₦airaland Forum

jcross19:
are you want to fight corruption? You are joking sir!!!!. Last two months ago when there was a alleged corruption in the office FIFA president , sep blatter had to resigned to protect his dignity and allow FBI to investigate the office but he was later recalled back to the office, that's how good citizen who love his country and respect his reputation suppose to do but average african especially nigerian man are greedy and corrupt.

For how many years have people been accusing Blatter of corruption? He only resigned this year after almost 17 years in office. Is that an example of dignity? Blatter could no longer cover up his glaring corrupt dealings.

So if you get appointed as a commissioner, all I need to get you out of office is to level a baseless accusation at you? Really?

Saraki and his juvenile tactics. Trying to clear his wife's name by smearing another person.

Slash your salaries if you want to show concern for taxpayers money.

The senators consume too much of the scarce resources in Nigeria.

Lol. After 72 attempts? That guy was just having fun. He didn't face his work. Make dem jail am abeg.

A cheat is a cheat. The gender of her partner is inconsequential.

NotNairalandi:
Its not good to pay back evil with Evil! Learn to forgive one another.give him the Job if he is qualified!

When there are other qualified candidates with better manners? Not a chance.

Who would want to employ a person who can one day tell clients to Fùck off?

xynerise:
The wise one among you has picked something from my post. Remain in your foolishness

Lol. You're wasting your time with these people. The most interesting is how they spell lying as "lieing". So amusing.

Only thieves would get angry cos Buhari is probing looters. Do you want people to get away with corruption? If he doesn't clamp down hard on it, corruption will consume us.

Look at the godless countries. See how they prosper. They are human beings like us. They don't even care about religion but they combat corruption like a plague. Anyway, I'm glad Buhari is president. No amount of disgruntled social media warriors can stop him from imparting sanity into the public sector.

Untainted007:
On the 30th of July 2015, wen my wife had our first baby. A boy, I was in the labour room, encouraging her that she can make it, she can do it. Women needs encouragement, prayers, and supports when they are in labour because it's a scenario of life and death. And more so, when men does it makes them to appreciate their wife more, to knw wot they passed thru for been a woman.

That's right bro. You deserve a medal of honour.

Lol. Can you blame the men? If you exert yourself so much to get a lady to marry you, I'm sure her worth would have multiplied to astronomical levels in your eyes. Wow what a wonderful specimen! Then you marry her and discover that she is just like everybody else - simply human. There is not much chivalry left to shower on her as she is no longer intriguing.

If a lady plays hard to get to the extreme like most naija ladies do, using her feminine wiles to manipulate her suitor into pleasing her every whim, he would certainly grow exhausted after marriage. Why should he continue the charade anyway? He has hit the target. And if she came at a very high price to him emotionally and financially then she had better retain her angelic intrigue everyday of her married life. If not, she'd look like an overpriced property that cannot live up to expectation.

I don't think it's realistic for a man to continue playing prince charming especially if the lady gave him much tough time during courtship. You can't kill yasef na.

She would cheat on you with her girlfriend. Believe me, cheating doesn't hurt because of the gender of the 3rd party. No. It hurts because of the divided devotion. Can you stand the fact that your babe is in love with someone else whether male or female? It's the same level of hurt.

Forgive her but do not marry her for your peace of mind. You don't want to be conducting paternity test every time your wife gives birth.

She is only acting remorseful because you caught her and not because she truly felt bad. I'd advice to dump her àss and when her mother asks why, you should tell her the truth. Cos a girl like that would lie to her parents about why you broke up.

The annoying thing is that she continued to contact the guy after cheating. That shows she would gladly cheat over and over again.

Why would you even think you could eye your lecturer's wifey? Be careful o.

If you harbor such fear/anxiety in your mind bro, you're only feeding it. I think you should not tempt yourself. Especially if she is good looking. Don't take the job.

BuddhaPalm:
I am certain he wrote in response someone mentioning him.

But trust people to quite him without context, for obvious reasons.

Lol. You know fans. Dem too like to dey cause fight. He should not respond to stuff like that.

M.I could have just kept mute. Nobody would have known he was intimidated. Now we are certain he was.

One lesson in life is "there is always someone better."

PunkyVeer:
Maybe other ladies do that. But I really don't care about a man's grooming routine. I'm not his mother. However, I do expect him not to change too much. Yanno, I expect him to keep the look he had when I met him. I don't date dirty guys so he must continue being clean, smell good & that's about it. That's not too much to ask, is it?

One thing many guys don't really care about is hair extension. We tend to appreciate your real hair more. It feels natural, you can bathe it if you like and it's easy on your pocket. That is not too much to ask. Is it?

PunkyVeer:
No way. Look, I don't even use that much fake hair but that's my decision. Now I'm not gonna have some dude come into my life, lay down the law & tell me what not to do with MY hair. That simply is NOT gonna happen. Period. I don't need a style "expert". I need a man. Stay in your lane that's what I say!

but you ladies are always quick to tell a guy to trim his beard or go for a haircut. We don't complain.

PunkyVeer:
Even when it comes to HAIR? Nah, he can keep the love. That's way too controlling for my liking. Ain't nobody is gonna put a break & limit my jooj. Not for love, world peace or money. Bye boo!

but I thought your love was forever. You should love him no matter what. It's only hair after all.

Media need this sometimes. Una fit cause gbege just to sell news. Sensational people.

Adaeze003:
If you find her, you'll be bored AF.

Lol. I'm a boring guy already. She can't possibly bore me any further.

Our elders say: "The more, the merrier"

Thank you

PunkyVeer:
It's not really an issue but I don't think I'd wanna be with someone that's completely against something. I wanna have my options & be free. He's obviously not "the one". Next!

...Singing

"Where is the love?"

How can you be free to do whatever you want and still be in a relationship? There must be compromise, sacrifice, tolerance, etc. So baby you gotta lose that hair right now.

I'm not going on that trip any longer.

It has to be true. Ladies would kill themselves if a week goes by without a guy admiring them.

segxi1960:
And I just found out because her friend posted the picture on facebook.

Well... I am off to bed.

Bro. You took it well. I respect that. At least you're not the one getting married to a lady who had a secret guy right up to her wedding day. At least you don't have to worry later on if your children are really yours. You certainly won't be the one to avoid her if you guys meet at the mall or wherever.

Hey you know what? You got the better part of the deal.

That's right. The guy tore it up like a boss. Who's the daddy now? When a babe gives you crazy attitude you eclipse it.

We love women who won't give us headaches and drama and who don't get jealous unnecessarily. But sadly such women don't exist.

Nairaland users. Please be nice. Don't consume him.

How can you compare the two scenario? Bringing out boobz is different. Besides it's church! You want her to distract innocent men during the service?

And that's how you walked right into her cage. Ask her directly: "why is it easy for you to ask for stuff but not easy for you to say yes?"

Don't be an ATM to her.

Bro you are setting yourself up for more heartbreak. If she has moved on, kindly do the same. Don't let her take advantage of your lingering feelings.

PunkyVeer:
Of course you do. Are you saying you're not appreciative, Afro?

Baby I'm the most appreciative man on earth. or close to

I will pick A and contribute to her life meaningfully. Nowadays, plastic surgery can make anyone beautiful. Education has no age limit as well. However, respect cannot be taught to an adult.