frozen70:


If you feel hurt about your mom life style outside marriage,
Jow do you feel about the disgraceful act of irresponsible life style of your dad, who has lost his glory as a father and a husband

Well I think you should just leave your mom alone pls, she has been through heart breaks from your dad and her joy is now outside, she is fighting for her life and happiness

I will not advice you to confront her since you are not able to challenge your dad to come back home and keep her warm

Once a woman cant get the love she craved for in her marriage especialy from her husband, then don't blame her for seeking for such else where because you don't know the options she has before taking such decisions

Loneliness kills fast

You should be more worried about your dad's life style because I bet you, at old age your dad will get his rewards from your mum and trust women she will pay him bitterly, by then all those small small girls and women he is going about with, have already been done with him

Since your mom is working and an independent woman, am sure you know by now that money is not your mom's problems. But affection, thats what she is looking for.
She has blood running in her life.

You want her to sink into depression in her marriage while your dad is enjoying life outside marriage

Think twice and leave her alone

Just learn from their mistakes and be a more responsible and committed husband and father so that your wife will remain loyal and faithful to you

Someone has advised you to sit her down to discuss this with her. I see no reason why a 50 years old woman should be sharing her nude pictures with young men outside just because her husband is not there for her. That is indecency!
Let her walk out of the marriage if she can rather than flirting around with guys. Remember that she got her life to live and be happy.

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gidgiddy:


One thing I will never understand about Yoruba's iz why they care about IPOB? IPOB wants to leave Nigeria, and they are not taking an inch of Yoruba land with them

There are Yoruba nation agitators seeking Oduduwa Republic, have ever seen any Igbo against them?

If Yorubas want to go, they are free to go, they will even find that most either dont care, or even support it

But as soon as an Igbo man says he wants to go, the reaction of many Yorubas becomes warlike, why?

Cant Yorubas do without Igbos? God knows I have never heard nor seen any Igbo who said he cant do without Yorubas

Nonsense write-up

Ablemed:


Cuz of just two men's arrogance in Russia and Ukraine, thousands of lives have been lost and more are dying and is still gonna die. Naira design is just a scratch to what these folks would put Nigerians thr cuz of personal beef or ego

Powers are fighting Tinubu and would do anything whatsoever to stop him and the Naira design is just one of the steps

For your information, redesigning the NAIRA cannot affect the elites, they are more powerful than what you can imagine. Unlike you and me, they won't step out of their homes to get the newly designed notes. What you know is what you know...

Why won't he shift ground...does he own Nigeria? Or maybe he wants us to be queueing for the new naira notes the same way we are for fuel.....not possible my friend

Nigeriafirstlad:
In 2019 one certain politician in Lagos took two bullion van to his house some days before election even when he wasn't contesting.

I can bet you, with this redesigned naira note, where will he see bullion van of the new noaira notes? Which bank will openly give him two bullion van of the new naira notes this time around?? To be sincere, Emefiele has insisted on the deadline and has no plans to shift his ground

This policy will affect the masses, but it will destroy one man completely, no two ways about it.

One Man Action Making ALL Citizens To Suffer....

What's the total population of IMO STATE as a whole? Hmmm 5 million match of unregistered VOTERS!

blamingthedevil:
Mammoth crowd as Obidient pull 5million Match for Peter Obi in Imo state

One million match of unregistered VOTERS!

CSTRR:
True.

Many sensible yorubas don't like Tinubu.
And for good reasons.

Atiku is no a go area.
If they left tinubu, there is no way they are voting atiku.

Peter obi seems to be their favourite option.

Wait till when campaigns start proper. Campaigns go a long way changing minds of the electorates on candidates contesting an election.

What we are experiencing now is just pre-campagn opinion polls.

Who is invading who? It's Rusia that invaded Ukraine not the other way. Ukraine is only defending their territories from the Russians.

mekonglobal:
I don't get this, how can Ukrain and all make us believe that Ukrain is having an upper hand in this war while they couldn't even shell a single tree in the land of Russia talk more of a building?

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The Russians are no match for them on ground battle because it's their Land. The casualties suffered so far by the Ukrainians are through airstrikes by the Russians.

quote author=jaytee01 post=111200764] Honestly, the figures are understated, mostly by your angelic icon.

Reports, which should be believed, state that the Ukrainian freedom fighters have killed more than 100000 Russian soldiers. Most of Russia's military hardware has been destroyed. The only problem is that major Ukrainian cities are gradually being reduced to rubble and millions of Ukrainians are falling over themselves to run away from the country.[/quote]

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Richard5:
Edai trade is a scam. If you have not invested do not invest in it.. They have stopped paying a lot of people. They are only paying newcomers on board to appear as if it is still real.

I believe she is still taking your calls or responding to your chats. If YES, pls give her sometime to get over whatever that may be bothering her at the moment or if you are in good terms with her siblings, you could go ahead by asking.

IF NO, there is fire on the mountain for you to deal with... handle this your own way.

Kelvin2022:
Good morning guys, please I don't understand my girlfriend anymore she visited me on Sunday we spend enough time gist and watch movies before she left and no sex was attached because of her determination of not having sex for now and I respect her for that. Yesterday I visited her she ignored me outside for 5minutes before opening door and she didn't even hug me as usual. I ask her what is wrong she ignored me I keep asking her she said she don't know that she doesn't want to see anyone all day . I left and close the door. I can't just understand it at all why a lady will be unhappy she won't tell the guy she loves I keep thinking deeply about I can't just get it. Who could have made her upset? Did she have mood swing?

Pls read well...why would she still be breastfeeding 2 years + 3 months children?

OlawaleBammie

post=109421530:
Ur wife no get any work??

Is ur wife so idle??

She no dey contribute??

Hin own na just to open leg anytym necessary abi??

Am sorry to say that ooh...



Modified:

Sorry, i didnt hear wen u said she's breastfeeding, so if she's has bn contributing before she put to bed well, wait and roju till she wean her babies finish.

Take it easy guy, nothing is wrong with you. 10 years or more is not what both of you can forget. As it is affecting you, so she is....

Consider relocating if you can...that might help you. Block her on your social media accounts if you are self determined to erase her memories. Believe me, it's not going to be easy.

Guy, what's the essence of bringing your matter here when you knew you would be attacking some people here because they advised you.

Don't worry, your wife has just started, sooner or later she will start selecting or rather blocking you from even your male friends.

Watch out, this is coming soon...

Myexdisturbs:
Can you believe my wife has made me not to have even a single female friend. I don't mean colleagues oo. Chai I have lost all female friends and blocked them on social media because of her

I believe God can do it. If you are willing, why not go for a deliverance session. I once attented a 3 day delieverance at MFM when I had serious issues, and God answered my prayers miraculously.

Please pack well my brother....there is no love between you guys, just mere infatuation. I will advise you search within yourself if what you felt for this angel of yours is real. Don't call me a prophet, but what I am seeing right now is that you fell attracted to this babe simply because of her beauty, and you never wanted to let go. Do you know what the yorubas call 'Animashaun'? that's exactly who this babe is, just eat yours and clean mouth, and allow her to attend to the next customer.

davedy:
Good evening Nairalanders

I'm sorry for bringing up to this platform but is of necessity for me to bring it . I've been hearing it from people but I don't know how they do feel about it. I've heard stories about how a lady cheating on her guy and a man cheating, but all these stories I do see them as fantasy or something that is not real. I've heard about a lady killing herself because of her boyfriend and I've heard about a boy taking sniper because of a lady.
Recently, I was in love with a lady in my office and this lady she is 35 years of age, I am 37 years of age and I asked out, we started dating after a period of time, she told me about herself, after all in the place of her work, she has dated about three different persons that she had sex with them. People in the office do gossip about her because of how waryward life. They do call her prositute. With all that, I still love her. Before I came on board, she told me about her neighbour and all what they've done like touching and kissing was the highest they have done and I said ok. We started dating and working towards marriage. At a time, we got intimate. I never knew that she was still seen her neighbor. She do go to his room to charge her phone. I never knew that they were having sex and she was having sex with me. she always claim that I'm the only person she is having sex with but I have this kind of feeling that she is cheating on me. I do always argue and challenged her faithfulness and at the end , she will put her.a defensive mode accusing me that I didn't trust her. Some days ago, when i challenged her with evidence if cheating. she confessed to me about how she and her neighbour been having sex and I was heartbroken, that night, I slept in a house I couldn't get it, I never knew that I love her so much, that was a period I knew that I was deeply in love with her. I feel like dying, I feel like everything is over. I love her so much, I want to marry her. Few days ago, I travelled to meet with my parents and discussed my marriage issues with then. I told my girl about it but she didn't blive. With all these, she didn't feel remorseful. I wish I had never met her. I am in pain.. What should I do? I am a confused man now.


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Wordsfrombimpe:


First of all

Which of the guys are you?

Good Guy or Bad Guy

Second ?

Do you have a female friend?

Have she stayed at your place for a night ?

Did you Bleep her or you rape her?

What did you do?

If you answer then I know!

I stand on my grounds

We have good men , great guys even some that we call bad guys trust me dont judge the book by the cover

This male bestie are amazing and reserve they have their relationship they respect

They are not community penis owners they respect their dick

Why did she lie to him in the first instance? Pls ask yourself this question Bimpe......and I am very sure that if the guy didn't use his initiative by writing to her in affirmation that she wasn't at home that night, imagine how she could have hidden it from him. Women's hearts are so flexible I repeat.

[quote author=Wordsfrombimpe post=92998838]


'Most guys are reserve and discipline'

This is not a true statement Bimpe, you better use the words 'some guys' and not 'most guys' because using this, you have assumed that over 50% of guys are reserved and discipline, which I stand to disagree. Also note that women's heart are so so flexible, and the qualities you think you see in your guy or babe that you are dying for, another guy or babe would have or even more. The error in their relationship was the openness. I really don't know the kind of date she went till 10pm that she couldn't go home, knowing full well the present condition of our dear state.

Binhamid:
Good evening, I stay in a different state from my girlfriend and we see like once in 3 months. She has a tight work schedule and I also do. We also try to make 3 weeks out of December our mini-honeymoon each year. Everything was good because we communicate and tell each other everything. Even if I hang out with female friends or go out on dates due to boredom I do tell her. The one time I kissed a girl due to the fact that I was drunk I told her and I apologized. We had a long fight but we settled. She also tells me everything even when she go on dates. Because I used to tell her who she can go out with and when she should come back, I encourage her to do this because I always feel she might be bored sometimes and male company is okay as long as they are reasonable fellows. So lastweek she went out with this fellow she mentioned briefly to me about, and when I called her in the night I noticed she was acting somehow. Usually we talk for two hours every night and she never declines video call? That day she called me earlier than usual, we start our call by 10pm and she called me by 8pm and she told me she will call back. She called again by 11:00 and we did not talk for more than 7 min. When I requested for video call she declined. That was when I knew she was not home. So I texted her that I knew she is not home. She called me back the second day that she just saw my text that she is sorry and that it was because of curfew that she stayed at the guy's place and all. That she does not know how to tell me blah blah blah. So I broke up with her. And she has been crying and saying sorry since. I still love her, and I actually believe her story a bit, but I'm still angry. Am I overreacting should I take her back or leave her to enjoy her life.

This thing no be fiction na something wey dey vex and pain me. If you talk rubbish I go use the vex curse you.

Guy.....na child's play I count wetin you explained above. What!!! what kinda play is that? If you go out with girls, you go come back come narrate how it goes.....I no just gbadun your story.....so so childish. Don't you know you are risking your relationship by allowing such open system? Abeg think well cos we all make mistakes. If you think it's something you can live with then accept her back but know quite well that the trust may not be there again.

Zzor:
make sure you stop this taboo he's committing, even if it means involving his wife.What is wrong with some men sef,no shame, busy exposing his organ to everything available shame shame shame

What kind of advice is this nah? Why will you say he should involve his wife....be wise man!

Inbtw
I don't like involving myself in people's relationship plus this guys have been together for 5years before I even knew him.
She was even the one that loan him money to add to his while we wanted to rent this apartment.

You have said it all above, just mind your business...simple!

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kelvinatkins:

I am really surprised with the way you handle your family affair. When you gave birth to your kids, who conducted the naming ceremony was it a Pastor or Imam? Actually am having the same issue and mine is somehow complicated apart from being Christian and Muslim, it’s also Igbo and Yoruba affair.

Usually when it's like this, the husband take charge of every other responsibilities after their marriage, which would definitely go the way of the bride's family. Once their child enters your house, you take charge, though you may give only her freedom of her faith and believe.

Please try to understand that faith and believe are a very strong bonds. Somebody that is a faithful follower of Mohammed, it will be difficult for such to drop his/her religion to follow Jesus (vice versa), except on very rare cases. Now, what you both need is tolerance. I mean, can you allow your wife to practice her religion in marriage, while you practice yours, in such a way that one will not disturb the other. I know some people will ask for my head here for saying this but, this is the fact that you must face cos love is very strong if it's genuine.

Meet with her parent, and give them the option of giving their daughter freedom to practice her religion and see how their reaction would be. If they support that, it means you will do all marriage rites and ceremony in their own way since they are the one giving out their daughter in matrimony.

The truth is bitter my brother! In my family, my dad attends Pentecostal church, while my mom, before her death, used to worship with white garment church, and I know very well that some christian men/ladies cannot marry someone from white garment churches.

So, if you are ready to compromise, it will work well for you. WE ARE SERVING ONLY ONE GOD, but in different way.
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History555:
I need candid advise pls no insults. I got married 2years ago, of recent i noticed my wife has been spending so much time online. Not that its unusual to me because i know shes kind of addicted to her phone.
But suspicion made me pick the phone on several occasions but it was paasworded. Finally i was able to discover the password after many trials and to my surprise she has been chatting steadily, morning and night with this guy.
Not only that the guy calls her sweet names and she responds. Even to the extent of telling her he wished they were married. Her response showed she was receptive to the idea. Then she asked him why he did not make a move since and he blamed his financial status.
In summary i hve seen enough, though i hve neva confronted her. My plan is to inform my people b4 calling the marriage off.

Guy, there is no point keeping quite on this because if you do, you will keep having sleepless night over this. On other hand, you should not change the way you relate with her as this could be regarded as childish act....
You, as the head of the family should know the best way to handle this. Mind you, avoid taking the matte out to other members of the family for now.

dru23:


Funny enough this is what I was explaining to the bakery /purewater guy earlier on. Basically has a uber driver you get a lot of chances to meet people and network.. It is up to the driver to make the best out of it .... You people for nairaland no dey respect my views at all ..when dru23 speaks they talk say I smoke something again

Abi o! Just only well utilized! Sebi nah someone for this thread talk say e go prefer to sit inside his car nd watch his customer arranging luggage for booth.
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