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My sister, from your username Cheerycherry, I can almost guess your personality. Sometimes people think the fact that they have a good thing in hand means they can get something even better outside and move from enjoyment to enjoyment. But they are often disappointed. It is a sad thing to discover that one’s partner is cheating or at least flirting with other people.

Make sure you document all your expenses towards the building project properly. Prepare yourself but hope for the best.

He enjoys the thrill of flirting. He won’t stop just because you appeal to his sense of fairness. His problem is contentment. He lacks it.

If you want to divorce, hope you know it’s a long journey. Don’t start without legal advice (especially concerning all joint projects and accounts). Ask plenty of questions.

If you don’t intend to marry this girl, please don’t propose or even discuss anything marriage with her.

Preshieben:
how is that a blackmail?

Cos

1. she is not pregnant. And

2. She’s a runs girl which means he’s not her only customer, which means if she’s truly pregnant, then there’s no certainty that the baby is his.

3. She already tested him with the fake pregnancy once. This time she’s determined to cash out so she’s doing this to extort him.

He should report her to the police for blackmail.

Powerful to face unarmed protesters. Powerless to stop traffic robbers and bandits.

Nigeria police officers deserve the worst the universe has to offer.

Call her bluff.

Never give in to blackmail. Once you pay, you will always pay. And once you stop paying, she will expose you. The end result is the same, so don’t lose money. Let her do her worst. She dey mad.

funkmrflexx:
So as a married man If I want to Bleep it's my ex go hungry me. Wen kitten full outside like pure water

Lol. This sounds like you actually planned to cheat on your wife.

No matter how rich you are, do not waste money. Forget the lies she told you about her parents. Block her number.

An ex is a powerful person in your life especially if you guys had sex in the relationship. Run.

Don’t set yourself up.

Women want to reap where they didn’t sow.

Next time she won’t try this nonsense with you.

She married a man who actually cooks for her. Does she know how rare that is in Nigeria? She took her rough play too far.

Single Nigerian men are trying. To find beta wife na Ultimate search now. Selfish girls everywhere. They want to eat your money then leave.

Broke girls with attitude. Disgusting

Just multiply it by 2.

Nigerian Governments always reduce casualty numbers.

Lai Mohammed said Nigeria is getting safer.

Tobest94:
award is more than role, it has to do with manners as you’re role model to others, rude players never make balon d’hor

Different context. The proper question to answer is “do such players lose their award after it has been given?”

The Oscar is for his performance in a movie. Nowhere in their rules does it mention good behaviour. They can sanction him later but they did the right thing by giving him the award which he won. They can blacklist him from further awards or whatever but this one is his even though he behaved foolishly.

Value yourself young man. Dump her especially if you are looking for a faithful partner. She can never be faithful to you. It’s not in her nature to be satisfied with one man in her life.

She belongs to the streets. Move on.

Did he win the Oscar based on his role in a movie or based on his conduct during the ceremonies? The man deserved the award. Simple.

A milder sanction should be considered, especially since LAPD said Chris Rock refused to press charges. Nothing can unslap the slap he received.

It’s unfortunate but it’s done.

Next time, comedians will come prepared for violence.

It’s just funny that the women hailing Will Smith are the same ones who would tell men not to hit their wives when they insult them.

Answering war crime with war crime.

War is dirty.

Lol.
Yes, once. It was not worth it.

Now, I walk away once I get a whiff of you forming hard to get. The thrill of the chase builds an expectation which she can never meet. She becomes underwhelming after you get her

“Women Supporting Women” PRO MAX

Na this kind company fit you.

At least your friends know lending you money is a big risk.

If you can drag with these people until they had to resort to this, then I wonder if you would repay loans from your friends and family.

I no dey lend people money again. Borrow from your app. Na the app fit you.

illicit:
SIMP

Will Smith has always been the poster boy for Simps since the entanglement saga.

He laughed at the joke then saw his wife’s face then walked up to the host and assaulted him.

If the host were one muscular guy, would he have slapped him? Of course not.

Will is a simp and a bully.

Fighting for a wife who compared him unfavourably to her ex (2pac) and still cheated on him repeatedly. A weak-willed man.

Magnoliaa:
Afi yatamata naa.

Ermmm. Mr or Sir or Lord or Bro or Gentleman or Viscount Afro Knight, it seems like you're a person. I no know before. Bitter greetings to you, anyway. I am writing on behalf of this my dear beautiful lady. I would appreciate it if you can put her mind at ease and untangle any wuruwuru web that might have unwittingly collected between the two both of us. You can see that her heart is fragile, even me sef, until this moment, I never knew there's such a monicker as yours in this our online world. But Milady seem to think otherwise. So follow all due protocols and make a declaration hastily before we have a gbege on our hands.

Signed,
Mangohead Agbokolori.

I thought I told Palema007 that the network is bad. I can’t see this message clearly. Sorry ma.

Palema007:


As you don forget me where I hide nah... Sheybi it is Magnolia that is distracting you.

Sorry, I can’t see what you wrote clearly. Network is not good.

okuta007:
This must be archived in the Nairaland Hall of Fame as a very sensible post laced with undiluted wisdom - you too much abeg!

Thank you for those kind words.

Palema007:
You better let's go and marry before you turn 60 and your potbelly begins to fall.

You and your hide and seek. You don show today.

porthouse7:
well said. but all ur points are youthful points, wait till u are in ur 40s u will need a companion regardless of ur obvious facts

I know. I wrote all that because it’s good to learn the pros and cons before venturing.

Men must not be unaware of the risks.

For those naija men outside naija, it’s because they think too much and are afraid to love a woman who would use the system to defraud them legally.

For those in naija, it’s for a number of reasons. Naija babes are not loyal. They always lookout for themselves first. Once your usefulness in their lives end, they end the relationship/marriage. Men are trying to avoid that, so they remain single and opt for babymama arrangement if they need kids.

It may also be because the men intend to relocate abroad and they would rather not take their nemesis along. So they resign to a single life.

Thirdly, it could be that some men want to solve certain economic/financial issues before adding the responsibilities of a wife to the load they carry.

Everything here points to the prevalent fact that young Nigerian women do not carry their own weight. Once you ask them out, it’s like they open a ledger for you as a debtor. They use you for your resources then demand to be treated like an equal. Lol. Men are tired of slaving for women.

You see single and even married women online openly asking for trips, perks, gifts and money. It’s almost like every man owes them. You never know who is going to use his money to trigger your wife’s release clause. Even the faithful ones think they must be rewarded with marriage for standing by you while you were struggling. Why would any sane man want to marry such a woman who thinks she’s entitled to his possessions just because she was present while he was struggling without even contributing tangibly to his progress?

So unbalanced.

If marriage was such a sweet deal, more men would embrace it. Many of those who are married were pressured by their parents to get married or were young and blinded by initial infatuation which later faded away and revealed the true nature of their wives.

Women have turned this marriage thing into a punishment for men. It shouldn’t be so.

Men are the ones truly settling down. They settle and put up with broke, unworthy women who offer nothing but drama and the possibility of paternity fraud and strife in a family that was fine until the man brought in a wife.

Marriage should be sweet but naija women fail to realise that both partners MUST contribute to a happy marriage, not just the man.

So the husband has small sense after all. Thought he would continue to humiliate himself in that farce of a marriage.

This is what happens when a man marries a semi-retired hœ. A national embarrassment.

If that guy were my friend I would have unfriended him after that shameful outing with the useless Boma. He was smiling with the man who chop his wife on national tv. Weak man.

This breakfast has plenty pepper.

There are better ways to break up. Perhaps he was afraid you wouldn’t take no for an answer so he went ahead anyway.

SmartProf:
Mrs. Obiano has entertained the public by displaying concentrated foolishness. Hopefully she can start making skits to gain followers...but I pity her face since it appears her comedy skits will always win her hot slaps.

Damn! You harsh o.

Stargurl20:
Lol... Ok.

Good

Men and women are different. I hereby cancel all the rubbish you wrote for men and endorse all the facts you wrote for women.

BigBashiru:
I actually hv changed my mind and agree that it might well be a false claim.....

I see

Witch-hunt. EFCC is just a hound dog for the ruling party.