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[size=28pt]DOES SHE LOVE ME?
NOT DOES SHE LOVES ME.[/size]

Are you an Igbo OMATA trader?

Well, I doth not know if she still loveth thee .

I recommend the Does She Love Me Quiz
Take our Does She Love Me Quiz, and find out exactly how much she likes you.
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Do you need to ask?

When you sleep together naked when making or not even making love,

Image laundering will not hide the rot of graft in Rivers state.

All the governors of the ruling party have cases at the EFCC.
 
"Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You are like whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but on the inside are full of dead men's bones and everything unclean. "
~ << Matthew 23:27 >>

Omolola1:
why do i think this guy is frustrated? poster, your theory is stewpid! *no offence*

Frustrated?
Your knowlwdge of Engliish is poor.

MAJORITY OF NIGERIANS ARE POOR and majority of the single women are millions of unemployed secondary school leavers, unemployed graduates of tertiary institutions and underpaid blue collar and white collar female workers.
They rely on their boyfriends for many of the so-called comforts of life.
I have seen many poor young women in the ghettos who cannot afford regular sanitary pads.
One young lady complained that when she was so broke that her poor boyfriend could not provide for her, she had to cut her white T-shirt into pices and used the cloth as sanitary pads.

[size=28pt]Even 90 percent of the urban poor women and girls cannot afford off-the-shelf sanitary pads and instead improvise with materials such as grass, leaves, old ,
http://www.path.org/files/TS_update_san_pad.pdf [/size]

If 90% of urban poor women who are always the majority in poor countries cannot even afford regular sanitary pads, then what luxuries would they be able to afford to be comfortable without depending on their men.

You think I am bashing Nigerian babes?
I am addressing a common problem that is a fact of life.

Don't be such a dumbass!

You can come to my office and residence in Lagos and know who is really frustrated.
See http://www.supplemagazine.org/ for my address.

Or see http://www.deutschnigerianischesfilmforum.org/DasTeam.html

I am living my dream  24/7!

Just call my office if you need money for Summer's Eve.

I agree intoto with Sahara Repoters.

Olawoye:
Anti-corruption - F9.

Student is hypocritical on the 'fight against corruption' that he professes.

Ibrahim Shekarau: A catalyst for growth6 Aug 2010 , One of such eminent persons is Malam Ibrahim Shekarau, currently the incumbent governor of Kano State, the land of the famous groundnut ,
www.tribune.com.ng/, /9290-ibrahim-shekarau-a-catalyst-for-growth


I will support and vote for Mallam Ibrahim Shekarau or Muhammadu Buhari.

There is a catastrophic oil spill on Bonny Island in the Niger Delta and the responsible multinational oil companies and our government have not done anything about it.

Read the following:

28 Jun 2010 , There is no such location. , Local fishermen in Bonny, a bustling natural gas island of Rivers State, , According to the fishermen, ''a catastrophic oil spill occured last Saturday , media publication on oil spill in the Niger Delta area of the country, saying some of them are not accurate. ,
www.allvoices.com/, /6181410-oil-spill-sanction-exxonmobil-group-tells-nigerian-govt - United States

[quote author=Ben-10 link=topic=497295.msg6581626#msg6581626 date=1281973125]They only regret when they are caught in the act.
Especially the men. Sometimes, the women regret and even confess.[/quote]The one I caught was not repentant, because she wanted to continue cheating since we were in different states. But I caught the dick sucker.
(should I post her photo if you doubt me?)

It is better and safer to QUIT than to CHEAT.

But, they will not quit, because they are evil.

Mr Cork:
Orinkila, bro u do not chiit coz u dont have a woman,, dont lie!! (no ofense)

I had one for years until she was caught cheating whilst still sleeping with me in unprotected sex.

I would have been killed when I was going to visit her and ran into armed robbers.
She swore that she was faithful until Facebook helped me to catch the AKwa Ibom LovePeddler named QIE.
If I consider the risks I took, I would have shot her. But I have forgiven her.

I have an Igbo woman now and I am happier.

Let us say the truth.

In Nigeria, Nigerian women see and use their TOTO as their greatest asset, because most of them have no confidence in their brains.
They display and portray themselves as sex objects.

Of course the world is full of fools for love.

I have seen such a mumu or mugu for love, but he got her in the end and got her pregnant and then dumped her.

Yes.
We can make a Made in Nigeria car and the project is in progress in Anambra state.

I have tried to collaborate with someone to design a car with multiple brakes.


I know it is possible.

Will you support and vote for Mallam Ibrahim Shekarau as the next President of Nigeria in 2011?

To me any female of 18 and above and attractive is qualified as long as she wants to roll with me in mutual consent.

I have dated older women, both white and black.

My present woman is 19.

I am hot even in my 40s and I prefer pretty and sexy models, actresses and muscians.

What matters most is to be honest and to trust each other.

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Chapter 4

December 21, 2010.

Maitama, Abuja, Nigeria.

It was a busy afternoon in Maitama and most people were feeling Christmassy as many places had glittering decorations of the festive season and popular stores were enjoying the brisk business of Christmas shopping.

A Honda saloon car suddenly screeched to a halt in the middle of the Alvan Ikoku Road and attracted the attention of other road users as another vehicle nearly crashed into the car. Some passersby reacted and paused to see what caused the car to stop abruptly. A woman of average stature who looked middle aged came out of the car with a cheerless grimace. She styled her black hair in cornrows and was dressed in a multicoloured knee-length gown and high-heeled shoes. It was a flat tyre that forced her to stop suddenly in traffic. She grunted as she looked at the problem. It was about 15.00 in the afternoon.

Push your car out of the road!
You are blocking others!
Madam, if you no fit drive, go get driver oh! She ignored what other people were saying as she went to the booth of her car.

As she opened the booth, a Land Rover jeep was driven to the roadside behind her car.
What’s the problem? The man driving the jeep asked her.
I have a flat, she replied.

The man did not hesitate before coming out of his jeep to offer her a helping hand.
She regarded the tall and slender fair skinned man with shaved head and a thin moustache. He was in blue long sleeved shirt and blue denim trousers and leather boots. He had bushy eyebrows and dark blue eyes. She also noticed the gap in his front teeth. He looks like a very confident ladies man, she thought.
Let me help you with that, he said and helped her to bring out the spare tyre and the jack from the booth. Something punctured it, he said as he examined the flat tyre. She bent down to look as he pointed at it.
A sharp object on the road must have done it, she said.
He nodded and soon changed the flat tyre. He brought out a plastic bottle of water from his jeep and used the water to rinse the dirt from his hands and then sighed.
Thank you, she said gratefully with a cheerful smile.
My pleasure madam, he said with a pleasant grin.
She extended her slim right hand for a handshake and as they shook hands he could see that she was a pretty lady with fine dentition. He found her very attractive, but thought that she must be married even though he did not see any wedding ring on her fingers.
You can call me Abba Babbi, he said.
I am Uwem, she said. She fetched her business card from a handbag in her car. Here’s my card.
He collected it and soon entered his jeep and left. She entered her car and drove off thanking God for the Good Samaritan. But why did he not give me his own card. Abba sounds like an Hausa name, but he did not have any Hausa accent. And I felt drawn to him as if he is someone I have met before.

Babbi kept on thinking of Uwem as he relaxed in his suite at the Abuja Sheraton. Those big brown deer-like eyes seem familiar. She is so sexy. He made up his mind to spend extra four days in Abuja to befriend Uwem. There is nothing better than dating a matured woman. He had coordinated the seminar on the Betty magazine’s 50 years of the Entertainment Industry in Nigeria and left for the United States. He spent two months on Pam’s ranch in New Jersey where he completed a new book and then decided to return to Nigeria for the Christmas and for Susan. He came to Abuja to see if he could find interesting subjects to write about. A romantic encounter always excited him. He imagined what it would be like to make love to a woman on the Zuma Rock.
The day after meeting Uwem, he called her and she agreed to join him for dinner at the Abuja Sheraton.

She was looking resplendent in a blue silk evening gown with sequins and low-heeled brown and black leather sandals and she still had her hair in cornrows. As he shook her right hand he kissed it lovingly. She blushed. They had dinner in the restaurant.
What do you do? Uwem asked.
I am an international media consultant, he replied.
I work for NAPEP, a …, Uwem was saying.
I know NAPEP, the government agency set up to reduce poverty, he said.
Yeah. You’re right, she said.
I hope NAPEP can consult me on developing 21st century strategies for the alleviation of poverty, said Babbi.
Let’s see how we can work on a proposal, Uwem said.
Babbi gazed at her and she seemed captivated.

The following day, he took her to the Silverbird Cinemas to see a movie and they chose to sit separated from the other people in the hall. As they were viewing the movie, Uwem said she was feeling cold and he told her to relax in his arms for warmth. They did not know when their lips met. She already told him that she was a single mother who lived in her own house in Kuje on the outskirts of Abuja.

After the movie she followed him to his suite and did not feel any inhibitions to sleep with him and passed the night making love until both of them fell asleep. He drove her home in the morning and waited for her to bathe and dress up for work. It was whilst he was sitting in her living room that he saw a group photograph in which he recognized Ekaiete posing with Uwem and two other young women he now knew were Uwem’s daughters. He felt cold shivers in his spine. He was sleeping with Ekaiete’s mother! Oh, my God! He knew that it would be terrible for Uwem to find out. He had to end the relationship.
You will spend this weekend with me? Uwem asked.
Uwem, I have to leave for Lagos tomorrow morning, replied Babbi.
You want to leave now that I am about to start enjoying your presence in my life. I would be lonely without you, Uwem said.
Uwem, don’t worry. I will come back after the holidays. I have to celebrate the Christmas with my brothers in Lagos, said Babbi. Of course, he would not let her know about Susan.
Uwem was not happy that Babbi would not be with her on Christmas Day.
What of tonight? Uwem asked looking passionately at him.
Alright, Babbi nodded.
I love you, she said and kissed him.

He drove her to work and agreed to come for her after work. He did and she said her place would be more comfortable than the hotel.
What of your children? Babbi asked.
They have gone to Calabar for Christmas and I will join them for the New Year, Uwem said.
Uwem cooked a special dish and brought out a bottle of champagne she said was reserved for the Christmas.
Let’s have a candlelight dinner just for the two of us, said Uwem.

She wore a transparent evening dress that showed all the features of her hourglass figure and the fragrance of her Chanel perfume filled the whole living room. Babbi found Uwem irresistible.
Oh, God. How can I escape from this temptation? How would she react when she finds out the truth?
As they dined and wined, his mind was filled with the thoughts of the likely consequences of his love affair with the mother of his ex-lover. It was not a comfortable situation, but he had to do his best not to hurt Uwem. So, after dinner, he responded to her fiery carnal desires. He perished all the negative thoughts and made love to her, heart and soul.

No man has ever made me feel this way. Did you see How Stella Got Her Groove Back? Uwem said as she lay in the king-size bed with her body eagle spread before Babbi who was crouching in-between her legs. He could see that she was still yearning for more sex and he was glad to continue until they fell asleep. Before Babbi left, Uwem brought out a gold necklace and put it on him.
Wear it for as long as you love me, she said with wet eyes and kissed him. He agreed to wear it.

Babbi left Abuja with the first Air Nigeria flight to Lagos. He knew that he would never return to Uwem again, but the memories of their precious moments would linger in his heart for years.

Dear Pam,
There are strange things in the affairs of life we cannot predict and cannot escape from until we have been caught in the net of unforeseen circumstances.
How would you react to what happened to me last December in Nigeria?
I never met the mother of my ex-girlfriend and never saw her picture until our paths crossed in unforeseen circumstances whilst I was visiting Abuja during the Christmas holidays. I saw an attractive woman whose car had a flat and I decided to help her change the tyre. Then we became friends and lovers within days of our meeting without knowing that she was the mother of my ex-girlfriend. I only found out when I followed her home and saw a photograph showing her and her three daughters including my ex-girlfriend! I enjoyed our sexual intercourse, but I regretted sleeping with her. It’s a taboo to sleep with the mother of your wife or girlfriend. I had to end the relationship, but I left her without telling her the truth, because I was afraid that she would be devastated by the gravity of our abominable sin.

I know it was not my fault, because I was ignorant of the fact until I made the shocking discovery. But I could not help feeling guilty as my conscience pricked me.

Why did God allow this predicament to happen?
Why did our paths cross?
Why did I not meet her when I was still dating her daughter?
God is not to blame for our ignorance.

We should find out more about someone before sleeping with the person.
There was a case of a man who met a young woman on the road and had a one night stand with her before he found out that she was his illegitimate daughter from an unwanted pregnancy he rejected decades ago when he had an affair with a girlfriend in high school.

I wonder why such unforeseen things happen to humans.
One of the misadventures of life you would say. C’est la vie.

Pam, I will be returning to Long Island with my Susan in fulfillment of my promise. I really love her. But only God knows if our love will pass the test of time.

Take care always.

With my best wishes,
Babbi.
End.


PS: Even though The Thing Around Your Waist is fiction, it is based on the realities of contemporary lives of Nigerians in the first decade of the 21st century. Their escapist romantic lives have been defined by the appreciation of sexuality and the depreciation of the intellectuality as seen in the sexploitation of psychedelic Hip-hop music, erotic movies and a laissez-faire attitude to life.

~ By Ekenyerengozi Michael Chima,
Saturday August 7, 2010.

Girls who display their boobs or buttocks in public are soliciting for customers.

Both of you deserve each other.

CHEAT X CHEAT =CHEAT

EVERY CHEAT DESRVES A CHEAT.

CHEATS ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE OVER 4 MILLION CASES OF HIV/AIDS IN NIGERIA.

THE WORLD WOULD BE A BETTER, HEALTHIER AND SAFER PLACE WITHOUT CHEATS.


See Unfaithful men twice as likely to be caught cheating than women‎ - 3 days ago

Unfaithful men are twice as likely than women to be caught cheating on their partner, a new survey found. By Andy Bloxham One in 10 male cheats have been ,
Telegraph.co.uk

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/7942192/Unfaithful-men-twice-as-likely-to-be-caught-cheating-than-women.html

dumodust:
married to him or something like that i guess or you're sharing the same pc

We share our e-mail IDs in mutual trust.

Mr Anus:
Orikinla, u must be gay if u dont like to see a females bottom

ORIKINLA NO BE GAY.

SEND YOUR BABE OVER

Most women go into relationships for love, sex or cash.

Call a spade a spade.

If your ex was bad say so and if your ex was good say so too.

See https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-496158.0.html

dumodust:
@poster- is the story by orikinla or ajibecky- confused , nice sequel, loving the story. seeing a clash between the two women when they both have the jigida's, nice scenario ,

Just guess.

See What's sex got to do with suicide?‎
Salon - Tracy Clark-Flory

The machine, designed by Japanese artist Hiromi Ozaki, wraps around your waist and is "fitted with a blood dispensing mechanism and ,