₦airaland Forum

ekafine:
they are two different things because. read in between the line, then you will see where i cautioned him for downgrading calabar

So, what's the difference between what you said about Enugu and what he said about Calabar. If anything, he was being kind. Except of course, truth only come from your mouth only.

MyGeneration:
look at dz mumu calabar gal u re calling hopeathand an ikwerre man from ph to come and defend u.
u want to turn it into southeast vs south south, calabar is a dead city, tourism zero, development dead, d moment unical closes everywhere bevomes a dead town, call even barcanista that wont change the fact that u are from a dead state. Even ur women even if it they like let the sex be free I wont come.

I never knew a day would come when someone would call an Internet man to come and fight an Igbo man on their behalf.

ekafine:
i never rubbished enugu but what i stood against was saying that enugu state is better than river state. go back and read my posts. kill yourself if you want.

So, what's the difference between you saying that Port Harcourt is better than Enugu which is your opinion and another person saying that Owerri is better than Calabar which is his opinion.

B2mario:
are you sure you know Owerri or are you talking about Owerrinta?
Hmmmm, this must be a yoruba bas.tard.

Lets not fall for this guy tricks, he wants to draw argument between Igbo and Southsouth.

What's the deal about Owerrinta though. I think a new emerging town can come out of it.

ekafine:
This is what pisses me up about igbo people. U run a place down just to uplift your place. In which way has owerri surpassed Calabar. Calabar Is another level. Is it beauty, good roads etc. If u say that Owerri is the cheap se.x capital of Nigeria that would be understandable. Because all I saw in owerri aside bad and decaying infrastructures are battalions of women all over the town seeking for men. U dont call that tourism but disaster & chaos. I refused to share the pictures i took here knowing how some of u will misconstrue it but I will share it anyways if u keep attacking south south states.

Cc: HopeAtHand

The other day you were rubbish in Enugu and now you have the audacity of accusing someone else of running down Calabar. You must think everyone sees the world through your eyes. You prefer Calabar to Owerri, another person thinks otherwise and you want to run mad. Have you ever considered killing yourself?

kandiikane:
What's up with all these labels?

You mean like male and female?

Did 6 million jews really die? That's like the population of London.

RIP to those who lost their lives at tha gas explosion. Every life is important.

olaniyanibukun0:
A man will always be happy with a woman as far as he's not in love with her

Do you mean a man or a woman cos i don't know when love became top priority for men.

yaskarahyelhope:
Its is extremely possible. I av a male friend since yr 2000, we can even sleep on d same bed. He knows my secrets and I know his. He's married now with two kids. Since we've been together till now, he has never seen my pant nor have we had SEX. Its very very verrrrrrry possible for two opposite sex to be together as very good friends. It takes maturity and understanding. At first he made some advances for sex, but along d line, when he realized, I wouldnt give in, he replaxed. But they are very rate.

SO ITS VERRRRRRY POSSIBLE!!!!!

Ahaa

kandiikane:
I have a male friend I know since I was 12, we hardly spent time these days due to busy schedules, but when we meet, we smoke, drink, merry and plan for the future.

Aren't you a Lez?

SmartMugu:
Thank God for the way I was raised. I can kill anything killable except humans. Goats, Cows, Elephants etc, so what is a tiny chicken to me?
Even my 12-year old niece will kill anything in a heartbeat. God created animals so man can feed on them. If everyone is scared of killing them, do you have an idea of what the world would be today?

And you know this how? The OP simply has more conscience. The moment you start killing something as little as chicken, your conscience begins to erode gradually. From chicken to goat, from goat to dog and then the list is endless. Though the Ops behavior is more synonymous with women than men but that does not mean it's not normal.

Joavid:
I just made you aware of that fact. And you turn it around and use as your own?

As for the rest of your post, you're confused - and pls don't ask me how. Read from the very first post you quoted me.

I'm aware of the setting boundaries part and i told you that that is barely friendship and can't be compared to a man to man friendship where there's no holds barred. I think you're one who's confused because you have simple comprehension issues. read between lines. Everything is not black and white.

Joavid:
From the posts I see here, men who can't have platonic friendships with the opposite sex are sexists.

They see women as tools and sex objects.
They see women as people who have nothing to offer in a friendship.

So many people with fvcked up minds.

Being created a woman makes you different from a man in terms of sexual makeup and you shouldn't blame men. There are men that can have platonic relationships with women by setting boundaries but it can never be like a man to man friendship that's usually no holds barred.

MissGdope:
Well you obviously don't know what trust means. If you trust someone, it's because they're trustworthy. If you're in doubt of their trustworthiness, then there's no point in friendship. Who's to say a female friend is more trustworthy than a male one?

How you you measure trustworthiness. Tell me how brothers who have been killed by brothers ended up dead if not for the trust they have for their brother. Father's kill son, so s kill father et AL. So, the fact that you trust someone doesn't mean they're trustworthy. It may mean that you're yet to see the real them. That's not to say that there are no trustworthy people. But it's not necessarily in your place to determine that.

MissGdope:
I have confidence in them. I trust them. Friendship is built on trust.
I'm done with this conversation
have a great day

Having trust is someone doesn't mean they're trustworthy. I don't know why you're getting agitated. Have a great day too. Merry Xmas.

MissGdope:
smfh so because my friends are NOT perverts and are not just thinking of banging me everytime they see me, then that makes me ugly?? you can't be serious. Call me whatever you like but I have plutonic friendships with guys and they're very close to me.
Merry Christmas

This is your own point of view. You never know what goes on in their minds whenever they see you.

Joavid:
Keeping a physical distance and setting boundaries.

I have male friends. They are the best!

That's exactly the Ops point. If someone is truly your friend, then you shouldn't keep physical distance for the fear of something happening.

Joavid:
Yes they can be. If they keep a distance. If not, sex happens, then it gets complicated.

Do you keep a distance from your friends? The Op's assertion is still valid.

I never even knew Amaechi's wife was from Anambra.

As much as there are exceptions to the rule, i think the OP has a point. Usually, to make someone your friend, there must be an attraction. For a lot of guys, it is sports and a lot of the things that guys are known for. The thing that attracts me to a lady is either her intellect or her physical makeup. if it's the latter then we know where my mind will end up anytime i'm with her. If its the former, it's even worse.

claremont:
This thread reminds me of Baltimore, Maryland, as used in 'The Wire' TV series. The TV series makes it seem like it's an economically deprived part of America with drug-selling gangs everywhere.

Any American city with over 60% of blacks have that problem. People rather live in the suburbs.

He is an agent of change. Please leave him alone. After all, it's his spokesman that said it not him. His spokesman has brother that is in PDP. They're trying to run him down.

The worst thing that can happen is giving a staunch APC supporter a pen. They're usually devoid of logic and common sense.

You have to do that in her country of residence which is Benin.

I really need to see photos of Nsukka urban.

Adelaide2:
Joe Igbokwe of APC, I agree with you on this one. People cannot eat their cake and have it and that includes me.

Lol No be small Joe Igbokwe. Atleast Joe Igbookwe can speak Igbo. Rossikki is probably a product of an Igbo sperm but doesn't know which community nourished the sperm. Efulefu.

Rossikk:
What are YOU still doing on a Nigerian forum? You are always negative when you discuss Nigeria. I thought you'd be leading the pack of deluded tribalists off to your Bia.fra forum. You hate Nigeria yet everyday you find your backside on the Nigerian forum. Confused he-goat.

Anybody that disagrees with you must be Biafran. What a maggot infested way of reasoning. You think o'm like you who goes around acting like Nigeria is some sort of eldorado when there are issues to be addressed. Keep living in the land of delusion. Ogbanje.

ariesbull:
Do you know that ibu efulefu...enwero ife ima...obulu mgbe gbuo..m jiri GI tuo aja MA obu resi GI ndi oyibo

He doesn't understand this your language. He's an impostor.

Pls, ignore Rossike. That guy has never added an ounce of value to any positive Igbo discourse. it's only when he wants to insult Igbos that he will tell us that he is Igbo. Umu ogbanje.

This looks more like a campaign than a carnival.

Whatever happened to this thread.

Pls those of you that travelled to Enugu for Christmas should do us a great favour by taking some shots.