorisation; (3) Misappropriation of Special Expenditure Funds; (4) Improper implementation of the Appropriation Law; and (5) Non-adherence to the Financial Regulations of the state.
The notice urged the former governor to provide the Assembly’s committee with documents to justify that the above transactions did not violate constitutional provisions. It read, “You are kindly requested to furnish the committee with 15 copies each of all relevant document(s) relating to the issues raised through the Office of the Clerk of the House on or before Tuesday, October 29, 2019.
“It is pertinent to state that your presence at the proposed meeting would give you the opportunity to shed light on issues that are material to the investigation.”
Operatives of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission had in August raided the Epe country home and Parkview Ikoyi residence of the former governor. He had also denied that certain accounts said to have been frozen by the EFCC were linked to him, adding that no account of his contained N9.9bn as the said accounts belonged to the state government.
The state Assembly had set up a committee to investigate the purchase of 820 buses out of the 5,000 buses proposed by the embattled former governor because the lawmakers had originally objected to the idea.
In a motion titled, ‘Lagos State House of Assembly Motion Number 2,’ the member representing Eti Osa 2, Gbolahan Yishawu, stated that the then administration proposed to spend N17bn to purchase the buses in the 2017 budget, which was not approved by the Assembly.
Meanwhile, efforts to speak with the media aide to the former governor, Mr Habib Aruna, proved abortive as he had not picked calls or responded to a text message sent to his mobile telephone number as of the time of filing this report.
SOURCE: https://punchng.com/lagos-know assembly-lists-ambodes-deadly-sins/ Tell us his deadly sins against the power that shares Lagos revenue. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Jesus Never Wore Robe: A Preaching Against Men Who Wear Women's Clothing by Advancedman(m): 10:38am On Oct 27, 2019 |
alBHAGDADI: Fashion today is beginning to be designed in such a way that men can now wear what women wear. These days, men wear dress which is pertaining to females. They call it fashion, whereas it is an abomination to God. People who wear such are hated by God.
Deuteronomy 22:5 (KJV) 5 The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God.
The sad part is that when men who wear Women's dress are criticized today, they are quick to claim the Bible supports the lifestyle. The worst part is that they claim Jesus also dressed in similar manner i.e he wore robe. This is a big fat like because Jesus never wore robe, a fashion similar to women's dress.
Why would Jesus wear robe when he specifically spoke against it in the Bible. He gave a doctrine against wearing robes as seen below.
Mark 12:38 And he said unto them in his doctrine, Beware of the scribes, which love to go in long clothing, and love salutations in the marketplaces,
In case you are wondering what long clothing is, it means long robe as seen below.
Luke 20:46 Beware of the scribes, which desire to walk in long robes, and love greetings in the markets, and the highest seats in the synagogues, and the chief rooms at feasts;
But you say, "what about all those pictures depicting Jesus wearing robes?". Those were painted by people who never existed during his time and culture. Those are paintings by Michael Angelo and other sodomites who even made Jesus wear long hair.
1 Corinthians 11:14 14 Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him?
Jesus never had long hair because he's the express image of God while men are the image of God. Wouldn't it be ridiculous if we as the image of God are not allowed to wear long hair, but Jesus whom we are in his image wears long hair?
Jesus never wore robe because that would make him a hypocrite. He spoke against long robes and told people to beware of those who do such thing. Won't it be absurd to now see him wear long robe? Wouldn't that mean he's saying people should beware of him too? It would also mean he's an hypocrite who preaches against something but does it anyway. I'm glad we know he was sinless, therefore he couldn't have gone against his word.
So, what did Jesus and the culture back then wear? I don't know because I didn't exist back then. But what I do know is that he never wore robe nor any dress-looking garment. But trousers existed long before he came to earth. The book of Daniel spoke of men wearing trousers otherwise known as Hosen.
Daniel 3:21(KJV) 21 Then these men were bound in their coats, their hosen, and their hats, and their other garments, and were cast into the midst of the burning fiery furnace.
Some people can be quick to quote Mathew 9:22 to prove that Jesus wore a robe or cloak, but that's a lie inspired by false Bible translations.
New International Version She said to herself, "If I only touch his cloak, I will be healed."
New Living Translation for she thought, “If I can just touch his robe, I will be healed.”
The NIV and the NLT both state that Jesus wore a robe or cloak, but it's a lie. That's why I wrote a thread exposing false Bible translations and advised people to stick to the King James Version only.
Look at how they rendered Jesus to be a hypocrite. They called Jesus a man who goes against his own words by putting on robe which he gave a doctrine against. Read link below to see more of the likes of these modern Bible translations which are really designed by Satan himself to confuse believers.
READ: https://www.nairaland.com/4957299/bible-sword-butter-knife-why
Now, see how the King James Version rightly puts the verse.
Mathew 9:21 KJV For she said within herself, If I may but touch his garment, I shall be whole.
The only time Jesus wore a robe was when they placed a purple robe on him and a crown of thorns. They did it to mock him. It wasn't something he decided to wear on his own. Or will you say he also decided to wear a crown of thorns?
John 19:5 KJV Then came Jesus forth, wearing the crown of thorns, and the purple robe. And Pilate saith unto them, Behold the man!
So, guys don't be sucked into modern fashion that sees men wearing women's clothing e.g dress, Jalabya, makeup, earrings ankle chains etc. Doing such makes you an abomination before God. Stop this nonsense |
Christianity Etc › Re: Six Wrong Reasons For Attending Church by Advancedman(m): 10:35am On Oct 27, 2019 |
Nature12: True exactly what most naija guys do Those that came to make the pastor happy are some of those the pastor has made to believe church is by compulsions. Because what the Bible teaches is evangelize it is God that draw Men QED. |
Christianity Etc › Re: One Reason Not To Act So Wickedly by Advancedman(m): 10:30am On Oct 27, 2019 |
jesusjnr: One Reason Not To Act So Wickedly
Genesis 39:7-10 (KJV)
7 And it came to pass after these things, that his master's wife cast her eyes upon Joseph; and she said, Lie with me. 8 But he refused, and said unto his master's wife, Behold, my master wotteth not what is with me in the house, and he hath committed all that he hath to my hand; 9 There is none greater in this house than I; neither hath he kept back any thing from me but thee, because thou art his wife: how then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God? 10 And it came to pass, as she spake to Joseph day by day, that he hearkened not unto her, to lie by her, or to be with her.
It is easy for a man to blame the woman whenever he falls into temptation and sins against God as man had done in the beginning, but this instance of Joseph proves that the buck stops with man.
Hence why man was punished by God for listening to the woman's voice in the beginning, because God had clearly instructed him not to eat of that tree. So although she had tempted him to do so, if he had not listened to her voice as Joseph had done in the instance of Portiphar's wife, he would have not fallen.
So he didn't fall because she had tempted him to go contrary to God's instructions, but because he listened to her voice.
And from the saying of Joseph in that passage, it could be deduced what distinguished him from man in the beginning, and all those men who have fallen into temptation because they had listened to the woman voice, which is the fear of God.
For that's the reason why Joseph did not listen to the woman's voice as they had done, despite the fact that he was also tempted by woman to commit such a great act of wickedness and sin against God.
Unfortunately that's what many christians and church leaders have lost today, even that fear of God that would make them not act so wickedly, even if they are under immense pressure to do so.
That's how the devil had been able to prevent them from attaining God's purpose for their lives, and the fulfilment of their God-given dreams.
Because had Joseph not had the fear of God in him, and hence refused to commit adultery with his master's wife, he would not have landed in prison.
Had he not landed in prison, he would have not landed on the throne and became all that God intended for him and had shown him via his dreams.
And aside becoming the prime minister of Egypt, he refusal to fall into temptation (commit adultery) because of the fear of God in him, proved live-saving, as it was crucial in the preservation of the lives not just of his own family and brethren, but also the families of all mankind during the seven years of severe famine.
Only God knows how much humanity has lost to the devil, inclusive of men's souls, due to the lack of the fear of God in the church nowadays.
It's my earnest prayer that the fear of God would come back into men's hearts, so that they would have one good reason not act so wickedly.
Amen. Dear writer Joseph story differs from Adam's because Eve was Adam's wife but this is Joseph Master's wife. Make diligent study to find the right reference scriptures. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Woman Used By 5 Pastors For Miracles Traced, Reveals What Happened by Advancedman(m): 2:05pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
flexxyworld: ayam not understanding. afi miracle vixen # The writer should be sue as he or she has already concluded it's acted. |
Fashion › Re: "Girls Learn More Makeup Than Cooking" - Lady by Advancedman(m): 6:29pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
pocohantas: Your mates are hustling, you are here calling yourself foodie. Yeye boyfriend Every man is a foodie |
Business › Re: The Many Faces Of Bank Charges Paid By Nigerians by Advancedman(m): 6:01pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
oz4real83: In my opinion, it seems the govt has always connived with banks to defraud the country and its citizens. Most of these banks were given bail out funds some years ago which on a normal ground either transfers their ownerships to the govt or they pay interests to govt's purse. Unfortunately, it isn't so in this country. Apart from taxes banks pay to govt, there have never been any info available to the public about the bail-out funds. The govt through the cbn is a party to any illegal transaction banks do because banks must get approval from cbn before they carry out any transaction partaining to bank charges. GTB charge me 50+ 52 at the same time. 50 per page for SOA. Sometimes they programme their ATM to 5000 even if it dispense 20000 they will send you SMS 4 times. And many more. |
Crime › Re: Man Spends 33 Days In Jail Just For Calling Someone On Phone by Advancedman(m): 4:46pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
solmusdesigns:

So police should stop investigating people?
You are a person of intrest in a possiible homicide / kidnaping / roberry case, you were the last seen with the victim, so police should just let you go without thoroughly investigating you?
Should Police release a suspect without clearing him and he escapes, same Dunce would call police corrupt .. No, you missed it they will trace him discreetly invite him and keep him under surveillance cos if he sue now that is a waste of tax payers money. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Chris Okafor’s Publicist Speaks On Woman In Miracle With Five Pastors by Advancedman(m): 4:37pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
freelansa: Pastor Chris Okafor’s publicist has spoken on the woman caught in alleged stage-managed miracle with five pastors.
The five pastors which includes Pastor Chris Okafor were seen in videos using the woman to perform a miracle.
The woman has an arm that has the ability to stretch and shrink. She goes to different Church where she meets pastors who use her condition to woo their members.
Pastor Chris Okafor’s publicist, Sunday Adeyemi, told Punchng that the woman did come to their Church and was healed.
He added that the woman may have come across the affliction again after she left because such usually happens with deliverance
“The woman was in our church really. But you know in this issue of deliverance, some people could be delivered here and then go back to where they stayed before and the attack would return. That was what happened to the woman,” he said.
This was after Pastor Chris Okafor stated that witches took the woman’s bones. While performing his miracle on her, he said: “If witches can do this, my God can do better than witches”.
https://wotzup.ng/pastor-chris-okafors-publicist-speaks-on-woman-in-miracle-with-five-pastors/ Is the woman not witch on mission? |
Crime › Re: Gracious David West Beaten Up By Inmates In Port-Harcourt Prison by Advancedman(m): 8:58am On Oct 25, 2019 |
Omihanifa: Why won't they avoid him when he's possessed silly man that goes about killing people
Local serial killer
The other inmates should use his ass as cum depot anytime they are in the mood they should just g@ngbang him to the point of death  Trust this people at your loss. They have started scheming to put him in VIP if you know you know. |
Education › Re: Share Your Most Embarrassing Moment On Campus by Advancedman(m): 8:21am On Oct 25, 2019 |
Well, a male porter came and allowed me go in.[/quote]Proof the skirt was indeed too short. |
Politics › Re: List Of States That Can Survive Without Federal Allocation By BudgIT by Advancedman(m): 10:10am On Oct 24, 2019 |
dukie25: So why are your people scared of disintegration? Ibadan and Ekiti Kwara am not sure but that list is not complete without Ogun |
Education › Re: My Experience Teaching In Zaria by Advancedman(m): 11:34pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
adekunle0000: I was born and raised in the southern part of Nigeria; Lagos to be precised. I had my first degree in eastern Nigeria. The National Youth Service Corp program offered me my first ever opportunity to visit the North.
I served in Taraba State. A very beautiful state that I will love to visit again someday. Infact, my pleasant experience in Taraba was a principal factor in my decision to pursue my Master's degree in a Northern University. I finally settled for the Prestigious Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria.
To help cushion the cost of a second degree, I undertook the job of a teacher in one of the many "secular" secondary schools (Name withheld) in Zaira. I was assigned to teach "Social Studies" to the Junior classes from Jss1-3. Then "English" and on not-too-frequent occasions "Government", to the Senior classes from Ss1-3.
I had my very first lesson with the Jss 3 on Monday; considering that I was taking over from a teacher who had started with them from Week One. The topic i treated was "Harmful Cultural Practices". We have "Female Genital Mutilation" as a subtopic; which was actually what I taught. I took time to explain to the students what "Female Genital Mutilation" also known as "Female Circumcision" was all about. I explained the underlying reasons why the natives had to introduce it, what they had hoped to achieve and the resulting problems they created. In other to be better understood, I drew a mock diagram of a female anatomy on the blackboard. This was geared towards a proper understanding of the differences between Partial Circumcision (Scarification) and Complete Mutilation.
In the course of the lesson, the students exhibited some form of childish repulsions, which I attributed to the very nature of the subject-matter. On my part, I tried as much as possible to stick to the topic without cracking jokes or even laugh at jokes from them. Many even asked inquisitive and probing questions. I only answered those that I considered relevant to the issue of discuss. I left the class with some of the students still showing signs of repulsion. My next lesson was with the Jss 1. The topic was "Marriage". I tested the class previous knowledge by asking them what they understand by the word "Marriage". A female student stood up to defined marriage as a "union between a man and a woman". I asked the entire class to clap for her, given her very bold attempt. But to their bewilderment, I told the class that she was wrong after they were done clapping. Some of them even protested; inquiring why I adjuged her to be wrong.
I told the class that her definition was wrong because it did not sufficiently capture the very essence of the concept as it applies to our contemporary times. I told them that marriage is rather "a legal union between two consenting adults", "....it could either be between two people of the same gender or two opposing genders". At this point, I had their undivided attention. They were all hushed and concentrated. I told them about the LGBTQ community and their persistent struggle for acceptance.
I made them understand that is a global community with a global agenda. To drive home my point, I made them understand that the last dispensation of Goodluck Jonathan, had infact blamed this global phenomenon to be principally responsible for his failure at the polls as result of his refusal to give consent. I equally put in the same energy to explain the more common types of marriage (Christian, Islamic, Traditional, and Court). I left my class feeling every earned sense of fulfillment; having done my job to the best of my ability.
THE NEXT DAY.
I was in my office, when I got a message that the Director wants to see me. It was not my first time of receiving such a call from the Director. Staff meetings were almost becoming as frequent as one going to make use of the Convenience. Well... I took it like "Nwa it's nothing" ( in Phyno's voice). I stood up from my chair, adjusted my belt and then, swaggered away towards the Director's Office.
Before the office of the Director is the office of his secretary. The population of parents I saw there was quite more than what we normally receive on a daily bases. But considering that for the past week, we have been emphatic on the need for school fees debtors to come effect their payment, I didn't give their presence much thought. I was infact glad that at least, Madam will no longer hold us responsible for the poor response of parents to this obligation.
My indifference soon started giving way to some form of anxiety; more like fear, when I began to notice the "sea of eyes" looking my way with every step I took towards the Director's Office. As I got closer to the door, I discovered that the population in the Director's Office was even more that the spillover outside. I could feel the suppressed tension in the air. The faces were not bright or even welcoming to say the least. They did not appear to me like those who came to pay school fees.
I was able to excuse my way into the Secretary's Office. The Director motioned for me to come into his office at once, as soon as he saw me making my way in. He wasn't sitting on his chair. Standing with him as I was latter told is the School PTA chairman. A very respectable man judging by his outward disposition. He was an elderly man; infact the oldest among the lot. As soon as the Director motioned me in, the crowd standing between me and the Director's Office just parted in two like the Red Sea to make way for me. I felt my heart sink into my stomach. My legs instantly felt heavy. But I had myself under strict comportment. My face were without emotions. Afterall, I was guilty of nothing (or so I thought).
As I walked into the office, the elder man (PTA chairman) was looking almost piercingly at me. As if sizing me up. My presence caught him in the middle of his address to the gathering. My Director asked me to take a seat; which I did. I infact, sat at the edge of my seat, still wondering why I was the only teacher that was called to such a gathering of not-so-happy-looking parents. My Director (also an elderly Muslim man) sensing my apprehension, asked me to relax with what I considered to be a mischievous grim on his face. Well...I knew better than to do as instructed. I was on guard. The first question I was asked was "How long have you been in the North?".
"About 15 months Sir" I replied as loud enough as my dried throat will permit me. "The first 12 months was at Jalingo and just 3 months in Zaria." i quickly added emphatically.
"Where were you born?" "Lagos but I did my first degree in the East. My family is still based in Lagos" "Are you Igbo?" "Yes Sir" There was a little thoughtful pause after that answer. Then he continued.. "What brought you to Zaira?" "I'm a student of ABU and I'm here for my Master's degree program Sir" "That's good" he said thoughtfully as he continued to gaze at me as if studying my disposition. The others just continue to look as us without saying a word. A few of them (matured men) were occupying the few seats in the office. The rest (mostly the hijab wearing women and young fathers) were standing. "Our Children came home to complain that you are teaching them bad things. That you are saying negative things that they don't like in class. What is it that you are teaching them?" At this moment, I almost felt like bursting out in laughter. I had to pinch myself to remain composed.
Well...to cut the story short, I took time to explain to the parents what it was that I taught. The Director even sent for my textbooks without allowing me to go get them myself. I don't know if they were nursing the impression that I might escape. Funny them! Escape for what? Mtcheeeu!
When my textbooks came, it was confirmed that I had actually taught in accordance to the dictates of the textbook for the case of the Jss3. As for the Jss1, the topic was actually confirmed to be on marriage too, but the textbook (which was an old textbook of course) was silent on the issue of same sex marriage.
I was given a very strict warning to stick only to the content of the textbook. In the course of all of the admonishment, the PTA Chairman was smiling, but I knew better than to take the smiles for their face value. This people were dead serious!
I have since swore to myself, that I shall never try to "do pass myself". if I teach and you understand....fine! if you don't.... that's your cup of tea! I can't come and kill myself. This was my experience! I felt compelled to write it down in order to help save someone somewhere from falling into my kind of situation. That is wasn't attacked by the parents is infact a miracle that I thank God and the respectable PTA chairman for. My intentions were pure. But here in the North, intentions can easily be misinterpreted especially when coming from a non-muslim and worst still, from a Nyamiri. I personally think there is still a need for mass sensitisation of the Northerner on the usefulness of Western Education. The illiteracy rate is high. Those that even manage to go to school are just doing it with the impression that it is merely to fulfill all righteousness. Little wonder why we keep discovering "torture houses" on a daily bases. If the University community of Zaria could be this timid, how much more the Northern interiors. Thank you. [ ARE YOU GAY 1, You confirm its western education in your own word so I say you are wrong It's simply education and for the people of Nigeria and north this is a greater battle with the government to come up with strictly Naija syllabus. 2, As a Nation LGBT is out of point here and marriage here is not just between to adult family influence is great you can't teach western culture as ours, mind you Marriage is strictly about people, race, culture not just human. So what you did in the north is blasphemous and sacrilegious. I am a Christian but anglophobic. Listen to Fela, Bob Marley and many other freedom fighters. Think deep people who have common language don't speak English to solve science and technology issues German, Dutch etc |
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Business › Re: Benin Republic Traders Lament As Nigeria Closes Border by Advancedman(m): 11:05pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
slowice: But local rice is no where to be found. Here in phc the two most popular local rice companies re olam and wacot owners of mama pride and big bull but as I speak they ve not sold a bag to buyers for over a month now thereby creating scarcity and forcing the price to go as high as 21k in the market. So where is the local rice? Invade their company with police and SON, TUC etc |
Business › Re: Benin Republic Traders Lament As Nigeria Closes Border by Advancedman(m): 11:03pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
olujastro: Is it not shameful to them that smuggling of illegal goods into Nigeria constitutes 20% of Benin's GDP?? They should develop their local economy once and for all. Most of their graduates are employed in the smuggling-into-Nigeria sector instead of in standard companies or offices. After leeching on Nigeria for decades, these smaller countries still have the guts to disrespect us. Nonsense saboteurs! Did you say 20% it's 50% |
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Fountainofyouth: And you didn't know this during that period? It's probably because of money and they said if you love someone you free them. |
Health › Re: Grinding Machine Removes Student’s Testicles In Bauchi by Advancedman(m): 5:20pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
PoliticalWitch: If government brings in laws that would stop the employment of underaged children, some people will say that government is evil.
The problem with Nigeria is that the laws are not enforced.! That is the discussion pls always stick to topic being discussed. |
Health › Re: Grinding Machine Removes Student’s Testicles In Bauchi by Advancedman(m): 5:18pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
[quote author= post=83392812]Damn it.
Last time, a grinding machine chopped off a woman's head, now it is cutting off a boy's testicles!
A refresher course should be given to the villagers using these 'killer' machines. We can do that at no cost. All lives matter.[/quote]That is the first lesson given it's fundamental. |
Politics › Re: Nigeria’s Border Closure Hits Hard On India, Thailand Others by Advancedman(m): 5:07pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
tony1918: A bag of imported Rice sells for 15k and local rice sells for 12k before the border closure ..After the closure the local rice the poor masses are meant to buy sell for as high 18k and the imported now sales for 25k..Please what is the gain of the Poor Masses in the border closure We is poor masses victimising themselves and that is as a result of government failure in regulating people's activity |
Politics › Re: Nigeria’s Border Closure Hits Hard On India, Thailand Others by Advancedman(m): 5:04pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Ade24682: Even God knows the local farmer won't meet demands. You are cursed! |