Danhoys:
I thought I knew what dirtiness was until my cousin's sister started living with us. We gave her a room, a roof over her head until she finds her bearing.

She's an orphan, almost going to 28 years, and sells food on Sundays for cash.

But, looking at her, she's the replica of the word 'unappealing.'mumu Man, come ask my neighbor " mumu Deborah" what been dirty means..am sure your cousin's sis is still learning where she they

Her hair is always shabby, dirty, and she never attempt to even braid it to keep it in order. Black is beautiful, but hers comes in brown patches and acne.

She doesn't even care.

We have a water closet, and she's ready to keep popping without an attempt to flush. The last time I traveled and left the home for a week, the toilet was beyond what I could comprehend.

To the point I had to do renovation, repainted the wall, and had to hire a cleaner to help wash the toilet thoroughly.

I couldn't risk catching a disease doing it myself. That was how bad it was.

After doing all these, she stopped using the toilet, but would prefer to pop in the compound with a black nylon at night.

Sometimes, she even forget to throw them away. I had woke up very early in the morning. Saw her bucket and wanted to use it, what I saw changed my day.

I saw her feces, and since then I vowed never to touched a bucket that is isn't mine.

Aside from her protruding stomach which she does little to hide, the wrapper she wears every evening have never seen water in months.

Women are supposed to be conscious of their unclothedness, but not this cousin of mine.

She can avoid all the bathrooms, and choose to bathe outside in the open at night.

Like, around 8 to 9 pm when everyone is still very much awake.

Sometimes children will bump in on her unintentionally, and the kid will run away traumatized by what he or she have seen.

I dare not go into details to recount how she prepares the food she sales, and how dirty her coolers and kitchen utensils can swim with maggots for 6 days before she finally washes them on Saturday and prepares food on Sunday for her esteemed customers.

She's not beautiful facially, nor wear makeup or earrings since it's against her belief.

Doesn't wear clothes that suit her. If she dresses like an mbeke, that wouldn't be a problem. I just don't understand her dressing at all, coupled with her dirty look.

When it comes to religion, hers is the worse, jumping from one church to the other. And worse, we hardly sleepy at midnight.

She is always in battle with demons, with her speaking of tongues that don't just sound ridiculous, but deafening and irritating.

She's just 28, and I doubt if any man has ever stopped her on the road, and I still suspect she have never laid with a man before.

She's not mentally unstable if that is what most of you might think.

She's lively, knows how to joke and hold conversations like we all do. But when it comes to her body, grooming, overall cleaningness, she's zero.

There are grades of dirtiness, but when it comes to a stage where someone now dines and wines with feces, then there is a problem somewhere.

She's shapeless and doesn't want to do anything about it despite my numerous advise. She eats junk, like...

She runs to the backyard, gets some vegetables and fry it up with some concoctions and food is ready.

I know all their foods, and the things she cooks is nothing less than a concoction. I've eat her food once and my stomach testified.

A thoroughly analysis of her personality fascinates me to some extent. Is this her personality? Something that is genetically engineered into her that she has no control over?

Can she change?

Do you think I can help her, how?

Oluboh:

No vex, we are youths and we're doing youth 2023
Yahaya Bello is the code

Bola146:


It is well with your soul. Don't bring wrath of God on your life. Must you comment?

Philipmighty:
Is She Telling Me Truth, Please Your Advice Are Been Needed, I'm Confused

Guy's please I'm confused here, there is this girl i started dating last year December, she really loves me and i know that? Have asked her of sex for sometime now, but she keeps telling me she is not ready for that.

Her story goes this way that she was raped when she was 7 years old by there neighbour then, and the guy was arrested and later realised after much pleadings from his people, and ever since then her mother have been so closed to her even up till now due to the rape experience, and more over she also told me that she has dated three Guy's before me, and they all broke up because they are all after sex, and she is not ready for that, and now after, talking to her, showing her true love, making her to believe me that I'm different from other guy's out there, and she has now agreed to give me sex when next we see, only on the condition that whatever happens, I shouldn't leave her, no matter what even if she gets pregnant for me, but the truth still remains that i don't actually need the sex, i just what to know if she is telling me truth.

But the problem now is this please how will i know that she is telling me the truth, that she has never had sex ever since then, as I'm yet to trust her on that aspect, this rape experience happened 12 year's ago.

How will know she is telling the truth, cus I'm ready to find out the truth by all means

Please help a niqqa brothers

Sorry for the long write up!

Bola146:
This is the one of the reasons I hate about marriage, sweet love will suddenly turn bitter Only God knows why. One boy two surnames

Lord, just help me locate my own husband to me, I hate divorce, I don't pray it for my enemies.

hakym619:


Keep kwayet

hakym619:
He should be happy that a celebrity bashed his car

Amotolongbo:
It was called Nigeria under the British colony

Nigeria has been existing as an entity since January 1914, even before the First World War.

History should be returned to our schools

batstan:

Yeah, I am sick and tired of y'all complaining.
Tips are not bribes.

batstan:

You paid bribe?
You are the killers of Nigeria,
You keep spoiling the system,
Scam!

Kriss216:
The only thing an average Nigerian girl can offer in a relationship is just sex.


The truth remains, sex is the cheapest commodity in town presently. Chat a random girl online, promise her lunch or dinner and watch her open legs like a fountain of river.

ethicallyright:

The circumstances may differ but the hypothesis should not be rejected. DJ CUPPY is an idiot for even associating with a lowlife misfit like that Zlatan Ibile
I pity Otedola because ,to be frank, he has no child. Just useless pets spending his resources

JudasNaCarrot:
All those sarcastic comments up there does not exonerate this wicked, nepotistic,killer and irresponsible government of Buhari of blame of killing innocent and unarmed protesters. No matter how the real enemies of Nigeria(BMC) tries to paint it, Providence will judge all of you.

I am not a fan of Trump because we have said it countless times that he suffers some kind of mental disorder but many of you guys especially those calling for his head now where his adent supporters and didn't see what we saw long before now.
This mad man has brought shame to America's democracy and is still bent on distroying the once respected Nation just for his selfish interest.

We all in this Country owe Goodluck Jonathan eternal respect for conceeding defeat and allowed for a smooth transition, something Buhari will never ever have done....he is worse than the Trump you guys are calling out now.

Remember his comment....Dogs and Babboon will soak in blood if he is not allowed to rule.

Thinkherbell:
If i love a man, I wouldn't look at any rich person twice. No matter how rich the person is.

brightalo1010:
ask yourself why mad people that eat poisonous food every now and then hardly fall sick but once a normal person like you does that then it becomes problem, can you stay a week without bathing like mad people? How many poor people do die of heart attack, or cancer e.t.c like rich people? Despite how many years those sickness has been before coronavirus came out. Mention how many street guys that died of cancer, or heart attack or even Hiv despite many not using protections. , if you believe there is Hiv, polio, malaria, typhoid, e.t.c why doubting coronavirus as if there is some kind of tree planted in Nigeria that can prevent it from entering the country. Something that have ravaged the whole world and you are saying is not in Nigeria, even if it kills poor people you will still say na malaria killed them.

Oyerinde16:


I really don't need a job, I have a pet project I want to launch using secondary schools... I have a thriving biz... If I have the opportunity to work part time in a school without pay, I will launch a lot of projects...

pyyxxaro:
All these native Doctors are very stupiiid n wicked


They just brainwash people into doing nonsense





This guy ehn, make them first naked am , use sledgehammer take bust e testes

Oyerinde16:
This post details my experience and what i learnt teaching secondary school student in 2014 at a public and private secondary school in River state, This topic https://www.nairaland.com/6344616/pupils-almost-put-me-trouble/5#97717036, motivated me to write.

2012, I finished school, worked briefly in a factory to raise money before NYSC.

2013 June, i was posted to Umunya, Anambra state for NYSC, after camp, i redeployed to Rivers State.

2013 July, i was posted to a public secondary school in a village around ELELE, I was to take SS1 civic education. i had ample time, for a fact too much time. so i decided to look for a secondary place of assignment, I got a private school and was employed to teach commerce and also assist the house master as it was a boarding school, service year was good for me cos, my 19800 was resting, i relied on the 25000 i earned from the private school, i was also feed as assistant house master, i only spent my money on transportation and light drinking, i had no GF.

2013, i began teaching in the public school but discovered they were too playful, noisy etc, I told them i love to play as well, (Coming down to their level) they were amused, i gave the rules that we play hard and work hard, i explained to them that when its time for class, we concentrate as to learn and achieve fast, then when its time for play we play as well, deal or no deal, they agreed. My class was always very interactive and lively, for once this kids wanted me in their class, at free periods, they always came to call me when I'm around. I started working at the private school, but discovered it was a different ball game entirely, they weren't that Noisy, playful, they were always busy, no free periods they were most often reserved smart and intelligent.

2013, It was pretty easy penetrating the ranks of my students in the public school, however, the private school students were reserved, they hardly talk, just answer you and go. I decided to come to their level as well, i started talking with those who wanted to talk, sending them errands, soon other wanted to talk, at the boarding house, I decided to play ball with them, i taught them different games, the girls were just there looking, i decided to interact with them, ask them what sport they liked, i discovered they had long tennis, badminton racket and net in the hostels but weren't, using them, we fixed it, I began teaching them to play, soon they were playing, i discovered there were some girls always lurking around the football pitch, always ready to pick the ball etc, i asked them if they wanted to play, initially they were reluctant and the boys were surprised, they were like uncle, can this one play, uncle i will not mercy tis one o, i will park or fire this one, i told they to be considerate and lets mix them, take care of the girls in your team. to my greatest surprise, they guys were even protecting the girls playing for them, there were too many sporting activities going on simultaneously at the same time and the hostel became very lively, they kids at the hostel had too many to gist for their counterparts in the day school.

2013, i taught my kids in both the public and private secondary schools well, we play well and were very close, i also set what i called traps for flogging, this kept them at high alerts as they did not want to fall into those traps, some felt, uncle just flog me, this standards are too high abeg, i twisted questions to rattle their brains, they were quick to scramble it out and give me the answer, at this point, I tried to take note of those who weren't interested or active in this activities, and paid special attention to them, i helped them the little i could, making them believe in themselves.

2013 December, I organized an end of year party for kids in the public school, the school authorities weren't interested, other corpers weren't interested as well, so we bought cabin biscuits and bottled drinks did a small party and dancing competition and everyone went home for the year.
The private school had an elaborate end of year party, we did a lot of decorations, preparations rehearsals etc. It was an IT savvy school with all kids having Ipads and laptops, We did plenty of digital designs for presentation, i spiced it up with different dances, presentation engaging parents as well. I was very close to the students at this point. party ended and we all went home.

2014 January, school resumed however i was more at the private school doing plenty work as the director was always pressing, we took the students on tour, expos, excursions, competitions etc, we did a lot of marketing jobs to sell he school, i was made head of project 2000, it was a project to sell 2000 forms at 2000 Naira each, i was given the resources to achieve this target, in between this, i still had inter personal relationships with my students most especially the boarding house students, in the evening when we get home, i also organized some competitions with my kids at the public school during the second term.

2014 May, Third term, i was supposed to hand over to a junior corper, as i was leaving the following month, i still taught my student in the public school bringing them out of their shell, some of their parents brought plantain, garri, rice, beans, pepper, maggi, mango, banana etc God bless them all where ever they are today. i always dash the excess out as i was feeding from the private school i was working as well,

2014 June, this month was a month for retrospect, it was an emotional month as well, i left the public school at the middle of the term, i remember my students, both boys and girls were crying, i took time to hug all of the, took phone picture and boom, service was over, dumped my khaki, labour market, the director or the private school i worked reached agreement in principles to increase my salary to take up a permanent role in the school, I concentrated fully on the job at hand, doing aggressive marketing to sell the forms, at the end of third term, I and my team had sold 2004 forms smashing the target.

2014 August shortly after third term, I was made the head of another project, to conduct common entrance for over 2000 pupils and select the best 600 as that is what the school can handle at full capacity, we had to device a means of conducting the exams into different classes in batches in order to avoid over crowding, it was another success, however trouble started when some powerful parent influenced the admission, wetin concern me. The decisions taken afterwards was above my pay grade.

2014 August/September, we organized summer school, which went well, I was made head of another project, Creating and managing the school website, data base, synchronizing data, uploading student and staff data, uploading result and creating online project for each student, we had a limited time frame to achieve this as the developers came from Lagos, i selected my team, made up of vibrant staffs, we worked day and overnight for three (3) consecutive days to achieve this.

2014 October/November/December, First term began, however, the security situation had deteriorated in this community, this was during the days of Don Wanny and co, I had near death experience on three separate occasions, on a particular day, one of the driver refused to come pick the student bus very early in the morning around 5am, other drivers had gone, in order not to fail the parents, I decided to go pick the minder, then proceed to go pick the kids, on the way to the minders house around 5.15am i ran into some cultist, they sat in a circle, each with burning candles right in front of them, they all wore white singlet and tied a red rope round their heads, with a bamboo leave in their mouth, they all stood up in unison all holding cutlass, guns and dangerous weapons, they shouted park, park, i initially wanted to accelerate into a corner and try to escape, however it was as if God took charge, i took the turn then park and came down, they were in front so i would have ran into them, some of them began to say carpon make we run am, i was scared to the marrow, i began to beg moving backwards telling them i was going to pick school kids, i told them to look at the school logo on the bus, apparently they saw the school poster, one said lie down raised his machete, i ran close to one whose machete was still down, i knelt down and begged him, and he told the other about 6 to leave me alone. the guy gave me a serious warning and told me to go, while i was driving out, i saw many of them hidden in corners even flashing touch, how i entered the den of death and came out alive is only God. Another close shave with death i will never forget is a champions league match, Manchester United vs Chelsea i watched it in one hotel, a guy and a lady left just 3 min to the end of the game, on coming out, i saw them right in front, about five guys came out from the bush, held the girl down, the guy tried to fight, he was shot dead, i and my friend hid close to the bush but they saw us from afar and ran towards us, we dashed into he bush escaping to the other street.

2014 December, The security situation in Omoku had become too serious, after the end of year party, i danced and danced with my kids, I traveled for Christmas on the 24th December 2014, i have not return to the community since then. The security situation was so bad in 2015 many schools had to close.

I love teaching, I still fancy the opportunity I'm currently in Abuja.

InfernoNig:

fergie001:


SOURCE

thebosstrevor1:


Nonsense comment.

You want people to do dna test without thinking about data protection.

Nigerian dna market is unregulated.when you give your dna to companies, they have control over you.

EdmundChidera:
New Year Resolution has become a ritual that many tends to forecast their plans on what to achieve within the year.

Many had plans on what to actually achieve last year 2020 but to some it was achieved, while some became unfortunate.

Planning makes us to be objective on achievement but fulfilling it most times are by the Grace.

So my dear Nairalanders what do intend to achieve this year which you were unable to achieve last year.

Is it marriage?

Is it getting a job?

Is it starting up a business?

Is it completing your academics?

Is it becoming a fraudster?

Is it buying car?

Is it building a house?

What's your Resolution, let's know and have faith because you can achieve it.

Diffpussies:
4. Excessiveness of everything: Try to be medium in all you do. When you drink, drink at least 1 to 2 bottles. Avoid being an extremist. Stay away from religious extremism as well.

post=97550044:

The aftermath of the festive season in foreign countries is so devastating.
Just watching the news on CNN rn that they recorded the highest cases of deaths in a single day since coronavirus started.

It is good no one is being forced,
He who has hears, save your life and that of your family members.

We Rise!

KnightsTemplar:
How you go feel staying with a man not your husband free Aisha abeg, make Jubril dey him dey and Aisha dey her dey.

BeeBeeOoh:
As a matter of fact, Aisha's whereabouts is of no importance to us.

danietohbadt:
But these bastards are still not being proactive.
Theyre yet to even place a ban on flights from UK and US when other serious nations have done that already.
These people ehn.

Vaccine by first quarter of 2021?

Omo these people are just fucking callous.
After budgeting 400M Naira (about a third of 2021 budget) for covid 19 vaccine, they still want to delay it's arrival from initially saying January to first quarter now.

Wahala dey ooo