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Romance › Should He Marry Her? by Akell(op):
Good day all, this is not like any of my regular posts. Need useful and mature responses please. Thanks!

It all started in 2014 - in the first half of the year. John (not real name) met Victoria (not real name) on a social and faceless site, Nairaland.com. She had posted her number in the 'hookup section' where they got started. John never took Victoria serious at first, at least for the remaining half of the year. As at then, she stays in Kogi State and John's intention was to have an experience of an online date.

The months roll by and there was no communication between both. On John's part, it's understandable that he never wanted something serious. August same year, he left Abuja for his home state and the gap in communication broadened the more.

However, Victoria had just completed her University education and was posted down to Ekiti State, John's State of Origin. It was at this point that he 'decided' to call her and she intimated him about her NYSC posting. Immediately, well of joy surged up in John's heart and saw this as a confirmation that they were meant to be. He quickly bridged the gap and restored all communication - calling her more than 3 times a day.

[Fast forward] Victoria was out of camp and John was to pick her up at a particular location in the state capital. She was new to the state, hence, knew nowhere. He quickly lodged her in one of his "female friend's" house, where he later secured her an apartment.

In the year 2015, John travelled to Lagos and the communication was never lost again. They have this great affection for each other that the 'barrier' between them seem so insignificant to John. Late 2015, Victoria told John her mum desires to see him. He went to Kogi and spent a week there. She (Vic's mum) was so cheerful and full of life. She welcomed John with open arms. He had since then met other members of Vic's family except the eldest, whom he speaks with on phone. They love him and they never hid it.

Trouble started with John when in May 2015, during the burial ceremony of his paternal grandmother, his mum told him he can't marry Vic because of her size (almost 3x John). She gave several reasons like sudden death caused by hypertension among others. Greater trouble dawned on him when the barrier he never considered became a stumbling block. Victoria has a 2+ year old daughter.

John's parents had since January 2016 been capitalizing on that issue maintaining that he can't marry an 'after one'. But all of these never moved John. He was resolute on his decision. Of recent, his dad called him that if he is bent on marrying Vic, he (John's dad) is not ready to sign any document in favour of that.




My friend needs your candid advice. He's 28 and feels he is old enough to take vital decisions for himself. What should he do? Is it a crime marrying an 'after one'?



Help a bro, help a friend!

*modified*

Please mods, a friend and bro needs urgent advice. Kindly push to FP for a wider audience...

Lalasticlala,
Fynestboi,
Mynd44,
OAMJ,
Seun
NYSC › Re: Which State Of The Country Did You Serve? by Akell(op): 4:58pm On Nov 15, 2016
sambas:
Please any penalty attached if one comes to the camp like on the 26th due to far distance? Imagine Rivers state to far jigawa state?
Why not leave earlier? Like a day before...
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Strictly For Those Interested In Teaching Jobs by Akell(m): 3:16pm On Nov 14, 2016
chezzy13:
Hello house please can anyone give me an idea of what to expect from a teaching interviewhuh
Deep knowledge about the field applied for.
Deep knowledge about your course of study.
Deep knowledge on lesson note preparation.
Deep knowledge of micro teaching.
NYSC › Re: Which State Of The Country Did You Serve? by Akell(op): 10:51pm On Nov 13, 2016
Booheema:
Please this "during your time" was when exactly? Last year? Thanks for ur response tho!
Oh boo, if you had read the initial post, it's stated there. 2013
NYSC › Re: Which State Of The Country Did You Serve? by Akell(op): 4:24pm On Nov 13, 2016
[quote author=Booheema post=50997335][/quote]Yeah! As at them, it was one of the best.
We share boundary / fence with Sagamu stadium.
Constant electricity supply... But you should be careful with your phone o. Charging inside the dormitory is at owner's risk.



Life is sweet there... Especially cus of its closeness to Lagos. You might be lucky to have artistes come over. But in our time, our camp coordinator is one spirikoko someborri
NYSC › Which State Of The Country Did You Serve? by Akell(op): 3:27pm On Nov 12, 2016
This thread is created mainly for the purpose of hookup.

I have observed that most people after the National Youth Service Corp scheme have lost the contacts of most of the friends they made while either in camp or at their various Places of Primary Assignment. I would like to say that I fall into this category. I met someone on nairaland.com just few weeks before camp... We met on camp and became friends. Shortly, I changed phone and the person's contact was no where to be found. Interestingly, few days ago I came across the person's moniker on a thread. It was such fun and joy reuniting with an old friend.

Again, this thread is also for those fun loving people out there who never had the time or guts to socialize with fellow Corp members. Such could be achieved via this thread.

This thread could also act as a fun arena where we could determine the state with the highest number of deployed NYSC members.

Current Corp members are also welcome.

Just input your
1. State of deployment,
2. Year and batch
3. PPA



I REP OGUN STATE
2013 BATCH A
Served in Ijoko, a suburb of Sango-Ota....



You can share your experiences

Lets keep it going!
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: FIRS To Recruit 1,250 New Staff by Akell(m): 12:17am On Nov 12, 2016
4oyrsExperience:
Your head is there my guy!
D great batch A set, platoon 8, with soldiers like "I hear, banz, balotelli etc.. u Remb d camp fire nite draama. Of "I want to Bleep rantings by our girls"

Kabiyesi dt brought cow
Broda, yessoooo.
Good to have you here...

Remember the first two guys by the left....
I think the guy at the extreme left is AY, then that big dark guy second to left.... Still remember him too....



I rep platoon 7 all the way...
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: FIRS To Recruit 1,250 New Staff by Akell(m): 12:13am On Nov 12, 2016
Neroski:
Akell u don't know me again abi? Ma bere jamb qweshun
Wanted to be sure it's you joor... Longest time...

Chat me up : 08065466976
Computers › Re: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by Akell(m): 5:51pm On Nov 11, 2016
Sanni45:
Wen u connect d hard drive,do u notice if its rolling(vibrating).Ur laptop shd hv at least 2 USB port,try another port.
Not vibrating o. Just the LED...
I've tried all 3 ports...


The ports recognize other devices
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: FIRS To Recruit 1,250 New Staff by Akell(m): 4:52pm On Nov 11, 2016
Neroski:
Pls dnt start this drop ur email thing here,just ask people to PM u!
Hello! Did you serve in Ogun State, 2013 batch A?
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Jobs/vacancies Section Chatroom by Akell(m): 4:51pm On Nov 11, 2016
NPA is recruiting Nigeria Port Authority http://careers.nigerianports.org
Computers › Re: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by Akell(m): 4:41pm On Nov 11, 2016
My laptop doesn't identify my external Hard drive anymore. But other laptops do.


Help please!
Phones › Re: Short USSD Code To Buy Airtime From Any Nigerian Bank. by Akell(m): 2:40pm On Nov 10, 2016
Methink there's a breach in security here. Take for instance,

someone lays hold of your mobile phone or it gets missing,

such a one can load easily on his / her line from your

account to number.

I guess there should be a security feature like pin or being asked to input your account number for every transaction.
Christianity Etc › Re: Which Church Do You Attend? by Akell(m): 9:42pm On Nov 06, 2016
I attend Apostolic faith Church. were your spiritual welfare is our concerns. visit any of our church nearest to you

WECA COUNTRY HEADQUARTERS
WEST AFRICA, NIGERIA

The Apostolic Faith Church,
Campground Road, Anthony Village,
Off Ikorodu Road,
Lagos.
Mailbox: P.O. Box 78, Ebute-Meta, Lagos
Email:afm@apostolicfaithweca.org
Website: apostolicfaithweca.org
Telephone: +234-803-380-0179
Pastor: Rev. Emmanuel Adebayo Adeniran
Christianity Etc › Re: Apostolic Faith Church: Na Wa For This Kind Church by Akell(m): 8:36pm On Nov 06, 2016
We thank God for this godly heritage bestowed onto us. It is my prayer that the church of God spreads her tentacles across every nook and cranny of this nation.
Christianity Etc › Re: Apostolic Faith Church: Na Wa For This Kind Church by Akell(m): 8:36pm On Nov 06, 2016
We thank God for this godly heritage bestowed onto us. It is my prayer that the church of God spreads her tentacles across every book and cranny of this nation.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: What Is Your Date Of Birth? See If U Have A Match by Akell(m): 7:13pm On Nov 05, 2016
Joshuastone410:
I rep September 14
Same here
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Federal Civil Service 2016 Recruitment by Akell(m): 10:24pm On Oct 26, 2016
Please, who has printed? Are we to print out the whole bulk? Going to 10 pages or thereabout?
Romance › Re: What Name Did You Save Your Partner's Contact With? by Akell(m): 11:23pm On Oct 22, 2016
Saved hers with [size=20pt]LADYLOVE[/size]
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Federal Civil Service 2016 Recruitment by Akell(m): 2:25pm On Oct 18, 2016
OluKayy:
No, I didn't receive any acknowledgment mail. I'm not bothered though. They don't even send activation code to emails like they used to initially. You just register and proceed so it's nothing to get sweaty about. Your submitted application is showing on your portal, isn't it?
Have you printed yet?
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: FIRS To Recruit 1,250 New Staff by Akell(m): 11:26pm On Oct 14, 2016
Emmysteve:
I applied for Tax officer II with my BA Philosophy and there's nothing like unsuccessful application on my mail.
Wow! Team philosophy... Nice meeting you bro.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Federal Civil Service 2016 Recruitment by Akell(m): 12:18am On Oct 11, 2016
Kacinoroyal:
I don't know why it's still showing no entries found but I can see my details, app no and vacancy id. I just tire for them
Click on applications, and then click on 'view'. It will show you your application 


heskeyw:
I registered today bt when I wanted to log in, they said wrong username and password.

What could be wrong?
use your email as username
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Federal Civil Service 2016 Recruitment by Akell(m): 12:03am On Oct 11, 2016
AnaCheks:
Sombori pls help oo, after filling and submitting I was told that I've submitted b4. What should I do, nothing is on my application
Click applications and then click on view
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Federal Civil Service 2016 Recruitment by Akell(m): 12:02am On Oct 11, 2016
jp130:
Plz wat shud i use as username to log in
Your email
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Federal Civil Service 2016 Recruitment by Akell(m): 12:01am On Oct 11, 2016
jp130:
I registered n it was successful. Wen i check out d jobs n wants to apply, it says i shud log in bt i entered ma surname n password bt its directi to a page dat says it doesn't match any docu
Input your email and password
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Federal Civil Service 2016 Recruitment by Akell(m): 5:55pm On Oct 09, 2016
dhabeautyjas:
thats an entry now. u have already submitted for foreign.....
With no vacancy ID? No application ID? No job description? Etc...

Is this how yours look like?
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Federal Civil Service 2016 Recruitment by Akell(m): 3:33pm On Oct 09, 2016
No entry found after submission.... Help!

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Federal Civil Service 2016 Recruitment by Akell(m): 11:42pm On Oct 08, 2016
Help, the sign in error I got.... "there was a problem verifying your recaptcha Url.....connection timed out after 5000 milliseconds

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Federal Civil Service 2016 Recruitment by Akell(m): 8:43pm On Oct 06, 2016
avicky:
In a situation whereby it's showing no entries found won't you be perplexed that it hasn't submitted and so you keep trying. Abi. Today is 6th and they said from 3rd,yet it's still showing no entries.
Iyawo mi atata.
I sight you
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Let's Hook Up, Drop Your Bbm Pin(for Single Guys And Girls Seriouslysearching) by Akell(m): 8:37pm On Oct 06, 2016
Doyinsola Da'Candie

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