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Ikemoney:
To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when I remember my Investment in her i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

Guy Man, how many times are we going to warn you guys Women are Angels, very weak vessel, always be there for them in their thin and thick time nobody is perfect.

You see at the bolded ehn, you have to increase on your investment so as to yield more returns so, you have to carry your whole family, your friends, your business partners to beg her and also invest more in her business trust me she will reconsider you.

Since you people don’t want to learn you should stop forcing things when it comes to women matter...

TWLifestyle:
actually it wasn't society it was men that gave themselves that privilege .

I don’t have energy dragging this issue forth and back with you, how come Kings, Princes, Warlord sons and others are giving the privilege to do and undo with our virgin women without paying their rites is it we men that gave the aforementioned men the privilege biko wake from your slumber...

Tonnyray:
You people better be careful with this sarcasm of yours.
You're overestimating many people's cognitive capabilities

My dear brother, tell the two brothers to stop well, work and no play make Jack a dull boy.

I love the way they make use of humor (another teaching methodology) to pass their messages across in another dimension that’s flexibility it will aid we the learners and/or kids coming in to learn about red-pills faster, assimilate quickly and to ease our tension...

TWLifestyle:
surprising how men cheat so much even though religion does not give room for adultery ? Isnt that surprising ? Lol

You should blame the society that gave men that privilege and blame same society that portrayed women as an Angel and Men as a devil...

Do you have anything to say on that also?

Martinez39s:
LOL. Let's not forget that DNA tests and machines can be faulty and not reliable. It is not 100% correct.

#PunIntended.

Since you and caveAdullam decides to take that route lemme join hand also.


Women are very weak vessel, always be there for them in their thin and thick time nobody is perfect.

Even if the child is not yours so far she gives it to you shows she loves and upgraded you to a Father position so, cater for the child and don’t run away from your responsibilities as a man..:

valentineuwakwe:
"All the wife's family members (mother, sisters) all knew the man introduced to the husband as dad's friend".

This caption caught my attention, was the wife family members aware of the whole game plan and confused the husband too? This he needs to find out, and if true..end the marriage.

Also, if you still love your wife n for the sake of the little baby....don't escalate or spread the message to any other family members except he takes the case further. Tell him to stop talking about it if he wants to forgive the wife n continue with the marriage.
That's one thing with woman...take heart!

So fast, you forget the popular maxim that says a cheating wife who failed to kill her self will definitely kill her husband.

Religion self no give room for adultery.

AquaPetals:
He is your brother in law right? That means he must be married to your sister, right?
If the wife in question is your sister then I find the bolded statements a little bit odd. You are making reference to her family from an outsider's point of view.

So, because he termed the victim as his brother in law means the victim married his sis and you don’t think maybe he married the said victim sister...

Mood11:
While we wait for the elders to arrive let me quickly update the list of titles we should beware of ;

Daddy's friend
Uncle
Course mate
Former neighbor
Church unit leader
Colleague
Pastor
Bestie


Quote me with anyone I missed out and I'll update the list speedily

Do you intentionally omitted Oga Ogun/Balogun aka Ex boyfriend factor I do tell some guys you see the new guy is not the problem but the old guys she has had beautiful moments with, those guys have her mumu button.

Brighterdays:
It may not be in tune with the times but I understand what the concerns are. Some students can abuse privilege. It's the same thing they do here in my school

Bro, in my opinion I supported the ruling to some extent. The effect of our society been decaying is largely influenced by our schools from no more upholding good morals, no more rulings putting students in order, sadistic lecturers, promoting dubious means in getting honors, exorbitant fees, outdated curriculum and so on.

I once went for a night reading in my faculty only to see student cars moving around in speed motion around 2am my brother where are they rushing to by that time.

NEWJOE:
But if the babe reach our side without being grinded like dry pepper nah the same girl go call person "Mumu guy wey no sabi"

I once invited a babe for my villa based on platonic visitation after her arrival I still stick to my decision I even took her to my room for gist without any form of penetration nor smooching.

Before she left that same day I took her to chicken republic to catch some cruise and we departed from there.
I later invited her again to my greatest surprise she told me wetin she wan come do and end the convo with I be omo ase.

I discussed the issue with both males and females they ended up saying she wan con Bleep but I bleeped up.

Till date the girl still dey run away for me i swear....

Wetin una want self?

I see your hand.

Kevincal144444:
Irony of relationships:

Many studies show that marriage is more beneficial to men than women.

Married men earn higher and live longer than single men. Marriage is more likely to provide stability for a man.

On the other hand, Paul Dolan, a professor of behavioural science at the London School of Economics said that Single and childless women, live longer, and are happier than married women if they don’t allow the stigma of being unmarried make them unhappy.

Interesting irony.

Share thoughts redpillers

These people just think say nah mumu them dey write all these hold no water theories for...

Single and childless women lives longer than married women.

Married Men lives longer than single Men.

Nah so stupid stats con spoil football for us imagine player wey no worth €35 stats go con over hype am reach €100 plus... These oyinbo people self just dey think say them go dey conduct research and we go dey swallow am without questioning it...

CaveAdullam:
DAY 261, REDPILL 2021

"Sneaky fucker strategy:" men supporting women in all of their campaigns, (even if it against men's nature and harmful to other men) and involving in self deprecation so that they can have an easy access to fvck these women.

This strategy might appear smart, yet, still remains a simp move. Manginas are disordered males!

Don't jettison quality for triviality!

Authority: don't betray your essence for nonsense.

I don’t blame these women, it’s we men that keep fueling their fire.

I have a friend who always dance to women tune with the hope of getting pvssy in return funny enough he once termed me a misogyny in front of a lady just because I gave the opinion of “Never allow any woman to thrust you” without giving a room for explanation well, I like them girls sha they keep friend zoning him...

Those peeps up there saying they will bone face and continue their relationship with their friends omo nah big time lie, the fess attack wey them go give their friend ehn u go think say they don dey fight since childhood awon oniro radarada.

Jodera:
While you made good points, but I think everyone and anyone have the right to engage whom deh want to engage with or not. Saying that bolded isn't right in my opinion. You can choose not to engage with spy due to your both footballing differences in understanding but that doesn't mean you should tell others not to do so too(directly or indirectly). We're all here to interact and share opinions on our beloved clubs no matter our differences (which makes us humans).

Hope you're doing good boss??
Longest time

9ja no dey smile at all but we thank God my brother...

What I meant there’s no matter the load of evidences you want to bring on the table for Spy he will never admit Xhaka is not good enough for Arsenal and no point engaging him on Xhaka (specific) saga and not engaging him on other matters (generally).

If you notice self I always quote him especially during the “Defence wins you league last season so I do engage him but not on Xhaka case anymore.

ObaIgwe1:
While your angle of his poor utilization is a good consideration, but his inability to click under 3 different managers still leaves little to be desired. It might also means he is too static to a style of play. If he is good, he should also learn to adjust to other styles of play. Lokonga have only played few matches and not a few wish he should start ahead of Xhaka.

Point is, Xhaka has been with us since 2016 I think, and always in the 1st squad of all the managers, so he has been given ample time and the opportunities many other players didn't get to prove himself... few sparks from him here and there are all we see, nothing more.

I think we should let him go to where the team would be build around his style of play, we prefer versatile players here no static.

Baba, I really envy your prowess of engaging but you spoilt the show by wasting your precious time to engage on Apo (sack) Xhaka Dangote cement issue and increased the wastage of your time velocity with SPY a whole Spy360

For an unknown Guendozi to come from French league and being hyped over Xhaka by rival Fans speaks a lot about how useless Xhaka playing pattern is a plague to Arsenal playing styles...

When Arteta came in afresh and some fans start to Stan him he has improved bla bla, I decided to watch an improved Xhaka only to see version 1.5 of him no any difference except the hunger of playing for new coach to get playing time. Fast forward to last season these fans still didn’t allow us to rest he has improved get him a better player and see the Xhaka of Switzerland omo there’s still nothing to write home about his playing pattern...

At least we over hyped Auba being Henry successor, I have never come across any article where they hype him as new Coquelin not to talk of The bosses of Arsenal midfielders is enough evidence to proof Xhaka is a GOOD PLAYER very slow, slow thinker, static, can’t dribble, easily bypassed, always afraid to drop beautiful splitting forward pass, but good at long range shot/pass good at delegating his work to his partners by stretching stupid hand around like that of Sanwolu...

Arsenal fans wey dey Stan him with Big coaches are vying for him, last window Mourinho Stan him bla bla Roma go carry am, with ordinary €20 dey no fit secure his signing but secured Abraham with €34 who are we deceiving... Biko don’t tell me the position is different and remember Pep wey need Striker carry €100 go use am sign midfielder.

My verdict: Xhaka is a good player for Switzerland but not good enough for team like ARSENAL.

JohnnyPalmer:
You have sense honestly, your type are rare

To remove bias and sentiments asides and say the truth

Respect to you Sir.

Thanks for the compliment man.

One of our problems in this corntree called 9ja is we like judging with sentiments at the expense of truth staring at us nakedly in all ramifications...

Lightway:
Stay redpill

No matter how she package it, we sabi say she dey look for one maga to pay her bills and/or prolly wife her...

Guys ehn nah God go help us am sure some crazy dudes are dying in her DM...

lexy2014:
But Messi didn't make any difference against Bayern when he was there

No mind that one jhawe during Messi tenure wey Barcelona bagged in 8 solid good goals in a single match, Goat turn Ewure but make we talk true Messi tried that day he no just get better players around him to icing his work...

The only team I fear currently nah Bully Munich.

CaveAdullam:
I promise you, I will not "chook" my mouth inside.

And it's extremely sad that science has been vitiated by ideologues. Scientific research is no longer about excavating the truth or facts proximate to it, but to scavenge around to look for evidences that will support already established claims and opinions even when it's contrary to observable and stable truth.

To get correct scientific facts these days can be compared to searching for a tiny pin in a hay stack; it's extremely difficult! There are many truths scientists are hiding from the masses because it threatens the government, and top academias.

Besides, scientists will not want to lose their job and academic honours, ergo, they'll either ignore the truth or only share it with trusted allies. Also, greed is another motivating factor, and since they choose materialism before truth, many of these scientists become like Pavlovian dogs.

What a pity!

Sigh!

In other words some modern scientists has failed humanity with their fabricated results in other to align with their sponsors views thus, scientists could not b rely on alone to get humanity to the ultimate reality...

henrybangs44:
I don't know why I never seem to understand what's special about first love.

Everyday people talk about how first love is impossible to forget but I don't get it. Is there any love that you can forget? Can you forget the love you had with you 6th, 7th or Nth Love?

The one that broke my heart was even during my NYSC. She discovered I was a player and decided to end everything and never looked back. I did everything to win her back, I changed, started behaving well but na, she was adamant. I had over 10 girlfriends after her but she's still the one that hurts me the most

I believe the deepest heartbreak mustn't come from first love. It can come from any love and I think this " first love" issue is overrated.

At the emboldened is your first love, trust me if she knocks your door tomorrow morning am sure you will gladly accept her.

In a nutshell the first girl u love unconditionally is termed your first love not all those release tanks u dey use relieve body....

neyoohhh:
They keep living in delusions.

What keep baffling me is the way they always place virginity and character side by side wtf those words are not the same though they can be use interchangeably.

If u watch them closely once they realize they can’t win the argument of virginity and/or body counts they result to virginity doesn’t make a good home, virginity is not enough to judge ladies character the crazy of it all is those stupid guys justifying nonsense with them, u will even see one dragging your sister or your mum case to it u see those guys l, I do ask them between a virgin with a good character and a lady with 50body counts with a good character who will u go for come see how those stupid mofos always go for the former then why the moot point justifying nonentity?

Trex4:
https://www.nairaland.com/6747146/man-shares-experience-hotel-receptionist

When a male receptionist did something similar back then he lost his job and apologised. Wonder why it's like this for men.

My guy, this society of ours is full of damn hypocrisy in all ramifications...