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FamilyRe: How Do I Tell My Unmarried Elder Sister That She Is Getting Too Old? by Advantaged: 3:37pm On Oct 16, 2022
So if she was younger than you, you would have gone physical on her? That's too bad. Marriage is good but you can't force her. Besides, she may be very concerned about it. You do not know her reason for
not taking them seriously as you claim.

If you are so concerned, talk to her about it and let her be
LiteratureRe: The Hole In The Wall by Advantaged: 12:26pm On Sep 22, 2022
Yes. Too bad
LiteratureRe: Ruby's Search For Romance by Advantaged: 11:20am On Jun 08, 2022
Thank you for the nice story.
Do you watch Best Friends on youtube by Neptune Studios? The names Iris and Ivy made me aak
PoliticsRe: Chris Ngige Joins 2023 Presidential Race by Advantaged: 10:43am On Apr 20, 2022
God forbid bad things.

Someone that couldn't even handle the striking doctors situation properly.
Christianity EtcRe: Is There Anything Wrong In One Not Going To Church But Believes So Much In God? by Advantaged: 5:04pm On Mar 20, 2022
CashVessel:
If you do not attend church you are not fulfilling God's will, and when you do that, it means you don't want to spend eternity with Him. Why?
The Bible says 'Do not forsake the gathering of brethren as some are in the habit of doing' (Heb 10:25). The Bible also says in I Cor. 11:18 says "WHEN we come together as a church" It didn't say 'IF'. So it's certain that we must come together as a church. Prov 27:17 says "Iron sharpeners iron, so a man sharpens the countenance of another. I Cor 11:23-33 talks about coming together for the Lord supper. The gifts we receive from God are for the edification of the church(I Cor. 12:7-14)
We lift up each other when we meet. God didn't create man to be in isolation. If you notice in Acts of Apostles 2: it says they were all gathered in one room when the Holy Ghost baptised them. There is an anointing called corporate anointing that occurs only in gatherings. That's why miracles are abundant when people come together in the name of God. Remember, "where two or three are gathered in my name, there I am in their midst". If you can attend church, attend and be functional; being æ blessing to others as well.
Hebrews 10:25
[25]Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.

In addition to the quoted post, I'd like to say that as believers in Jesus, we are not to live by the dictates of our feelings, likes, moods. If as a Christian, you don't like going to church, then you need to pray for strength to obey God in fellowshipping with other believers.

We have been called to a life of surrender to God.

Don't be deceived by those who are in support of staying out of the church. God has set His standard and He does not need the majority to agree with it neither does he need anyone's validation.

In church, you get enriched, you grow, you serve. You can do this in other settings too but none of us is wiser than God who has asked His people to come together and stay in His presence together.

Lastly, and to every Christian reading- live and walk by the Spirit not your desires or feelings which run contrary.

Peace ✌️
LiteratureRe: The Church Girl Christian Romance. A Short Story. by Advantaged: 6:00pm On Feb 18, 2022
Wow
This was breathtaking and worth the time spent in reading it
God bless you Rosemary33
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RomanceRe: It's Over, My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Advantaged: 10:13am On Feb 11, 2022
@op
Please don't abort the baby and don't deny what you know is yours.
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY
she does not have to live with your parents. You said it yourself that money is not a problem.

The news may break your parents' heart but its too late to cry

Like someone else wrote, your parents seem to be encouraging you by housing your other babe and child. I hope your present girlfriend is aware you have a child from last year
LiteratureRe: Even If He Doesn't: The Flood (a Christian Fiction Series) by Advantaged: 8:12pm On Nov 23, 2021
Hi Mllie, good to have you here again.
Please what about ocean of secrets, the flow? Should we keep being expectant?
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CrimeRe: How Do I Recover My Stolen Certificates Found With A Smuggler In Lagos? by Advantaged: 7:45pm On Oct 04, 2021
gasparpisciotta:
Hope you made a copious police report when the stealing incident happened?

That will be a lesson to all of us who are in the habit of sweeping things under the carper because we just don’t want Police wahala.
You must be a Policeman
PhonesRe: How Did You React When You Noticed That You Can't Access Facebook, Whatsapp? by Advantaged: 7:33pm On Oct 04, 2021
I was wondering if mtn was at it again. I re started my phone, yet no change
FamilyRe: My Experience Adopting A Child In Nigeria As A Young Guy by Advantaged: 10:52pm On Sep 09, 2021
So, you're a male, a single male (sorry if I missed where you said you are married if you did) and a court granted your application to adopt a female three year old? In this country?
I'm sorry but that is very hard for me to believe.
The adoption process never begins and ends with the orphanage home. The court must be involved.
Music/RadioRe: Gospel Hard Core Rap by Advantaged: 8:44pm On Jul 13, 2021
I googled gospel hard core rap and this page popped up.
Thanks op. I'm downloading lecrae's songs now.
I have some real work to do in the office tomorrow and at such times, I like to listen to music while working. Ordinarily, I could just listen to any song with a fast beat, any rap...it kinda keeps me going and fired up to work. But today I thought 'why not get gospel rap and do this the right way?'

Thanks again op
LiteratureRe: Securing The Bag (The Lagos Hustle) by Advantaged: 9:43pm On Jun 23, 2021
Wahala no too much?
LiteratureRe: Securing The Bag (The Lagos Hustle) by Advantaged: 6:12pm On May 31, 2021
Thank you souloho for the updates back to back :
FamilyRe: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Advantaged: 8:34pm On May 04, 2021
Even if they don't conduct a traditional marriage, they are already married has they are. Any other marriage conducted or not conducted will make no difference
LiteratureRe: Securing The Bag (The Lagos Hustle) by Advantaged: 8:25pm On Apr 26, 2021
Please update
CelebritiesRe: Linda Ikeji Excited As Her Son, Jayce Goes To School (Photo) by Advantaged: 5:59pm On Apr 23, 2021
Schools are rounding/have rounded off second term now; it's no new session.
Prob old news
LiteratureRe: PLAGIARIZED (The Story Was Just The Beginning) by Advantaged: 3:43pm On Mar 19, 2021
Mavikolo2020:
I sincerely hopes Success dies but silver please permit me to ask, what exactly is Festus role in the story, I mean besides following Samuel upandan
Lolz
His role is that of a follower smiley smiley cheesy grin
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InvestmentRe: How To Retrieve Your Unclaimed Dividends by Advantaged: 9:25am On Jan 15, 2021
@OP
Many thanks for creating this thread.

I have two questions please

I checked the website, it says the exercise will end on February 28, 2018. I'm just curious- Was it extended without them updating their website because from your post and that of some others, they have been able to successfully complete the process

I opened the form and clicked on First Registrars as it is the Registrar for First Bank where I have some unclaimed dividend.
But I can't find First Bank on the list of Companies/Organisations under First Registrars.
Do they also go by a different name?
LiteratureRe: Should I Quit My Job Of 20k For Online Affiliate Marketing by Advantaged: 11:19am On Dec 24, 2020
Since a training is required, Can you learn it on a part time basis, maybe weekends? So you keep your job too and later decide for yourself what it is you want to do.
LiteratureRe: UNDERRATED: A Story By Toyin Taiwo by Advantaged: 11:56am On Nov 09, 2020
bimberry1307:
Ma'am, sometimes girls pretends to be what they are not just to get what they want. Their real color surface after.
If I read the story well, I think the writer did mention at the beginning or so that both Adekunle and his friend had a common problem with their ladies- their over possessiveness.
It didn't just begin.

One of the guys didn't think that was enough to end the relationship, so he went ahead and married the lady. The other is so indecisive cos that moyin is not ready to change and he knows it.
So why is he acting like she only became like that recently. He should know what to do, that is if he has sense.

He is wasting his time and her time at the same time
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LiteratureRe: UNDERRATED: A Story By Toyin Taiwo by Advantaged: 1:49pm On Nov 07, 2020
Both Adekunle and Moyin need a big knock each from me.


Insecure and over possessive lady

Man isn't even treating the lady right. Doesn't even carry the lady along in his plans where it matters.
If he can give Moyin the kind of attention he gives his second sister, that would be really good. But he claims he can't cos she has put him off with her over possessiveness. Reason why they need to release each other from this entanglement, especially since none is ready to change
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LiteratureRe: Ocean Of Secrets: The Flow (ocean Of Secrets Saga; Book 2) by Advantaged: 1:19pm On Oct 06, 2020
Hi Millie
It's good to have you back. What happened? Hope you were okay while you were away.
Thanks for the update
LiteratureRe: Ocean Of Secrets: The Flow (ocean Of Secrets Saga; Book 2) by Advantaged: 9:01pm On Sep 29, 2020
Hi Millie, I hope you are fine.

We are expecting updatessss. I've been checking and re-checking this page.

Just hope you are good
LiteratureRe: Ocean Of Secrets: The Flow (ocean Of Secrets Saga; Book 2) by Advantaged: 5:35pm On Sep 24, 2020
hotswagg12:
This tinu and Veron phase is part of the story and let Millie go at it at her own pace.
Yeah, very true.
I was just saying it as I feel it
LiteratureRe: Ocean Of Secrets: The Flow (ocean Of Secrets Saga; Book 2) by Advantaged: 3:46pm On Sep 24, 2020
Thanks again and again Millie

But please, can we quickly get past this phase of Tinu's life, I cringe and feel one not-too-good kind each time I read of her and Veron
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LiteratureRe: Ocean Of Secrets: The Flow (ocean Of Secrets Saga; Book 2) by Advantaged: 8:42am On Sep 24, 2020
Thanks Millie for the updates
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LiteratureRe: Ocean Of Secrets: The Flow (ocean Of Secrets Saga; Book 2) by Advantaged: 3:51pm On Sep 23, 2020
Hi Millie
Pls give us an update
Thanks
LiteratureRe: Ocean Of Secrets: The Flow (ocean Of Secrets Saga; Book 2) by Advantaged: 8:46pm On Sep 19, 2020
A man (father) should love his wife more than his children and same applies to a woman(mother). Spouses should come first, always!

But, Dele isn't married to Seyi, so I don't know what to say.
LiteratureRe: Ocean Of Secrets: The Flow (ocean Of Secrets Saga; Book 2) by Advantaged: 1:14pm On Sep 16, 2020
I see you guys are rooting for dele and tiny to get back.

As for me, it's either dele and seyi together or noone else.
Except they get new partners who we haven't met yet
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LiteratureRe: Ocean Of Secrets: The Flow (ocean Of Secrets Saga; Book 2) by Advantaged: 8:24pm On Sep 11, 2020
Hellooooooooooo

Where's our op?

Hope she's good

Please update

Thank you
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