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CapitalHYC:
Yes they emptied your account when you were forming feminist and codedly involving your self in Online Dating

Is that the only way they empty people’s accounts? What of those yahoo boys who collude with bankers to siphon money from people’s accounts? What of stolen credit card fraud? Yahoo boys are taking money from old people now, through fake bank customer care phone calls. They are mercilessly stealing from Nigerians in different ways.

She is Nigerian. Why do you think she would be susceptible to online dating fraud?

Tell him what you have discovered. It is worrisome that he is the one initiating the nonsense. Let him know in clear terms that you have discovered his indiscretion and you are disappointed and offended and would not tolerate it.

That’s what I’d tell my sister to do before it’s too late.

Don’t wait until he has a couple of stable girlfriends and an illegitimate kid before you address this issue.

RisenPhoenix:
Just do as our elders did and marry another wife.

Problem solved.

I’m sorry I have to agree with you. You have solved the problem bro.

A married woman must not weaponise or ration sex. If she does, I support the man having a side chick or marrying a new wife. I am sorry to say this. But sex is now a tool for the conditioning of Nigerian husbands.

DexterousOne:
Nigeria cannot be fixed

Whether as a unit or divided into bits
The mentality in Nigeria and Africa is FVCKED

All you can do is to hustle and make some money to provide some cushion against the mess in the zoo.

That's just the fact

A country that believe so much in superstition
Does not encourage merit
And are wicked to the core
Cannot develpp

You have said it all. The person you quoted is probably going to steal more than the present crop of embezzlers we have running the country. Corrupt politicians are elected from corrupt candidates who are chosen from among corrupt citizens. Just walk into any government office and see. Even traders would try to cheat you if they think you don’t know what you want.

The truth is, our terrible leaders represent the majority of us, that’s why they won their positions. If reasonable, accountable people were the majority of our population, we would end up with reasonable leaders.

Nigeria is not heading in the right direction and may not for the next few decades. Everybody is justified to jump ship if they can.

Pussywar:
Bitter man. You must have been ignored a lot. Try not chatting like a dumb Bleep. Or at least chat with someone who's into you. Cheers.

OP, You see what I mean by dumbass women? No sense at all. She probably hopes I’m involved with her fellow dumbass girls. I don’t bother with babes who are not into me, that’s why I am advising this brother to do likewise.

How could you not get that? That was literally my first paragraph. You can read, right? So why are you this simple-minded? Miss me with that unintelligent nonsense next time.

I thought mine was short until I read yours. Bro, you’re the ultimate winner.

Vortex369:
Wny should anyone date a slay queen who is not bisexual?

Monotonous sex life kills the dick fatally.

What a signature. Really nice.

realokopi:
If i'm chatting with a girl and she replies me with "k" or "yeah" we're done. I normally starts ignoring them from then on. I have countless numbers of white girls as friends and they never chat like that. Not just white girls, even girls from other African countries are much more lively than Nigerian girls.

That was my chat with a white friend. Look at the way she flows. Not some dumb kind of chat with most Nigeria girls.

I tire.

Brotherly, if to say we never relate with women of other nationalities, we go dey think say na so all woman be.

Many Naija girls need to learn to have actual conversations. They would just leave everything to the guy. Maybe they are afraid to sound dumb sha (I doubt that). But for me, once she switches to monosyllabic/dead replies, bye bye.

Abeg. I don’t have strength to polish a turd.

ashawopikin:
I support this comment with these drinks

Cheers.

Well!

What can I say. I mean. She’s a woman.

Bro, once a girl starts to chat with you like she’s doing you a favour, just pull the damn plug. You should not be involved with entitled dumbass girls like this one.

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Jewessgratitude:
Reality neva strike you. So because of this flimsy thing, you dump a girl? What has that got to do with anything? I mean... I dont get it. Like how does it affect you? Mere letters missing in a word is what is making you to lose a lifetime opportunity?

To each his own sha.

That should be the least of your worries in a relationship of all the issues therein if you ask me though.

They go about with an air of self importance, and that attracts you cos they appear confident and men find that attractive, but they are really just shiny baubles. When you scratch the surface, you’d discover the unimpressive core.

What’s worse, they defend this shît, thinking the classy women they hope to emulate are unintelligent bores too. They couldn’t be any further from the truth. They want us to accept them with their bullshît, saying it’s reality. Thats just simplistic nonsense.

It’s a let down, but some guys need to wade through tons of garbage to get to gold.

Don’t settle for less man. Cheers.

BadRadio:
shut up !

It’s like I was wrong. You don’t have sense. Nonsense.

BadRadio:
I detest women with a mouth running like tap !!!
just like those small small jambites girls... very annoying when u hear them talk... it's like having a mosquito buzz close to ur ear at midnight.

So you even have sense like this. Take

Madam Nlposter, you write well. Just don’t come for these well meaning men of culture. Don’t.

Jewessgratitude:


So?
You think the im like you guys that pretend about who you are? I lay it bare ok? And that is why God blesses me easily. Ok?
I'm not among those who live a fake life here. Nothing to be ashamed of.

Laugh all you want. It is allowed.

Lol.

You need someone to rescue you from singleness? Mmm? I know just the guy.

Jewessgratitude:
Lol...not really. But after this season of waiting, I believe God will do something.

anuma1:
finally I called to let her be. I don't want to see her again. It seems that the phone exposed her. attached is the message she sent to me. I used Afroknight reply to finish her.

you have finished her o.

Good job. So she even has plenty guys like that. Na wa.

Affliction shall not arise a second time. She doesn’t miss you, she only misses your money and gifts.

WTF did I just read?

Well, I warn them never to get me boxers or singlets. A T-Shirt is fine. But no underwear please. Didn’t know they could install juju on the boxers to monitor us. Inside life.

Jewessgratitude:
You know what amazes me about you? The way you go about exchanging banters with a woman. You have proved how less of a man you are. In fact, you are a sissy and I dont deal with Sissies.
I'm done with you sissy AfroKnight.

For those who struggle against “patriarchy”, you have scored an own goal. Are we not equal beings? Why do you expect a man not to banter with a woman? Are you less important and therefore dismissible just because you are a woman? You see why you’re classless?

Airhead.

Jewessgratitude:
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E pain youuuuuu

Lol. Why would I be pained that you tried and failed to fleece a man? Like I said, that strategy only exposes you. We know classy women by their comments. You are certainly not one. I mean, how would you be comfortable begging a man you barely know for money? Money for hair perhaps? Or for internet, so you could log on to Nairaland to seek attention? No class at all.

Just inform the person who’s going to buy the Jamb form and pay the new school fees.

Jewessgratitude:
Lols....no oo...I wouldn't have collected the money, I would have sent it to you to baf up so that at least one girl go gree for you.

All these Nairaland guys who cant even get a decent girl to date them because they are dead broke be calling girls broke.
Grandpa Nairaland.

Dream on.

This crass strategy already tells us who you are. No classy woman stoops that low.

Guys, we are about to witness another gathering of airheads. A couple have registered their presence already.

ePoster:
was that the reason i created this thread?
I didnt even know we had such a sick law.
My thread was to point out males who acted took to slut shaming a minor. Address that issue.
You threw insults before, im hoping that you wont again.
I created this thread with a defined purpose. Give me a straight forward answer. Its simple.

You digressed and are now wondering why I responded accordingly? Are you kidding me? Like I said if you don’t see your statement as an insult then mine is equally inoffensive.

It is increasingly obvious your arguments are without substance. You argue for the sake of argument. Waste of my time.

Jewessgratitude:
See how I'm just laughing at peoples responses. Na wa o. Money matters.


Mine is if I want to ward off a guy that is pestering my life, I'll just ask him to send me cash.
So I did it to one guy. he doesn't allow me to rest. At a point I was afraid to even turn on my data cos his messages will just be Popping up on my screen.

So I said let me employ that method.
I told him to send me cash, bros didn't chat me again for like 3days which actually felt like a lifetime considering how he normally does. Only for him to come back and say phone went off and he didnt even mention the money part again even though the message showed seen
At least the disturbance has stopped now.
Phew! Money matters.

Broke girls strategy. A big girl would not even joke with this hungry strategy. We both know you would have collected the money if he gave you.

ePoster:
an ancient law doesnt make it acceptable. The difference is accepting it exist when it shouldnt.
Why i drew attention to his moniker, not gender, is the fact that you seemed to be blind to the fact that many males believe that it is right to have sex with a minor.
This thread revealed the brash words used on a 16 by men twice her age who ought not to stoop low. Did you comment regarding that?
You threw insults rather.

It appears “unfortunately” means nothing to you.

Like I said, any such insult is a response to your own insult.

Your emotional outburst cannot change laws. Your country gives men the right to marry minors. And female legislators who were once girls, are looking the other way. Perhaps you are blind to that. If you are so concerned and committed to positive change, take it up with your senator and rep. It is more effective than coming here, touting simplistic, lofty statements.

ePoster:
Afro knight
I simply told you to point out where i insulted you. You have called me an idiot, ignoramus, dumb etc. I still wont stoop low. The first comment i made to you was '...read to comprehend and not argue...' is that the insult?
Anyways, since you are against paedophilia, why dont you correct this male moniker and the error in his logic.
Michellekabod2, whether you dislike me and the fact that my threads condemn the hypocricy of both genders, do not jump on a logical thread of mine only to rant. Dislike every other topic, i dont mind but this has a solid layer of truth you cant deny. Except i mistook you and you are as hypocritical as all the rest...

Like I said, if that is not insulting in your opinion, then my response is also not an insult.

Unfortunately, he is 100% correct. Paedophilia is legally determined by the existing laws. In Nigeria an 11 year old is allowed to marry. In Kwara State, age of consent is higher at 16 years. It is interesting that female lawmakers have watched these laws remain without amendment. These are laws that affect girls adversely.

There is no reason for you to draw attention to his gender if you have no motive to push an agenda.

Politics is so fluid in Nigeria.

The only constant party is the looted money. Everybody wants to join that party.

ePoster:
Indicate where i insulted anyone. Even after being abused, i still refuse to stoop low to retaliate.
If you cant answer my question, then do well to leave my thread.

Scroll up to see our first engagement. If you do not consider it an insult then I do not consider my response as an insult too.

It is amusing and quite dumb of you to tell me to leave your thread. Don’t give orders you cannot enforce. Where is the logic in that?

I thought you deemed yourself logical, you have failed once again.