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XhosaNostra:
What if he's reformed & out there "simping" while you're here still believing he's some mythical slayer? Maybe this lockdown has made him to take inventory of his delinquent ways

Stevyne:
See as women take over the thread sha.
Una happy as Ubunja no deh active abi. Ubuja ( Cat) no deh around House turn rat own

awhybliss:
I was told this guy resemble me, is that true?

Premiumwriter:
these are the lies that made us to simp in the first place.

Treat a lady like a celebrity and she will treat you like a fan

DonMarveloz:
Were did I mention I don't know what to do with the money? Are we not all under the same hard condition? I only asked for ideas and that's all.

DonMarveloz:
What's up with all of you and this 2k issue. I did not post anything like I am doing charity cash give away. I only asked for suggestions and now I am getting all these and even people sending me email. Please if you have no good suggestion to my post just ignore it and move on.

tyup:
That's just it Bro....Girls know who they love in their heart but one thing I've learnt over time is no girl's worth lavishing on except you both see future in yourselves

Just have an amazing sense of humour it beats every girl's spine down to like you Naturally tho some may hide it

decatalyst:
Bro, she is sending you a clear message!

1. She wants to be the one to call the shots. She wants to be in charge of her man's 'house'!

2. Why should you be cooking when she dey house to cook for the 'love of her life'? Why?? You want to take her place?

3. You want to advise your brother not to marry her? Nah you help am toast her? Your egungun needs to be careful cuz e be like say you don face express o Seems you have never been caught in between two lovers shey? Nah your head dem go take break coconut.

Your best option and decision will be to leave that house and maintain a distance. If your brother is smart enough, he will notice and ask for the reason why you took the decision, then you can legitimately air your views. Otherwise, doing so now will mean you are reporting the love of his life to him.

Op, use your head make you no go chop poison o

DonMarveloz:
All these long preaching from you and others commenting anyhow is unnecessary. It is just a gift and not trying to buy her heart. In case you are lost, it is not a big deal to buy your crush a gift because it doesn't mean anything. She is a good friend and I crush on her which she knows. I can get a good friend a gift not because she is my crush because I also do for male friends too just the same way she they do for me.

To everyone saying crash, I pity them because you can't all use your way of reasoning to address others. This same girl I crush on bought me a gift on my birthday and I know she spent nothing below 30k. I crush on her doesn't mean I am trying to buy her heart when we are good friends.

tyup:
Only weaklings thinks they can buy a girl over with money or expensive gifts

imagine budgeting 50k for a crush. welcome to being a reliable ATM dude

DonMarveloz:
I have this female friend I have a crush on and she knows I really like her but as usual she is playing hard to get. Her birthday is coming up soon so I plan to surprise her with something very nice that will blow her mind away. My budget is not more than 50k so please I need gift ideas that will burst her brains.

Jeweltz:
I don't think it'd be okay if I share chat screenshot here

Farouk24:
So he sent them to me, and the pics are recent pics she took a day to her birthday and she hasn't even uploaded the pics yet on any social media and the time on those screenshot was past 12 midnight, so how come Emeka got hold of the pics if Tonia didn't send the pics to him. At that point the trust i have decided to start building up for her just disappeared, this is the girl who has been lying to me from the beginning yet i stood by her and never judged her by her actions always thinking she might have reason for not telling me about this same guy. So that same day because of the anger in me i called her and i asked her about the Same Emeka, when last she saw him or talked to him and she repeated the same thing that since after service she hasn't heard from him, in my heart i was like what is wrong with this girl, ok i decided to ask her the real issue, Tonia did you ever dated Emeka before we met, she started swearing with everything even with God, bible and her grandmom grave that she has never dated Emeka that Emeka was just someone who was disturbing and asking her out, sincerely hearing her swear while she was lying was really breaking my heart, i decided to confront her by telling her that a friend of mine told me she dated Emeka, the next thing i heard was her preaching about trust, that how can i not trust her and believe what she is telling me why should i believe my friend ahead of her that she is disappointed in me for not been able to trust whatever she is telling me that i am the last person she will ever lie to, she ended the call telling me she is angry you can't believe i called her all through that day she didn't pick up even leading to her switching off her phone. The next morning i called her she picked and told me she was so angry with me last night accusing her of dating Emeka and disappointed in me for not trusting her, looking at her fooling herself i decided to send all the screenshots of her chat with Emeka from her phone which i sent to my phone back then. All she could say after the screenshot is that she owns me no explanation because she kept Emeka issues away from me for a personal reason, she never told me anything about Emeka because she has a reason for not doing it and i shouldn't have gone into her privacy and whatever i got from her whatsapp was at my own risk.
She later called and sent a text apologising for lying to me and acting the way she did, that she never wanted to tell me about Emeka due to some personal reasons and she never wanted me to find out about Emeka, and i shouldn't breakup with her because of Emeka that she loves me and can't lose me.

Right now i don't know what to do because i love the girl but with her lies and with what has transpired between us is she a girl i should continue with or i should let go.

Please no insult i really need advice from you all.


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Humanoid01:
You need heavy slap for the back of your head.

If na wetin you want be that, then why your nor just waka go okpo house? You think dating is an avenue for calming your sexual hormones?

GreatResearcher:
SIMPs are just everywhere

Onego:
so what are they using?

GreatResearcher:
Bro he/she might be correct o. Haven't u heard a guy who sent 150k to Davido baby mama just to get a reply from her?

lukui:
Many youths do compromise, when you are together with them complaining about bad governance and corruption, they will be saying " yes, the president is stupid, the governor is corrupt ". But check each and everyone of them, they are liars cheats and hypocrites. During election, they collect bribes, they rig, steal ballot boxes and do a lot of other things.

So don't sit in one corner and point one accusing finger to someone

Jeweltz:
I don't think so. I still got guys from this forum on my wait-list who has been consistently sending me recharge- ranging from #1500#2000 and More. More like to say since January, I Neve use my money buy card o . They're all waiting for my validation.always praising me on Whatsapp lol. The wicked me only respond their chats when I need help

bjprodint:
Let he who is without sin be the first to cast a stone Mr.jailer.Listening to Asha's Mr jailer

Fhowe:
The most irritating is when you see a young girl that is barely 18 all you see on her status is related to relationship or marriage , when she should be concentrating on her education or learning a skill Na wa ooo

Nonso92:
Her ex chose PS4 over her and e pain am.

CsRockefeller:
Keep quiet if u dont have sth to say.

Whats wrong with him seeking a soul mate?

I dont want to talk too much this night but I dont know where u Nigerians learnt this philosophy from.

SavageMaster:
Lol. You need Jesus!!!

Wow! Your life is so boring these days and you need a soulmate. Like, seriously? Did I just read this?

Whatever happened to developing yourself within this period, maximizing your potentials and building your character, esteem and self-worth?

Let me end here, for now.

Victornezzar:
Sending card to a girl to unblock you

elefind:
who agree with the above?

czarr:
Oga no decieve yourself your girl will eat your money and still sleep with your broke friend if he has sweet mouth and good dick game, this one no be nollywood......oya dont believe me na, chase only money and see for yourself na me go even yansh your babe sef....

czarr:
Trash...
Rich men simp also, you never see woman carry rich man money give poor man.

StarboyQ:
Untrue.

U never see poor guy with Rich man mindset.
This thread should be differences between a handsome guy and an ugly guy

Ariza:
Most Nigerian relationships are useless, baseless and lifeless. Most men behave like sex starved babies while most women behave like hungry vultures.In Nigerian relationships, helping one another to grow does not exist but they are very quick to outsmart one another for selfish benefits. You will hardly see them encourage one another to read books, try new hobbies, engage in brain stimulating conversations, help one another to overcome fears, start up projects , help innovate ideas, watch natures or have each other's back. All they know is Sex and money. "Will you come to my place? When will you visit me? Baby my subscription and hair has expired, I need money. " Are the common questions you see in Nigerians conversations. Sex Sex Sex Money Money Money! Nothing else dey their skulls!

However, I think both Nigerian Men and Women fit each other perfectly, So none should complain about the other. Let them continue to "ko'molubo" until they have sense.

LeRabbite:
If Nigerian women even offered only money in relationships, Nigerian women would worship them. But they bring only their weather-beaten, angering-nacked pûssies and still expect us to worship them despite the imbalance in value contributed.

OP, it is established today, you are a simp of the highest order. For you to discount the importance of funds in a romantic relationship, you were either raised by an entitled single mother or a weak father. Tueh