Business › Do Not Ignore If, Making It Big In Life Is Your Priority by Akinh(op): 7:23am On Mar 04, 2020*. Modified: 1:46pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Share Your Valentine's Day Message To Your Lover(s) by Akinh: 8:12am On Feb 14, 2020 |
Aro loja ewure,ifemi si e daju ojo{rain} nigba ogbele....chomakupanopanichupako.....ouin............. |
Romance › Re: Do I Look Good For My Girlfriend This Valentine? (photos) by Akinh: 10:06am On Feb 12, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Lady Drinks Sniper As Boyfriend Dumps Her After 4 Years Of Dating (Video) by Akinh: 12:27pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Raysleek: She drank sniper and the best you guys can think of is leaving her on the floor while she was being videotaped. Nigerians really need to be questioned on their humanity and sense. though I don't blame them too...carry her go hospital they will request for police report...and getting to police they will end up blackmailing you...only God knows...to my best of knowledge God's judgment will start from Africa ...and not just all the countries but Nigeria to be precise. |
Family › Re: My Wife Is A Thief & Greedy: My One-Month Marriage About To Crash by Akinh: 10:35pm On Jan 31, 2020 |
COWBOYFAN: Hello Ladies and Gentlemen
I just had a traditional wedding earlier this month. I'm not based in Nigeria. I provided all the finances for the wedding before I arrived Lagos. Everything listed to be bought for the wedding I provided all. To my surprise wedding that was suppose to take place in a hall had to take place in a cramped sitting room. No food, no drinks, no DJ etc. What did they use the funds for? I don't know. I asked questions and no answers given. To be fair to her family members, I didn't give money directly to her parents or siblings. I gave the funds to my wife to be.
Surprisingly on the day of the small wedding, her uncle was accusing me of not providing money to organize the wedding properly. My heart sank. I look in the direction of my wife to be and couldn't believe what just came out of her uncle's mouth. Whereas I provided money for everything. The wedding prayers went ahead and we were joined together.
After the dry wedding ceremony I began to ask questions but my new wife couldn't give me explanation. Fast forward to last week I was looking for money I kept in my drawer and couldn't find it. I decided to just keep quiet and watch. I set another trap. I had some US Dollars in my wallet and exposed the money for her to see. I went to the shower and lo and behold my new wife removed the dollars from my wallet. I got dressed after shower and we went outside to go somewhere together as my driver was in the car waiting. As we were going, I opened my wallet and saw the dollars gone. I blew a whistle right there and she denied it. I asked driver to return home. I had my parent and siblings at home on that day but I can bet my life on them. I told them what's going on. My new wife was all over the place and shaken. I refused to talk to her. I confided in my mother and explained how I set the trap for my wife. Surprisingly my wife started making moves. She planted the money all over the place which I saw as she was doing. I pretended I didn't see her. I refused to talk to her. All of a sudden she confronted me and attacked me that I suspected her to be the one who stole my money. She started saying she stoop so low to allow herself to be ridiculed in the presence of my family. I confronted her with evidence and she began crying and blaming devil. She has done series of money infractions that I couldn't list here. She fights me for money on daily basis since we got married. No money ever enough.
This is a woman that I gave a car to already and spent so much on to be comfortable. I just bought her another car to be given to her on her birthday. On the day she stole the dollars I had just given her 100,000 naira pocket money for the week. She's been crying and begging for two days saying it won't happen again. She has refused to eat.
Here is the bombshell I just confirmed she's now three weeks pregnant. I can't trust my life with her at this juncture. I'm leaning towards divorce. I'm too scared to be with her. She's too greedy. plz can I ask u something...did u guys cut for a day and u marry the next day...or were you blind before u decided to marry her Sir...just thinking loud oo |
Politics › Re: Obaseki Warns Oshiomhole: 'I Will Show Him I'm The Governor' (Video) by Akinh: 10:36am On Jan 30, 2020 |
saheedbadmus: Nvr bite d finger that once fed u.. Obaseki needs to apply wisdom .. dere is a saying in Yoruba.. eni ba junilo leh Juni nu.. person wey senior u fit throway u.. Abeg this one na old saying....is it not the same Yoruba that said...A Yi le ja, lomu ki eniyan sowipe oko{farm} babami ko de ibi. |
Business › Re: $4800 Sent To Me By My Brother Has Been Hijacked By Nigeria Customs by Akinh: 9:30pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
Alaye u and ur brother be fool...WU they there una no fit use n u come here they disturb us for ur stupidity |
Romance › Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Akinh: 3:01pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Omoakin120: Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.
I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.
Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.
I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.
Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her? plz how is this any of nairaland biz...only God knows what nairaland of today has turn into...and to top it all this Wubbish make front page |
Crime › Re: Man Kills And Buries His Best Friend In Ebonyi Because Of N3m Million (Photos) by Akinh: 9:34am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Simplyleo: Ebonyi, a state in the South East.
Igbos don't have a single problem oh. Things like this are always either
1. Buhari's govt caused it.
Or
2. Fulani herdsmen killed him.
They themselves have never and can never kill because of money.
If you trace this murder remotely, you will find out either of the two above.
Why will an igbo man kill because of money when they all live in mansions and drive latest cars.  broda ode...most u tribalize everything...and this issue happen just 2 out of 100 ....is better u reason well....and I think nairaland need to some people to mental evaluation before accepting membership bcs not everyone here is mentally stable or fit to use platform like this |
Crime › Re: Man Kills And Buries His Best Friend In Ebonyi Because Of N3m Million (Photos) by Akinh: 9:31am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Simplyleo: Ebonyi, a state in the South East.
Igbos don't have a single problem oh. Things like this are always either
1. Buhari's govt caused it.
Or
2. Fulani herdsmen killed him.
They themselves have never and can never kill because of money.
If you trace this murder remotely, you will find out either of the two above.
Why will an igbo man kill because of money when they all live in mansions and drive latest cars.  broda ode...most u tribalize everything...and this issue happen just 2 out of 100 ....is better u reason well....and I think nairaland need to send some people to mental assylum soon |
Education › Re: What's The Best Course To Study In Nigeria Today? by Akinh: 9:28am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Arm Robbery,Kidnapping or Politiy thugerinism...u can ask me those institution that offer those pretigious courses |
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Investment › {never Miss This Opportunity} by Akinh(op): 9:54pm On Jan 12, 2020*. Modified: 3:48pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Akinh: 9:06am On Jan 04, 2020 |
MaxVee: I Am Losing My Mind, Could This Be Love Or Foolishness?
Okay, I'd be quick and brief as well.
So about 6 months ago, I met my girl on facebook, And after months wooing her to date me, she finally agreed and we started dating..
Like everything was perfect and indeed I fell deeply in love with her even before I met her.
So along the line in our relationship she told she had a best friend who is a guy and they have know each other for like 4years..and that they talk very well (calls and chat) and that they tell each other they love themselves, but if I wasn't cool with it,I could break up she would understand.
As a guy I knew I had fallen for her and I embraced her telling me about the guy after a strong assurance from her that they were not into any sort of relationship with each other.
So my girl called me like let's say a month after we started dating that there was this her friend who she hadn't met and that wanted and she was going to see him, and I was like fine, she should just be fine.
P.S:- I hadn't met with my girl even till the point she went to meet the guy...I was in the west and she was in one of the states in the East..more like a long distance relationship.
Fast forward to days after they met I became uncomfortable with the relationship between my girl and the said new guy she met..I talked to her severally about it and she was at some point swearing not having anything to do with the new guy she just met.
Fast forward to the festive season I came back and I met my girl for the first time..indeed she was everything I imagined and we flowed amazingly well.
Long story cut short in the midst of one of our long conversations I discovered she have at some point had sex severally with her said best friend...so I was like since it was before we met I forgave her and we moved on..
yesterday I asked her if she has anything with the new guy and she swore again not having anything with him that the guy has been asking her out and she refused dating him.
She said plenty of things that convinced me into believing that nothing was going between them.
P.S:- before yesterday I told her to tell the new guy she has a boyfriend and she promised to..(from the actions of my girl I could tell she loves me.) She later told me that day that she told him and she had blocked him and stuff..and trust me I did believe her.
So this morning while she was sleeping I reaching out to her phone and went straight to her WhatsApp.. opened the chat with the guy and what I saw broke me..
She was reconciling with him over the break up she instigated of which was caused by something totally different not even because she told him she had a guy..what killed my spirit was a message she wrote to the guy saying "she left me for him even though I was far much a better option"..I confronted her and she has been pleading saying she loves me but she likes him and that they haven't had anything except kissing and caressing..that she loves me so much..that she started liking him when she started talking to him more frequently and I was far away. She hadn't know me..so she got fond of him and she likes him.
I love this babe so much, I told her I forgive her..but please I need your opinions..am I blinded by love or am being foolish..
How would you handle the situation. If it was you.. La La.. please help move this to front page Am breaking every hour. I still wonder how someone can start 2020 with stupidity ..bro I guess u need to visit any of those churches hosting 90days prayer and fasting for sense receiving deliverance ..may God help u |
Celebrities › Re: Agbani Darego Celebrates Her 37th Birthday Today by Akinh: 2:25pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
chigoziri2403: Why is her leg like that like oscrich leg abi...kuku say it finish...may God forgive both of us for what we are thinking right now |
Romance › Re: Breakup: What Was Your Ex's Excuse? by Akinh: 12:25pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
She Said,She Can't Cope With My Big John Thomas....Though It Hurt |
Romance › Re: She Left Me For A Medical Doctor And Now Wants A Second Chance by Akinh: 8:50am On Nov 27, 2019 |
Please Take Her back, becay if you don't...how will you come back here in the next few months to display your stupidity and still reqei for alubize{advise} I still wonder why we still call guys like this man.....is not only white that are maga here in Nigeria we still get broke maga. |
Romance › Re: I Had Sex With My Fiance's Friend, Please Help! by Akinh: 2:12pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
I will try and get that ur fiance's no...he doesn't deserve a gutter like u...just few week into disagreement u rush what if he married u..and u have a fight so na neighbor go chop am that night, and moreover u said u didn't have feeling for the other guy but when he took to out u open ur legs ..this shows how useless u re...and am sure na � go cause the disagreement between u and ur finance... something ladies of now adays do reason from below...is better u accept ur fate now and find another guy before u shame urself..idiat |
Romance › Re: RE: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Akinh: 2:19pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Grumpyy: In response to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/5508729/5-year-old-relationship-ended
Hello dear, I went through something like this a year ago but not in your position so let me share my story with you, it MAY help you connect the dots.
So fast rewind to 2013, I met my girlfriend when I was in 200L in the university. I've always been a reserved person, so when I met her, I wasn't really prepared to date anyone yet but her ingenuity attracted me. She was in 100L but then I also have this heightened, over bloated self respect that even as I am her snr by just a level, I still felt she was a child and needn't had to have anything to do with her. I was 18 then, mind you.
What drew me to date her was when I noticed my guys (not really friends) gawking at her. They all wanted to have a piece of her and I just felt I should step in and protect her kinda (yes my mind actually thought this).
I noticed she was always uneasy with me and that was a good sign, so I asked her out and she accepted. I got to find out that she was a virgin too, and before I knew it, I was so deep in love with her. We dated till I left school in 2016. I finished my service early 2018 and got a scholarship for masters in the UK so I left the country, June 2018.
For the 5 years we dated, we never had sex. We did other things of course but not sex. We made solid plans and I trusted her with my all my heart.
There was this guy amongst those my supposed guys that was never happy for me and my babe. He had wanted to ask her out before I blocked him, he would always talk about how he'd f....ck the living shit outta my GF to be, that she was voluptuous and the rest.. So when I started dating the girl, he was not happy, he pretended of course, but I could see through the ruse.
Fast forward to 2018 when I was just about to settle in the UK, I get a WhatsApp msg from this guy telling me he has something to say to me. He says he's been f...cking my babe and sent me her nude. For like 3 days, I shut down. I couldn't eat, I couldn't read, I couldn't sleep, I couldn't coordinate my head at all. I was so confused because before I left the country, i hadn't seen my GF for almost a year but we spoke every day, sometimes 3 to 4 times in a day. I knew all she was doing and where she was at every time of the day, so if it was true, then it means she was being highly smart to keep up with me and still cheat, and that was an evil machination.
I shut her out, I wasn't taking her calls anymore, I wasn't replying to her msgs anymore, I literally brought out my heart, locked it in a chest and threw away the keys on the high sea, I acted this believe me. Her sister called, her mum, her friends, my sister, everybody called me to know what's up but I never said a thing. For 6 months, I wouldn't tell anybody anything and I also felt she was being hypocritical when she knows exactly what she did.
By December 2018, I was still getting calls to explain what was the problem, by then I had already completed my morphing into Davy Jones so I opened up to my sister. I told her that the biatch was cheating on me with the least person I had expected her to. I sent my sis the picture, it was a soft nude picture (you get me) but it was still something. She too, she went mad and said she'd confront her. I told her not to bother that she was already dead to me. She still confronted her and here's the denouement..
When my sis confronted her with the evidence, she fell down and cried and rained curses on me. She swore she never sent that guy, that picture. The picture was sent to me. She even right there sourced for the guy's contact and called him and the demon said how could her BF not trust her. That he was teasing me and he said I was the one that shared the nude amongst my friends. My GF opened her WhatsApp and luckily the chat from the day she sent me the picture was still there. I couldn't see this particular chat on my phone. I still kept her WhatsApp history too. My best guess is that the day she sent me the picture, my phone was with this other guy and he took it and deleted the chat from my end.
I begged for forgiveness, I had to cry to her before she said Ok.. I couldn't call the guy cause I don't know what to tell him.
So my dear, it was a long story indeed but I'm sharing it with you so you'd ask him the direct question like "did you hear I cheated on you?", or "Did you hear I wished you bad?" People are spreading malicious rumours about other people, so ask him if he heard or he saw anything.
There's this chat going around now where a guy said he saw his GF through CCTV where she was been fondled by another guy, the guy may decide to just shut her out and she wouldn't have a clue as to why.
Also, check yourself... if you ever betrayed his trust in a seemingly contrived way thinking he'd never find out.
At the end of the day, nothing really is hidden under the sun.
Thanks.
LolaO Rocktation Farano Lalasticlala nice advise Bro...some guys can be a pain in the ass...them never happy because u date fine girl...and no be say them go do and stay oo. |
Celebrities › Re: EFCC Calls For Petitions Against Hushpuppi, Investor Bj, Baddyosha, Others by Akinh: 12:23pm On Nov 02, 2019 |
ZombieTERROR: What about the bullion van master..
When is the Efcc going to arrest him The petition is already on their table the person wet curse this country bad sha...and this so caller dot idiat need koboko |
Fashion › Re: Lady Wearing A Short Skirt In Ogbete Market, Enugu, Rescued From Mob by Akinh: 12:59pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
[quote author=angelEmade post=83623957]can you see that we are our own problems in this nation  [/quotehonestly how can a govt perform their duty when they discover that the people are big fools, the strength will channel toward unnecessary issue in this con3, if we channeled it towards govt and developing ourselves am sure Nigeria will great . |
Romance › Re: They Won't Know Your Value Until They Lose You by Akinh: 12:20am On Oct 31, 2019 |
binarymachine: In life, the availability and presence of something everywhere lowers its value and makes it cheap. This makes it easy for people to play with it, use it as careless as they please and even waste it. Lets take PMS( petrol) for example, people only realise how important it is when there is scarcity of it. They queue up, fight, curse at the government and beg to get it. When they eventually do, they use it wisely and judiciously. This is the same liquid they run their generating sets with till dawn when it was available.
In relationships however, you have no choice but to make yourself available, since you need to be physically present to show them you love and care for them. Besides, Love grows well with physical presence. As you play, laugh, cry, talk, build intimacy and spend quality time together, the bond gets stronger and the affection thicker.
The problem comes when one partner begins to underappreciate the presence of the other in their life. You have made yourself available, put in your whole heart to the growth of the relationship. You have loved, worked, sacrificed, provided, fended for, tended to, cooked, cleaned, washed, spent money, even quarrelled and waded off friends and family all because of them and still your good is not enough! They don’t seem to see what you are doing for them, infact any person could have easily done so. They rarely thank you for your sacrifices and instead deny or belittle the ones you have done in the past. Its time to make your self scarce like petrol in their life!
Put the whole relationship on suspension, separate yourself from them, let them miss and yearn for you for a while and even as long as possible. They are taking you for granted because they think you are too cheap and weak to walk away. Let them find another person to do all the things you do for them, tolerate their rubbish and still not be appreciated, that is when they will realise that they have made a big mistake, that they had gold in their hands and failed to recognise it.
People do not know the value of what they have until they loose it or it feels as if they have lost it. It will be hard for you, you love them so much but for your self worth and dignity, take that walk and give them time alone as long as possible. If possible give them a little of the treatment they gave you before walking.
If they realise their mistakes on time and come to ask for your forgiveness genuinely, accept and give your favourable terms before going back. If they are too blind to realise your worth in their life, you were probably worth nothing to them all these while, good you left. Start afresh and build your life again this time making sure you correct the mistakes you did in the previous one.
Source: https://flipmemes.com/2019/09/30/they-wont-know-your-value-untill-they-loose-you/ I can Sense It, Our Bro Is PassingbThrough Some Stuff That Make Him Pour Out His Heart In Writing |
Christianity Etc › Re: 'Come On! Let's Have A Little Sex' Church Themed Poster Sparks Reactions by Akinh: 2:37pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
na this bible some people to read go Hell, of you agree hit like |
Politics › Re: Atiku, PDP Loses Appeal At Supreme Court by Akinh: 2:27pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
thunder74: It is expected. The good news is that, we are all in it together. Yes bro...ur head they there and we never see anything...if those op above cry any fowl later ..na thunder go fire them...let keep enjoying the next level u all pray for |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Donald Trump: This Dog Chased Al-Baghdadi, ISIS Leader - US President Reveals by Akinh: 11:21am On Oct 29, 2019 |
How Many Of You Agree That This Dog Has Performed More Than Our Army Chief, { Borrowtai} Sorry Burutai |
Business › Re: N50 Stamp Duties POS Charge Begins by Akinh: 11:16am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Freemanbobble: Nigerians always complaining
All they wish for is a free ride
Nobody wants to pay anything but they wish Nigeria becomes Rome Pele Oga Rome,Nigerians Have Been Paying Tax Before They Born You And Me, And At The End ..What Do We See In Return..Your Road Have Been Fixed?, Schools Are Now In Better Shape?Good Security Right? Oh I Forgot You Enjoy Portable Drinking Water? Or Nice Electricity.. So Daddy G.O What Is The Excess Of The Taxation OO..Pls Stop Comparing Us With Well Educated Con3. |
Politics › Re: Opinion: Was Jonathan The Most Attacked Nigerian President When He Was In Power? by Akinh: 5:08pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
livebyday: Yes he was , in hindsight I can confidently say it was rather unjustly ..
But still he remains a dummy ... He allowed Nigerians to buy into the fraud that buhari sold hence the present dire economy.
If only.GEJ had shown some spunk and guts.. our standard for a leader would have been much higher than to allow the likes of buhari into aso rock God bless u Jo..not that that Daddy G.O above u |
Politics › Re: Opinion: Was Jonathan The Most Attacked Nigerian President When He Was In Power? by Akinh: 5:06pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
Jh0wsef: lol. The number of attack Buhari has already is two hundred times Jonathan's tenure.
We rarely blamed everything on Jonathan. But now, even if Tacha has body odor.
we will still blame Buhari   what is this one saying...kai ..some people will just jump yo discover without consulting their faculty of reason...Daddy G.O pls how many people did Jona send DSS or police to manhunt? |
Education › Re: EKSU Graduating Students Rock Naira Marley's Costumes (Photos) by Akinh: 1:17pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Walai As you see them so, you go think say na book full their heads but na lie, anybody wey graduate from Esku their brain na empty barrell Oo, even their English fit send u to ur early grave |
Celebrities › Re: Chioma Smiles In Baby Bump Maternity Photo by Akinh: 5:23pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
Tonyprisca: It's not easy dear I really thank God for you ooo Congrats abegi wetin no easy I remembered when me get my own belle..n my own na permanent o not all this cheap 9month o |
Romance › Re: What Is The Most Stupid Thing You've Ever Done Because Of Love? by Akinh: 6:17am On Oct 22, 2019 |
lilianofentse: I gave him my virginity but he wasn't good in bed, since then I've not been able to enjoy sex. message me for help, have you heard of pastor Wilson?, That man he one of my ex student |