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helinues:
Some ladies sometimes can be mischievous.

If they like you but you don't like them, some won't mind to blackmail you.

Talking from experiences

bestofnollywood:
An employee of ARM Pension has come forward with allegations of sexual assault against a senior executive during an office party...

helinues:
We are in the 21st century, she should be able to have some evidences which can be posted online even if the so called MD want to use his power

BitterTruth0001:
Anytime you hear about allegations of rape whether in Nigeria or abroad , check well, more than 80% of the time , it’s usually people of a particular tribe …


Likewise , anytime you hear about foreign drug offences , it’s usually people of another particular tribe .

helinues:
Go to police station and report

I called my family and informed them of this. I have had a rape kit test done at Island maternity on Friday. I made a formal report at the Ikoyi Police station on Saturday morning. My private part was bruised and I have been in pain. I have also formally reported to the Head of HR, who is my boss with the MD and another Executive Director in copy. My life has been disrupted badly. I am a single mother with two kids and my mental and physical state has been impacted by this incident and I need to take care and show up for my kids in all of this.

bestofnollywood:
An employee of ARM Pension has come forward with allegations of sexual assault against a senior executive during an office party...

Dear Opeyemi,

My name is Ogochukwu Odogwu (formerly Temitayo-Omotere), 07062276183. I am 36 years of age and I work at ARM Pension as an HR Business Partner.

I would like to officially report that I was sexually assaulted i.e. I was abducted and raped by Abisola Onigbogi, ED technical at ARM Pension (08033008238) on the night of July 18, 2024 when we had the an office party. Abisola Onigbogi of ARM Pension, No 5 Mekuwen road, off Oyinkan Abayomi drive, Ikoyi had penetrative sexual intercourse with me, without my consent.[/b]

The assault was done at a certain hotel I woke up to find myself at called Limeridge hotel at Chevron drive, Lagos.

On the evening of the office party, just like every other staff member at the party I had food and drinks. I had mixed a small amount of Jameson whiskey and coke. This whiskey bottle was opened by Francisca Azie on the table I was seated at with other colleagues.

However, being part of the planning committee I had to stand up from my table at intervals to coordinate the serving of food and at such times left my drink, food and other personal effects in the care of Damilola Oluyori (07085757685) who is a colleague and one I am very friendly with.

My last memory of the party was at about 7.30,8ish. However, Dami claimed that I mentioned to her that I was tipsy and could not drive. So she offered to find a way for me to go home and then approached Abisola Onigbogi to drop me off since he lived around the same axis as me. I live at Femi Okunnu Phase 4 estate Jakande lekki. Along with the Jameson whiskey which was like ¼ of a plastic cup, I had one cocktail from the bar that is the last I remembered.

I lost total memory of every conversation and activity as my last memory of the night was from 7.30pm. My entire memory was wiped out which was very unusual even for someone who might have drunk excessively which I didn’t and have quite a good alcohol tolerance from precedent. Next thing I know I wake up and realize I am in a room fully undressed. I look around and I realize it was a hotel. I find my clothes in a pile and my wig, my phone and my handbag.

I checked the time it was around 3am and my private parts were sore and felt like someone had invaded me. I walked out of the room, looked around for a clue of the name of the hotel to even have a sense of where I was, I saw the name Limeridge hotel, I googled it and I found that it’s on chevron drive. I ask the receptionist and security man to help me get a taxi so I can go home. I further checked my whatsapp messages and I saw that Absiola the perpetrator had sent me a message that he was with my laptop bag and ID Card. Damilola had sent me a couple of messages that sounded frantic wanting to know if I was okay and if Abisola dropped me at home. I sent her a message to tell her that I do not understand why my memory is wiped out and it's unusual.

When it was morning, I tried to call Abisola twice and he didn’t pick up. I messaged him that I’d like to talk to him and shortly after he called me. When he called I asked him how I ended up in a hotel since I was in his car as my colleagues said and he was to drop me at home. He said he asked me for my address and I was incoherent and so he took me to that hotel. I further asked why I was naked when I woke up and he said he didn’t know that he just dropped me and left. I later spoke to my colleagues Damilola and Odera because I needed to find my car and I was told that my car was safe in the office.

Damilola further mentioned that she sent videos of me and her dancing at the party to Abisola as he requested her to. I have no recollection of her making any video except for some pictures we had earlier taken at the start of the party and an 11 seconds video. However she shared videos with me this morning of me and her dancing and another colleague was in the video. Again my memory is blanked out on this. I messaged Absiola later on Friday morning to ask how I could get my laptop bag and ID card and he said he had given the security guards in the office to put it in my car.

I went back to the hotel that Friday morning after I dropped off my kids at school and I asked to see the CCTV footage to ascertain when he brought me there and if he really just left after dropping me. The receptionist first confirmed that he paid for the hotel room at 22.05, showed me evidence and then went ahead to show me the footage, I was seen leaning on him and he was holding my shoes and a hand on my back guiding me into the hotel and hotel room at about 15.52 and was seen leaving at 17.36. Now this time I am quoting is because the CCTV time in the hotel was not West African time, WAT but the time interval was about 1 hour 45 minutes he was in the hotel room with me.

I called my family and informed them of this. I have had a rape kit test done at Island maternity on Friday. I made a formal report at the Ikoyi Police station on Saturday morning. My private part was bruised and I have been in pain. I have also formally reported to the Head of HR, who is my boss with the MD and another Executive Director in copy. My life has been disrupted badly. I am a single mother with two kids and my mental and physical state has been impacted by this incident and I need to take care and show up for my kids in all of this.

I sent him another message that Friday morning asking why he didn’t ask Dami or any of my other colleagues for my address if truly he had the intention to drop me at my house which he had no response to. I did not remotely have any conversation with Abisola Onigbogi or give any consent to be involved with him in any remotely personal way. He asked me at the party to come sit with him and I refused and sat with my colleagues who I was comfortable with.

He took me against my will, most likely put spiked my drink with the help of someone or by himself and took me to a destination I didn’t know or want to be and raped me. It is beyond sad that I could not be safe at an office function and instead my whole world has been overturned

I am on some very strong medication given to me at Island maternity, antibiotics and HIV Post exposure prophylaxis and have requested some time from work to recuperate. I believe he is a serial rapist and I might not be the first person he would have done this too.

I am requesting that Lagos state take this case up fully and this predator who has tried to ruin my life and cause me this trauma be persecuted to the full extent of the law, he and whoever aided him.

Thank you for taking time to read this.

deji17:
People that have failed at everything in life will be here castigating Dangote who is trying to reduce Nigeria dependency on the west, thereby removing the shame of the Blackman
They cry and shout monopoly as if anybody stops them from striving to achieve greatness apart from envy and bitterness in their soul. To these lowlifes carrying drugs is success in life.

ogashman:
I don't think sane people will believe this list after jamb said they have stopped putting out names of top scorers.......doing a 360 all of a sudden means something is fishy.

yinkeys:
Do you know the meaning of most ?
Do you know what it takes to be a con artistry ?
Market traders, teachers, doctors, carpenters, cobblers and you cool down to write this
You obviously don’t know a thing about global politics and who the real criminals are

Munamu:
Nigeria is not lagos awon team tinubu

RodgersAkpafu:
Thank you very much!!!!

this is EXACTLY what I have been trying to tell people
Mental laziness is why am average Nigerian
Nigerian blames Nigeria for the state of Nigeria
Nigeria and erroneously think that dissolution will solve the problem.
This deluded thinking is ESPECIALLY common in the South East......

But as long as our culture and mentality is wrong, if you like split Africa into 100
it's gonna be the same damn mess

kYjelly2:
and we could have made our nation into such a wonderful place where tourists would be dying to visit, but it's best we separate peacefully at this point.

Men, imagine a Nigeria with good weather (relatively speaking) all year round, with almost every inch of road paved, with no open gutters, no corrupt police, a 911 number that worked, Law and Order on the streets...

Then add the African culture (secret sauce) on top of all of that and you would have had a BANGER

I feel like crying sometimes, then you see awon Henlinues reveling in the ashes of what could have been, sigh

crackcrack:
Good morning, guys. I am having a dilemma, and I need URGENT advice, please.

My trip is in a few days, and I have already booked a hotel room for my entire stay. I haven't paid yet; I will be paying at the property. I informed my friend that I will be visiting, and he suggested I come stay at his place, which is a few hours away from London. The plan is for me to spend just a few nights in my London hotel and spend the rest of my trip at his house.

My issue is I did not mention this friend on my application because I was not planning on staying with him. I fully intended to stay in the hotel, but his offer came up, and I thought it might be nice to spend some time with him.

I am thinking of changing my hotel booking to just the first few days, but I am worried that if I show up at Heathrow will a hotel reservation that doesn't cover the whole trip, it might pose an issue with Border officials.

The most important thing to me is to not get harassed or bothered at the point of entry. But I also don't want to have to pay for a hotel when I have an offer to stay with somebody for free.

How can I navigate this? Please advise. Thanks.

themanderon:
I know those guys did travel there but did they interfere with their pricing them? Did they challenge the monopoly of these guys? Nay.

themanderon:
Are you aware this guy broke the monopoly these powerful international airlines enjoyed for years and years ago? Do you expect them to be happy with him?
Then Imagine the massive promotion in reputation Harrys visit gave to Airpeace. I mean he left off using the more known airlines to fly airpeace. These guys are very green with envy and they will throw all spanners into the wheel of airpeace.
Expect more negative press against Airpeace in the coming days. Shebi their tabloids have labeled him a wanted fugitive in America? I was watching Sky News Australia and these guys were just taking great pleasure tearing down Harry and Meghan trying to find faults with who they met and what they said. It's just plain malicious journalism.
Expect more fallouts from the visit.

caracas:
Yes , your posit might be correct to some extent, but why make it selective in Lagos? Why have they not gone to demolish houses n structures in agege, Lagos island , obalende, munshin, surulere ikotun n environs … These are yoruba dominated or evenly spread areas ,but various governments act like this slums do not exist. Instead they go to Igbo dominated areas like lekki, festac okoko etc to demolish.
The isolo- jakande -ikotun road has been in a very sorry state n in dire need of expansion, but the government has refused to do the needful cos of the synagogue church of nations.Same government that wasted no time in destroying a monumental landmark like the landmark center.
Why has the so called " overriding public interest theory " not applied with the synagogue church?
We know exactly what the government in Lagos n Abuja is doing, they chose to apply the law to victimize its enemies n ignore same laws to Favour their friends…..

Paraman:
So they no fit apply for prepaid meter for more than 10 years now

emkz:
Peter Obi did gragra thinking he could go all the way alone.

He has learnt his lessons.

Atiku saw himself as the president and underestimated other persons like Obi, Kwankwaso, Wike and Tinubu. Atiku doesn't seem to have learnt a thing.

Historically, no one becomes Nigeria's president on his own. In 1999, Obasanjo was installed by the military. In 2007, Obasanjo helped Yar'adua. In 2011, Jonathan was helped by most Nigerians who did not appreciate the way he was treated. In 2015, Buhari was helped by Tinubu, Amaechi, et al. In 2023, Kwankwaso, Atiku and Obi helped Tinubu win by splitting their votes.

Now, some people are shouting themselves hoarse that Tinubu bribed INEC and never won the election.

If Obi or Atiku believe this, they would ensure no one bribes INEC and still try to win from different parties. That they want to align is an indication that they realized their disunity cost them the election.

It must be recalled that Atiku in his last ill-fated press conference had called on Obi and Kwankwaso to join him in opposition. Obi seems to be heeding the call.

Dear Obidients, has Peter Obi even explained to you people why he made that visit? Would you still support him if he deputizes Atiku?

CountinBlessins:
OMG

What the hell? Correctional services using billions to build a hotel in Abuja ?

OMG, it's high time we destroy this country and kill all these politicians!!!

These bastards don't take the citizens as human beings

They don't respect you or think you deserve to tested like a human being

How dare they try this is any other country ? Even Ghana Rwanda Cameruon!!

Correctional services dare not build a hotel for what ?

And that useless bastard Tinubu is there ?
See all Nigerians are fools!! Until you realize the only way to get a better country is only by killing all these politicians!!! I mean use matches and kill them and their families they will never allow Nigeria get better!!

Nigeria can't get better through Peter obi, because they will never allow him enter there . If you like scream and campaign obedient from now till 10 years they will rig each election to make sure their fellow their enters there so chopping continues


Make Una dey there dey wait for Messiah. Your gun and machete is your Messiah. Start killing them from local government counsellor to house reps to ministers to governors don't stop.

They built a hotel were they will be taking female prisoners they like to lodge instead of serving , while funding the hotel.with stolen money

Burn this country down so a new one can rise.

The money they use to build this rubbish can help with so many things .

Stupid people waiting for Peter obi. They will never ever allow him because they know he will stop their chopping. Instead of him to enter they will kill him

caracas:
Yes , your posit might be correct to some extent, but why make it selective in Lagos? Why have they not gone to demolish houses n structures in agege, Lagos island , obalende, munshin, surulere ikotun n environs … These are yoruba dominated or evenly spread areas ,but various governments act like this slums do not exist. Instead they go to Igbo dominated areas like lekki, festac okoko etc to demolish.
The isolo- jakande -ikotun road has been in a very sorry state n in dire need of expansion, but the government has refused to do the needful cos of the synagogue church of nations.Same government that wasted no time in destroying a monumental landmark like the landmark center.
Why has the so called " overriding public interest theory " not applied with the synagogue church?
We know exactly what the government in Lagos n Abuja is doing, they chose to apply the law to victimize its enemies n ignore same laws to Favour their friends…..

jmoore:
You open mouth waa!! Read, you no go read.

The demolition is for structures illegally built on lands owned by Delta state government.

Cutecharlz:
May his soul rest in peace. Boxing is a very risky sport to dive into...

UHLmoving:
1,500 ÷ 6.7

= 224 per unit.

Op how is your power supply?

Do you get the 20 - 24 hours daily?


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