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Omoakin120,

Marry someone you are attracted to physically. Also marry a woman who is genuinely friendly with you. If you don’t find your wife attractive, you will easily find excuse to look outside. You may even begin to resent her until she gets the message and then the real wahala will start.

Your indices for beauty are different from mine. So nobody should force you to take what you don’t want. Some guys like light skin and narrow nose and small boobs. Some guys love dark skin and huge yansh with moderate boobs. Some look for straight legs. Others can die for bow legs. Go for what makes you smile when you watch her walk out of the living room into the kitchen.

A number of people say good looks don’t matter but you catch them cheating on their husbands with younger better looking guys at work.

gbemishile:
Madam.it doesn't matter if he was three times ur size.if una start that una craze,una go quick switch to 'oya beat me na,woman beater,oya beat me'.

You understand. That line of argument holds no water these days. His physical size doesn’t matter. A woman can use her femininity as an excuse to be physically abusive.

She knows people would naturally think she is the victim and she could never subdue the man. But abuse goes beyond subduing a man and pummelling him. Slaps and scratching and pinching are also physical abuse.

Doctor freeze had to post pictures of his face before people turned around and believed him. Now that is the first thing these women use to mock him. “You, that your wife beat you.” All because a man has chosen never to hit a woman. That’s how some foolish men die in marriage.

2 years!

The guy must have high expectations by now. He has set himself up for disappointment.

Lol.

See disrespect.



This is literally unbelievable

Davash222:
Nigerian men don’t cheat.

Well said bro.

We don’t cheat. It is not in our nature. If you catch any Nigerian man cheating, check well, he’s from Ghana.

I think you know the truth but you are looking for people to convince you otherwise. You’re setting yourself up.

You are deliberately seeing the illusion of a good girl while an unrepentant cheat is staring you in the face.

Continue in your newfound love. She will soon add you to the list of boyfriends she’s cheated on. In your shoes, I would casually convert her to my nacking partner. Expecting her to be faithful to you would be asking for too much, to be honest.

I think the men here are heading in the right direction.

This is what happens when you forgive and marry a girlfriend who cheats.


It is always better for the cheat to be the man rather than the woman.

Op (whatdowomenwant) will wait till eternity before his wife will stop.

If you continue condoning shît like this, one day, one woman will disgrace your wife and your family. The embarrassment you think you are avoiding will be multiplied 10 fold. Brace yourself.

The next step is to take all the evidence you have to your lawyers first. Seek divorce before informing her family. This is because you have refused to keep them in the loop, in the past. This would be new to them and they would naturally prevail on you to pardon her.

You should not pardon someone that swears on her life while lying and still goes on cheating. You should not pardon someone who uses religion to manipulate her husband, faking her piety to God while collecting steady remorseless nackin outside her marriage. An adulterous wife will end your chance at happiness and end your life.

I hope the court grants you custody of your children, if not, they would be forced to watch their mother pîmp herself out to men. You must fight for custody. Such a woman has no business raising children.




I HOPE YOU REALISE THAT SHE WILL NEVER CHANGE.

Quite insensitive

Liab, it appears you are in love with a liability.

Hope you use protection because you are just one moment of indiscretion away from STD. Forget her.

All I can say is ashawo is cheaper and safer than dating a broke girl. If money is the deal breaker for you, ashawo is a better option. If you need companionship, a Naija girl will charge you. The ball is in your court.

Realtalk20:
I want to have an orgy with your brain till it births me three daughters

Damn this is a red Piller her

abeg o.

positivevibez:
Bros you have a very mature brain and way of reasoning I learnt a lot from you I need this kind of mentality

Lol. Thank you boss.

MrDoGood:
I don't know what to say........
But God bless you

Thanks, Amen.

Bruh

Martinez39s:
Blah blah blah blah. Always trying to sound logical and highly intelligent when we all know you will eventually end up saying nothing reasonable or tangible.

You know him well. He is always saying so much, but essentially nothing sensible.

Davash222:
One can't marry in peace again.

The guy should have just divorced this woman.

Continue to call her number. She go show.

Wetin do your generator?

Bro this your situation is strong. Because of love.

Logan95:
I would have been stern if she hadn't passed out, I needed to give her the medication immediately to revive her. I also noticed that she loses interest in life (a symptom of epilepsy) and her condition reduces her self esteem regardless of how stunning she is.

My challenge now is that if she was OK mentally, I would have given her space and cut contact for now but for her I detest her being alone.

We once had an issue via chat and she told me not to attend her funeral... I sent my sister to her house without her knowledge and by the time she got there my girl was vibrating in her feet and palms.

Everything you have just written does not tell you if she’s faithful or not. Isn‘t that the bone of contention?

Her condition does not take away your privilege to expect honesty from her. There are many diversionary tactics to employ when in a tight corner and guilt tripping, using one’s health condition as an excuse, is not far down that list.

They know the outcome. The republicans are prepared to block Trump’s removal even if he is accused of embezzlement and war crimes with hard evidence.

This is essentially a partisan contest.

She will come back. I hope you know you were right to not trust her. If you overlook certain signs you’d set yourself up for an unpleasant surprise.

Her condition does not preclude her willingness and ability to cheat when the opportunity appears. Babes are avid (but still amateur) manipulators.

If you still want her, you could go and put her mind at ease. Be cool but be vigilant. Don’t lose your guard.

catoluy:
If you go and investigate, you will see it was a Yoruba person at Facebook Nigeria that is behind it.

Lol. I hope you are joking cos no human being should be this stupîd. Facebook has bots that address suspicious activity and once a page is reported for hate messages, it gets reviewed.

Surely you must know this. Please tell me you were joking. I don’t think you have the right to be this stupîd.

Davash222:
That uncle is well packaged fool!

70k wey e suppose use buy 3 weeks old Broilers dey train, na em e wan use dey train one local fowl for school.

Bro, you have made me laugh so much today.

Abeg take.