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LivelyMandem:
Guys in the house, what is your experience like dating single mothers.

My question is, is it ok for her to ask me for her child fees just because we're dating or am I supposed to automatically take up the girls upkeep because I'm dating her mother?

Your case na trouble dey sleep ..yanga go wake am...there are single girls out there u can start life with...u guys sometimes like women that u can get easily....and thats what some these single mothers do so that u can start paying.....


Thats the thing with single mothers...u are mostly just an ATM for their needs and that of their kids.......
If u dont have the resources to bankroll her and her kid.. forge it....u cant have her loyalty or affection...she will always be on the look out for the highest bidder...

. dont blame them much.. billing is just their natural coping or survival mechanism ....

No no no no.....this is not allowed.... when did we start this greediness...everyone should face their normal vice...

Afonja: internet fraud
Igbo: narcotics(cocaine )
Aboki: child marriage, banditry and random kidnapping by the road

i get ur style.....u went for the lady that also showed interest in you..which is good....not the one you will use plenty restaurant food, recharge card or flashy gifts to catch and maintain her attention...then when all her toasters are on holiday or when she needs money....she will give u green light

Ur last topic also reconfirmed the fact that women (also men), but mostly women throw opportunities away by not even getting to know guys that approach them...

I understand that we all have standards...but the truth is many of those standards are superficial, media/hollywood driven..(the perfect, good looking man or woman in every way)

Unlike men that adjust standards easily....women hold on to too many things they call standards like must have a car, no bald head, no beards, etc...and end up going for men that looks perfect and only waste their time because perfect looking boyz mostly belong to another babe...

The fact that women dont do the approaching but wait to be approached makes it a challenge for them in getring who they want.....they have to wait to be approached ......so getting to know someone, even though he doesnt check all the boxes at first meeting could increase their chances of finding a potential life partner...

greme781:
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oloyedprince1:
Why sir

Micro has more practical application in manufacturing company, hospitals, and research in nigeria...and if you wan jappa...all good

.. u see that physiology .....its too restrictive to the research and academics

oloyedprince1:
I no still get you boss… he was given to pick inbetween the 2

Ohhhh. Okay.....micro is better

Limaqueen98:
Lolz I know right am been so so busy this days,so how have you been hope you are good

I am not bad at all.....and u??
So its like u would have made around 4M with the way u have been busy...show me road ooo

oloyedprince1:
ello guys , i would like to know which of these courses has more job opportunities as my Bro was ask to pick one out of the 2 to study in the university he is applying for? which of them has a greater chance of job opportunities in nigeria

Micro...

As jappa as become a norm....medical science lab tech or nursing go pay u pass micro or physiology

Limaqueen98:
hwfa long time I no see your Break light for some days now ooo hope you are good

Na u off your break light oooo..... i'm on my vawulence and beast mode as usual on my favourite nairaland section......

vanod:
No, they don't pay IHS

Question...
If MA is on a five years work visa....and dependents wants to go join...is it a must they must apply for 5 years as well?? Can the dependents apply for 3years and leave the UK after expiration or even lesser than the 3years??

Mrmoney90
Uzland
Hunee

wakanderforever:
i Agree 100% with you, so, ive actually corrected the age on my NIN now to 1985, the major blocker right now is the passport office at abuja, they say they it is hard to modify age on the new passport (the one with NIN) right now im looking for a link in abuja that can help me get this done, i dont even mind paying the amount as long as it can be done.

Go to immigration office in your location...and ask them to link you up with someone in Abuja. That's the only way u can avoid being scammed

I think some women just have the belief that their husband must beg even when he did nothing wrong...some even create scenarios and start keeping malic over nothing just to create tension at home and make their man beg

...mayb its like a playing hard to get thing..
.mayb they dont know its an abusive behavior

They are making money by willingly selling their bodies to the highest bidder.....stacking body counts and abortions along the way..

.. later nairaland girls and their olosho friends will say u have no right to ask for a decent girl.

Guys..make uma no do mumu marry these kimd women for house oooooooo.... dem full nairaland and other aocial media... they have no decent job but all use 400k-700k phones... shime ur eyes

wakanderforever:
Hello great people of nairaland.

i need your help on a matter that bothers me a bit, and will appreciate answers that come from a place of experience or knowledge, if its possible for me to get a VO repsonse, i'ld really appreciate.

So here's the thing, i applied to the U.S 5 years go 2017, and got a visa. i went on vacation and came back after after 10 days.
the Year of birth on my passport was 1985 (correct age.)


in 2019 the visa expired, and i tried to renew, on same passport but unfortunately got denied. (this was during the trump era when getting a visa was extremely difficult.


in 2020, i applied for a new passport (B series) (as old passport had expired), there was a mistake, and the year of birth on the new passport is 1989. day and month is still the same, only the year of birth changed. i tied to modify the year of birth back to my correct age 1985, but the people at the passport office say Age cannot be modified on this new b series passport.

here goes my dilema........ i want to apply for a US visa now, and im confused on what to do, as The records i have with them (U.S embassy) for my approved and denied visa is 1985 and my current passport has 1989. (day and month of birth is the same)

how do i navigate this? do i apply with my current passport (which reads 1989) and tell them there was an error on it? or what do i do??



i need your help guys.

Bros....U shot urself in the leg oooo

..immigration office cannot make mistake of 85 to 89 if u ddnt register 89 on ur NIN....the applocation wont even go through at point of registering if there is a discrepancy in NIN DOB and inputed age on the system...

U cant travel with that passport oooo..if say the first time u travel to the US..u were a minor...then we can easily explain that ur parents uses the age and u dont know why but u want to correct it....but u were an adult in 2017...u might be banned for deception...

Still u can always change back to 85...This type of change comes from abuja..and it very expensive like 400k because of too many people to bribe... and u have to first change ur DOB on NIN back to 85...

Or u maintain ur new age...and avoid US and her sister countries like the UK canada and australlia

SUGARCyprian247:
Please I need help Too,

My real Year of Birth is 1995, I have 1995 in all my documents BVN, NIN, B.Eng, Birth Cert, Passport, NYSC. etc

Everything is intact expect WAEC, I was decived by a friend/classmate when registering for WAEC that if i use 1995, I will be too young and they might cease my results. That i should use an older Year. That was How I used 1993 in WAEC.

Now, I don't even know how to correct this., I want apply next year for Student VISA.

What do I do please ��

Forget ....this ur own no be problem.... people have discrepancy onntheir WAEC all the time

What u need it for is english language proficiency...so You can always use IELtS to prove english language...so u dont have to present your WAEC to any school if u are afraid...


Even if u use it....and the Univeristy u apply to spot it.....respond to them say na mistake from WAEC....worst...they will ask u to present sworn afidavit from a high court.... u no get problem

Jocabasa:
Good morning guys...
I don com again ooo make una no say my blood dey hot oo... Although my blood dey hot truly..

I noticed flights from December upward ar daam expensive so am thinking of booking a flexible flight ticket on d last day of d 15working days given by d Ukvi for my passport collection...

God forbid if d 15working days given no laap den I can change d flight date ahead....
Nd if I get my passport before d date den i japkaa....

Pls AdvanceDNA, Hunee, Mattle n members if I make sense or not advise me

Bros..Ukvi can be very unpredictable ooooo....
U could be lucky they will answer u before end of 15 days...it could be on that 15th day...and it can be way more that 15days...

I know uve missed ur wife.....best thing u can do is to be on the safe side.... money is hard to find....u have already waited this long...waiting a bit more wont kill u...

..if na me...i go just book mid January flight...
This way .. u will get cheap ticket....and leave enough room to accomodate any madness from UKVI....

LocalMan2:
E pain you, go drink snipper. You must be a useless Pastor. You are one of those that sleep with people's wives.

If you see pastor u suppose know....but sadly...u no too get sense to differantiate btw a pastor and a devil's advocate...

VeryWickedGoat:
Kazeem go run am for N100k.

Kazzem or Gazzuzz....500k is on vawulence side for just change of engine labor if this old car

cchub:
There might be other issues too. Looking like a money pit.

Its a used 2008 range naaa.. even at top working condition ...value is around 2.5M give or take

VeryWickedGoat:
+ engine replacement = N1.2m
+ other maintenance = N500k
+ labour = N500k

Final price of this vehicle = N3.6m

500k to chnage engine .....diaris God ooooo

cchub:

1.4 million? Now I know there's something terribly wrong with this car.
Isn't this that Terry g's range Rover that was rejected from the mechanic workshop?

He already said the engine is smoking....

Asgard73:
Where you know me .. to conclude “ I too worship white man” Yoruba human.. Una assumptions na mumurity

Mr Jason will give everything to be free from the black LovePeddler ..

Travel Una no gree

Mentality na poor one .. and Dey will be too quick to quote few internet jibes ..

Oga travel .. and understand how people think and act ..

Europe get different family orientation from US .. different from Asia ..

Sense too far

Social media assumptions

Next!

If u feel insulted by my comment no vex

Asgard73:
The husband is an American

Not some poverty stricken African man with black african mentality

Oyibo love freedom ..

And he wants her out

Whatever you count as advantage for her .. means nothing to the husband

Poverty don too reset african man brain

Na wao

U too worship white man....weda its america, africa or Australia ..no man enjoys splitting his property into two and paying a woman another man is fvcking after divorce.....

. go online and see msny white rich actors going back to court to ask the judge to reduce the amount they are ordered to pay thr ex wife for support because they are not making the same as before

Ewoooooo


U better go and report to police so that she no go re-strategize her evil plan.....police will make her sign undertaken.....if u get small headache...them go arrest her vindictive aśs

They will always entertain the attention of numerous exes...once one small issue will happen, instead of settling with their partner, to spread legs na their first option...

LocalMan2:
A hypocrites spotted, you are pained because she did the right thing.
Jesus feed 5000 people then but this days a whole Church feed a Pastor now.

U cannot even read...... context u ddnt get... please ask for you money from where u graduated from...

Maysdevices:
What will a man do if the case was reversed?

Hypocrites

My gender will divorce cos its a new marriage...
But ur gender will do anything for money.....its never a shame for u people to be collecting sperm inside ur birth canal from different men

Tuehhh!!

BECALMBECALM:
I need a hotel in ibadan which is good. Below are the things i am looking at: 1. Power supply atleast 23hours 2. Security and 3. Price is from 15k to 20k. Please let me know the area and prices. Thank you.

Ask for Ashosh hotels at iyanganku quaters GRA.... 24 hrs light.. decent place for ur 15k budget...was there for a party some times back

lookingfly:
all the questions I asked you.....you no fit answer oooo because truth too much.

I dont owe u any explantion.....ur questions are already off the context of my my own comment...u sound like u are accusing me of something.......we are just commenting randomly on a topic....and u are sounding like we are in a court....life no hard oooo.... speak ur truth how ever u like it....i speak mine.... thinking urs is superior is truck load of nonsense.......

lookingfly:
no matter how you want to hide it, it's glaring the tithe issue they pain you . What's your business with her showing off? Is it your tithe that she's using? People work for their money and they're entitled to how they spend it. Commot your eyes from people money and tithe and how they've decided to spend it wether as show off or whatever.

I cant help u any further....think what u want since u dont even know what playing a devil's advocate means....we do it all the time here... how do u think threads get to 10/15 pages if no one opens any other lines of thought....